What constitutes a tranny chaser?

[Indy24]

Yeah, there is a certain type of girl who claims only to be interested in dating guys who aren't "tranny chasers" ie; the guy doesn't normally date transsexuals and usually gender girls or "isn't really into tgirls". Frankly, they're kidding themselves - I think those guys just don't tell them that - they tell them what they want to hear.
I don't understand why a tgirl wouldn't want to date a guy who was looking to date a tgirl ... seems like the right match?

It's just a matter of perception. I've personally taken the "Chaser" role and made my own and it has yet to slow down my social life. So take the word how you wish.

F.Y.I. Some of the baddest escorts who currently post ads in Philly's Back Pages tend to make fun of all my "chaser" profiles....

But that never stops them from calling me up on those lonely snow filled nights!

[ATLMAN28]

"You can only be called a hypocrite if you judge others first." Proverb

My point exactly.

[KitWilkins]

I think the problem is this:
A lot of girls do sell or profit off of their transgendered status. So men do tend to not take us seriously. I think men are shocked to meet a girl that isn't selling it. Men are always shocked ot hear that I"m not a hooker, escort or porn star. And generally since a lot of men are used to dealing with women like that who see men as dollar signs rather than humans, lot of trans attracted men treat women like chicks with dicks rather than chicks, if you get my drift.

my advice is this, no matter how much a girl might turn you on, be a gentleman. If you want to date a girl, then be treat her like any other girl you'd be interested in seeing. As a trans girl, we're used to dogs and men who disrespect us. So the best way to get us is to surpass our expectations.


Why a guy would want to date a hooker or any woman that sells sex is beyond me.

[TVSURFER]

Why a guy would want to date a hooker or any woman that sells sex is beyond me.

Why? For the sex,that's why! Look honey, there's a world outside of your front door, try stepping off into it, you might learn something!

[KitWilkins]

Why? For the sex,that's why! Look honey, there's a world outside of your front door, try stepping off into it, you might learn something!

Oh boy, here you go assuming that i'm some dumb bitch who's just sat up in suburbia all her life.


If you want to date a prostitute, that's on you. But I personally feel like that's asking for trouble. Perhaps I'm wrong and I do know of some women who are sex workers or sell their transgendered status who do have relationships. However, I think that a man who is expecting to find a quality connection with a woman who profits off of her own exploitation, should perhaps look elsewhere. I know there are good girls in the business, but I've often found that all men are to some extent jealous. I haven't heard of many successful relationships where one of the parties is doing something that is generally considered something intimate between lovers.

If you're a comfortable man who is ok with seeing your girl with multipul partners, then go you! It's great to find that sense of security in a man. Most men, however just aren't that secure. And honestly you really have to consider that for a lot of transsexuals, their body and their beauty is their commodity. It's what helps the sustain their transition and it's what helps them survive.I've met plenty of tgirls who do not have an education or any way to support themselves aside from the life of sex work. And when that's your life and your world, it's hard to build those strong connections. And generally the things that most sex workers do, would cause a rift in a relationship.

Please feel free to correct me if I'm incorrect in any way shape or form. But i'd say MOST men wouldn't feel comfortable -dating- a prostitute. Like i said, correct me if I'm wrong.

And as someone who has been previously exploited sexually, I can tell you that while sex may be great, when it's what you have to do and it's your duty, it takes on a different context. And maybe I'm the only tgirl that feels like this since my opinions are obviously so closedminded and inexperienced, but I would MUCH rather have a man respect me for the thousands of other things i can do for him aside from sex. I find relationships are better when you can tolerate eachother even when you aren't having sex. Like I said, again correct me if I'm wrong.

Maybe I"m the only one that feels like this, but I want an actual connection. A romantic and emotional connection. Sex is a given. And often times when i've tried to date a guy because he's hot or he has a big dick, that's the only good thing about him. I'd rather settle for a 7 with a personality and a great brain than a 10 with absolutely nothing going for him.

[TVSURFER]

Oh boy, here you go assuming that i'm some dumb bitch who's just sat up in suburbia all her life.


If you want to date a prostitute, that's on you. But I personally feel like that's asking for trouble. Perhaps I'm wrong and I do know of some women who are sex workers or sell their transgendered status who do have relationships. However, I think that a man who is expecting to find a quality connection with a woman who profits off of her own exploitation, should perhaps look elsewhere. I know there are good girls in the business, but I've often found that all men are to some extent jealous. I haven't heard of many successful relationships where one of the parties is doing something that is generally considered something intimate between lovers.

If you're a comfortable man who is ok with seeing your girl with multipul partners, then go you! It's great to find that sense of security in a man. Most men, however just aren't that secure. And honestly you really have to consider that for a lot of transsexuals, their body and their beauty is their commodity. It's what helps the sustain their transition and it's what helps them survive.I've met plenty of tgirls who do not have an education or any way to support themselves aside from the life of sex work. And when that's your life and your world, it's hard to build those strong connections. And generally the things that most sex workers do, would cause a rift in a relationship.

Please feel free to correct me if I'm incorrect in any way shape or form. But i'd say MOST men wouldn't feel comfortable -dating- a prostitute. Like i said, correct me if I'm wrong.

And as someone who has been previously exploited sexually, I can tell you that while sex may be great, when it's what you have to do and it's your duty, it takes on a different context. And maybe I'm the only tgirl that feels like this since my opinions are obviously so closedminded and inexperienced, but I would MUCH rather have a man respect me for the thousands of other things i can do for him aside from sex. I find relationships are better when you can tolerate eachother even when you aren't having sex. Like I said, again correct me if I'm wrong.

Maybe I"m the only one that feels like this, but I want an actual connection. A romantic and emotional connection. Sex is a given. And often times when i've tried to date a guy because he's hot or he has a big dick, that's the only good thing about him. I'd rather settle for a 7 with a personality and a great brain than a 10 with absolutely nothing going for him.

Baby, you aren't a dumb suburban bitch, nooo, you're just a Loon without feathers! Seriously, you're entitled to your opinion. However, if you click your heels together, three times, you might make it back to reality!

[KitWilkins]

lol. Well TVSurfer, you've decided to dislike for...well no reason. So good luck with that!!! seriously. I have a great sense of self and a great peace in who I am and how I feel. So if that makes me a loon, well I'm glad i'm looney.

[TVSURFER]

lol. Well TVSurfer, you've decided to dislike for...well no reason. So good luck with that!!! seriously. I have a great sense of self and a great peace in who I am and how I feel. So if that makes me a loon, well I'm glad i'm looney.

Welcome to the forum! As long as you keep going, I've got a million of them! Plus, its not that I don't like you, so don't get sensitive! I just call it like I see it! If you can't go beyond the front gate, keep your butt on the porch! That's another anecdote from the real world!

[KitWilkins]

Welcome to the forum! As long as you keep going, I've got a million of them! Plus, its not that I don't like you, so don't get sensitive! I just call it like I see it! If you can't go beyond the front gate, keep your butt on the porch! That's another anecdote from the real world!

Um, no, that's an anecdote for the internet. In the real world, you can't quite get away with calling someone a loon and still remaining faceless. lol.

I'm not sensitive, I just sorta find it hilarious so i'm fascinated.

[CosmicTraveler]

Yeesh... You two bicker like exes.