Quote Originally Posted by vidman View Post
J. Money, I'm still trying to figure out where the "chasing backpage ads" comes in at. I don't recall that being mentioned anywhere in the initial debate. I don't know, maybe people are throwing there own personal bad experiences into the discussion. Not saying that Unique was talking about me, but I don't chase backpage ads. All the girls I've ever met, I met them on websites like BGC. I normally find out that a girl is in the porn industry after I have either met them on BGC or when someone on this site divulges the info.

What I don't understand is why do the girls think that we maliciously intend to degrade or defile them? ME, personally, I love the girls. Why would I intentionally harm a group of people that I'm attracted to. Just like CosmicTraveler, I have fought and risked injury for the safety and dignity of a few transsexuals. If I had any ill will towards a transsexual, then I wouldn't attempt to befriend them on BGC and I wouldn't be trying to follow their careers and support them. It's kinda counter-intuitive, ya know? Hell, I might as well fuck her, then beat her ass AND THAT MAKES NOOOO SENSE!

I think that girls have been dealing with shady people all their lives and, for them, it's hard to trust people, including the people that admire them the most. I can absolutely understand that as well. True, some guys come in here with BS on their agenda, but we call those guys TROLLS and Remy and Seanchai do a pretty good job of getting them out of here PDQ (pretty damn quick). For the most part, the guys that have been on here for a considerable amount of time, truly admire the girls and have nothing but respect for them. Just because a guy has a strong opinon about certain aspects of the game doesn't mean he is a TROLL or trying to denengrade the girls. Indy is a perfect example of this. He has strong opinons of the game and how the game is played, but he adores and admires the participants i.e the girls.

I'm just sayin


because to them all dudes are the same = $$$

that's why all they talk about is money, bank accounts, clothes, blah blah blah

very few have any real substance. now think about the chicks who actually came through here and talk with people like they have common sense and SOME education...remy (doesn't even like dudes and gets mad respect around here), amber (even though she hasn't posted in a while, always kept it real, and could talk about things other than balls, drugs, and sex), the one sister that seems a bit older than the rest that champions transsexual causes (forgot her name) and the brooklyn chick who seems mad cool. All of them get love on here. Nobody's out to attack or downgrade ts. This site for the most part is a bunch of guys who like ts but aren't obsessed to the point that we have more crazy members than intelligent members (unlike hung angels or bgc).

unfortunately for those girls who are used to dealing with dudes from bgc and hung angels, they don't know how to act or respond to you guys because they are so used to dealing with assholes, tricks and chasers.