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Thread: DJ Caught w/a Tranny
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09-15-2013, 06:48 PM #31
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Given: 0/0Amber I just have a question to ask, nothing pointed, just curious:... When you go to a hip-hop club do you bother to "research" the place first (in terms of how cool and balanced it is) or do you just go to any old hip hop club, and not give a damn about whether there might be zombies there or not, perhaps even DL zombies who might make trouble for you?
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09-15-2013, 06:57 PM #32
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Given: 0/0I just go places like anyone else lol.I don't live this social ostracized life where I need to be aware of certain places... well no more aware than any woman (gg or ts) would need to be. luckily I'm passable enough that I don't worry about harassment or anything like that
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09-15-2013, 07:00 PM #33
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Given: 4/0I'm mixing apples with oranges???
Amber you've got a whole fruit basket thing going on right now...
Who is the down low person you're basing your whole argument on? Mr. Cee...? Well initially that whole scandal revolved around an "OPEN INVESTIGATION" in which he was charged with solicitation. DL or not even his lawyer cautioned him to keep his mouth shut. Only problem with that is that Mr. Cee is a dumb ass who clearly has no limits on what he'll fuck for cash.
That's on him though....
Now my comment was based on you making a broad generalization on people who's taste in transsexual may differ considerably. Down low is a gay term. I don't adhere to it. To me you're either the woman that you say you are or you're not. So to me you blurring the lines between what Mr. Cee does by projecting his man in a wig fetish on all trans-attracted men as well conforming to a misinformed society who doesn't know the difference between a gay man and a transsexual woman and doesn't care to. So you're essentially jumping from one foot to the other regarding this topic.
Sex work is at the core of this discussion so my comment on it stands. I don't solicit sex personally but the Trans-women I encounter are prostitutes. And that's what I based my comment on.
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09-15-2013, 07:02 PM #34
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Given: 3/1Ty- has a point then you went to make one and while you made it. You were all over the place with it. And all of it was not valid. You associating the deed
with feelings. The DL dude imposing all kinds of hurt feelings on people by him
being DL. So now you take it upon yourself to say he's ashamed of this and that By you all(s) definiton and to Ty-'s point NO, the DL dude is afraid to come clean for whatever reasons similar to reasons of the many of Transexuals who struggle (transforming back and forth, those who haven't come out, etc) to come clean. So it is utter hipocrisy, and further just by a person being DL doesn't mean the every DL dude is imposing this shame, abandonment, etc on those he's involved with. If indeed that person is lying to those involved than he's lying. But he can't be lying to the tranny cause he's not being seen with her hence the failure of that tranny to recognize what it is, and continuing on with the DL dude. A willing participant
which make them just as responsible so they inadvertently inflict that shame and abandonment on themselves. I'm a person who doesn't like my picture on the internet (for many reasons) but does that make me a DL(blogger, etc) of some sort. I don't think so. And so does that mean I can't play on the internet.
BTW; if shorty wanted to fuck me because I was black I would accomodate her little fine ass in more ways than one, because it would be obivious that we were on the same page. I wouldn't want anyone seeing us together either LMAO............
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09-15-2013, 07:06 PM #35
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09-15-2013, 08:53 PM #36
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Given: 3/0Nothing she said had anything to do with 'escorts'. That statement was about a woman of any color not wanting to be seen with a black man in public, strictly the bedroom (i.e. the woman is on the down low). Anyone can be 'down low' not just gay men. The phrase can be appropriated from one group to another, just like how bigoted people called blacks 'nigga' and now all manner of idiots call themselves and friends 'nigga'
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09-15-2013, 09:00 PM #37
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Given: 3/0You Down Low guys should just stop dealing with trans women if you have such a problem with them, that would end all your little b.s. issues about worrying about fam and friends hating you since that is what matters to you. Alas, that is why you guys end up stuck having to pay for the chance of being with a TS instead of fostering an actual friendship since trans women aren't worthy in your eyes.
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09-15-2013, 09:00 PM #38
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Given: 0/0the down low than was/is a side discussion spurred by another posters comment.
while I agree that "dl" is a gay term it is convenient to describe a particular type of man that will have sexual relations with a ts but would be ashamed to be seen with or have it be known that he associates with her.
now just because all the ts woman you know escort it doesn't mean all ts woman do. also just cause one escorts it doesn't mean that one can't have relationships with men outside of work.
I'm an escort and while I dont care if my clients are on the "dl" or not ( cause I dont enteract with them socially),I would never give a dl man the time of day in my personal life.to me there is no such thing as being my friend or lover if you are ashamed of me.
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09-15-2013, 09:02 PM #39
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09-16-2013, 02:06 AM #40
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Given: 3/1Nope you are wrong about this and the analogy you used. The term down low was just for gay men. And the way you folks trying to coin it here is with a different meaning. Hence ni&&er is what the white establishment successfully named us to say we were not people, nigga is what we have coined ourselves in ignorance and love which is now universal. And these 2 words have two different meanings. But you would have us believe down low is one phrase and has two different meanings. Na.... bad analogy and every one you guys use with color turns out to not be such a good analogy, very different beast. And in your very own words I would have to be an idiot if I believed your logic
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