Yall have been boring the hell out of me as of late

[TSSexyChanel]

I don't know if its the change of seasons or what. But if you intend to have girls be here interact and think of you as more than tricks or freaks you really are gonna have to up your game and give a lil more. There girls are here but mostly looking and lurcking cause many of them could be having these same convos with clients and getting paid for it.

Albeit we are sexual beings and this forum is attached to a porn site does that mean that that is all there is to you all. My god then the level of discussion even when talking about sex girls aren't always flattered cause you are lusting over them and want to fuck them, especially when a girl hears it 500+ times a day from men all over the world.

My best advice and I really mean this in the nicest way is to upgrade in 2009 or lower your standards cause you will get no luck with any tgirl with any amount of self respect or love for herself.

love you

Chanel

[Ms Remy M]

Yes lawd, let them know gal!!

This is a porn forum, so talk about what you like about these gals. Keep in mind some of our models do come here too, and when you speak to them some proper decorum should be used, if you want any chance of standing out in their eyes. Treating the models like nothing other than a sex object is liable to get you treated as nothing more than a 'trick'. Think of it like this, if you were talking to one of our models that you ran into at the mall would you say "Yo, I want to fuck right now" or would you put your 'game' face on and come with some smooth lines and finesse your way in?

On second thought, don't answer that LOL you pack of dogs you. j/k

[MrF]

Well, it is a porn forum, and then it's also Christmas -- so I guess a lot of guys are slowing down on the sexy stuff, focusing on family, and putting on their Santa Claus suit. Which is what I plan to do tonight. I believe in Santa !!

I already gave my two TG friends their little present and wished them well. Maybe I'm a "trick", by some people's estimate, but I want to be kind and thoughtful to the people in my life. (I can't say that I'm completely successful, though.)

FYI, there are some in-depth conversations over at www.tgirltalk.com, a site which Seanchai also owns. It might be just what the Boredom Doctor ordered.

[MrKnockOut]

no disrespect but if you dumb ass dudes think any girl worth her weight in MAC makeup will actually consider getting to know any dude on here personally, i have a mountain in florida i want to sell you.
the majority of the girls who participate on this board are about those coins, paper, deneiro, moolah, guap...
secondly, hardly anyone particpates on this board...i mean, some dude will post 3 partially nude photos of some girl and we'll get like 4 or 5 oooh's and ahhh's but that's about it. i'd like to see dudes start talking about their experiences with chicks, share knowledge (not distribute lies, etc.) and build...

[Ms Remy M]

Well, it is a porn forum, and then it's also Christmas -- so I guess a lot of guys are slowing down on the sexy stuff, focusing on family, and putting on their Santa Claus suit. Which is what I plan to do tonight. I believe in Santa !!

I already gave my two TG friends their little present and wished them well. Maybe I'm a "trick", by some people's estimate, but I want to be kind and thoughtful to the people in my life. (I can't say that I'm completely successful, though.)

FYI, there are some in-depth conversations over at www.tgirltalk.com, a site which Seanchai also owns. It might be just what the Boredom Doctor ordered.

Doesn't sound like your a 'trick' at all then. I was mainly referring to how guys in the past complain about the 'girls' only being after the money. Not knocking anyone at all. Tricking for a lot of guys has it's benefits, in the end your paying regardless, either str8 (sorry TvSurfer) up 'cash' or time, energy, and regular relationship 'gifts'. I don't knock a dude for wanting to skip the potential drama and get the nut off. What I'm really talking about is how we approach them. We all deserve the same level of respect regardless of the profession.

[MrKnockOut]

i dig what your saying. but where i'm from you have to give respect to get respect. most of these girls will look at these dudes as "trade", they don't see men they see cable bill, car note, rent, new shoes, hotel room, e pill, weed, etc. not saying this is true about all the girls who post on here, but i would bet my left pinky toe the majority saw it this way if they were honest.

[TGirls4Me]

I don't know if its the change of seasons or what. But if you intend to have girls be here interact and think of you as more than tricks or freaks you really are gonna have to up your game and give a lil more. There girls are here but mostly looking and lurcking cause many of them could be having these same convos with clients and getting paid for it.

Albeit we are sexual beings and this forum is attached to a porn site does that mean that that is all there is to you all. My god then the level of discussion even when talking about sex girls aren't always flattered cause you are lusting over them and want to fuck them, especially when a girl hears it 500+ times a day from men all over the world.

My best advice and I really mean this in the nicest way is to upgrade in 2009 or lower your standards cause you will get no luck with any tgirl with any amount of self respect or love for herself.

love you

Chanel

Please Chanel,

With you being the exception there has not been another girl willing, or respectful enough, to answer questions, give suggestions (such as yours above) or be honest about themselves in their interviews. Frankly the girls here portray exactly what it is we men fantasize about. And, I am willing to bet, that the only real interaction the majority of members have had with TGirls has been as "tricks" or "dates" (and we all know how that always turns out).

This is not the forum for meaningful social interaction between men whom love, adore and honestly appreciate TGirls nor the place for the girls to be lurking for them. If the girls are lurking here then it would be my educated guess that they (present company an exception as stated above) aren't looking for anyone other than the "trick" or "date".

