Why Are Men Allowed To Be So Disrespectful?

[werwt22]

I guess the guys that can deal with it, want a girl that other men want. Everyone wants a girl they can brag on. The"Trophy wife". But as usual you have to deal with all the men pursuing her and trying to get with her every corner she turns. My only issue comes in at they CAN get her every corner she turns for the right price. IDK, it kinda defeats the purpose to me. No point in having a beautiful woman everyone wants if they can have her also.

[vidman]

wow you got all that cause I won't fall in love with a girl actively working in the biz, maybe you fall in love cause you know in the end the distance, or whatever thing will ultimately come up and give you a out.
at least you can't say you didn't try..right

Can't keep a woman,.....I don't try to wifey a adult entertainer, I keep it in perspective that's all, I really don't want to see my girl having some dude pull his dick out her ass and busting a nut in her teeth, hey if's it's ok with you I'm not knocking it, but I bet the vast majority of the guys here feel the same as I do, I guess we all lack of self confidence, self esteem, because we aren't into it or maybe the fact that you don't mind may give a peek at your inability to have any respect for yourself. maybe it's what gets you off, hey good for you.

Whatever turns you on.

...or maybe it's your perception of transsexual women. You always refer to the transgirls in some sexually demoralizing way such ass, "a guy pulling his dick out of her ass and nuttin in her teeth..." Sorry fella, but when
I think of a woman like Katie, Logan, Natalia or Victoria Porshe, I don't see that automatic image in my head.

It seems to me that the self esteem/confidence issue is definitley your drama and you should deal with that the best way you can. If trying to get men to join your "let's bash a nasty, trampy, dick-sucking, cum-swallowing tranny," crusade is your answer then sorry buddy, I'm not interested.

As they say, "misery loves company"

[roninva]

...or maybe it's your perception of transsexual women. You always refer to the transgirls in some sexually demoralizing way such ass, "a guy pulling his dick out of her ass and nuttin in her teeth..." Sorry fella, but when
I think of a woman like Katie, Logan, Natalia or Victoria Porshe, I don't see that automatic image in my head.

It seems to me that the self esteem/confidence issue is definitley your drama and you should deal with that the best way you can. If trying to get men to join your "let's bash a nasty, trampy, dick-sucking, cum-swallowing tranny," crusade is your answer then sorry buddy, I'm not interested.

As they say, "misery loves company"

I'm talking about any woman any gender that does porn, you do watch the hardcore porn here and elsewhere correct, in the end there is always the pop shot the money shot, and in the mouth or face is usually where it is deposited, if you do a anal scene you usually still end up with a facial, that's part of the job if they are being paid to do that type of scene.
You need to open your eyes to the fact that if your dating a porn chick she most likely will end of doing one or both of those scene, that's if she really wants to make it as a porn chick and get work.

So it's not any type of self esteem issue it's a reality issue that you have to deal with, like I said I don't care if a porn girl who is my friend does that, but I am not interest in MY girl doing that, if it's in her past fine, but not interested in seeing her on a video flimed this week on some site as a weekly update showing the same scene as I described and dick sucking and cum swallowing, and a guy pulling his dick out her ass and dropping a load down her throat is part of it if she agreed and has been paid to do the scene. just another porn day
As I said if your cool with it and can stand to be at a shoot where your girl is required to do this, more power to you.
got nothing to do with bashing anyone, just a fact of porn life.
And no I don't think any lady that does porn is nasty or trampy at all, i'm totally cool with it, I just don't want MY GIRL to be doing it,

[vidman]

I'm talking about any woman any gender that does porn, you do watch the hardcore porn here and elsewhere correct, in the end there is always the pop shot the money shot, and in the mouth or face is usually where it is deposited, if you do a anal scene you usually still end up with a facial, that's part of the job if they are being paid to do that type of scene.
You need to open your eyes to the fact that if your dating a porn chick she most likely will end of doing one or both of those scene, that's if she really wants to make it as a porn chick and get work.

