ESCORTS::i knowu guys probably talked about it but whats the deal

[TsBrooklynMattel]

thank u all for ur insight. I myself am not an escort, but the thought has crossed my mind because of the way that ALL men are towards me. I dont knock escorts, strippers, etc bc they have their reasons for it.

I have realized something tho. alot of MEN are insensitive to anything other then their dick head & will do anything to sleep with u once they've made up their minds. Im not with that. ( thats why i thought about excorting, i guess to say IF u can afford me/ but thats a vindictive way of thinking.) Idk i guess my character wants to fight fire with LAVA. i do talk to quite a few girls who escort both genetic & trans. They have their own reasons for doing what they do. But i would never view them as whores bc they dont have sex just to be fucking for money. They have families to provide for with jobs.

My grandmother is from France & thats how alot of women made a living. She did it in her younger days to pay for college & her 6 kids. I would never view what my grandmother did to provide for herself or family to better them all as hoe-ish.

But in another sense, Here in Houston, there is a TRANNY BAR 21 & up so im not allowed in. but i pass by it to get to my friend's job. And everytime i pass by i see ALL sorts of men, egging the escorting on. These seem to be guys used to getting what they want. ( not many men dont. I think a lot of guys are bullies unless u were either a) raised with integrity & respect for EVERYONE b) Meet a girl who will follow thru with a threat[Promise] Ive had men walk up to me & tell me im their new hoe. Like in my face and just Ur my new bottom bitch. && im like EEEEEEERRRRRRR? NO.


I see alot of black men encouraging the lifestyle. & alot of white & latin men Supportive of the craft & helpful to the girls' causes. IDK. where im going with this now there is soooooo much to what i see in the world of TRANNY ESCORTS. But i do believe it is quite difficult for all ts women to blend into society bc sometimes society has snipers waiting for u to attempt to come into their world. I have worked plenty of jobs & they end up the same way. Prejudice but since Employers can fire u for any reason or no reason at all. u cant really do much about it unless its made into a public scene.

[raheme]

sorry but imma get a little raw in this one. fuck escorting. you wanna sell yourselves to men and then get mad when they look at you as a piece of meat. Accept it for what it is. I dont like it, but I understand escorting to get where you need to be "physically", but when youve reached the goal your chasing, why still do it? Dont get me wrong, I love porn...but when im looking for wifey material, escorting doesnt exactly fall @ the top of my list.

If your trying to transition then you could always work a 9-5 and pay for what you want like everyone else. Instead of dubs on the whip, you could buy ..., instead of partying in miami this month and LA the next you could buy ... I always had to save my hard earned money to buy the things i wanted and to me escorting is just taking "the easy route", but it destroys you emotionally and makes it hard to have a meaningful relationship (IMO). Using escorting as an excuse because we wont pay for it is a terrible reason. Its one thing if you meet someone that truly loves you and wants to help with the process, but im not buying you an ass that some random mans dick gone fall up in soon as it heals up LOL.

Thats just me. Hope not to offend anyone but I cannot tell a lie just to get in good with the girls.

The one excuse I hate is the whole I can't get a real job because I'm a ts excuse. This is not 1990. If a black man can find a job @ the white has your ass can find a job somewhere.

[TsBrooklynMattel]

its not the same. There really are strikes in society.
easier for someone with a felony to get a job somewhere then a transsexual bc of the prejudice.

Ive seen this. i worked for a law firm & noone knew i was a ts. But i seen a ts who wasnt as passable & qualified for this job. Law degree, & she was coming in for an assistant job. They hired a latin guy who turned out to be a masc gay guy who had pending charges for domestic violence. I over heard my boss call the TS a man and a mockery to his firm. He continued by calling his colleagues in & talked about her for a few days after that saying that he would look stupid showing up with "that thing".


rather pick a qualified person or a duchebag with anger issues?

[werwt22]

The one excuse I hate is the whole I can't get a real job because I'm a ts excuse. This is not 1990. If a black man can find a job @ the white has your ass can find a job somewhere.

Like button pressed. Im not mad @ the girls that do it. They just need to accept what comes with it. I want a girl that exclusive to me and me to her. I can accept the past as the past, but she's gotta be willing to move forward. Dont wanna get too deep on here LOL

[werwt22]

its not the same. There really are strikes in society.
easier for someone with a felony to get a job somewhere then a transsexual bc of the prejudice.

