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    Quote Originally Posted by phi0820 View Post
    This is more venting than anything else. Just had a fairly big blow up with my family last night. I go to school out of state and I'm back up in Philly for the summer, staying with my parents. While I haven't been with a lot of t-girls, the family knows about them, and while they're definitely more open than most about it, they don't accept it. I'm basically the baby of the family, so everybody's very protective of me.

    So last night I had planned to go to dinner with a girl...really nice, seems to have a lot going on for herself. We don't talk a whole lot, but there have been some loose plans for us to get together for a while now, and we had previously set a date twice for us to go out, but things just fell through at the last minute.

    So everything was set for last night, and I'm on my way out the door when my mom figures out that I'm going out with a transsexual. She did not take that well at all. We basically got into a 2 hour argument/lecture about how what I was doing was wrong, what will the family think, etc. Lots of drama. It ends when I just make a stand and say that I'm going, but this is maybe an hour after I was supposed to pick her up. I grab my phone and she's understandably upset about me being that late and more or less cancelled. I try texting and calling her to let her know I'm coming, but she didn't answer or respond right away, I was already upset myself so I texted her back and cancelled. Needless to say, she's not happy about that.

    So right now it seems like I've got a big pile of bullshit in my lap with the family and I haven't even tried to contact the girl yet. Not the end of the world or anything, and nothing I can't deal with, but it's still frustrating as hell. Not totally sure how I'm gonna handle all this yet, so any feedback's appreciated.
    This is why alot of guys stay in the closet so they wont have to deal with shit like this..................me personally have a idgaf attitude but this is about you.It depends on your family they may come around but most likely wont you just gone have to deal with it either way

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rozay View Post
    This is why alot of guys stay in the closet so they wont have to deal with shit like this..................me personally have a idgaf attitude but this is about you.It depends on your family they may come around but most likely wont you just gone have to deal with it either way
    How do you know they most likely won't?

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    Quote Originally Posted by tsamberskyi View Post
    How do you know they most likely won't?
    I'm assuming they are African American and tbh are highly judgmental I know from experience

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rozay View Post
    I'm assuming they are African American and tbh are highly judgmental I know from experience
    Im west african(which is is an even more conservative culture) and my family has grown to love and accept me.
    I imagine his family really loves and cares for him.I'm sure with time they will come around .

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    Quote Originally Posted by tsamberskyi View Post
    Im west african(which is is an even more conservative culture) and my family has grown to love and accept me.
    I imagine his family really loves and cares for him.I'm sure with time they will come around .
    What part? My Father is as well (Ghanian)...but he passed on a few years ago, RIP.

    But back on topic, I'm the baby bro of my three older brothers, so I can relate to you as well. I haven't came out and actually told my fam, but I think they might suspect something (mightve found some TS porn on my computer, way back when, xD). But since you're still young, they have to understand you're just growing up and exploring the world, so who knows who or what you date is gonna remain that way.

    So my advice to you is if they really have a problem with your TS dating, just don't bring them home anymore. It will save you and any TS a lot of stress and headache. Hope things work out for you!

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