My homie found a pic of a Tranny on my phone

[tsamberskyi]

Extremely well said

[kasseen]

Its just too much shit tied into it. The problem is no one will let you be if you admit to it. Girls who were interested in you will no longer wanna talk to you, Dudes you used to know, dont wanna be seen with you because they feel you make them look gay, or they think you may have been looking at them the whole time. Im watching one of my boys go through this right now and he just got caught up a couple weeks ago, and I've seen it happen several times. Majority of the guys end up moving away. Its like everyone tries to go through your life wit a fine tooth comb and think of everything "gay" youve ever said or done, and in the end, it just seems so much easier to hide it. For me, its my personal life and no one need concern themselves with who I do or dont talk to. I dont mind being seen in public anywhere I go with a TS as long as its not my hometown. Just dont wanna deal with the name-calling, family trying to intervene, sexual advances from "gay gay" dudes, or anyone trying to look at or treat me differently.

Well said.....i feel you completely!

[kasseen]

man we watchin the game, and I forgot to delete my internet history on on the phone I had it on shemaleboom.com and he was like "wtf" and bust out laughing man all my dudes were CLOWNING me. my life is over SMDH. don't none them niggaz f/with me anymore. they on facebook CLOWNING ME. I'll get through it but damn damn damn. i was slipping. i usually remember to delete my history, turn off my computer w/ppl come over but all it takes is that ONE FUCKIN TIME

OOOhhh Shit! LMFAO!!!! i hate to laugh about it, but that shits funny as fuck shawty.....

But Damn my nigga, it happens to the best of us tho......smh

The best lie i would say to them would be 2 say you were on a porntube site an you mis-tapped a small link and either the wrong site or "pop-up" ad site popped up....lol....good luck with dat tho

[kasseen]

I don't know if you all have read my input on the transsexual strip club in Atlanta, but this same situation is the reason I said that it would be difficult for the club to thrive in Atlanta. Brothas are still on the DL in Atlanta, even though Atlanta is supposed to be "black gay is okay" capital of the world. I went to the club last night and there were 5 white guys in there and ME, the only black dude. One white guy was in there with his UPS suit on. Imagine that.....a man so comfortable with himself that he came to the trans-strip club with his work clothes on. In other words, "I am who I am and I don't care who knows it" is what he was saying. However, there were 9 transsexual dancers, 8 of which were black and 1 hispanic.

The ignorance in the black community is astounding. Why one can't choose to be himself and feel comfortable around his peers disturbs me. I have said this time and time again that white people can be gay and comfortable (safe) in their communities.....in most cases. Being gay in the Black community, on the other hand, is almost a worse crime than committing murder. In order for the black community to really be pillars amongst society, we must change our mindset. Not only about homosexuality, but period!!! Not saying that we don't have any pillars now, but just think about what would happen if my community became just a bit more tolerable, understanding and perhaps more educated on a worldly view. WOW!!!

I peek at craigslist and backpage and read some of the ads the girls post and I'm starting to see more and more "white guys only" ads. Not only from non-Black transsexuals, but now from Black transsexuals too. It's to the point now to where Black transsexuals don't even want to deal with Black guys anymore, which is just a microcosm of the Black community in large. We fight one another. We kill one another. We don't even deal with each other on a sensible basis. Why are we so hateful and unforgiving towards our own?

Anyway......just how I feel. No biggie.

Preach Brotha, Preach!!!

[thegreat1]

I don't know if you all have read my input on the transsexual strip club in Atlanta, but this same situation is the reason I said that it would be difficult for the club to thrive in Atlanta. Brothas are still on the DL in Atlanta, even though Atlanta is supposed to be "black gay is okay" capital of the world. I went to the club last night and there were 5 white guys in there and ME, the only black dude. One white guy was in there with his UPS suit on. Imagine that.....a man so comfortable with himself that he came to the trans-strip club with his work clothes on. In other words, "I am who I am and I don't care who knows it" is what he was saying. However, there were 9 transsexual dancers, 8 of which were black and 1 hispanic.

The ignorance in the black community is astounding. Why one can't choose to be himself and feel comfortable around his peers disturbs me. I have said this time and time again that white people can be gay and comfortable (safe) in their communities.....in most cases. Being gay in the Black community, on the other hand, is almost a worse crime than committing murder. In order for the black community to really be pillars amongst society, we must change our mindset. Not only about homosexuality, but period!!! Not saying that we don't have any pillars now, but just think about what would happen if my community became just a bit more tolerable, understanding and perhaps more educated on a worldly view. WOW!!!

