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    Quote Originally Posted by tsamberskyi View Post
    AGAIN, no one said the atrocities were on the same scale but the struggle for rights and equality are the same.
    It is beyond disappointing that a group who knows the struggle can't empathize.
    Name me 1 ethnicity or creed in america that as a whole isn't overly homophobic...when the lgbt community singles out blacks as this evil unsympathetic monolithic group of peoplei lose a lot of respect for them and their plight. You don't gain equality by minimizing someone else's struggle or experience.
    You think the majority of white folks in america support gay rights? Jews? Muslim? Hindu? Nope...they are just as opposed to gay rights as blacks are, if not more. In fact, sadly most blacks are indifferent to the whole thing as most, the vast majority do not vote unless its an issue tied directly to obama.

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    Quote Originally Posted by raheme View Post
    Name me 1 ethnicity or creed in america that as a whole isn't overly homophobic...when the lgbt community singles out blacks as this evil unsympathetic monolithic group of peoplei lose a lot of respect for them and their plight. You don't gain equality by minimizing someone else's struggle or experience.
    You think the majority of white folks in america support gay rights? Jews? Muslim? Hindu? Nope...they are just as opposed to gay rights as blacks are, if not more. In fact, sadly most blacks are indifferent to the whole thing as most, the vast majority do not vote unless its an issue tied directly to obama.
    issue tied directly to obama.[/QUOTE]

    oh you think so? So I wonder why more and more states are supporting gay marriage legislation, or why "don't ask, don't tell" is no longer a policy in the military...cause no one cares right?
    I have yet to go to white suburbia and see people yelling "faggot" at obvious gay members but go to the hood tho.....
    You know the Baptist church is the only Christian denomination to not have any gay clergy...hmmmm
    Again, who is minimizing? I'm pretty sure I said it can't compare when it comes to atrocities...did you choose not to read?

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    I'm gonna admit to being a lazy ass and not reading every post in this thread, so I apologize if there's anything redundant here. But I get both sides of the DL issue. Personally, I live by the philosophy that you don't fuck anyone you'd be embarrassed to be seen with, but at the same time, it can be a little more complicated in practice than it is in theory, because there are so many factors to consider, and society at large is just so uneducated about everything. One thing that people kinda gloss over is that trans-attracted men weren't born attracted to t-girls. So especially for a guy that previously never had any homosexual desires, and given what seems to be most women's aversion to bisexual men, isn't it somewhat understandable for him to be hesitant about openly dating t-girls? Do you go out on a limb and date an attractive but still very socially unacceptable t-girl at the risk of being shunned by genetic women? That's a real concern. And I don't see a lot of support for the trans-attracted man, or even any strong examples or role models they can look to to let them know that a "normal" life and an open relationship can be balanced successfully. I can't speak for everyone, but personally I was freaked the fuck out (and that's an understatement) when I realized I was attracted to t-girls, and much of that was because there were NO reliable sources or people to talk to to let me know I wasn't crazy (closest I could find was some psychology articles about how guys only mess with t-girls due to some repressed homosexual desire, which just fucked my head up more). And you get so many anti-gay/anti-bi messages thrown in your face on a regular basis that it can be very tough to deal with. This isn't to say that being on the DL is right per se, but the choice to date a t-girl openly isn't some lightweight decision; there can be a lot of complex issues going on there and, again, not a lot of support.

    At the same time, people can't be educated about the subject if no one's open about it, and I don't think being open is as hard as folks make it out to be. I voluntarily told my family about my attraction to t-girls, and even though they gave me a problem about going out with a girl over the summer, it died down, and it hasn't been that much of a big deal. I've openly gone out with a couple of t-girls and the biggest issue I've had publicly was a waiter trying to talk to my girl right in front of me. And I've even discussed t-girls with a couple of female friends of mine, and thus far haven't run into any issues there either. I won't act like I'm walking around wearing "I love t-girls" shirts or anything as far as being open, so I'm far from the best example, but from my experience, no matter how much shit people talk, if they really care about you, they'll be there for you no matter what. In most cases, it's not like people are gonna be that deeply invested in your sex life for it to be an issue, and realistically, TS porn is among the more popular categories of porn out there, so there's a strong possibility that a lot of people whose opinions you're worried about are into it themselves.

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    I have yet to go to white suburbia and see people yelling "faggot" at obvious gay members but go to the hood tho.....
    Well, not all white people live in the suburbs. I've come across all kinds of inner-city dwelling working class whites who are unapologetically anti-gay. Also I went to high school in a suburban white community, and they've definitely got their shit with them too.

