My homie found a pic of a Tranny on my phone

[tsamberskyi]

I never said I was ashamed of it. I just dont like all the negative energy that comes with it. Its doesnt make you less of a person, and i dont intend to demean you in any way, but realistically a lotta guys feel that way. Im just trying to give you an honest answer. And I said hometown not where I currently live. The whole point of not doing the hometown thing is that nothing positive comes from it and I wouldnt wanna expose anyone else to the ignorance/inside-the-box mind set that people from this area have. I dont want my relationship on public display.

And i know allot of guys feel that way which is why some girls get discouraged and say fuck it, I'm charging all of y'all.
Who wants to keep getting hurt by guys who can't be honest and open with you

[tyrone70]

LMFAO!!!!!!!!!

so how did it happen???

iv actully been in that situation myself before! lol
my homeboy saw a pic of this exgirl i was talkin to on my phone an he was like "ehh uhhh, yo girl gotta real strong jaw line man, are you sure dat aint no nigga folk?"
....
i was like uhhh, hell naw man!

and ever since he's made a few jokes about it here an there but i think he still prob has his suspicions about it tho.....

man we watchin the game, and I forgot to delete my internet history on on the phone I had it on shemaleboom.com and he was like "wtf" and bust out laughing man all my dudes were CLOWNING me. my life is over SMDH. don't none them niggaz f/with me anymore. they on facebook CLOWNING ME. I'll get through it but damn damn damn. i was slipping. i usually remember to delete my history, turn off my computer w/ppl come over but all it takes is that ONE FUCKIN TIME

[falling]

Damn I had to delurk on this one... Hopefully it blows over on your end!

[joxynn]

So I'm guessing the popular opinion is that its okay and understandable to be on the low?
Well i don't want to hear no more bitching about how all ts woman are escorts because no woman should have to deal with dudes who are too ashamed and cowardly to be seen with them.
Honestly this shit makes me sick.its all about y'all and what you got to loose smh. How would you feel if someone only wanted to see you out of town because they didn't want people to know they fuck with black dudes.I'm betting it would leave a bad taste in your mouth.

This may be popular opinion, but it's a far cry from representing how all men think. If I get to the point where I feel strongly enough about someone trans or otherwise to entertain a serious relationship, I'm gonna take on everything that entails. I never understood the DL mentality. Of course, I've never placed a ton of emphasis on social acceptance either. Guess that's why I have a small circle of friends. If all I want is fun with no strings attached, I'll stick with p2p. I don't see it as paying a chick to fuck. I see it as paying her to leave

[tsamberskyi]

This may be popular opinion, but it's a far cry from representing how all men think. If I get to the point where I feel strongly enough about someone trans or otherwise to entertain a serious relationship, I'm gonna take on everything that entails. I never understood the DL mentality. Of course, I've never placed a ton of emphasis on social acceptance either. Guess that's why I have a small circle of friends. If all I want is fun with no strings attached, I'll stick with p2p. I don't see it as paying a chick to fuck. I see it as paying her to leave

Finally a decent dude in this thread lol.
I understand not going all out for some random chick but if one claims to love or care about a person you simply wouldn't be ashamed of them.
Even before i was trans i was into doing my own thing and thinking for myself.popular societal opinion doesn't faze me.

[werwt22]

Finally a decent dude in this thread lol.
I understand not going all out for some random chick but if one claims to love or care about a person you simply wouldn't be ashamed of them.
Even before i was trans i was into doing my own thing and thinking for myself.popular societal opinion doesn't faze me.

HAHAHA Awww, I'm not decent because I told my honest opinion? LOL. First off, back when I met Christy AKA Sheeba, back when she just turned 19, she was the first TS I ever had feelings for. I fealt so strongly that I told my father, "YES MY FATHER", the person that a son holds their opinion to the highest regard, about how I fealt. So no, ashamed isnt the word for me babe. Oh and no a gg doesnt get to enter my house just because she's a gg. I dont bring just anyone around my family. Im just curious why you wanna fight so hard just to be judged? Its the main reason most people leave their home town. And realistically, not to knock joxyn, but most of the guys that speak that way, are social outcast, or just saying that bullshit to get booty, just like niggaz that say I love you just to smash. Tell a chick what she wanna hear til you get the ass is the oldest, and I put extra emphasis on "OLDEST", trick in the book to get some.

