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I wish that was the case, but its not I can only go by experience and for the most part even being associated with a ts or a gay male for that matter will get alot of flack in "certain" communities.I myself have been in certain situations so I can understand why a cat would want to keep it a secret.Quote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
Well I'm going on experience too but than again i never lived in the hood and i don't mess with hood dudes so maybe my perceptions are skewed.
But yea, being on the low is a really messed up thing to do to the girls.wish y'all would consider how that makes the girls feel.
it is messed up being on the low i remember when i was but after opening up it feels greatQuote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
Its just too much shit tied into it. The problem is no one will let you be if you admit to it. Girls who were interested in you will no longer wanna talk to you, Dudes you used to know, dont wanna be seen with you because they feel you make them look gay, or they think you may have been looking at them the whole time. Im watching one of my boys go through this right now and he just got caught up a couple weeks ago, and I've seen it happen several times. Majority of the guys end up moving away. Its like everyone tries to go through your life wit a fine tooth comb and think of everything "gay" youve ever said or done, and in the end, it just seems so much easier to hide it. For me, its my personal life and no one need concern themselves with who I do or dont talk to. I dont mind being seen in public anywhere I go with a TS as long as its not my hometown. Just dont wanna deal with the name-calling, family trying to intervene, sexual advances from "gay gay" dudes, or anyone trying to look at or treat me differently.
LOL Its not too late yet. The main question is did he see a dick or just a tranny in the pic? If just a tranny you can say you didnt know. I got caught up a couple times too by my ex girl, and my boy. I told my girl I sell porn because I needed the money and took her to the hungangels Buy/Sell/Trade part of the forum LOL. I just told my boy she sounded like a girl on the phone and just pretended to not know. You could also play it off like those pics they have where a TS is fully clothed and she's played off as a GG and then the dick pic comes. Idk what to tell you other than whatever excuse you give, stick with it.Quote:
Originally Posted by tyrone70
So I'm guessing the popular opinion is that its okay and understandable to be on the low?
Well i don't want to hear no more bitching about how all ts woman are escorts because no woman should have to deal with dudes who are too ashamed and cowardly to be seen with them.
Honestly this shit makes me sick.its all about y'all and what you got to loose smh. How would you feel if someone only wanted to see you out of town because they didn't want people to know they fuck with black dudes.I'm betting it would leave a bad taste in your mouth.
Your missing my point. Would it make you feel any better if it was in my hometown and you were laughed at, ridiculed, and pointed at. Im not ashamed to be seen with a TS, my best friend even knows. But im not putting my private life on display for anyone just to be talked about negatively. That's what I'm trying to say.Quote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
A, that doesn't happen to me.i pass pretty decently.i do get allot of attention cause of my height but its all positiveQuote:
Originally Posted by werwt22
B, there's no nice way to try to explain to a girl why its okay to fuck her but your ashamed to be seen with her.pretty fucked any way you cut it.
I never said I was ashamed of it. I just dont like all the negative energy that comes with it. Its doesnt make you less of a person, and i dont intend to demean you in any way, but realistically a lotta guys feel that way. Im just trying to give you an honest answer. And I said hometown not where I currently live. The whole point of not doing the hometown thing is that nothing positive comes from it and I wouldnt wanna expose anyone else to the ignorance/inside-the-box mind set that people from this area have. I dont want my relationship on public display.Quote:
Originally Posted by tsamberskyi
Ahhhh so you only want a ts relationship a long as its easy and convenient for you.look you don't have to convince me of anything.
How would you feel if she was hurt by the fact that someone she loved was ashamed to take her home? Would you care? Its a very shittty feeling to be involved with someone who treats you differently or less than (cause I'm sure you'll take a gg home) because of your gender.food for thought homie