Just met a very sexy and intelligent provider...

[blk_doctor_nyc]

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[aplus82]

I been feeling the same about a shorty I meet in jersey. Everytime I see her it seem like we get closer and closer, but a trick is a trick I guess.

[DrDickenstein]

Anything is possible...but it's a slippery slope. I would wait, let her initiate....if u come out with it, high potential to "get played". Ya know?

Still definitely see GG's....I like the feminine form, with and w/o a dick. :D

[DirtySouth]

I have been looking for a sexy, intelligent black lady for a while, think I just meet her. She is a provider but our experience was good enough to make me want to see her on the regular and extend beyond just sex, fine cusine, traveling, etc. So how does this work, should I think of this as convential dating except that I leave her with a stack of money when we are done... What if I actually start liking her, which could happen? She is that sexy and sweet, unlike any lady I have meet before (although I dont have tons of experience).
Another questions, do you guys date genetic girls as well? Do you do so because of society or bc you really like ggs as well? any thoughts would be appreciated...

Well, it's not conventional if you're leaving a stack at the end of the date....

If you fall into that trick bag, you're going to stay in that trick back. Don't fool yourself into thinking you're going to trick with her and she its going to turn into "conventional dating" or a relationship. It will stay where it starts. If you REALLY don't want to be a trick, don't fall into that trap ,just try to date her on the real if thats your thing. Otherwise, pay her and enjoy whatever services she is providing. .

I cant speak for everyone else, but generally what Ive seen from admirers are that they still date, or sometimes prefer , GGs. They may be heavy into TGs but sometimes they still dabble with GGs or vice versa. I haven't met too many guys that solely date TS. Thats usually game they run on some of the t-girls who choose to believe that.

[kilakali]

I cant speak for everyone else, but generally what Ive seen from admirers are that they still date, or sometimes prefer , GGs. They may be heavy into TGs but sometimes they still dabble with GGs or vice versa. I haven't met too many guys that solely date TS. Thats usually game they run on some of the girls who choose to believe that.

I date both and perfer GG over TG. DS statement reminds someting a BTG told me recently and thats " Men like TGs but love GG's".

[phi0820]

Sort of a spin-off question that I've been wanting to ask (though I'm sure it's come up before), but has anyone here actually had a relationship with someone they knew was escorting? I think about this a lot, because there was a girl I was cool with a while back that I actually liked a lot and think about trying to catch up with every now and then, but then I see her in eros and craigslist ads all the time and can't help but wonder what that situation would be like. How do people deal with that?

[kilakali]

Sort of a spin-off question that I've been wanting to ask (though I'm sure it's come up before), but has anyone here actually had a relationship with someone they knew was escorting? I think about this a lot, because there was a girl I was cool with a while back that I actually liked a lot and think about trying to catch up with every now and then, but then I see her in eros and craigslist ads all the time and can't help but wonder what that situation would be like. How do people deal with that?

I have and it eventually took its toll on me mentally, and I had to leave the relationship. As much as the girl was "into" me and the fact that i knew it was just a job for her. It was too taxing on me. The cell phone constantly ringing, the tours, and then she got into porn, that was the final straw.

If a guy is willing to accept all that goes with dating an escort. Kudos to you .

[DirtySouth]

Sort of a spin-off question that I've been wanting to ask (though I'm sure it's come up before), but has anyone here actually had a relationship with someone they knew was escorting? I think about this a lot, because there was a girl I was cool with a while back that I actually liked a lot and think about trying to catch up with every now and then, but then I see her in eros and craigslist ads all the time and can't help but wonder what that situation would be like. How do people deal with that?

If you dont mind your potential chick sleeping with anyone with a couple of dollars to play ball, then go for it. The whole point of a relationship is to be monogamous IMO. Its totally contradictory to be with someone that you know is going to screw dudes, women, couples or whatever for the cash.


Your best bet, if you want to date her, do that but maintain your own options on the side. If she is down to build something, she will be understanding or do the same for you. If she is going to play the double standard, don't play yourself. There is no reason to nail yourself down if the girl wont.

[peggygee]

I have been looking for a sexy, intelligent black lady for a while, think I just meet her. She is a provider but our experience was good enough to make me want to see her on the regular and extend beyond just sex, fine cusine, traveling, etc. So how does this work, should I think of this as convential dating except that I leave her with a stack of money when we are done... What if I actually start liking her, which could happen? She is that sexy and sweet, unlike any lady I have meet before (although I dont have tons of experience).
Another questions, do you guys date genetic girls as well? Do you do so because of society or bc you really like ggs as well? any thoughts would be appreciated...

Doc, sounds like you're sprung, like she's got your nose open.

I think you may have misinterpreted a GFE, or even a woman who may like
you as person for someone who has caught feelings for you.

As others have stated, the way you two met has pretty much set the tone
for your future relationship with her.

And the harsh reality is that the Julia Roberts, Richard Gere - "Pretty Woman"
scenario basically just happens in the movies.

[TVSURFER]

Yeah Doc, listen up! You're messing with something that will put you on the other side of the medical profession; either a couch or a padded room with a nice wardrobe with your sleeves locked together, from behind. Take a chance with a gg, you'll feel like a chump only for a little while. And, you can get another real woman soon with the ducketts you're throwing around.
But, if you just have to have it, start your own t-girl site and get all the t-girl nookie you want!;)
:cool:

[iketurner]

Question for you after you bust a nut tell me you want to cuddle or get the hell out of there?

