relationships

[kilakali]

Pimping is not always a forced game pimps play on the mind of the weak and needy and sad but true there are many transexual pimps they are called "boyfriends" the name is different but the games the same if we living off what I make lying on my back you are not my man you are a pimp. I know many girls in this situation and it hurts my heart for them to think its love when I see it as someone going for a free ride.

Pimps transexual or female dont provide security even girls with pimps work in groups for protection. Pimps sole purpose is to spend a girl cash and make her think she got something when she has nothing. Pimps are to girls and trannies what clients are to the escorts sponsors but at least a client knows what it is and what he is getting. Girls with pimps find they get nothing in the end its a one sided relationship and you always on the loosing end.

Well stated I was going to mention the same thing in regard to "boyfriends" or "daddys".

[Corporate_Thug]

thats Actually Truth Escorting And Serious Relationships Will Be Wrought With Drama. It's Often Very One Sided And Unfair. If A Girl Is Escorting And You Happen To Click I Think That A Plan To Make New Arrangements Should Be Made. It Is Too Many Dynamics In Relationships To Be Having To Be Worried About A Partner Sleeping With Someone Else.

I Know I Will Be Kicked Out Of The Transexual Union But Here Goes, Even A Sexual Situation Based Solely On Financial Gain Is Unfair If You Claim To Love A Man And Want To Be With Him. The Times That I Have Been In Long Term Relationships Or Dating With The Possibility Of Being In One I Have Always Stopped Active Escorting. Mainly Because I Would Not Be So Understanding If My Man Was Being Paid To Have Sex With Another Even If He Was Getting Paid And Bringing Me All The Money, Feelings Would Come Up In Me. I Always Believe In Fair Is Fair. Lots Of My Sisters Won't Admit It To You But The Estrogen Makes Us Very Selfish. Lol. We Only Want To See It Our Way.

I Had To Work Extra Hard On My Relationships And I Wasnt Even Having Sex With Anyone Just Doing Webcam Shows, Phone Sex Or My Site With Solo Action Only And It Still Would Be A Daily Work To Reassure My Man Especially When He Would Read All The Stuff Men Say About Me And The Stuff They Wanted To Do To Me.

I Am Honest If Nothing Else And You Guys Asked For It So Let Me Know If You Ever Can't Handle The Truth Cause When Asked I Will Tell. The Truth Stings For But A Moment But A Lie Can Wound For Life.

RELATIONSHIPS ARE BUILT ON TRUST WHERE IS THE TRUST WHERE THERE IS NO SACRIFICE

I don't think there is anything wrong with escorting, and if a man wants to have a serious relationship with an escort, then he should understand that what she does in her professional life has nothing to do with her feelings for her man in her personal life. Unless a man is secure within himself, he should not consider dating an escort. Besides, lack of self confidence is very anti seductive. Why would a woman want to be with a man who is not confident within himself?

[DirtySouth]

I don't think there is anything wrong with escorting, and if a man wants to have a serious relationship with an escort, then he should understand that what she does in her professional life has nothing to do with her feelings for her man in her personal life. Unless a man is secure within himself, he should not consider dating an escort. Besides, lack of self confidence is very anti seductive. Why would a woman want to be with a man who is not confident within himself?

True, but confidence doesn't help when that STD test comes back with some bad news. Its already bad enough that most of us are very promiscuous anyway....adding onto that with TS escort (even GG too) who has sex for money...2-3 times a day for years straight is really uping the ante. Let alone unprotected sex which is most likely to occur in a serious relationship.

I think that if a serious relationship is on the table, she just needs to stop escorting. We can talk about theories all day...show me someone who has been in lasting, healthy, consistent relationship for YEARS where the tgirl is escorting. I'll co-sign then.

[ROC]

I RETRIEVED THIS POST FROM CHANELS BLOG AND I FEEL IT'S WORTH RE-POSTING UP IN HERE....... HOPE YOU DON'T MIND CHANEL.......


For you guys who haven’t dated or been in the company of a transwoman (ladyboy, shemale..etc.) here a a few tips. This is for actual dates where you meet for dinner or drinks or coffee and money is not exchanged for the company.

1) DO: Use correct pronouns. SHE is not a “He” no matter what the doctors said at birth.

2) DON’T: Tell her she looks like a woman. Compliment her on how she looks (if you feel like it), but for goodness sake don’t act surprised. That tells her you expected a “man in a dress”.

3) DO: Be punctual, or communicate if you wil be running late. It’s polite and lots of TGs get stood up. Being really late with no explanation or warning tells anyone that they aren’t really important.

4) DON’T: Ask her what her “Real” name or “boy” name is. This probably brings up an unpleasant time in her life and it is often used by people to keep us in our place as “not really women” or “failed men”.

5) DON’T ask to see a picture of when she looked like a guy. Same as above but way way more. If you ever do see a picture of her from this time, understand that she is showing you herself when she was probably feeling her worst.

6) DO: Try to impress her. You don’t have to treat her like a princess, but you should use your best dating manners (ask what she likes to do, pay attention to her, smile alot).

7) DON’T: Treat her like your buddy. It’s like above, but more. Don’t leave her alone while you chat up another girl. She won’t take that as well as your guy friends would. Walk her to her door, even if you aren’t getting sex.

DO: Understand that she is an individual and has her own likes and dislikes. It will help your cause if you don’t assume too much about her.

9) DON’T: Ask about her genitalia or transgender history in public, or at least do it quietly. Most of us try to live unobserved in our daily lives. Broadcasting that your date has or had a penis is simply not safe for either of you.

10) DO: Have fun! Take her to a place you are both comfortable, get to know eachother, laugh and makes jokes, be relaxed and be prepared to have a great night with a woman who will notice and appreciate every little kindness and polite gesture you make.

