How do u like ur ladys fellas?

[peggygee]

I saw the topic you posted on the other forum you only had 5 replies..lol that means nada.

I also saw the topic that was posted on the other site, was tempted to
respond, but there has been way too much drama and flaming going on
at the site, so I chose other-wise.

That and and the jury seemed biased and "hung".

And though I am not hung, I will admit I too am somewhat biased, in that in
my almost 40 years full-time, and roughly 12 years post op, I have never
inserted a penis or a strap-on into a man. I also had never had a man
perform oral sex on me when I had a penis.

As you may imagine in my many decades in "this thing of our's" I have known
many transwomen, and of course have known many men, both intimately and
platonically.

Putting my afore-mentioned bias aside for a moment, I feel that it is fair to
say that chasers are not particularly respected or desired members of the
trans-community.

I also feel that in non pay for play situations, ie. relationships that the
majority of transwomen would prefer to be the non penetrative partner.

As to the further question of whether or not the majority or transwomen are
desirous of gender reassignment surgery, I feel that is dependent upon the
sampling that you ask.

Though I will say that empirical studies published in journals that can be
perused on Pubmed, responses from women on non porn site, such as
support and advocacy sites, those run by women for women, and responses
from the survey at The International Post Operative Woman's Association
website indicate they they are.

[Ms Remy M]

Pump your brakes Remy. I read through this thread and I don't think you imagining "how many of you probably openly bash gay people and/or TS in public and around 'friends' and then secretly come on here" is warranted. The fact of the matter is one person said, and I am extremely paraphrasing/simplifying here, that bottoming is ok and tgirls respect it and will top guys for free. Then several others said tgirls in fact do not respect trade they top and laugh behind their backs. Now at times the arguments got a little nasty and sometimes illogical, but no one seemed to bash the gay community or bottoms.

Just adding my two cents, and this is just what girls have told me in both P4P and non P4P situations, they usually don't like to top and don't really respect bottoms. That being said, and I have said this before, a lot of tgirls don't respect ANY dudes top or bottom, that are clients. I'm sure some have yapped about me with their friends. The thing is... I just don't give a shit as long as get my nut.

Sorry, I didn't mean to insinuate that in this thread or forum people are gay bashing while in the forum. Moodswing rash generalization of guys in Real Life not online. Most probably not even really meaning it, just being a "good 'ole boy".

[kilakali]

That is a better way to say it...

I also saw the topic that was posted on the other site, was tempted to
respond, but there has been way too much drama and flaming going on
at the site, so I chose other-wise.

That and and the jury seemed biased and "hung".

And though I am not hung, I will admit I too am somewhat biased, in that in
my almost 40 years full-time, and roughly 12 years post op, I have never
inserted a penis or a strap-on into a man. I also had never had a man
perform oral sex on me when I had a penis.

As you may imagine in my many decades in "this thing of our's" I have known
many transwomen, and of course have known many men, both intimately and
platonically.

Putting my afore-mentioned bias aside for a moment, I feel that it is fair to
say that chasers are not particularly respected or desired members of the
trans-community.

I also feel that in non pay for play situations, ie. relationships that the
majority of transwomen would prefer to be the non penetrative partner.

As to the further question of whether or not the majority or transwomen are
desirous of gender reassignment surgery, I feel that is dependent upon the
sampling that you ask.

Though I will say that empirical studies published in journals that can be
perused on Pubmed, responses from women on non porn site, such as
support and advocacy sites, those run by women for women, and responses
from the survey at The International Post Operative Woman's Association
website indicate they they are.

[babyjesus]

I hope this comes out right...I haven't been a member of this site for long but since I've been chiming in the question that always crosses my mind is this obsession with tops and bottoms.. look I'm into t girls for "exploratory" reasons. A Tgirl allows me to explore my sexuality...In my personal life I'm with a GG and we have a kid together... so what do you think the reason is why I'm into t girls? That's right it's something different..You guys flexin about I'm a top my question to you is why do you want to be with a tgirl so bad?? If you just want to bang her why not just be with a GG? When reading posts I'm thinking to myself does this negro have problems meeting gg's or is it he can't get anal from GG's.. Now for all you guys who are only into Tg's this doesn't' apply to you... now I know what's up. but for those like me who like both but prefer GG's every day of the week I'm confused why do you want to bottom a TG when you can do the same thing with a GG? I not afraid to say that third option is why I'm into t girls. Because I'm in a situation and don't get out alot I don't really care if a Tg laughs at me after I leave.. and I haven't been with alot of Tgirls(you can check the ones I've been with by checking my photo album) to worry about prolapse LOL! Out...

[thegreat1]

I hope this comes out right...I haven't been a member of this site for long but since I've been chiming in the question that always crosses my mind is this obsession with tops and bottoms.. look I'm into t girls for "exploratory" reasons. A Tgirl allows me to explore my sexuality...In my personal life I'm with a GG and we have a kid together... so what do you think the reason is why I'm into t girls? That's right it's something different..You guys flexin about I'm a top my question to you is why do you want to be with a tgirl so bad?? If you just want to bang her why not just be with a GG? When reading posts I'm thinking to myself does this negro have problems meeting gg's or is it he can't get anal from GG's.. Now for all you guys who are only into Tg's this doesn't' apply to you... now I know what's up. but for those like me who like both but prefer GG's every day of the week I'm confused why do you want to bottom a TG when you can do the same thing with a GG? I not afraid to say that third option is why I'm into t girls. Because I'm in a situation and don't get out alot I don't really care if a Tg laughs at me after I leave.. and I haven't been with alot of Tgirls(you can check the ones I've been with by checking my photo album) to worry about prolapse LOL! Out...

in response to your question, i work in a sexually driven environment and have no problem getting GG...and 90% of them do anal...im attracted to TG's for the same reason as i am GG's, their femininity and attractiveness...and if i came off as if i were trying to clown dudes that bottom, that was not my intention...like i said before, DO YOU...i simply made a statement based on MY interaction and communication with TG...for all of those that felt i was trying to be 'high and mighty', i wasn't...any posts after my initial one was directed at ONE person, that's it...

