Been gone two months and u dudes still dickriding...

[MrKnockOut]

these broads. SMH...I mean it's OK to be Ronnie Romance when you're in a relationship from time to time but all the hand holding and objectification of broads you've never met or have only seen online in nude oriented chat rooms is kind of whack to me. Maybe it's a cultural thing, IDK...95% of these shorties could give a fuck about if you live or die so long as you caking them with that bread...so many suckers being born every minute we're gonna need a millennium watch

[SEXYTSJESSDOTCOM]

these broads. SMH...I mean it's OK to be Ronnie Romance when you're in a relationship from time to time but all the hand holding and objectification of broads you've never met or have only seen online in nude oriented chat rooms is kind of whack to me. Maybe it's a cultural thing, IDK...95% of these shorties could give a fuck about if you live or die so long as you caking them with that bread...so many suckers being born every minute we're gonna need a millennium watch

ALLL of that there can APPLY to FEMALES AS WELL! Aint nuffin Wrong with Wanting a STABLE Self Secure Mature GROWN and sexy man. BUT that Whole Sentence is never put together with one man... lol

[MrKnockOut]

ALLL of that there can APPLY to FEMALES AS WELL! Aint nuffin Wrong with Wanting a STABLE Self Secure Mature GROWN and sexy man. BUT that Whole Sentence is never put together with one man... lol

No, but the problem is wanting perfection, which MOST TS seem to want. You can have a stable and secure man, but he might not be as attractive/skinny/rich as you'd like him to be. You can have a thugged out big dick man, but he might not be as affluent/educated/sincere as you'd like him to be. Etc...Etc...I think when TS finally grow up (i'm sorry but a lot of yall seem to care way too much about what ya friends think) and start doing you, the game would change...

You know how many times i've seen posted on a TS page where they be like NO FATS, NO FEMS...but then they turn around and be dating DOMS (who are 9 out of 10 FAT FEMALES that look like dudes)...I mean really, WTF?

lol

[GroobySteven]

these broads. SMH...I mean it's OK to be Ronnie Romance when you're in a relationship from time to time but all the hand holding and objectification of broads you've never met or have only seen online in nude oriented chat rooms is kind of whack to me. Maybe it's a cultural thing, IDK...95% of these shorties could give a fuck about if you live or die so long as you caking them with that bread...so many suckers being born every minute we're gonna need a millennium watch

Maybe you should step out for another few months until you come back with a better attitude as you seemed determined just to piss on people with your recent posts? Speaks volumes about yourself.

[Ms Remy M]

I think when TS finally grow up (i'm sorry but a lot of yall seem to care way too much about what ya friends think) and start doing you, the game would change...

I do agree, but it does seem as though some guys are equally unable to "grow up" and stop caring about what their friends may think. Despite the fact that the so called "friends" are obviously not much of a friend if they are unable to accept who you are. Heck, most guys sit around worried about what complete strangers think. Too many people are online delivering verbal bashings and judgements against others, when they themselves can't handle being out and open about liking tgirls in the real world. It's great guys like tgirls and watching the porn, but it would be far more awesome to treat tgirls as real people and not a secret to hide on the computer, or in clandestine hotel engagements. On the flip side, many girls need to stop seeing guys as nothing more than ATM's.

[SEXYTSJESSDOTCOM]

I do agree, but it does seem as though some guys are equally unable to "grow up" and stop caring about what their friends may think. Despite the fact that the so called "friends" are obviously not much of a friend if they are unable to accept who you are. Heck, most guys sit around worried about what complete strangers think. Too many people are online delivering verbal bashings and judgements against others, when they themselves can't handle being out and open about liking tgirls in the real world. It's great guys like tgirls and watching the porn, but it would be far more awesome to treat tgirls as real people and not a secret to hide on the computer, or in clandestine hotel engagements. On the flip side, many girls need to stop seeing guys as nothing more than ATM's.

