How to treat, and not to treat, TGirls

[jimwa]

I recently posted this on Tgirl Forums in Canada and would be interested to see the reaction on this forum as I appreciate all TGirls of all ethnic backgrounds.

I have had several conversations with TGirls and have followed several threads on this forum and as an older member of the forum with many years of TGirl contacts I thought some comments may be helpful to those who are new to these wonderful experiences. Many of my comments have been addressed before but it never hurts to post some reminders.

While there are a hard core (no pun) of guys here who are regular TGirl visitors and know what is required to make these encounters most enjoyable events there are many others who do not approach such visits with the attitude or demeanor to make it a success.
Some of examples are –
- turn up drunk
- have not addressed their personal hygiene
- treat the girl as a sex object
- are abusive and arrogant
- insist on extra activities that have already been defined
- try to renegotiate agreed contributions
- if you make an appointment, keep it, or have the courtesy to phone
and cancel
There are also those who get a thrill out of sending abusive emails and making obscene phone calls. It was recently posted that there were over 30,000 members of this forum yet less than 1000 are usually active. I would suggest that a large percentage have never made personal contact with a TGirl and are here for the thrill and several participate in the emails and phone calls.

Many men do not consider what a TGirl goes through to achieve their level of beauty, the abuse they have taken, and take, on a daily basis, and the danger that lurks everytime they open a door to a stranger. Most girls are very particular about their health, and yours, and many have activity rules that should be respected.

While we must be realistic and understand that this is a business and if you have a successful encounter then the girl wants you to return. If the connection is successful many girls will make you feel as if you are making love and not just having sex – a great psychological difference – and you will return. Most girls only want to meet a decent guy who shows them the respect they deserve and with whom they can relax and enjoy some quality time.

TGirls are TGirls, beautiful women, with a little extra to offer, not TV’s, Drag Queens, or Crossdressers that even in today’s society this distinction is not widely known or recognized.

While there are exceptions to everything, and you will have bad encounters, if you do your research, check reviews, and be a decent guy then there is no reason why your love of TGirls will not be rewarded with great times.

[luvblack77]

I am also one of the older members of this community and I have strong feelings about this subject.

1) Tgirls are not freaks. They are human beings and should be treated with respect.

2) Tgirls are femenine, intelligent and strong. They are worthy of real friendship and love. Forget all the prejudice, and keep in mind when you meet a girl that friendship and love are real possibilities.

3) It takes a mature person and a lot of work to deal with all the issues that a relationship with a tgirl opens right on your face. If you are not ready for it, do not mislead the lady, she has feelings and can get hurt.

4) The images we see on sites like this one are exactly that: images. There are real people behind the images. I see these sites as ways to make people aware of the beauty of these ladies, just like painters and artists of the past showed the beauty of the human body.

[peggygee]

Great thread, and kudos to the OP for starrting it, and to those
that responded.

I'd also like to hear the perspectives of men that have been in
relationships with transwomen.

[roninva]

I recently posted this on Tgirl Forums in Canada and would be interested to see the reaction on this forum as I appreciate all TGirls of all ethnic backgrounds.

I have had several conversations with TGirls and have followed several threads on this forum and as an older member of the forum with many years of TGirl contacts I thought some comments may be helpful to those who are new to these wonderful experiences. Many of my comments have been addressed before but it never hurts to post some reminders.

While there are a hard core (no pun) of guys here who are regular TGirl visitors and know what is required to make these encounters most enjoyable events there are many others who do not approach such visits with the attitude or demeanor to make it a success.
Some of examples are –
- turn up drunk
- have not addressed their personal hygiene
- treat the girl as a sex object
- are abusive and arrogant
- insist on extra activities that have already been defined
- try to renegotiate agreed contributions
- if you make an appointment, keep it, or have the courtesy to phone
and cancel
There are also those who get a thrill out of sending abusive emails and making obscene phone calls. It was recently posted that there were over 30,000 members of this forum yet less than 1000 are usually active. I would suggest that a large percentage have never made personal contact with a TGirl and are here for the thrill and several participate in the emails and phone calls.

Many men do not consider what a TGirl goes through to achieve their level of beauty, the abuse they have taken, and take, on a daily basis, and the danger that lurks everytime they open a door to a stranger. Most girls are very particular about their health, and yours, and many have activity rules that should be respected.

While we must be realistic and understand that this is a business and if you have a successful encounter then the girl wants you to return. If the connection is successful many girls will make you feel as if you are making love and not just having sex – a great psychological difference – and you will return. Most girls only want to meet a decent guy who shows them the respect they deserve and with whom they can relax and enjoy some quality time.

TGirls are TGirls, beautiful women, with a little extra to offer, not TV’s, Drag Queens, or Crossdressers that even in today’s society this distinction is not widely known or recognized.

While there are exceptions to everything, and you will have bad encounters, if you do your research, check reviews, and be a decent guy then there is no reason why your love of TGirls will not be rewarded with great times.

What you have here is universal with any woman TS or GG it's proper all the time. same thing that GG escorts say about how to be when you meet them also

[DirtySouth]

I recently posted this on Tgirl Forums in Canada and would be interested to see the reaction on this forum as I appreciate all TGirls of all ethnic backgrounds.