[TSSexyChanel]

I Retrieved This Post From Chanels Blog And I Feel It's Worth Re-posting Up In Here....... Hope You Don't Mind Chanel.......


for You Guys Who Haven’t Dated Or Been In The Company Of A Transwoman (ladyboy, Shemale..etc.) Here A A Few Tips. This Is For Actual Dates Where You Meet For Dinner Or Drinks Or Coffee And Money Is Not Exchanged For The Company.

1) Do: Use Correct Pronouns. She Is Not A “he” No Matter What The Doctors Said At Birth.

2) Don’t: Tell Her She Looks Like A Woman. Compliment Her On How She Looks (if You Feel Like It), But For Goodness Sake Don’t Act Surprised. That Tells Her You Expected A “man In A Dress”.

3) Do: Be Punctual, Or Communicate If You Wil Be Running Late. It’s Polite And Lots Of Tgs Get Stood Up. Being Really Late With No Explanation Or Warning Tells Anyone That They Aren’t Really Important.

4) Don’t: Ask Her What Her “real” Name Or “boy” Name Is. This Probably Brings Up An Unpleasant Time In Her Life And It Is Often Used By People To Keep Us In Our Place As “not Really Women” Or “failed Men”.

5) Don’t Ask To See A Picture Of When She Looked Like A Guy. Same As Above But Way Way More. If You Ever Do See A Picture Of Her From This Time, Understand That She Is Showing You Herself When She Was Probably Feeling Her Worst.

6) Do: Try To Impress Her. You Don’t Have To Treat Her Like A Princess, But You Should Use Your Best Dating Manners (ask What She Likes To Do, Pay Attention To Her, Smile Alot).

7) Don’t: Treat Her Like Your Buddy. It’s Like Above, But More. Don’t Leave Her Alone While You Chat Up Another Girl. She Won’t Take That As Well As Your Guy Friends Would. Walk Her To Her Door, Even If You Aren’t Getting Sex.

Do: Understand That She Is An Individual And Has Her Own Likes And Dislikes. It Will Help Your Cause If You Don’t Assume Too Much About Her.

9) Don’t: Ask About Her Genitalia Or Transgender History In Public, Or At Least Do It Quietly. Most Of Us Try To Live Unobserved In Our Daily Lives. Broadcasting That Your Date Has Or Had A Penis Is Simply Not Safe For Either Of You.

10) Do: Have Fun! Take Her To A Place You Are Both Comfortable, Get To Know Eachother, Laugh And Makes Jokes, Be Relaxed And Be Prepared To Have A Great Night With A Woman Who Will Notice And Appreciate Every Little Kindness And Polite Gesture You Make.

Lol You Are Fast Becoming An Authority On All Things Chanel I Love It Anything I Post On The Net Is Free Fodder For The Most Part Maybe It Can Help Someone.

[BigJoeKrash]

Well i have had a few LTR with T-girls. It just didnt stay the same. I mean the last one got really lazy and messy.


But to answer your question yes there is a chance

[TSSexyChanel]

Well i have had a few LTR with T-girls. It just didnt stay the same. I mean the last one got really lazy and messy.


But to answer your question yes there is a chance

That sucks and not the way that can make one cum. LOL

[junintoiro]

There are many transgendered women looking for a serious relationship, and there are non porn websites where you can meet them. There are also organizations in many cities where you can meet transgendered women as well. I think that finding a transgendered woman to have a relationship may be more difficult than with a genetic woman, but it is not impossible.

Know of any in ATL???

[anonymoussonny]

I am thoroughly impressed with the intelligence, insight and frank nature of the conversations here. Thank you all for sharing your observations; I have been a lurker in these types of conversations for some time. I hold out hope that I will one day meet a lady and we can accept each others situations.

Pauses... thinks about sharing all my anguish... shakes head slowly...

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[Skye]

it's very possible once you get away from the generalizations and negativity. Many girls crave the comfort and affection of a stable ltr. We're leary of entering these things, because of our experiences... just like some of u guys are jaded, so are we. there are men out here that sound completely the same and for the one that you think is different and give a chance, a "relationship" equals free sex, no more.

DS come on, you know you can't compare a ts escort and a gg escort. a gg can walk anywhere no matter how ugly she is and get a job. a gg escort is often times too lazy to utilize the many resources available to her. A ts escort makes it in a world that makes it difficult to survive. we all know the story so I don't need to break it down. don't get it twisted, there are some messy twisted tgirls out here, but not all of us.

As far as the escorting game goes, transitioning is expensive. Most of you work and do you have the disposable income to dedicate to plastic surgery, hormones, laser/electrolysis, etc? Most working folk make enough to get by and little more. Just because a girl escorts, that doesn't make her who she is. There are many girls who work a job and escort as a side hustle to cover expenses. Its just a way to work the system. Guys want you but want you as their little secret. They want to fuck and not have to deal with the humanity of the girl. The escort game is learned for most girls. When u get sick of being fucked either literally or in life.... the least u can do is get paid for it. That doesn't make a girl a bad person, but human nature makes us evolve and adapt to our situations. Just like the average straight guy doesn't have a clue where to meet a tgirl, so he patrols the stroll. He's a john because he knows what he wants and where to go to get it, not because he's a womanizer or a john in nature.

Long story short, its very possible but an abnormal amount of patience and dedication is required. Don't expect a working girl to believe when u say u want to build a relationship. Also, remember, as much as you want her, why would she want you? Make yourself marketable. And just because a girl looks good and doesn't make her gf material. Some of the most beautiful girls are the ugliest people once you get into them. If ur 50, why would a twenty something girl want you for anything more than a sugar daddy in most cases. If she's younger than your children, you can't possibly expect something real to grow.