relationships

[junintoiro]

What are the chances of finding a T-girl to have relationship with???

[TSSexyChanel]

Honestly slim to none if she knows about your online activities. Many of us are very cautious about the real desire of men wanting to be in a "serious relationship". Stranger things have happened but remember honesty is key we all know each other and we all talk.

I have posted ten tips for dating transexuals from a girls point of view on my blog and please don't use my tips to be a professional liar. Many men have asked me for advice and I posted that info to help those serious about finding that special girl for life.

http://tssexychanel.thumblogger.com

[bxboy1984]

slim, but not too much worse than finding anyone.

Heed Chanel and any other woman's advice you value.

[ROC]

take A Chance, You'll Never Know What God Has Planned In Your Life..... If It Was Meant To Be, You'll Find That Special Woman... One Thing For Sure, She's Not Gonna Fall In Your Lap, Unless Of Course You're Getting A Lap-dance.......lol........

[TSSexyChanel]

take A Chance, You'll Never Know What God Has Planned In Your Life..... If It Was Meant To Be, You'll Find That Special Woman... One Thing For Sure, She's Not Gonna Fall In Your Lap, Unless Of Course You're Getting A Lap-dance.......lol........

You are too fuggin hilarious for words. Goddess got a chuckle out of that one.

[DYNACORD]

It can be done. I have the best girl friend in the world and she's a TS.
You have to go meet them though. It's a small community no matter what city you live in.
Chanel has good normal dating tips and common sence advice on her blog.
You have to treat the girls as people and as women. If you can manage that and be yourself, you can talk to a girl, and if she likes you, then you've made a first step. They want somebody in their lives too. Try it!!!

[MrF]

It would potentially be cool to meet an "ordinary" TGirl, like a student or a person with a regular job. Unfortunately TGirls are actually quite rare, and the "ordinary" ones generally don't advertise their status, so there's only a small random chance of finding them. Now someone will say there are all sorts of online sources like adultfriendfinders.com, so maybe I'm wrong and those work. When it comes to love and friendship, I've always felt the "friend of a friend" social network is the best route, not online dating sites.

From things I've read in my suspicious online activities I believe the "ordinary" TGirls usually mistrust that you would want to seek them out; they would rather (in probably most cases) want you to assume initially that they are a woman and then continue to assume that after you have discovered their TG status. So they prefer a chance discovery and acceptance by a random straight guy, an enlightened Prince Charming.

Then there are the TGirls who are easy to find -- the one's who advertise. In my experience it's not easy to be serious with them. Of course, being no saint myself I would not judge them lest they judge me.

[DirtySouth]

Honestly slim to none if she knows about your online activities. Many of us are very cautious about the real desire of men wanting to be in a "serious relationship". Stranger things have happened but remember honesty is key we all know each other and we will figure out what game youre up to.

I have posted ten tips for dating transexuals from a girls point of view on my blog and please don't use my tips to be a professional liar. Many men have asked me for advice and I posted that info to help those serious about finding that special girl for life.

http://tssexychanel.thumblogger.com

Thank you Chanel, I respect your responce.

Now its my turn. I will edit Chanel's lovely words to echo what I've come to know from guys like myself who would like to test the waters of seriously dating a tgirl:

Honestly slim to none if she is online escorting or having web cam shows daily or constantly in search of a sugar daddy. Many of us are very cautious about the real desire of transsexuals wanting to be in a "serious relationship". Stranger things have happened but remember honesty is key they all know each other and will lie on you regardless.


Here is my 1 Step Guide to Dating Tgirls:

1. If she is an escort, don't do it.

LoL...Just a little humor there, sorry if anyone gets offended but this is a forum. We have been down this road many a time my fellow members. These girls are amazing and we all think that - thats why we are here. Lets not for one second act as if the girls are noble and we are not. Its funny how every girl knows you if you sleep with one of them, but yet if we throw a girls picture up, half of us on the forum have slept with her. Lets also not act like us guys are noble and treated every girl fairly, whether she deserved it or not. I dont see how a working man should have to "prove" himself to a tgirl who sees other men for cash all day. On the other hand, if youre married or know you dont want to be with a TS outside of sex - dont sell these girls a dream! EVERYONE has to be honest.

Bottom line - It can be done. You also could make the U.S. Olympic team for the 2012 games. Is it going to happen? Probably not. Do what you feel is right and live your own life. Dating a tgirl might be in the cards for you. You will never know until you try. But always remember, SHE has to prove to you just as much as you have to prove to her. Hold her accountable for her actions.

[blktgirluveronly]

Amen...Brotha...Sounds like you've visited the pulpit before...LMAO

[Ms Remy M]

Good advice all around TSSexyChanel and DirtySouth.

There are lots of great tg's out there looking for Mr. Right, just as you members are looking for Ms. Right. Try and see how it goes, and treat these ladies just as you would any other girl you were trying to pursue a relationship with. I do agree, that if you are going to use an online resource to find a tg for a relationship, AFF may be worth a gander. Bumping into one through regular social channels like at the Mall, Super Market, etc. may lead to a more authentic experince and not a 'dating/tricking' situation. Remember that online social networking sites, tend to lend the impression that you are 'trollling' for tg's and may not be taken seriously from the jump.