LOVES IT!!! Great Point. But what i want to know is... SO because I dnt want MR RIGHT for me means i have to "grow up" and SETTLE for what??? Come the he11 on now. Ur crazy. With Remys Thoughts he nailed the spot. Not to mention. Most men in this Lifestyle Behind a SCREENAME or what may have u ... Want these Gorgeous Bombshell Beauties. BUTTTTTT the Beauty can WANT THE SAME?? come on b 4 real.

[Ms Remy M]

LOVES IT!!! Great Point. But what i want to know is... SO because I dnt want MR RIGHT for me means i have to "grow up" and SETTLE for what??? Come the he11 on now. Ur crazy. With Remys Thoughts he nailed the spot. Not to mention. Most men in this Lifestyle Behind a SCREENAME or what may have u ... Want these Gorgeous Bombshell Beauties. BUTTTTTT the Beauty can WANT THE SAME?? come on b 4 real.

It's the chicken/egg situation really. There needs to be changes on both sides, and while that's not realistically going to happen in gross amounts over night, each one of us can do our part to make this life more accepting of each other. Lead by example, don't hide.

[MrKnockOut]

Maybe you should step out for another few months until you come back with a better attitude as you seemed determined just to piss on people with your recent posts? Speaks volumes about yourself.

If that's what u want my man, cool. Good discussion boards usually allow for varied discussion and opinions, I see that you just want cats to agree with and praise everything you do...haven't been disrespectful or venemous but it is what it is homie, its your ship

[MrKnockOut]

I do agree, but it does seem as though some guys are equally unable to "grow up" and stop caring about what their friends may think. Despite the fact that the so called "friends" are obviously not much of a friend if they are unable to accept who you are. Heck, most guys sit around worried about what complete strangers think. Too many people are online delivering verbal bashings and judgements against others, when they themselves can't handle being out and open about liking tgirls in the real world. It's great guys like tgirls and watching the porn, but it would be far more awesome to treat tgirls as real people and not a secret to hide on the computer, or in clandestine hotel engagements. On the flip side, many girls need to stop seeing guys as nothing more than ATM's.

Or maybe its because dudes don't wanna be seen wifing a known hoe, female or ts? I think we over think things too much...

[GroobySteven]

If that's what u want my man, cool. Good discussion boards usually allow for varied discussion and opinions, I see that you just want cats to agree with and praise everything you do...haven't been disrespectful or venemous but it is what it is homie, its your ship

Just want a bit respect without this board turning into cat calling and negativism.
Is that too much to ask?

[MrKnockOut]

Its all good my man...im not that kind of dude. Im as chill as they come, Remy knows me in real life, I just have a habbit for speaking my mind...I will be easy

[SEXYTSJESSDOTCOM]

Or maybe its because dudes don't wanna be seen wifing a known hoe, female or ts? I think we over think things too much...

DUDES'S ...... Speak for urself. Known...So its okay if the Hoe wasn't known though? lol ur funny.

[MrKnockOut]

DUDES'S ...... Speak for urself. Known...So its okay if the Hoe wasn't known though? lol ur funny.

Come on ma, lets be serious...like how many dudes/men you know are openly dating jumpoffs/hoes/etc? That's what we call captain save a hoes...I mean, my girl could have been a freak in high school or college (many men have married women who were jumpoffs) but if I don't know, I don't know...would you openly date a dude that all your ts girlfriends fucked or knew fucked mad other trannies? Keep it 100 ma...I call it how I see it

[SEXYTSJESSDOTCOM]

come On Ma, Lets Be Serious...like How Many Dudes/men You Know Are Openly Dating Jumpoffs/hoes/etc? That's What We Call Captain Save A Hoes...i Mean, My Girl Could Have Been A Freak In High School Or College (many Men Have Married Women Who Were Jumpoffs) But If I Don't Know, I Don't Know...would You Openly Date A Dude That All Your Ts Girlfriends Fucked Or Knew Fucked Mad Other Trannies? Keep It 100 Ma...i Call It How I See It

I Do It All The Time. If Thats What There Into... Thats Fine. Its A Thin Line. This Well Known Man That Have Dated And I Mean Dated In A Relationship Type Way Has Been With Several Trannys And We All Know Each Other. But Hes Not Disrespectful About It.. And Neither Do The Gurls. Which Makes Him A Mature Man. If Hes With One. Hes With Her.. And Its No If Ands Nor Butts About. But If It Does Not Work Out.. He Moves On Like Any Other Person Would. Come On Now... How About U Keep It 100. Cuz Some Of The Thangs U Say Is So Selfish. I Personally Would Rather Know His Past So I Know Where Hes Going/attempting To Go In The Future..... Understand.