Ive seen this. i worked for a law firm & noone knew i was a ts. But i seen a ts who wasnt as passable & qualified for this job. Law degree, & she was coming in for an assistant job. They hired a latin guy who turned out to be a masc gay guy who had pending charges for domestic violence. I over heard my boss call the TS a man and a mockery to his firm. He continued by calling his colleagues in & talked about her for a few days after that saying that he would look stupid showing up with "that thing".


rather pick a qualified person or a duchebag with anger issues?

Hate is everywhere, but its dying off to be honest. Its nowhere near as bad as it used to be. Almost all of these high school kids i see now are chilling with all races, listen to "most" music, and they all like each other the same. Theres opportunity everywhere, and you cant let one bad seed, poison the whole apple.

[TsBrooklynMattel]

Making a point.


How many str8 men would hire a flamboyant gay guy to do anything?

Reason why its a lesser chance for this qualified gay man to get hired

A) worried about what close friends or collegues would think of himself
B) thinks that the gay guy will "sissy-fy" the workplace
C) Bias opinions on homosexuality( even tho there are Discrimination laws, alot of employers dont give to rat fucks about that)

as far as a transsexual being equal in the eyes of a gay man. not likely
the only thing equal is the fact that people who dont understand what being transgendered is will write off every transsexual as a MAN playing Dressup. Proven fact.


When str8 men approach beautiful transsexuals its usually like this

"i know u are a man but there is just something about you that makes me wanna get to know u more." (actually code for "Damn i know u a dude & all but u got titis & ass u pretty as hell, aint nobody going know im fucking with a man, & i just want some head anyway."


Tell me im wrong? ANYBODY?

[TsBrooklynMattel]

Hate is everywhere, but its dying off to be honest. Its nowhere near as bad as it used to be. Almost all of these high school kids i see now are chilling with all races, listen to "most" music, and they all like each other the same. Theres opportunity everywhere, and you cant let one bad seed, poison the whole apple.

ur so right about the younger generation but the younger generation is not hiring people as of now/ Im a very tolerable person and i have friends from all walks of life. Just because i do doesnt mean everyone else does. I dont agree with acting like everyone is accepting of more things. PPL are known as backstabbers. Its not hard to smile in your face & secretly hate something or someone. I chose my friends out of tests. yes test.

A STR8 man who wouldnt be seen in public with a QUEEN or Trans cant be a friend of mine. I need people who are secure with themselves. Guys who egg on brutality to someone else cant be my friend. ETC. see where im going.

I see that alot of people try to hide what is really going on or play Helen Keller at a moments notice of something unethical happening.

[TsBrooklynMattel]

But what i wanna know is "Why are Escort such a trending topic in the world of Transsexuals?"

DONT knock the craft. Just please explain to me why men become so fascinated into something they "dont agree" with? Irregardless to not agreeing with it alot of men reap the benefits of what these girls do, where they like it or not. AND ALOT OF MEN ARE BIGGER WHORE THEN THE TS are viewed to be. So the pass is the pass is the past when ur in a relationship. Because both have done their share or promiscuity. But since she got smart and charged & guys are very seldom looked as at a HOE. Unless u catch him on CHEATERS.

[thegirlnextdoor]

i stopped trying to explain and justify my choices in life and what i do to people.everyone is entitled to their opinion and the way they feel about things.i could rant and rave but at the end of the day it comes down to this..either your for me or not.if you cant see beyond what i do to provide a way for myself than you have no place in my life.there are way too many people out there who truly see me as i am for me to sweat the few people who get caught up on the bullshit.

[TsBrooklynMattel]

*ear perk, readjusts the diamond, and stroll over to you, cue the Roc-a-Fella music*

Hi, Allow me to introduce myself, my name is Remy. I do not and never have in my life been an escort. I find 'not' being a statistic thrilling and example leading. I hope you never have to utter such a sad sentence as was stated above. I can graciously introduce you to a great many trans women, that get up and clock in 40hrs a week, blending with society and being a healthy and productive citizen.

I too, have dated ts that escort. My first relationship which lasted 4 years, the first year I decided being new to the LGBT lifestyle, I wanted to be as open minded and accepting of what it may entail. Eventually, logic prevailed, the risk is simply not worth the reward. Mind you, this was a time when Eros was hallowed ground for the best of the best and majority of girls worked the 'stroll'. I worked 12-14hr days to provide for us during rest of relationship so she wouldn't 'have' to work the stroll.

Remy, People like u are greatly appreciated for your hard work. Alot of men will not see things like that even though they speak it out of their own mouths. I think the reason you did what you did is because you are a transsexual. You have a better understanding of OUR world then alot of men who are just attracted to transsexuals.