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    I have yet to go to white suburbia and see people yelling "faggot" at obvious gay members but go to the hood tho.....
    Yooo,who said this bullshit hahahaha. Obviously they never lived in the suburbs,because from my observation and living around white people they were 10 times harder on gay people. I know plenty of black people with gay family members including myself and is tolerant of gays but my white friends .... HELL NOOOOOOOO especially the religious ones people act as if black people are JUST homophobic when that's not true at all lolll. Shit if anything we learn to be homophobic FROM THEM. Boy growing with white folks they loveeeeeeeee calling somebody a "fucking queer or faggot" QUICKK. Why you think so many Caucasian homosexuals be killing themselves shit's ruff because whites BELIEVE IN LEGACY BEING PASSED DOWN niggas don't, so black gays got it easy if you ask me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chubbychaser View Post
    Yooo,who said this bullshit hahahaha. Obviously they never lived in the suburbs,because from my observation and living around white people they were 10 times harder on gay people. I know plenty of black people with gay family members including myself and is tolerant of gays but my white friends .... HELL NOOOOOOOO especially the religious ones people act as if black people are JUST homophobic when that's not true at all lolll. Shit if anything we learn to be homophobic FROM THEM. Boy growing with white folks they loveeeeeeeee calling somebody a "fucking queer or faggot" QUICKK. Why you think so many Caucasian homosexuals be killing themselves shit's ruff because whites BELIEVE IN LEGACY BEING PASSED DOWN niggas don't, so black gays got it easy if you ask me.
    LOL... WHO WROTE THIS SHIIIIIT?

    So...

    You "... learn to be homophobic FROM THEM"?

    Sounds like "you" learn a lot "from them"?... Well, more fool you lol...

    Tell me... How does it feel to systematically absolve yourself (and others on the basis that they share your basic visual characteristics smdh & lol) of all responibilities?... Like a 6 year old child, maybe? Well done!... Cos that's exactly how you're supposed to feel in this Matrix... (words like "malleable" and "parochial" and "deluded" spring to mind, among others)

    But hey, you're so right; people who are classed as LGBT are seldom seen in public in "white areas" because they know it's soooooo unsafe for them, right?... On the rare occasions they have to go out you can sense their fear, as they tremble at the possibility, nay, probability, that around the very next corner they turn there will be a middle-aged "white" couple who will attack them horrifically.

    JOKE'S OVER: I live in London, and unprovoked attacks on LGBT people have risen MASSIVELY in recent years.... These attacks happen mostly in areas where there is a heavy religiously observant community... And I aint talking Jews, Christians, Hindus, Sikhs or Buddists... So maybe you can guess who that leaves... (Clue: they tend not to be "white")

    And even when there isn't a "religious" angle... The attakkkers still tend not to be "white".

    You don't see such "patterns", do you?... You just refuse to acknowledge them, right? (Especially if it means fronting up to certain realities which you might consider too-close-to-home)

    Unless, of course, it's the patterns THEY want YOU to see... The patterns you're programmed to see, based on certain visuals that you are programmed to be hypersensitive about..... In such cases, you see patterns very well, don't you hmmm?... Then you see patterns allll around you lol.... Even if they're not really there, you still "see" them, based on visual stimuli and your twisted notions of racial solidarity lol... But hey, at least you've demonstrated your affiliation and loyalty to your position within the matrix LOL

    The Matrix thanks you for your unswerving and unquestioning compliance

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    Quote Originally Posted by SHAUN View Post
    LOL... WHO WROTE THIS SHIIIIIT?

    So...

    You "... learn to be homophobic FROM THEM"?

    Sounds like "you" learn a lot "from them"?... Well, more fool you lol...

    Tell me... How does it feel to systematically absolve yourself (and others on the basis that they share your basic visual characteristics smdh & lol) of all responibilities?... Like a 6 year old child, maybe? Well done!... Cos that's exactly how you're supposed to feel in this Matrix... (words like "malleable" and "parochial" and "deluded" spring to mind, among others)

    But hey, you're so right; people who are classed as LGBT are seldom seen in public in "white areas" because they know it's soooooo unsafe for them, right?... On the rare occasions they have to go out you can sense their fear, as they tremble at the possibility, nay, probability, that around the very next corner they turn there will be a middle-aged "white" couple who will attack them horrifically.

    JOKE'S OVER: I live in London, and unprovoked attacks on LGBT people have risen MASSIVELY in recent years.... These attacks happen mostly in areas where there is a heavy religiously observant community... And I aint talking Jews, Christians, Hindus, Sikhs or Buddists... So maybe you can guess who that leaves... (Clue: they tend not to be "white")

    And even when there isn't a "religious" angle... The attakkkers still tend not to be "white".