[MrKnockOut]

I Do It All The Time. If Thats What There Into... Thats Fine. Its A Thin Line. This Well Known Man That Have Dated And I Mean Dated In A Relationship Type Way Has Been With Several Trannys And We All Know Each Other. But Hes Not Disrespectful About It.. And Neither Do The Gurls. Which Makes Him A Mature Man. If Hes With One. Hes With Her.. And Its No If Ands Nor Butts About. But If It Does Not Work Out.. He Moves On Like Any Other Person Would. Come On Now... How About U Keep It 100. Cuz Some Of The Thangs U Say Is So Selfish. I Personally Would Rather Know His Past So I Know Where Hes Going/attempting To Go In The Future..... Understand.

I think that's cool. I can respect that and dig the fact that you are woman enough to date a guy in spite of what your friends say. You just got major cool points from me.

[anonymoussonny]

LOVES IT!!! Great Point. But what i want to know is... SO because I dnt want MR RIGHT for me means i have to "grow up" and SETTLE for what??? Come the he11 on now. Ur crazy. With Remys Thoughts he nailed the spot. Not to mention. Most men in this Lifestyle Behind a SCREENAME or what may have u ... Want these Gorgeous Bombshell Beauties. BUTTTTTT the Beauty can WANT THE SAME?? come on b 4 real.

I must admit you made a good point...

[MrF]

Just want a bit respect without this board turning into cat calling and negativism.
Is that too much to ask?

I think this thread was very poetic and thought-provoking so far. No problems with it. I'm still trying to figure out what a "captain save a hoes" is ... can someone define it ?



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[anonymoussonny]

I think this thread was very poetic and thought-provoking so far. No problems with it. I'm still trying to figure out what a "captain save a hoes" is ... can someone define it ?



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The term refers to dudes who fall in love with and try to redeem partners that are commonly labeled as 'hoes'. She might be a 10 physically but the partner has so much sexual baggage/promiscuity that being with them could be looked at as a poor choice. The dude is characterized as a superhero, 'Captain Save a Ho!" as a play on Captain America.:D

[GroobySteven]

The term refers to dudes who fall in love with and try to redeem partners that are commonly labeled as 'hoes'. She might be a 10 physically but the partner has so much sexual baggage/promiscuity that being with them could be looked at as a poor choice. The dude is characterized as a superhero, 'Captain Save a Ho!" as a play on Captain America.:D

Particularly prevalent in Thailand.

[peggygee]

The term refers to dudes who fall in love with and try to redeem partners that are commonly labeled as 'hoes'. She might be a 10 physically but the partner has so much sexual baggage/promiscuity that being with them could be looked at as a poor choice. The dude is characterized as a superhero, 'Captain Save a Ho!" as a play on Captain America.:D

And the very closely related concept of "You can't turn a ho into a housewife."

http://www.mass-confusion.com/images/housewife_men.jpg

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/smh2.gif

[andwar]

I do agree, but it does seem as though some guys are equally unable to "grow up" and stop caring about what their friends may think. Despite the fact that the so called "friends" are obviously not much of a friend if they are unable to accept who you are. Heck, most guys sit around worried about what complete strangers think. Too many people are online delivering verbal bashings and judgements against others, when they themselves can't handle being out and open about liking tgirls in the real world. It's great guys like tgirls and watching the porn, but it would be far more awesome to treat tgirls as real people and not a secret to hide on the computer, or in clandestine hotel engagements. On the flip side, many girls need to stop seeing guys as nothing more than ATM's.I have dated a few BTG's in the TS pageant circuit,and their real superficial, and everything is a competition,even in everyday life.always concerned about the next chick.And whats with the Imaginary haters? someones always hatin on yall for one reason or another.I was told by and older TS, that it's because your to busy devolping your bodies,and not your minds in your transition.and have low self esteem issues.K O's right! some of ya'll men need to stop letting women, and TS's treat you like ATM's only.

