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07-06-2013, 07:44 PM #1
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Given: 0/0I've noticed that white guys get passes
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Seriously though I've noticed that sisters who eventually end up dating outside of their race tend to not be as stringent on non black guys in terms of dating. I'm not sure if its the same with black ts but I know of atleast 3 black women who now date white guys, who when datingg black guys had a strict set of criteria a dude had to be...tall, athletic, dark, good job. All three of these chickz are now with dudes who only have the latter. It makes me think, most black women will overlook there wants if a guy has the ability to fulfill their monetary needs.
YOLO
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07-06-2013, 11:35 PM #2
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Given: 3/0That's possible, as some girls do prioritize financial security over other factors which has historically been the case for marriage in the first place. Marrying for love didn't come into play until relatively recently. Also, they may want a guy that can take care of themselves and not rely on the girl. I've seen many a girl whose man relied on her financially, they invariably were black and/or hispanic. Another thing to consider, is that white guys tend not to be down low. A girl may be able to accept a less attractive white man that treats her like a woman than a black man that only treats her like a woman when they are alone.
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07-07-2013, 01:45 AM #3
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07-07-2013, 01:17 PM #4
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07-07-2013, 02:47 PM #5
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07-07-2013, 05:41 PM #6
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Given: 0/0raheme been trying to get a lil deep on em here lately LOL
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07-07-2013, 08:20 PM #7
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Given: 3/0All depends on ones perspective, a great many times you might see a group of girls and not realize any two out the group are a couple at all without some overt PDA occurring. Some might say lesbians in general regardless of race tend to have it easier, as guys will usually see it as one of two ways. Two girls getting it on is sexy; and/or treating the girl as one of the guys a 'homie' that they can share girl problems with.
I would also point out that by far and large gay and lesbian couples of all races, are fairly accepted in mainstream life. Religious groups tend to be the major influencing force against homosexuality, as they like to overlook the the whole "judge not..." and "love thy neighbors..." bits of their religion.
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07-09-2013, 11:07 PM #8
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I agree with most of this except the highlighted part. I believe White guys just see most TS as exotic pets/sexual fetishes while still being loyal to their White wives/kids. As for Black TS and Black men, yes, unfortunately most of us who do turn to TS usually are from the prison/low income areas of society. So again, it goes back to being 'taken' care of financially. Most White guys have disposable income to engage in their sexual fantasies while most Black guys (who isn't playing ball or slanging dope) struggle to just get by in life. So even though they may be with a White guy, better believe they still wanna get d-cked down by Brothas. Its just easier for them to find Big Black D-ck than it is to find Big Bank Account.
Trust me I know...currently I'm not in the best financial position ATM, but whenever a TS needs 'it', they have no problem hitting me up.
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07-09-2013, 11:13 PM #9
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Given: 0/0based on my personal experiences i havent really encountered a brotha who is willing to openly (by openly i mean bring around friends and family) date a ts woman.
The guys who tend to bring me around are either white or latin.i did have one mixed dude bring me to meet his friends at a club but thats one out of my 5 years of dating.not looking good my brothers smh.
also eww at the whole big black dick thing.that sounds silly lol
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07-10-2013, 03:04 AM #10
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Given: 3/0I disagree with your use of 'sexual fetish' but I do think this applies to everyone not dating a trans woman, and just in it for the sexual thrill/fantasy. There are certainly a great many white men that just want the sexual thrill/fantasy too. However; there tend to be more white men dating trans women than black and it's really because they are more secure in themselves than black men are, not because of their financial situations. Some men cheat, regardless of race, but just because a white man is with a trans woman, doesn't mean that he is living a double life with a wife somewhere else. That's just down low men justifying their own lack of social decorum.
lol First the white guys that are engaging in their sexual fantasies aren't dating trans women, they are using escorts or having casual sex encounters. It's funny because, the black guys will have the disposable income to spend over a hundred dollars on a pair of trainers, but not to treat a trans woman as equal to a genetic woman. Seems like black men just have their priorities skewed. They are more concerned with keeping up appearance of what they feel "society" expects of them which in reality is rubbish. You should live your life for yourself, not random people that mean nothing to you in the grand scheme of things. They really aren't worth being a friend if they would dislike you simply because you date a trans woman.
No, sometimes girls date white guys simply because they prefer white guys plain and simple. Just like some girls prefer black guys, it's not necessarily about dick size, not all men have huge dicks and/or know how to have awesome sex. There are always going to be exceptions to the rule of course and some girls are driven by the sexual appetites, so if you are getting yours then there's nothing to complain about. I always applaud the girls that hold men to a certain level of standards of respect though, and don't settle for less.
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