So it's not any type of self esteem issue it's a reality issue that you have to deal with, like I said I don't care if a porn girl who is my friend does that, but I am not interest in MY girl doing that, if it's in her past fine, but not interested in seeing her on a video flimed this week on some site as a weekly update showing the same scene as I described and dick sucking and cum swallowing, and a guy pulling his dick out her ass and dropping a load down her throat is part of it if she agreed and has been paid to do the scene. just another porn day
As I said if your cool with it and can stand to be at a shoot where your girl is required to do this, more power to you.
got nothing to do with bashing anyone, just a fact of porn life.
And no I don't think any lady that does porn is nasty or trampy at all, i'm totally cool with it, I just don't want MY GIRL to be doing it,

Well, I guess we will have to agree to disagree on this one. You have your views and I have mine. It's called individuality. I guess that's what makes all of us individually unique now isn't it.

[roninva]

Well, I guess we will have to agree to disagree on this one. You have your views and I have mine. It's called individuality. I guess that's what makes all of us individually unique now isn't it.

The only thing is that you're disagreeing with reality of being with a porn girl. to each his reach.

[TsVanessa69]

Well I Must say he is a good dude but he also realizes that life is real and everybody isnt meant to be a doctor or nurse. Im professeional i dont involve my work life with my personal life instead of him worrying of what i do his concern is my saftey and we Ride Or Die togther! I think another thing that helps is that he does not even press power on a pc he's not a computer guy at all thank god!

Can I tell you how lucky and blessed you are.
Truly shows that girls in the industry are worth being loved and cared for after the shoots are done, the computer shut off and you go home or go to bed.
Lucky you are!

[k.logan]

Can I tell you how lucky and blessed you are.
Truly shows that girls in the industry are worth being loved and cared for after the shoots are done, the computer shut off and you go home or go to bed.
Lucky you are!

Thank You and that's exactly how its suppose to be Vanessa its all cyber not reality. Thats what makes it possible will power, and me and him have the normal problems that every relationship have but i can admit my work is never one of them.

[anonymoussonny]

It's a forum, some people love to big up and "pay" the girls and some dudes just call it how they see it. I don't think it's a thing of disrespect or being "allowed to say whatever". I don't think it's a thing of being hateful or disrespectful, I do think it's a thing of truth. Some people like it, some people don't. It is what it is.

There's a topic labeled "why are black men so bad at...", should I be offended as a black man?
There's a topic labeled "the guys on this forum are dead...", should I be offended as a guy?
I could go on and on...
I'm not offended because those things don't apply to me.
If someone called me a ni&&er, should I feel hurt? Why? I don't choose to take ownership of that word...
If someone calls you a hoe, it will only hurt if you take ownership of that word. If you've been in a committed relationship with your guy for 4 years, more power to you, he's down with what you do and you guys are making it work.

Amen from the choir stand!

[vidman]

The only thing is that you're disagreeing with reality of being with a porn girl. to each his reach.

Man, don't try to tell me how I feel or what I disagree with. Just because I don't agree with you philosophy doesn't make me good, bad, stupid or crazy. Now, don't be a pompus ass. Just accept the fact that I have my feelings about the situation and you have yours. I can't stand people who try to tell me how I'm feeling or what I believe. You don't know me! If I say that I don't have a problem dating a girl in the industry, then damnit, that's what it is!

[H-townBTGHunter]

I have no problem dating someone in the industry. hell if I was comfortable in front of a camera I would be in the industry. With todays economy u gotta be a go getter and who am I to knock someones hustle. Enjoy your job and get that money. I could watch my girl on set bcuz I know she only wants me and at the end of the day we going home together. Logan your man is very lucky to have a beautiful smart person like u by his side and its great he is so understanding. I just hope I can find the same since u off the market. So ladies if u are looking for an attractive intelligent understanding guy. Holla at me