[peggygee]

I have dated a few women in the TS pageant circuit,and their real superficial, and everything is a competition,even in everyday life.always concerned about the next chick.And whats with the Imaginary haters? someones always hatin on yall for one reason or another.I was told by and older TS, that it's because your to busy devolping your bodies,and not your minds in your transition.and have low self esteem issues.K O's right! some of ya'll men need to stop letting women, and TS's treat you like ATM's only.

This is an excerpt from a post I made on my web-site:

When I was transitioning, I wanted the cute face, the big butt, and breasts
just like any other girl. But I realized that was only the outside of the house,
and that with the ravages of time and the elements, that the external
façade would tarnish.

Thus I worked on the interior as well. I did and continue to do therapy to
work on the demons that possessed my house. I furthered my education,
garnering marketable skills, and in the process learnt more about myself, the
world and others. I surrounded myself with people whose friendship and
advice I could trust, because they had my best interests at heart.

And last but certainty not least, I embraced a God of my understanding who
has helped me weather many a storm, and without whom I would not be a
fraction of the person that I am.

So while you’re working on the house of yours, that body beautiful, try not to
neglect your emotional, intellectual, spiritual house, for that is the house
that will stand long after your physical house has fallen into disrepair.

[DirtySouth]

these broads. SMH...I mean it's OK to be Ronnie Romance when you're in a relationship from time to time but all the hand holding and objectification of broads you've never met or have only seen online in nude oriented chat rooms is kind of whack to me. Maybe it's a cultural thing, IDK...95% of these shorties could give a fuck about if you live or die so long as you caking them with that bread...so many suckers being born every minute we're gonna need a millennium watch

Amen brutha. What you said is undisputed.

[Handandsom]

I think that's cool. I can respect that and dig the fact that you are woman enough to date a guy in spite of what your friends say. You just got major cool points from me.

Don't go soft on me homie, keep it one hunet.:cool:

[andwar]

Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
these broads. SMH...I mean it's OK to be Ronnie Romance when you're in a relationship from time to time but all the hand holding and objectification of broads you've never met or have only seen online in nude oriented chat rooms is kind of whack to me. Maybe it's a cultural thing, IDK...95% of these shorties could give a fuck about if you live or die so long as you caking them with that bread...so many suckers being born every minute we're gonna need a millennium watch}I definelty agree.Just want their ego's stroked and their pocketbooks laced.I was dumb enough to waste my time setting up a profile on a so called BTG meet site,thinking that it was a possiblity of actually meeting someone, and see where it could lead.With an exception of a few.most that I met just wanted to be rated on the site"s rating system, and went on and on about themselves ,and all the imaginary haters they had.

[TsVanessa69]

I do agree, but it does seem as though some guys are equally unable to "grow up" and stop caring about what their friends may think. Despite the fact that the so called "friends" are obviously not much of a friend if they are unable to accept who you are. Heck, most guys sit around worried about what complete strangers think. Too many people are online delivering verbal bashings and judgements against others, when they themselves can't handle being out and open about liking tgirls in the real world. It's great guys like tgirls and watching the porn, but it would be far more awesome to treat tgirls as real people and not a secret to hide on the computer, or in clandestine hotel engagements. On the flip side, many girls need to stop seeing guys as nothing more than ATM's.

When men start treating us as woman and not secrets, them maybe we wouldnt see them as tricks but men.
Marrried men cheating on their wives with us for a thrill.
Men with live in girlfriends in "commited" relationships, yet u wanna have me on the side?
FUCK THAT,
I'd rather be a PAID hoe then a BROKE fool

[MrKnockOut]

When men start treating us as woman and not secrets, them maybe we wouldnt see them as tricks but men.
Marrried men cheating on their wives with us for a thrill.
Men with live in girlfriends in "commited" relationships, yet u wanna have me on the side?
FUCK THAT,
I'd rather be a PAID hoe then a BROKE fool

Playing devils advocate...

