I'm callin bs on this...for a fact lol
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You’re only settling if you subscribe to the dream...
Base happiness upon self and it will attract the right partner.
We often they hear this too late, wasting our lives looking for the one that will make us “happy” by completing the equation. Developing independent, personal happiness redefines what the perfect match is—after all, you can’t be certain a person isn’t the right match if you haven’t confirmed you’re in the right shape.
Oh boy where do I start...well, we just have to diagree on that part, b/c if you ever see any TS 'seriously' dating a white guy, it always seems to be an older, sugar daddie type. I've been in some TS populated cities (NYC, MIA, etc), and whenever I see TS out, those are the type they have by their side.
Damn, Remy are you even Black? Nice way to racially profile/stereotype all Black guys...again, this goes back to the disposable income arguement. Unfortunately, some Black guys may fear losing their jobs/livelyhood if they were to come out and say they date TS. But old White men usually own their own business or have trust funds to fall back on. That's why the only ones (Black) who can really provide or 'sponsor' a TS are the drug dealers who don't really have to worry about those things.
And there's nothing wrong with dat...lord knows I have mine. But I just don't want you (or any other TS, human being, etc) make broad generalizations about Black men when it co to TS. We all have our own experiences, but don't act like its the same all across the board.
And I don't like getting into race topic on da 'Net (usually leads to flame wars), so I gonna leave it at that. Came to look at hot TS chics, not to debate racial inequalities!;)
Sorry to hear that...depending on the city, I believe there are some 'brothas' who are willing to date you.
http://i.imgur.com/4tvK2wf.jpg
Nuff said...
I agree with you, I can always tell when happiness in self eludes a person. They spend their time looking to others to fulfill what they can't themselves. Then when things go sides ways cause that person isn't capable of sustaining your happiness (which no one would be) you are right back at square one again.
You don't lose your job for being in a relationship with someone, that's just rubbish, playing on false fears for an excuse to be downlow. None of you can name one person in media who has lost their job on account of simply dating a trans woman. By the way, you are racially profiling/stereotypical yourself in saying that 1. a trans woman even needs/wants a sponsor, we want a relationship and 2. that only drug dealers are capable of being the type of person to handle a ts. With this type of ideology, there really is no logic at play. Age could be a factor in that as people get older they tend to get wiser and realize (usually far to late) that they should be living their life for themselves not society. Job has no factor in it at all. At the end of the day I see more black people living outside their means, spending money of frivolous items like top of the line clothing labels, cars, etc that they can barely sustain comfortably and then can't afford to take a girl out on a simple date, or even themselves if the girl is willing to go dutch.
You don't need to come to the forum to look at "hot ts chics", the site is right there at the top for you to click on, the forum is for discussions. :cool:
That pic you posted was good for a laugh though...