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04-21-2010, 11:45 AM #11
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Given: 0/0If I've learned one things its that in life there are all types. I certainly wouldn't lose sleep over someone who has such a mentality, to each their own, we all individually know who we are as individuals, what our qualities are and what our intentions are with others.
I'm a black guy that used to only like white girls primarily in college, but as I matured I grew out of that mentality and realized I wouldn't want someone to judge me on that criteria alone, when there is so much more to me as a person than skin color.
I look back on that period of time and wonder how I was so naive and narrow minded. It wasn't just about preference but an ignorant stereotyping of black women, something I had to overcome in my mentality. There are plenty of successful, beautiful, well mannered African American women in this world.
The old adage of Dr. King still stands true. Judge me not on the color of my skin, but the content of my character.
No better words can be applied to such a mentality as I once had and that this individual still possesses.
If someone operated in this mentality in dealing with me as a black guy,
they wouldn't know I speak 3 languages (French, German, Italian) oh and by the way I'm learning Portuguese.
They wouldn't know i'm an extremely romantic individual who can appreciate a good sunset on the beach.
They wouldn't know I primarily listen to lounge/chill-out electronic music, stuff like Buddha Bar, Siddharta, Anjunadeep, Global Underground, look it up if you don't know what they are folks.
They wouldn't know I possess a deep, passionate interest in other cultures and graduated with a degree in History
But all of that is neither here nor there. With such a mentality they would just assume I'm a young black male looking to jack them for a couple of nickels.
That is the part that rubs me the wrong way, people can know absolutely nothing about you as an individual and what your values are but yet they can have these terrible assumptions about the kind of person you are because of your skin color.
I'm the furthest thing from some thug looking to jack someone, but to each their own is my motto in this varied world we live in.
Strictly About The "Femme Queen Realness" in Black and Latina TG Ladies
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04-21-2010, 12:38 PM #12
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04-23-2010, 06:52 AM #13
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04-23-2010, 01:21 PM #14
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Given: 0/0Thats Her Loss!Next Post Please
"Down to earth and very open minded and with a great sense of humor. Absolutely fullfilling and not rushed, your comfort and satisfaction is always my top priority"Very contradictory,but never the less her choice,I had this latin Tg tell me, she was"Amazed that I was well groomed,and even after we got in in hard, and heavy,to the point where we were both sweaty that my underarms,and balls didn't stink, cause she heard that black men aren't clean"I'm to the point where I'm done dealing with black TG escorts because "in my experience and opinion"they give they provide the worst service,false promises in their ads,and have the worst attitudes outta of any other race of TG's.I can appreciate their beauty on this site,and others but,won't spend another nickle on them.
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04-30-2010, 03:01 AM #15
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Given: 0/0You speak the truth, but these chicks are just dumb. Discriminating only by color of skin is just asinine if you are worried about your safety. 80% of serial killers in America are white men. I'm not saying every white guy is suspect, I'm saying every black guy isnt.
I would have told her I wouldn't lay a finger on her unless she showed up with some orange chicken, shrimp fried rice and extra soy sauce. She should have thick skin saying those things to others.
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