So everyman u have ever dated was either married or had a live in gf?
And u only sell sex bcuz men treat u as a secret?
Sounds a little absolute on both fronts


There is a lot of subjective morality floatin around n here

[DirtySouth]

I'd rather be a PAID hoe then a BROKE fool

No offense Vanessa, we cool peoples....

.....but why be a HOE period? That thinking right there is what keeps honest men away from you and why you only attract committed men w/ secrets. Thats what escorts attract period - TS & GG.

Most TS fail to realize is that men do not wife up escorts, strippers, etc. regardless of the gender. If you were a female escort, it'd be the same issue so stop leaning on the TS issue. This is not Pretty Woman. No one is whisking away escorts/strippers away....well not permanently.

Every TS I know that doesn't escort has a stable relationship.

[MrKnockOut]

No offense Vanessa, we cool peoples....

.....but why be a HOE period? That thinking right there is what keeps honest men away from you and why you only attract committed men w/ secrets. Thats what escorts attract period - TS & GG.

Most TS fail to realize is that men do not wife up escorts, strippers, etc. regardless of the gender. If you were a female escort, it'd be the same issue so stop leaning on the TS issue. This is not Pretty Woman. No one is whisking away escorts/strippers away....well not permanently.

Every TS I know that doesn't escort has a stable relationship.

I just don't think they understand that concept...its easier to lean on the 'im a ts' crutch...

Few dudes wanna wife a known hoe, period point blank...ts, female, whateva...u wanna hoe, get ya money ma, just don't come @ me with u need to respect me as a woman bullshit...u chose the game, the game didn't choose u.
The girls want the easy money, the material, etc...but not the label

[andwar]

Both K O,and Dirty have valid points.

[k.logan]

Just A Question? What About the men that loves the hoes? Can you make them hubby?

[bigdicki]

Just A Question? What About the men that loves the hoes? Can you make them hubby?

If you are willing to let him play or willing to do EVERYTHING the "hoes" will do, yes. But just like with a hoe, you can't make him into something he's not. That doesn't mean he is bad person just like hoes ain't necessarily bad people. It's just reality baby. So you see, it swings both ways... men who chase that cat ain't gonna change and neither are the girls who chase dick and dollars. Now that's real. :cool:

[TVSURFER]

If you are willing to let him play or willing to do EVERYTHING the "hoes" will do, yes. But just like with a hoe, you can't make him into something he's not. That doesn't mean he is bad person just like hoes ain't necessarily bad people. It's just reality baby. So you see, it swings both ways... men who chase that cat ain't gonna change and neither are the girls who chase dick and dollars. Now that's real. :cool:
Bravo!!!
:cool:

[roninva]

If you are willing to let him play or willing to do EVERYTHING the "hoes" will do, yes. But just like with a hoe, you can't make him into something he's not. That doesn't mean he is bad person just like hoes ain't necessarily bad people. It's just reality baby. So you see, it swings both ways... men who chase that cat ain't gonna change and neither are the girls who chase dick and dollars. Now that's real. :cool:

I second that...for real

[MrKnockOut]

Just A Question? What About the men that loves the hoes? Can you make them hubby?

Bigdicki summed it up...

however, just like you are an exception to the rule (a sex worker who's been in a comitted relationship for 4 years), there may be some dudes who are willing to forgo the chase for the right one...

so i'll put my politically correct hat on and say, judge the individual on their own merits

[k.logan]

Bigdicki summed it up...

however, just like you are an exception to the rule (a sex worker who's been in a comitted relationship for 4 years), there may be some dudes who are willing to forgo the chase for the right one...

so i'll put my politically correct hat on and say, judge the individual on their own merits

Now This is a gentlemen Because there were only a few who caught my point and responded, Others ignored the fact that the shit can happen.