I have had several conversations with TGirls and have followed several threads on this forum and as an older member of the forum with many years of TGirl contacts I thought some comments may be helpful to those who are new to these wonderful experiences. Many of my comments have been addressed before but it never hurts to post some reminders.

While there are a hard core (no pun) of guys here who are regular TGirl visitors and know what is required to make these encounters most enjoyable events there are many others who do not approach such visits with the attitude or demeanor to make it a success.
Some of examples are –
- turn up drunk
- have not addressed their personal hygiene
- treat the girl as a sex object
- are abusive and arrogant
- insist on extra activities that have already been defined
- try to renegotiate agreed contributions
- if you make an appointment, keep it, or have the courtesy to phone
and cancel
There are also those who get a thrill out of sending abusive emails and making obscene phone calls. It was recently posted that there were over 30,000 members of this forum yet less than 1000 are usually active. I would suggest that a large percentage have never made personal contact with a TGirl and are here for the thrill and several participate in the emails and phone calls.

Many men do not consider what a TGirl goes through to achieve their level of beauty, the abuse they have taken, and take, on a daily basis, and the danger that lurks everytime they open a door to a stranger. Most girls are very particular about their health, and yours, and many have activity rules that should be respected.

While we must be realistic and understand that this is a business and if you have a successful encounter then the girl wants you to return. If the connection is successful many girls will make you feel as if you are making love and not just having sex – a great psychological difference – and you will return. Most girls only want to meet a decent guy who shows them the respect they deserve and with whom they can relax and enjoy some quality time.

TGirls are TGirls, beautiful women, with a little extra to offer, not TV’s, Drag Queens, or Crossdressers that even in today’s society this distinction is not widely known or recognized.

While there are exceptions to everything, and you will have bad encounters, if you do your research, check reviews, and be a decent guy then there is no reason why your love of TGirls will not be rewarded with great times.

Treat 'em rough, make 'em love ya lol

You can do all that and still get screwed over by some of these girls. So whats your point? This isnt an end-all-solve-all guide to dealing with TS. It's more like a guide on how to set yourself up for failure. Some girls are really good, treat them good once they show that they can appreciate it. Everyone else - survival of the fittest.

[MrKnockOut]

you guys fucking kill me with this shit

"they're not sex objects, there human"

Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Cry me a fucking river

If she's a hoe, she's a hoe...if a hoe sells ass, dick and blowjobs by the hour, what the fuck is that...?

I try to be nice but some of you dudes are what I call "socially challenged", dumb smart types...probably the valedictorian of your really exclusive colleges but are as socially inept in the ways of the world as one can possibly be.

[DirtySouth]

you guys fucking kill me with this shit

"they're not sex objects, there human"

Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

Cry me a fucking river

If she's a hoe, she's a hoe...if a hoe sells ass, dick and blowjobs by the hour, what the fuck is that...?

I try to be nice but some of you dudes are what I call "socially challenged", dumb smart types...probably the valedictorian of your really exclusive colleges but are as socially inept in the ways of the world as one can possibly be.

Well, if they weren't hoes, none of us would be here on this lovely forum now would we! lol.... I don't think Mr.KO is saying that they shouldn't be hoes, he's just saying not to glorify them. I do agree. If a girl is a prostitute, it doesn't make any sense to try and apply all of these relationship theories to trying to date someone from that track of life. It's just stupid. Let her quit on her own accord then date her. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. You are setting yourself up for failure.

However, there are t-girls out there who work 9 to 5s, who don't sell their bodies or who work in the TS/Gay/Lesbian entertainment industry (i.e. Showgirls) I see no reason not to apply that relationship thinking to those if that's your thing. A girl who sells her body sexually to the highest bidder though? I mean come on.....pay her and keep it moving. Don't try to make her something she's not.

Just my two cents.

[iketurner]

"I Know, that If I stay Stunting;
All these girls only gonna want one thing;
I spend my whole life Good Will Hunting
Only good gonna come, is when I'm Cumming"

[MrKnockOut]

Well, if they weren't hoes, none of us would be here on this lovely forum now would we! lol.... I don't think Mr.KO is saying that they shouldn't be hoes, he's just saying not to glorify them. I do agree. If a girl is a prostitute, it doesn't make any sense to try and apply all of these relationship theories to trying to date someone from that track of life. It's just stupid. Let her quit on her own accord then date her. You can't turn a hoe into a housewife. You are setting yourself up for failure.

However, there are t-girls out there who work 9 to 5s, who don't sell their bodies or who work in the TS/Gay/Lesbian entertainment industry (i.e. Showgirls) I see no reason not to apply that relationship thinking to those if that's your thing. A girl who sells her body sexually to the highest bidder though? I mean come on.....pay her and keep it moving. Don't try to make her something she's not.

Just my two cents.

You hit the nail on the head...I treat a lady like a lady and a hoe like a hoe...it is what it is

[TsVanessa69]

Can I ask you guys a question?
Why do you think its ok to call an escrt and think that because you think your dick is big that we will give you a freebie?
Do I get free rent becaues I look better than my landlords wife?
And why do you guys ASSume that because you have a dick thats all we want or need?