I've noticed that white guys get passes

[raheme]

based on my personal experiences i havent really encountered a brotha who is willing to openly (by openly i mean bring around friends and family) date a ts woman.
The guys who tend to bring me around are either white or latin.i did have one mixed dude bring me to meet his friends at a club but thats one out of my 5 years of dating.not looking good my brothers smh.
also eww at the whole big black dick thing.that sounds silly lol

I'm callin bs on this...for a fact lol

[tsamberskyi]

I'm callin bs on this...for a fact lol

Feel free to expand....

[tsamberskyi]

. I always applaud the girls that hold men to a certain level of standards of respect though, and don't settle for less.

Yea, we are often single, lonely and horny for long periods of time to lol

[raheme]

I disagree with your use of 'sexual fetish' but I do think this applies to everyone not dating a trans woman, and just in it for the sexual thrill/fantasy. There are certainly a great many white men that just want the sexual thrill/fantasy too. However; there tend to be more white men dating trans women than black and it's really because they are more secure in themselves than black men are, not because of their financial situations. Some men cheat, regardless of race, but just because a white man is with a trans woman, doesn't mean that he is living a double life with a wife somewhere else. That's just down low men justifying their own lack of social decorum.



lol First the white guys that are engaging in their sexual fantasies aren't dating trans women, they are using escorts or having casual sex encounters. It's funny because, the black guys will have the disposable income to spend over a hundred dollars on a pair of trainers, but not to treat a trans woman as equal to a genetic woman. Seems like black men just have their priorities skewed. They are more concerned with keeping up appearance of what they feel "society" expects of them which in reality is rubbish. You should live your life for yourself, not random people that mean nothing to you in the grand scheme of things. They really aren't worth being a friend if they would dislike you simply because you date a trans woman.



No, sometimes girls date white guys simply because they prefer white guys plain and simple. Just like some girls prefer black guys, it's not necessarily about dick size, not all men have huge dicks and/or know how to have awesome sex. There are always going to be exceptions to the rule of course and some girls are driven by the sexual appetites, so if you are getting yours then there's nothing to complain about. I always applaud the girls that hold men to a certain level of standards of respect though, and don't settle for less.

You’re only settling if you subscribe to the dream...

Base happiness upon self and it will attract the right partner.

We often they hear this too late, wasting our lives looking for the one that will make us “happy” by completing the equation. Developing independent, personal happiness redefines what the perfect match is—after all, you can’t be certain a person isn’t the right match if you haven’t confirmed you’re in the right shape.

[johnmagnum]

. It makes me think, most black women will overlook there wants if a guy has the ability to fulfill their monetary needs.

Survey says: DING DING DING DING DING!!!!!!!!!!!!

On the money. I don't give a fuck about sister who date outside their race.

Romance without finance is a damn nuisance.

[qcutta]

I disagree with your use of 'sexual fetish' but I do think this applies to everyone not dating a trans woman, and just in it for the sexual thrill/fantasy. There are certainly a great many white men that just want the sexual thrill/fantasy too. However; there tend to be more white men dating trans women than black and it's really because they are more secure in themselves than black men are, not because of their financial situations. Some men cheat, regardless of race, but just because a white man is with a trans woman, doesn't mean that he is living a double life with a wife somewhere else. That's just down low men justifying their own lack of social decorum.

Oh boy where do I start...well, we just have to diagree on that part, b/c if you ever see any TS 'seriously' dating a white guy, it always seems to be an older, sugar daddie type. I've been in some TS populated cities (NYC, MIA, etc), and whenever I see TS out, those are the type they have by their side.

lol First the white guys that are engaging in their sexual fantasies aren't dating trans women, they are using escorts or having casual sex encounters. It's funny because, the black guys will have the disposable income to spend over a hundred dollars on a pair of trainers, but not to treat a trans woman as equal to a genetic woman. Seems like black men just have their priorities skewed. They are more concerned with keeping up appearance of what they feel "society" expects of them which in reality is rubbish. You should live your life for yourself, not random people that mean nothing to you in the grand scheme of things. They really aren't worth being a friend if they would dislike you simply because you date a trans woman.

