Originally Posted by
vidman
J. Money, I'm still trying to figure out where the "chasing backpage ads" comes in at. I don't recall that being mentioned anywhere in the initial debate. I don't know, maybe people are throwing there own personal bad experiences into the discussion. Not saying that Unique was talking about me, but I don't chase backpage ads. All the girls I've ever met, I met them on websites like BGC. I normally find out that a girl is in the porn industry after I have either met them on BGC or when someone on this site divulges the info.
What I don't understand is why do the girls think that we maliciously intend to degrade or defile them? ME, personally, I love the girls. Why would I intentionally harm a group of people that I'm attracted to. Just like CosmicTraveler, I have fought and risked injury for the safety and dignity of a few transsexuals. If I had any ill will towards a transsexual, then I wouldn't attempt to befriend them on BGC and I wouldn't be trying to follow their careers and support them. It's kinda counter-intuitive, ya know? Hell, I might as well fuck her, then beat her ass AND THAT MAKES NOOOO SENSE!
I think that girls have been dealing with shady people all their lives and, for them, it's hard to trust people, including the people that admire them the most. I can absolutely understand that as well. True, some guys come in here with BS on their agenda, but we call those guys TROLLS and Remy and Seanchai do a pretty good job of getting them out of here PDQ (pretty damn quick). For the most part, the guys that have been on here for a considerable amount of time, truly admire the girls and have nothing but respect for them. Just because a guy has a strong opinon about certain aspects of the game doesn't mean he is a TROLL or trying to denengrade the girls. Indy is a perfect example of this. He has strong opinons of the game and how the game is played, but he adores and admires the participants i.e the girls.
I'm just sayin;)