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01-27-2011, 02:22 PM #11
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Given: 3/0In part, perhaps. I think that the process of transition-ing, plays a bigger part in why trans turn to escorting. The quick cash, to help fund wardrobe, make-up, meds, and surgeries and/or sil is very attractive, being quicker and more lucrative than the typical bi-weekly payout from a 9-5. However; I do again concede that men fantasying and only wanting trans for sex does play a role too.
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01-27-2011, 07:30 PM #12
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Given: 0/0I guess you're right. I'm the sorta girl that likes to date a guy who's just COMFORTABLE with himself more than anything else.lol. I mean, this type of guy who i'd call a tranny chaser, wouldn't really be able to see me as a dateable girl, but a young black chick with a big dick. lol.
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01-28-2011, 09:32 PM #13
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Given: 0/0On another topic, I'll start with this, I'm not an outgoing guy, so meeting people in general is difficult. Thus meeting a transgirl is even harder outside of the internet... now sure that works for some people, but... I look really creepy in all my pictures... So... I guess what I'm saying here is... help?
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01-28-2011, 11:14 PM #14
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Given: 1/0Not sure I can help, CosmicTravler. You seem like a sincere guy, which is a step in the right direction. In my (limited) experience, the best way to find a GF is the friend-of-a-friend network, the idea being that if you know lots of friends, and if you're a nice guy, someone eventually hooks you up. It works pretty well for GGirls but it never worked for me with TGirls. For them I suspect it might work better if one has gay friends, which I almost never had, not because I avoid them but just by circumstance.
Some guys here subscribe to BGC and other online dating sites. It's not my thing, I'd rather try my luck in a bar face-to-face. But I haven't done that for awhile because I have enough people in my life at the moment.
As for the original question, a "tranny chaser" is a guy who goes from one TGirl to another, perhaps in some cases misleading them or taking advantage of their vulnerabilities. I've heard complaints about them from the few TG I've gotten to know, and the HA forum is full of complaints about this phenomenon.
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01-28-2011, 11:44 PM #15
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Given: 32/1I so hate the term.
If there were no so-called tranny chasers, 90% of these T-Girls would be broke. Usually, the ones that often say they don't want a chaser are the easiest and cheapest ones to run through or I see their ads on eros and backpage giving "specials."
How can you expect a guy to seriously court you and NOT want to fuck when you are an escort?
I respect the hustle and the ladies in the sex trade (nude pics, flicks, and escorting), but don't be selling your services if you are criticizing guys that want to have sex. IT MAKES NO SENSE.
It just seems hypocritical to me.
For the regular T-Girls that aren't selling themselves for money and hate chasers, I understand where you are coming from.
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01-29-2011, 01:24 AM #16
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Given: 1/0^ I agree it's confusing. What some of them say is that getting compensated monetarily is only fair since they don't get compensated with respect or with emotional commitment. This is not my idea; it's what I've read and heard. The usual push-back against this idea is that this is a rationalization for their behaviour. Maybe. I don't really know. But I think there's often a serious problem with their perceived value as women to those type of men. A little understanding can potentially go a long way .... depending on what you want.
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01-29-2011, 01:35 AM #17
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Given: 0/0I've heard that kind of rationalization from a self-proclaimed gold digger. I don't know how much gold a high school girl can dig for but... that's what she was saying. Also, thanks for your tips MrF. As for having a hook-up Cane has actually been pretty helpful. I think the biggest problem is the fact that I never know what to say.
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01-29-2011, 05:13 AM #18
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Given: 0/0Zzzzzzzz...
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01-29-2011, 06:07 AM #19
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01-29-2011, 05:28 PM #20
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