Damn, Remy are you even Black? Nice way to racially profile/stereotype all Black guys...again, this goes back to the disposable income arguement. Unfortunately, some Black guys may fear losing their jobs/livelyhood if they were to come out and say they date TS. But old White men usually own their own business or have trust funds to fall back on. That's why the only ones (Black) who can really provide or 'sponsor' a TS are the drug dealers who don't really have to worry about those things.

, sometimes girls date white guys simply because they prefer white guys plain and simple. Just like some girls prefer black guys, it's not necessarily about dick size, not all men have huge dicks and/or know how to have awesome sex. There are always going to be exceptions to the rule of course and some girls are driven by the sexual appetites, so if you are getting yours then there's nothing to complain about. I always applaud the girls that hold men to a certain level of standards of respect though, and don't settle for less.

And there's nothing wrong with dat...lord knows I have mine. But I just don't want you (or any other TS, human being, etc) make broad generalizations about Black men when it co to TS. We all have our own experiences, but don't act like its the same all across the board.

And I don't like getting into race topic on da 'Net (usually leads to flame wars), so I gonna leave it at that. Came to look at hot TS chics, not to debate racial inequalities!

[qcutta]

based on my personal experiences i havent really encountered a brotha who is willing to openly (by openly i mean bring around friends and family) date a ts woman.
The guys who tend to bring me around are either white or latin.i did have one mixed dude bring me to meet his friends at a club but thats one out of my 5 years of dating.not looking good my brothers smh.

Sorry to hear that...depending on the city, I believe there are some 'brothas' who are willing to date you.

also eww at the whole big black dick thing.that sounds silly lol

Nuff said...

[Ms Remy M]

You’re only settling if you subscribe to the dream...

Base happiness upon self and it will attract the right partner.

We often they hear this too late, wasting our lives looking for the one that will make us “happy” by completing the equation. Developing independent, personal happiness redefines what the perfect match is—after all, you can’t be certain a person isn’t the right match if you haven’t confirmed you’re in the right shape.

I agree with you, I can always tell when happiness in self eludes a person. They spend their time looking to others to fulfill what they can't themselves. Then when things go sides ways cause that person isn't capable of sustaining your happiness (which no one would be) you are right back at square one again.

[Ms Remy M]

Damn, Remy are you even Black? Nice way to racially profile/stereotype all Black guys...again, this goes back to the disposable income arguement. Unfortunately, some Black guys may fear losing their jobs/livelyhood if they were to come out and say they date TS. But old White men usually own their own business or have trust funds to fall back on. That's why the only ones (Black) who can really provide or 'sponsor' a TS are the drug dealers who don't really have to worry about those things.

You don't lose your job for being in a relationship with someone, that's just rubbish, playing on false fears for an excuse to be downlow. None of you can name one person in media who has lost their job on account of simply dating a trans woman. By the way, you are racially profiling/stereotypical yourself in saying that 1. a trans woman even needs/wants a sponsor, we want a relationship and 2. that only drug dealers are capable of being the type of person to handle a ts. With this type of ideology, there really is no logic at play. Age could be a factor in that as people get older they tend to get wiser and realize (usually far to late) that they should be living their life for themselves not society. Job has no factor in it at all. At the end of the day I see more black people living outside their means, spending money of frivolous items like top of the line clothing labels, cars, etc that they can barely sustain comfortably and then can't afford to take a girl out on a simple date, or even themselves if the girl is willing to go dutch.

You don't need to come to the forum to look at "hot ts chics", the site is right there at the top for you to click on, the forum is for discussions.

That pic you posted was good for a laugh though...

[tsamberskyi]

Sorry to hear that...depending on the city, I believe there are some 'brothas' who are willing to date you.

i never said there werent any....just way more who rather be dl and i dont indulge that attitude in my personal life.
wanna keep me a secret boo? find my escort site lol