    You don't see such "patterns", do you?... You just refuse to acknowledge them, right? (Especially if it means fronting up to certain realities which you might consider too-close-to-home)

    Unless, of course, it's the patterns THEY want YOU to see... The patterns you're programmed to see, based on certain visuals that you are programmed to be hypersensitive about..... In such cases, you see patterns very well, don't you hmmm?... Then you see patterns allll around you lol.... Even if they're not really there, you still "see" them, based on visual stimuli and your twisted notions of racial solidarity lol... But hey, at least you've demonstrated your affiliation and loyalty to your position within the matrix LOL

    The Matrix thanks you for your unswerving and unquestioning compliance

    blue eyed devil
    The Baptist Church was black folks foundation in America once upon a time. It was our governing body. It was one with the black community the pillar of our society. So we learned there was raised there was cared for there was defended there how soon do folks forget... or either have no clue..... most if not all of our civil rights leaders where ministers, hmmmmmm.... You can choose to be and do what you want but there are facts out there that may stop you Dead in your deeds and make you rethink your entire way of life. And so the intolerance among our culture stem from those teachings of the church and the close ties from generations of folk who came up through the church by way of struggle or religious belief. And like you said Ms Amber(btw thanks 4 taking down that avatar) they (the church) are still intolerant.
    And b.e Devil I'm still lost as to why you would even take some of the positions you have taken in these matters, duke it doesn't matter where you are from the reason we are having this very conversation about struggle is because of people who look (blued eyed devil like) as my theroy would have you. Those "certain visuals" can be attributed to people who looked like you (based on your signature "B.E.D") If I were to play Devil's advocate and lump all folks of color and the LGBT community together the only groups of folk not talking about rights and struggle tend to be......??? almost certain you don't need the clue.

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    I have no idea what the big deal about being famous, black, and being homophobic is. I love my black trannies. The bigger the dicks the better, too. You'd think dudes with money would give less of a fuck about what they like sexually, but I guess not.

    Besides, shemales are so hot these days it's a damn lie to say you can't find at least five a completely straight man wouldn't entertain the thought of banging. I love reading these "Random celeb caught with..." threads. Why is it bad to get caught? If I was famous and was sitting on decent money, had a bad bitch with a dick, I'd suck her off in public. Who cares? People need to live their lives, man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tsamberskyi View Post
    issue tied directly to obama.
    oh you think so? So I wonder why more and more states are supporting gay marriage legislation, or why "don't ask, don't tell" is no longer a policy in the military...cause no one cares right?
    I have yet to go to white suburbia and see people yelling "faggot" at obvious gay members but go to the hood tho.....
    You know the Baptist church is the only Christian denomination to not have any gay clergy...hmmmm
    Again, who is minimizing? I'm pretty sure I said it can't compare when it comes to atrocities...did you choose not to read?[/QUOTE]

    You're limited view on geography and society as a whole is jarring. In your own words white america = suburbia and black America = the hood. Geez and us, you really need to get out more boo boo. Theres a whole lot of america in between nyc and l.a.

    I don't know where you pulled your stat from (no black gay clergy baptist in the entire u.s.) but I will politely disagree.

    You don't have to lie or contort the truth in order to gain support. The truth stands on its own merit.

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    You know what, you're all right... you're all correct.... thus:

    Humans categorized as LGBT are JUST as likely to be attakkked by Christians/Buddists/Hindus/Sikhs/Agnostics/Atheists/Pagans/Satanists etc as they are by Islamists


    And that's not all...

    Humans categorized as LGBT in "racially mixed" areas are JUST as likely to be attakkked by people categorized as "white" as they are by people categorized as "black"


    And what is more:

    Where humans categorized as LGBT are occasionally attakkked by people categorized as "muslim" or "black" or "black muslim" it is not the fault of the attakkkers, but is actually DIRECTLY the fault of all people categorized as "white" because they are the ones who "taught" "non-white" people such nastiness.


    And finally:

    Any negativity/nastiness in this dimension known as Earth is the fault of "humans" categorized as "white" because they are the ones who transported such nastiness into this Utopia, which, prior to the invasion of such hairy, red-eared, pale-skinned hunchbacks, was of course a place of utter perfection and never-ending peace


    Got that?

    Everything kool now?

    Does that make everything straight and "just so"?

    Ahhhh, gooooood

    Now go back to sleep, diddummms, I'm sorry if I disturbed you... everyting just fine.... nothing to worry about... nothing to see... that's right, go back to sleep... sleeeeeeep

    Ahhh, sweet dreams babykins, my sweet little oppressed ones, sweet dreams

    blue eyed devil

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