you should REALLY WATCH WHAT YOU SAY!!!!

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06-29-2013, 05:11 AM
TslovelyLuxury

you should REALLY WATCH WHAT YOU SAY!!!!

i did a interview video on you tube and it got quite a few views. i only did it for promotion of course. most of the questions asked was about my adult films and a few about my music. one question i went over board with and i hurt a few feelings even myself in the process. i was asked what can i bring different to the porn industry... being on the spot thinking naively i answered something like" im a fresh face no silicone in my face no big fake booty im all natural im fun im beautiful..." this that this that. hyping myself up not thinking of the ones that are silicone victims and i call them that because they're overall goal was to become more womanly looking MAINLY to YOU/US as society to be accepted!!!!! they didn't want to go to the mirror and see the result of someone not knowing what the hell they was doing and fucking em up..... so as im bashing them to hype me its someone laying in the tub crying or contemplating suicide or simply trapped in four walls because they really dont want to be seen in public NOW!!! either way i truly apologize for that video because i offended some of my Ts Community and i feel terrible about it.. that wasn't my intentions at all but thats why u WATCH WAT YOU SAY!! and mainly because once its said you cant take it back apology or not once the pain is felt ITS FELT!! and will always be REMEMBERED!! so HOW DO U WANT TO BE REMEMBERED?? some of us need to do some self assessment look in the mirror and get that shit TOGETHER!! all that BS with SS i didn't want that!! im a good classy girl. but i felt threatened as if someone was attacking me and im a people pleaser so it made me very upset HONESTLY no we could never have a friendship now because she only did that to further herself to make a name for herself and try to replace me & be seen because she felt insecure because me and my porn she be none of her damn concern LIKE HERs IS MINE!!! ZZZZZZ but i forgive her and i now can spot a hater a mile away... this is not to start drama just a quick vent to my BTG family because im always MIA! so if any of you girls are reading this i apologize and the video is being taken down from youtube NOW because i RESPECT you and this porn is fun but LOVE is the missing piece! and yes ms thingy thingy had me shook up i ran from the net for awhile because i felt terrible she hurt my feelings honestly but im back online now and i have some great ideas as long as your along for the ride ill be doing this for you! not THEM<<<<< you!!!!!! lol kisses and licks HMU tomorrow im going to bed now
06-30-2013, 03:01 AM
Handandsom

A little lost on this! But one thing that I took from your light bulb moment was "how do I want to be remembered" I am often told I'm not considerate of other's feelings, or I shouldn't say anything if I don't have anything nice to say. And I say to those folks "get real". If no one's ever notice life is not easy, nor is it fair. I would like to be remembered as that guy "you had to respect". Because no matter what even in my criticisms, opinion or fact you always knew where I stood. You don't have to like it but I'm better than the guy that stands for nothing.

So Lux... If you we're being business friendly with what you wrote I feel you(get ya Paula deen on). But if you we're being sincere I'm lost.

Unless you sold silicone, sponsored some pumping parties, or got those things yourself; Then good for you! Nothing wrong with being mindful of your gifts and what you uniquely bring to the industry.
06-30-2013, 04:11 AM
Ms Remy M

When not actively filming porn, or here on the forum, I'm totally separate from the porn world, so I'm lost too.

However; I think sometimes people say things in the heat of the moment that they don't really mean. Just comes out, and given time to sit back and contemplate on the matter sometimes it's not what is really meant. When a person says the same hurtful thing over and over again, argument after argument that's how you know they really mean it, despite any apologies later down the line.

Despite how much guys love girls with phat asses and all that body, it's sometimes not til years later that the silicone can start to show negative effects. I always try and discourage girls from getting pumped and to try and stay as natural as possible. If they are dead set on getting pumped, to do some solid research on who you are going to, because it only takes one bad session to end your life.
07-02-2013, 03:08 AM
Handandsom

And If may add Remy it's not only your physical life but all thee other aspects of life as we know it, that the one bad session can end.
07-06-2013, 04:25 PM
TslovelyLuxury

lol at Paula Deen... a few girls explained to me i hurt theyre feelings and im sure they read this forum so i wanted to let them know i apologize it wasnt ment to hurt to anyone. no never sold sil its not my profession, but i have sold a nut or two! this thread wasnt ment for everyone a certain selected few but thanks for clicking and commenting

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Originally Posted by Handandsom

A little lost on this! But one thing that I took from your light bulb moment was "how do I want to be remembered" I am often told I'm not considerate of other's feelings, or I shouldn't say anything if I don't have anything nice to say. And I say to those folks "get real". If no one's ever notice life is not easy, nor is it fair. I would like to be remembered as that guy "you had to respect". Because no matter what even in my criticisms, opinion or fact you always knew where I stood. You don't have to like it but I'm better than the guy that stands for nothing.

So Lux... If you we're being business friendly with what you wrote I feel you(get ya Paula deen on). But if you we're being sincere I'm lost.

Unless you sold silicone, sponsored some pumping parties, or got those things yourself; Then good for you! Nothing wrong with being mindful of your gifts and what you uniquely bring to the industry.
07-06-2013, 06:34 PM
Indy24

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Originally Posted by TslovelyLuxury

i did a interview video on you tube and it got quite a few views. i only did it for promotion of course. most of the questions asked was about my adult films and a few about my music. one question i went over board with and i hurt a few feelings even myself in the process. i was asked what can i bring different to the porn industry... being on the spot thinking naively i answered something like" im a fresh face no silicone in my face no big fake booty im all natural im fun im beautiful..." this that this that. hyping myself up not thinking of the ones that are silicone victims and i call them that because they're overall goal was to become more womanly looking MAINLY to YOU/US as society to be accepted!!!!! they didn't want to go to the mirror and see the result of someone not knowing what the hell they was doing and fucking em up..... so as im bashing them to hype me its someone laying in the tub crying or contemplating suicide or simply trapped in four walls because they really dont want to be seen in public NOW!!! either way i truly apologize for that video because i offended some of my Ts Community and i feel terrible about it.. that wasn't my intentions at all but thats why u WATCH WAT YOU SAY!! and mainly because once its said you cant take it back apology or not once the pain is felt ITS FELT!! and will always be REMEMBERED!! so HOW DO U WANT TO BE REMEMBERED?? some of us need to do some self assessment look in the mirror and get that shit TOGETHER!! all that BS with SS i didn't want that!! im a good classy girl. but i felt threatened as if someone was attacking me and im a people pleaser so it made me very upset HONESTLY no we could never have a friendship now because she only did that to further herself to make a name for herself and try to replace me & be seen because she felt insecure because me and my porn she be none of her damn concern LIKE HERs IS MINE!!! ZZZZZZ but i forgive her and i now can spot a hater a mile away... this is not to start drama just a quick vent to my BTG family because im always MIA! so if any of you girls are reading this i apologize and the video is being taken down from youtube NOW because i RESPECT you and this porn is fun but LOVE is the missing piece! and yes ms thingy thingy had me shook up i ran from the net for awhile because i felt terrible she hurt my feelings honestly but im back online now and i have some great ideas as long as your along for the ride ill be doing this for you! not THEM<<<<< you!!!!!! lol kisses and licks HMU tomorrow im going to bed now

I don't think what you stated was all that offensive. Being naturally fem and womanly is a strong point in proving your true gender w/o trying.

Now it's one thing to come off like an ass, but if being a home grown woman is your twist then so be it.

The fact that you are actually mindful of what you say unlike a lot of uptight idiots who pass through this site does say a lot about your character IRL, which is a quality that most people can respect.

Just keep doing what you do and I wish you the best.