[babyjesus]

Negro?????

sorry.. that's the Fort Greene Brooklyn coming out of me LOL! no disrespect..

[TVSURFER]

I hope this comes out right...I haven't been a member of this site for long but since I've been chiming in the question that always crosses my mind is this obsession with tops and bottoms.. look I'm into t girls for "exploratory" reasons. A Tgirl allows me to explore my sexuality...In my personal life I'm with a GG and we have a kid together... so what do you think the reason is why I'm into t girls? That's right it's something different..You guys flexin about I'm a top my question to you is why do you want to be with a tgirl so bad?? If you just want to bang her why not just be with a GG? When reading posts I'm thinking to myself does this negro have problems meeting gg's or is it he can't get anal from GG's.. Now for all you guys who are only into Tg's this doesn't' apply to you... now I know what's up. but for those like me who like both but prefer GG's every day of the week I'm confused why do you want to bottom a TG when you can do the same thing with a GG? I not afraid to say that third option is why I'm into t girls. Because I'm in a situation and don't get out alot I don't really care if a Tg laughs at me after I leave.. and I haven't been with alot of Tgirls(you can check the ones I've been with by checking my photo album) to worry about prolapse LOL! Out...

Negro????

[ty-clone]

I hope this comes out right...I haven't been a member of this site for long but since I've been chiming in the question that always crosses my mind is this obsession with tops and bottoms.. look I'm into t girls for "exploratory" reasons. A Tgirl allows me to explore my sexuality...In my personal life I'm with a GG and we have a kid together... so what do you think the reason is why I'm into t girls? That's right it's something different..You guys flexin about I'm a top my question to you is why do you want to be with a tgirl so bad?? If you just want to bang her why not just be with a GG? When reading posts I'm thinking to myself does this negro have problems meeting gg's or is it he can't get anal from GG's.. Now for all you guys who are only into Tg's this doesn't' apply to you... now I know what's up. but for those like me who like both but prefer GG's every day of the week I'm confused why do you want to bottom a TG when you can do the same thing with a GG? I not afraid to say that third option is why I'm into t girls. Because I'm in a situation and don't get out alot I don't really care if a Tg laughs at me after I leave.. and I haven't been with alot of Tgirls(you can check the ones I've been with by checking my photo album) to worry about prolapse LOL! Out...

co sign, said the same shit

[kilakali]

Im pretty much on par with this statement.

in response to your question, i work in a sexually driven environment and have no problem getting GG...and 90% of them do anal...im attracted to TG's for the same reason as i am GG's, their femininity and attractiveness...and if i came off as if i were trying to clown dudes that bottom, that was not my intention...like i said before, DO YOU...i simply made a statement based on MY interaction and communication with TG...for all of those that felt i was trying to be 'high and mighty', i wasn't...any posts after my initial one was directed at ONE person, that's it...

I hope this comes out right...I haven't been a member of this site for long but since I've been chiming in the question that always crosses my mind is this obsession with tops and bottoms.. look I'm into t girls for "exploratory" reasons. A Tgirl allows me to explore my sexuality...In my personal life I'm with a GG and we have a kid together... so what do you think the reason is why I'm into t girls? That's right it's something different..You guys flexin about I'm a top my question to you is why do you want to be with a tgirl so bad?? If you just want to bang her why not just be with a GG? When reading posts I'm thinking to myself does this negro have problems meeting gg's or is it he can't get anal from GG's.. Now for all you guys who are only into Tg's this doesn't' apply to you... now I know what's up. but for those like me who like both but prefer GG's every day of the week I'm confused why do you want to bottom a TG when you can do the same thing with a GG? I not afraid to say that third option is why I'm into t girls. Because I'm in a situation and don't get out alot I don't really care if a Tg laughs at me after I leave.. and I haven't been with alot of Tgirls(you can check the ones I've been with by checking my photo album) to worry about prolapse LOL! Out...

Samething could be said if a guy likes to be topped by a tgirl why doesnt he be with a gg that uses a strap on. The commonality is we both like the feminity of a tgirl but with different sexual and mental reasons.

[babyjesus]

The commonality is we both like the feminity of a tgirl but with different sexual and mental reasons.

I would have to agree on that, in terms of the strap on, Out of all the girls that I have been with probably about 2 of them would be down to try something like that. all the others that I've been with would look at me with a puzzled face..

Something also that I wanted to add I think it was last year on America's next Top Model (yeah I'm forced to watch that ) had a transsexual on the show..my girl asked me if I thought she was attractive... I said yes I didn't know she was a transsexual and my girl started to giggle.. I think that is a normal response from most gg's about transsexuals...I didn't want to get into it with her but I was thinking to myself what's the big deal she's cute is it wrong to be attractive to a transsexual? I've given you this story to say most gg's don't understand how a man could be attractive to a tgirl or transsexual...