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07-11-2011, 09:21 PM #11
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07-11-2011, 09:50 PM #12
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07-12-2011, 02:14 AM #13
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Given: 0/0Okay im gone give you the realest answer ever. Were not okay with going out in public with most GGs either if were well known, so why when you assume that lifestyle would you think your any different?. This is shit women deal with 24/7 and you just got added to the pot for whatever reason. Me being seen with you hurts my chances of getting with her. "Diary of a Pimp named Slickback" coming soon LOL J/K. Sad part is this statement is so true. Im not saying the TS part isnt a huge factor, but even w/o it you stand a huge chance of getting played just for the ass that i could possibly get in the future. Somebody gotta know what im sayin
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07-12-2011, 02:37 AM #14
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Given: 0/0U proved an overall point to why ts & women turn to escorting. its smarter to play then game then get played. This seems like 2 Can Play that Game. its sad but thats how things really are. & as far as the lifestyle, If u(general use of u) choose to talk to ts women, honestly she has no obligation not to shout it in the world that u mess with her. So games call for more games?
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<3 xoxo.. TsBrooklynMattel <3
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07-12-2011, 03:28 AM #15
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Given: 1/0Unfortunately, there is a social stigma associated with transexuality which makes it, to many people, either morally wrong or mentally aberrant. It seems to me this attitude will gradually die away as issues like gay marriage and tolerance towards GLBT become the norm. When the younger generations replace the older ones. Unfortunately, you might be middle-aged by the time this sea change in attitude occurs.
Actually, it's a fascinating question (to me) that I've asked myself for years: why is transexuality "normal" and "ok" ? Or for that matter homosexuality ? I could launch into one of my "scientific" explanations but I don't feel like it right now and besides I doubt anyone wants to read it. Suffice it to say I've concluded that it is perfectly normal, but my thinking is always out of synch with most people. You just have to find someone who thinks differently and is strong-minded enough to not care what others think once they've made up their mind. But not pig-headed, of course; based on strong reasoning. BTW, I'm not saying I'm morally perfect but after learning what I have, I would be capable of an open relationship with a TG.
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07-12-2011, 03:47 AM #16
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07-12-2011, 04:18 AM #17
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Given: 2/0Because they are not truly 100% into the girls. They think they are. They aren't the right fellows for you or Amber. You have to love the whole package of a TS girl. Even the controversy.
But::it does seem to be dependent on the passability of the girl as far as meeting the family and friends. Men prefer a pretty girl to take home to MOM. All men like to be seen with pretty women. It's the damn truth. Doesn't matter if it's a TS or a GG. There is a model coming on here soon whom I introduced to my friends and my son's this past year. Never a doubt. And there shouldn't be one for multiple reasons.
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07-12-2011, 11:53 AM #18
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Given: 0/0It's hard because, not everybody is accepting of it. I hear a lot of people say if they were really your friends then they would accept it. It's not always true, is it worth the risk to loose your family, and your friends over it. When you don't know if the relationship will actually last. It's a huge risk, because your friends will think you are gay, should the relationship not work out, will be hard to date gg. It's just a huge gamble. Homosexuality is not accepted by everyone, even though, it's a transexual woman, it's still viewed as homosexuality. That's why a lot of guys, who like it, will do it on the d.l. to avoid the consequences of family and friends finding out.
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07-12-2011, 12:13 PM #19
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Given: 1/0I think the last 2 posts by dieselb and dynacord really captured it. Men are under a lot of social pressure. That doesn't mean it's right to mistreat a TG, though. Morally, it would be better to leave her alone and find a GG. But at a minimum it would be best to be honest about your feelings, admitting your fears and thoughts about being open.
Now, if the TG is pretty and passable (which go together in my opinion), it makes it much easier to be seen on a date in public or introduce her to family and friends as an acquiaintance. And if the relationship becomes deeper, the guy should be willing to be open about her status, assuming that's what she wants. BTW, a lot of gay couples find it difficult to come out (I'm talking about man/man or woman/woman), experiencing a similar social pressure to man/TG.
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07-12-2011, 01:08 PM #20
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Given: 14/0Great point Guys..you really hit home.
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