I peek at craigslist and backpage and read some of the ads the girls post and I'm starting to see more and more "white guys only" ads. Not only from non-Black transsexuals, but now from Black transsexuals too. It's to the point now to where Black transsexuals don't even want to deal with Black guys anymore, which is just a microcosm of the Black community in large. We fight one another. We kill one another. We don't even deal with each other on a sensible basis. Why are we so hateful and unforgiving towards our own?

Anyway......just how I feel. No biggie.

Not to belie your point, but that 'no blacks' thing is oft times more about money and/or what the client is looking for, than it is personal preference. I know a few girls that dont want to 'date' black men, but still date them.

That being said, your point about the black culture is correct. But you cant really expect anything else from a culture in which surviving a jail sentence is celebrated more than graduating from high school or college. Ignorance is all emcompassing.

[Rozay]

This is a WORST CASE Scenario. I can NEVER live this down to my crew. They will always have in the back of they mind that they know i like trannys.

this is why im open so i dont have to deal with bullshit like the always worryin about getting caught trust me bruh if your strong enough mentally i suggest you live out in the open

[joxynn]

Excellent post vidman. Discussions like this are why I frequent this forum. Valid points coming from people with varying perspectives have taken what started off as a relatively negative topic and spun it into an insightful discussion on some of the underlying problems within the black community. Carry on, I can't wait to see where the conversation goes next.

[werwt22]

Extremely well said

imma deebo your compliment and say thank you lol

[werwt22]

Sweetie I'm paying the man a compliment, don't get butt hurt by it lol.
You can say what you want but I've had more than a few guys introduce me to the homies including my last ex who took me home to meet the folks for Christmas (no drama in any of those scenarios).none of them where social outcast, that's just you projecting your insecurity.
When i first started to transition i was hurt and had my self esteem crushed a number of times dealing with dudes who treated me less than the woman i am.i speak from first hand existence about how painful it is to realize the person you love cares more about what people will think or say about him than you.however those days are long behind me, no one has time for that bull anymore

Im a realist, borderline pessimist, so I just look at things for what they are or as the worst of the worst, so I can expect no disappointment if I already peeped it. Personal issue to be honest, but Love, that doesn't reflect negatively upon you. If I loved you, and I knew our love was real, then you be everywhere, yes "everywhere", with me. I just feel your misconstruing my positive intentions for negative thoughts. My emotions are seeded a lil deeper than most, and you seem like a girl i could love, but you def dont get any introductions unless I rock wit you superhard, whether your a friend/lover/babycakes/boo/sweetheart/whatever. Wit your cute ass profile pic LOL.

[werwt22]

I don't know if you all have read my input on the transsexual strip club in Atlanta, but this same situation is the reason I said that it would be difficult for the club to thrive in Atlanta. Brothas are still on the DL in Atlanta, even though Atlanta is supposed to be "black gay is okay" capital of the world. I went to the club last night and there were 5 white guys in there and ME, the only black dude. One white guy was in there with his UPS suit on. Imagine that.....a man so comfortable with himself that he came to the trans-strip club with his work clothes on. In other words, "I am who I am and I don't care who knows it" is what he was saying. However, there were 9 transsexual dancers, 8 of which were black and 1 hispanic.

The ignorance in the black community is astounding. Why one can't choose to be himself and feel comfortable around his peers disturbs me. I have said this time and time again that white people can be gay and comfortable (safe) in their communities.....in most cases. Being gay in the Black community, on the other hand, is almost a worse crime than committing murder. In order for the black community to really be pillars amongst society, we must change our mindset. Not only about homosexuality, but period!!! Not saying that we don't have any pillars now, but just think about what would happen if my community became just a bit more tolerable, understanding and perhaps more educated on a worldly view. WOW!!!

I peek at craigslist and backpage and read some of the ads the girls post and I'm starting to see more and more "white guys only" ads. Not only from non-Black transsexuals, but now from Black transsexuals too. It's to the point now to where Black transsexuals don't even want to deal with Black guys anymore, which is just a microcosm of the Black community in large. We fight one another. We kill one another. We don't even deal with each other on a sensible basis. Why are we so hateful and unforgiving towards our own?

Anyway......just how I feel. No biggie.

How would "we" convince any community of anything if the TG comm doesnt even know how to carry their own. Lotta these chicks really see themselves as men still. Too much of a buffer/grey area that fuks it up. I support the rights, but im not here to be made an example of. I just wanna live my life, whether she's gg or ts without being scrutinized. We dont all have to be activist bruh.