[DirtySouth]

Just A Question? What About the men that loves the hoes? Can you make them hubby?

Depends on what you define as love. Paying/Casual sex/chillin multiple times is not really love and some girls think that I guess. I mean - if the guy is providing for you emotionally, physicall, and mentally you can call that love. If he's doing it for you and 3 other trannies lol - no.

[DirtySouth]

Bigdicki summed it up...

however, just like you are an exception to the rule (a sex worker who's been in a comitted relationship for 4 years), there may be some dudes who are willing to forgo the chase for the right one...

so i'll put my politically correct hat on and say, judge the individual on their own merits

There is no such thing as a sex worker being in a committed relationship LOL. Sex is Sex. Cheating is Cheating. Whether is for money or not.

[bigdicki]

Bigdicki summed it up...

however, just like you are an exception to the rule (a sex worker who's been in a comitted relationship for 4 years), there may be some dudes who are willing to forgo the chase for the right one...

so i'll put my politically correct hat on and say, judge the individual on their own merits

Absolutely agreed.

[bigdicki]

Now This is a gentlemen Because there were only a few who caught my point and responded, Others ignored the fact that the shit can happen.

Like I said to Knockout, I agree with him. I'll say to you (like I have before), that I have respect for you and many other girls. HOWEVER, you and your situation is rare. Usually a girl is using a guy or vice versa OR the guy just can't deal with the fact that his girl may have caught 2 or 3 dicks and 2 or 3 cumshots that night before she came home and gave him a kiss. Whatever the case, you must admit that having things work out like your situation is rare.

[MrKnockOut]

There is no such thing as a sex worker being in a committed relationship LOL. Sex is Sex. Cheating is Cheating. Whether is for money or not.

DS I would have to disagree on this end...because I don't believe that it is a universal truth that what you do, is who you are. You can hoe, without being a hoe...some married women (I.e. Pretty women that marry very rich ugly/old guys) do it all the time...its just that far too often, and especially with ts, they aren't educated or knowledgeable enough to differentiate the two. Its ultimately up to the individual to decide if what they do has to be who they are. When I was a teen trying to make ends meet, I sold dope, stole and all kinds of stuff. I was conscious of what I did, I knew it was wrong, but I still had to survive. So while I sold dope as a boy, I wasn't a dope boy...I didn't run around bragging about how much dope I sold or how much stuff I stole, I was just trying to survive, trying to make something out of nothing. Which I suspect is what most black ts are trying to do when they initially enter into the whole hoe game. Unfortunately as money, fame, dick, and game increases, the line between hoeing and being a hoe gets blurred.

[Handandsom]

DS I would have to disagree on this end...because I don't believe that it is a universal truth that what you do, is who you are. You can hoe, without being a hoe...some married women (I.e. Pretty women that marry very rich ugly/old guys) do it all the time...its just that far too often, and especially with ts, they aren't educated or knowledgeable enough to differentiate the two. Its ultimately up to the individual to decide if what they do has to be who they are. When I was a teen trying to make ends meet, I sold dope, stole and all kinds of stuff. I was conscious of what I did, I knew it was wrong, but I still had to survive. So while I sold dope as a boy, I wasn't a dope boy...I didn't run around bragging about how much dope I sold or how much stuff I stole, I was just trying to survive, trying to make something out of nothing. Which I suspect is what most black ts are trying to do when they initially enter into the whole hoe game. Unfortunately as money, fame, dick, and game increases, the line between hoeing and being a hoe gets blurred.

I'm going to disagree to disagree with you :) Respectfully of course, to start, the scenario you gave with the pretty women who married ugly dudes-- bruh those ain't nothing but pretty hoes! If they married for anything other than the sacredness of that bond (you know that love shhh) then they are hoeing for what it is they did marry for. Likewise I feel what you saying about your past but like me I was a thief a gun runner and a few other things and yes that is who i was (and can be again if I needed to); those things are who you were, not who you are. Fact is because we knew better just made us stupid and dum. But i would say we can do anything without letting it define us as who we are in total. I believe this is where you was going with your post. But i've been wrong before.