There are forums for open and honest talk (my favorite being TGirlTalk) where the men and women can have open discussions about experiences and relationships yet even at those sites the overall interaction with TGirls is minimal because the girls do not participate. There are one or two or three regulars on the site and those are the only opinions or insights we get. Then there is the Trans forum on Craigs List where pretty much the only participants are a few people that claim to be TGirls but are such men haters you can't get an honest or respectful answer to honest and respectful questions.

I still believe that the problem lies in that many of the girls and guys are so jaded that the majority of girls see men as "dates" (or sugar daddies) and the men see the girls as "escorts" while secretly hoping they'll find one that won't charge them. And please don't think me naive. I have been in a nine year monogamous relationship with a Black TGirl that traveled and entered the Pageants across the States and I have seen the same behavior time and again. Suddenly finding myself single again (Sara was a victim of a hit and run driver -Please no sympathies as I only mention it as a reference) I truely have realized just how fortunate I was in finding a TGirl that honestly wanted a LTR, just, I'm sure, as it is difficult to find a man that's comfortable enough to be in an open and committed relationship with a TGirl.

I guess with all that said my dear Chanel, the point I'm trying to make is that this site is where many of us go to have a glimpse of our fantasies (which may or may not include a personal relationship deeper than just a sexual encounter). Those of us that want, and are ready, for this type of relationship know we need to look elsewhere. Please, give us some credit.

With respect, love and admiration Chanel, I wish you and yours, as well as all who read this, the best of times these holidays and a grand New Year.

Clinton.

[sticky]

no disrespect but if you dumb ass dudes think any girl worth her weight in MAC makeup will actually consider getting to know any dude on here personally, i have a mountain in florida i want to sell you.
the majority of the girls who participate on this board are about those coins, paper, deneiro, moolah, guap...
secondly, hardly anyone particpates on this board...i mean, some dude will post 3 partially nude photos of some girl and we'll get like 4 or 5 oooh's and ahhh's but that's about it. i'd like to see dudes start talking about their experiences with chicks, share knowledge (not distribute lies, etc.) and build...

^ exactly

[Ms Remy M]

i dig what your saying. but where i'm from you have to give respect to get respect. most of these girls will look at these dudes as "trade", they don't see men they see cable bill, car note, rent, new shoes, hotel room, e pill, weed, etc. not saying this is true about all the girls who post on here, but i would bet my left pinky toe the majority saw it this way if they were honest.

This is true, some of the models are just looking for the next dollar, I'm not going to knock the hussle as some guys are also just looking for the next nut. Just the manner in which we go about it is what matters. Like you said respect is due where it's given, but how many question have been asked of these models that weren't of the sexual variety? I know my gal sweet&seductive, isn't really into the escorting game and would like a real boyfriend. This itieration of the BTG Forum is new to most of the models and they are just starting to trickle in but hopefully they will start making a bigger presence known.

I'm not saying we shouldn't talk about all the earthly pleasures that brought us to this site in the first place, that's what it's for. That does not mean we shouldn't type in a grammatically correct manner or hold conversations of more substance.

[TSSexyChanel]

So many girls have gone thru being objectified to the point that many can't come out of hoe mode to have normal convos so I completely feel you. On the flip side so many men have been looked at and treated as walking ATM's for so long they cant come out of trick mode. When I chastize its really cause I think people don't realize the stuff they are doing. I have visted many forums on as a whole whats here is a whole lot better than whats available I have not visited that tgirl talk but Imma check it out. I myself had to learn to think before I act or speak. We go thru life so much just going thru the motions not really knowing why we are doing what we are doing. Change comes about not by complaining about it but doing something about it and the change should be personal first before looking outside oneself. Most people spend their life saying what others need to be doing instead of doing the personal work to enrich thier own life. No one here or anywhere else bothers me really cause my life in in tact so I can walk away from the stuff that don't matter like who thinks I am pretty or who wants to fuck me or if I get this award or that one. I only come here to share so much of myself with all you men so that you can get an understanding of the transexual mind and thinking. Maybe it can help you in your personal interactions. I guess I will be harder on you all cause I dont see the men here at lost causes as are most men in my eyes that troll the net.

The girls are no different I took think its tacky and puts the wrong message out when men comment to you or compliment you and you can't speak or give a fake ty, only to turn around you are on "tour" to come post about that. The person that I am I wouldnt be so willing to give my 200 plus dollars up I dont care how fine or hung she is to go see her if I can only get words from you when you need whats in my wallet. For far too long especially amoung black men and black transexuals there has been a riff and a level of disrespect that I think we need to heal and move past. Like many of the lying men that talk about what they want from me and how they gonna meet thinking I am one of those girls that live off of compliments or my chest gets puffed out cause you wanna fuck me. My esteem doesnt come from who wants to sleep with me I wake up with it. Alot of girls don't have that. Some of the most beautiful girls have the lowest self esteem and value for themselves. I don't care how much they scream Im beautiful they are trying to convince themselves of that more than anyone else. Beautiful people just are they don't have to announce it to the world. Constantly.

I am very long winded but in esence Yall aint the worst but yall can do better. Even in a strickly sexual situation or financial transaction you should want to be more than a trick. Girls should want to be more than a hoe. Man or transexual no one should give up so much of yourself no matter what you are doing that you cant look at yourself in the mirror behind it and feel ok with yourself. For the time no one here has offended me to the point of me leaving in fact the few that grated my nerves too much have actually left they weren't paying members anyway so who gives a fuck lol.