And btw, Im not saying your banned from coming home with me LOL. Your just taking it that way.

[werwt22]

man we watchin the game, and I forgot to delete my internet history on on the phone I had it on shemaleboom.com and he was like "wtf" and bust out laughing man all my dudes were CLOWNING me. my life is over SMDH. don't none them niggaz f/with me anymore. they on facebook CLOWNING ME. I'll get through it but damn damn damn. i was slipping. i usually remember to delete my history, turn off my computer w/ppl come over but all it takes is that ONE FUCKIN TIME

HAHAHAHA cmon bruh. Better say your "gay" cousin had your phone LOLOL.

[werwt22]

And i know allot of guys feel that way which is why some girls get discouraged and say fuck it, I'm charging all of y'all.
Who wants to keep getting hurt by guys who can't be honest and open with you

Isnt me telling you exactly what im telling you being honest and open with you? =D

[tsamberskyi]

HAHAHA Awww, I'm not decent because I told my honest opinion? LOL. First off, back when I met Christy AKA Sheeba, back when she just turned 19, she was the first TS I ever had feelings for. I fealt so strongly that I told my father, "YES MY FATHER", the person that a son holds their opinion to the highest regard, about how I fealt. So no, ashamed isnt the word for me babe. Oh and no a gg doesnt get to enter my house just because she's a gg. I dont bring just anyone around my family. Im just curious why you wanna fight so hard just to be judged? Its the main reason most people leave their home town. And realistically, not to knock joxyn, but most of the guys that speak that way, are social outcast, or just saying that bullshit to get booty, just like niggaz that say I love you just to smash. Tell a chick what she wanna hear til you get the ass is the oldest, and I put extra emphasis on "OLDEST", trick in the book to get some.

And btw, Im not saying your banned from coming home with me LOL. Your just taking it that way.

Sweetie I'm paying the man a compliment, don't get butt hurt by it lol.
You can say what you want but I've had more than a few guys introduce me to the homies including my last ex who took me home to meet the folks for Christmas (no drama in any of those scenarios).none of them where social outcast, that's just you projecting your insecurity.
When i first started to transition i was hurt and had my self esteem crushed a number of times dealing with dudes who treated me less than the woman i am.i speak from first hand existence about how painful it is to realize the person you love cares more about what people will think or say about him than you.however those days are long behind me, no one has time for that bull anymore

[vidman]

I don't know if you all have read my input on the transsexual strip club in Atlanta, but this same situation is the reason I said that it would be difficult for the club to thrive in Atlanta. Brothas are still on the DL in Atlanta, even though Atlanta is supposed to be "black gay is okay" capital of the world. I went to the club last night and there were 5 white guys in there and ME, the only black dude. One white guy was in there with his UPS suit on. Imagine that.....a man so comfortable with himself that he came to the trans-strip club with his work clothes on. In other words, "I am who I am and I don't care who knows it" is what he was saying. However, there were 9 transsexual dancers, 8 of which were black and 1 hispanic.

The ignorance in the black community is astounding. Why one can't choose to be himself and feel comfortable around his peers disturbs me. I have said this time and time again that white people can be gay and comfortable (safe) in their communities.....in most cases. Being gay in the Black community, on the other hand, is almost a worse crime than committing murder. In order for the black community to really be pillars amongst society, we must change our mindset. Not only about homosexuality, but period!!! Not saying that we don't have any pillars now, but just think about what would happen if my community became just a bit more tolerable, understanding and perhaps more educated on a worldly view. WOW!!!

I peek at craigslist and backpage and read some of the ads the girls post and I'm starting to see more and more "white guys only" ads. Not only from non-Black transsexuals, but now from Black transsexuals too. It's to the point now to where Black transsexuals don't even want to deal with Black guys anymore, which is just a microcosm of the Black community in large. We fight one another. We kill one another. We don't even deal with each other on a sensible basis. Why are we so hateful and unforgiving towards our own?

Anyway......just how I feel. No biggie.