How can you prevent her from escorting, doing porn walking streets?

Look at this site or a TGs life is this they exception or norm?.

Do you think if they could get the same numbers working as a Walmart Greeter Would they still do this?

In short, be a trick it is less stressful like Charlie Sheen says Bitch I pay you to leave. It is cheaper after you add the dates her overhead(clothes and all that other bullshit). Plus the mental baggage.

[DYNACORD]

In short, be a trick it is less stressful like Charlie Sheen says Bitch I pay you to leave.

LMFAO! I'm gonna save this quote in my little pea brain.

[TslovelyLuxury]

check this out ... tell me what u think...
ps........hell yes u can date an escort
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5On-UHZo0qQ

[bigdicki]

I have purposefully been staying away from this topic, but after seeing Luxury's intelligent post I have to respond.

Anyone can date anyone... it's up to you. If you want a girl on your arm that you know escorts and you are comfortable with that then that's your gravy baby. The reality is most (not all) girls who escort (gg or tg) have a mentality that screams individuality and independence because of a lack of trust of men... a lack of belief that a man will be there to have their back without fail; It is a reasonable fear/belief in my opinion.

Because of that belief, she probably won't stop escorting. The money can be good and fast in the 'scort game and not too many want to give up that dough and trade it for a real job making half that EVEN if with their man's income added they will be making triple what they made escorting. The money is all theirs when escorting and they can assuage that fear of a man leaving them high and dry. Even if she does leave the game, there is a greater likelihood that she will ask for money from you and from other dudes. There is a greater likelihood that she will hustle you, not because she doesn't love you but because the fear of you leaving her high and dry justifies it. There is also A HUGE likelihood that you will cheat because you want to get back at her for this behaviour and because it's highly likely for anyone to cheat nowadays. When you cheat the trust between you two will totally demolished. Trust is the bedrock on which REAL relationships are built. So, because of this, there is a high likelihood that the relationship won't work.

Now all that being said, I dated a girl who I later found out was escorting. I didn't choose to stay in that relationship because I am selfish. I don't want to share any chick I'm with. Would I do it in the future? Very doubtful because the odds are against you.

Now, to Luxury, why do you expect a man to trust that the 'scort game is strictly business when you won't trust him to support you and have your back?

PS... On a lighter note, my dick got hard just watching you talk Luxury, you cute ass girl. When you gonna break down and let me give you the TOP meat? :D;)

[TslovelyLuxury]

WELL THANKS BIG DICKI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlPTCWRcUE0

[DrDickenstein]

check this out ... tell me what u think...
ps........hell yes u can date an escort
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5On-UHZo0qQ

Ur right...as with most things...it's all abt the person ur dealing with and level of mutual trust between both ppl involved. Just like u said. :)

[nycguy]

I have been looking for a sexy, intelligent black lady for a while, think I just meet her. She is a provider but our experience was good enough to make me want to see her on the regular and extend beyond just sex, fine cusine, traveling, etc. So how does this work, should I think of this as convential dating except that I leave her with a stack of money when we are done... What if I actually start liking her, which could happen? She is that sexy and sweet, unlike any lady I have meet before (although I dont have tons of experience).
Another questions, do you guys date genetic girls as well? Do you do so because of society or bc you really like ggs as well? any thoughts would be appreciated...

Ya know!?! I have been looking for the same thing. Only what I need is a plumber! (no pun) You have found an excellent service provider. And for that you should feel lucky. Ever since my mechanic moved his shop, I have been wary of bringing my car to service. A good working relationship is very important. The worst thing you can do is blur the lines. Thats sorta like asking your electrician to do work for free cause you like him! sounds silly don't it? Don't fall into the catagory of the dillusional. This is work for her, And she is obviously good at her job. Leave it at that my man. it's the best thing you can do. As far as gg's if you like them, date them nuff said.

[DYNACORD]

PS... On a lighter note, my dick got hard just watching you talk Luxury, you cute ass girl. When you gonna break down and let me give you the TOP meat? :D;)

Ha,ha! Big D:::That last sentence just AIN"T gonna happen. Nice thought though. LOL.

Doc, if you want to make something happen with this girl, just do it. Tell her what's on your mind and see how she responds. Just like any GG you would want to go out with. She happens to have a job and you met her at her job. That doesn't mean you can't ask her out. You do the samethings in this dating dance as you do with GG's. You bring her wine, roses and gifts. Same dance. The worst thing she can say is I'm not interested. She may say she can only see you as a client. Well, so be it. At least you still get to be with her from time to time. Or just move on. TS Escorts have "Boy Friends". Don't let anyone tell you it ain't so. Because I'm here to tell you different. It just isn't an easy ride, sometimes. But if you don't try, you'll never know. And if it doesn't last, then at least you have had a ride. A ride is better than no ride at all.

[TslovelyLuxury]

Thanks baby well said!


ha,ha! Big d:::that last sentence just ain"t gonna happen. Nice thought though. Lol.

Doc, if you want to make something happen with this girl, just do it. Tell her what's on your mind and see how she responds. Just like any gg you would want to go out with. She happens to have a job and you met her at her job. That doesn't mean you can't ask her out. You do the samethings in this dating dance as you do with gg's. You bring her wine, roses and gifts. Same dance. The worst thing she can say is i'm not interested. She may say she can only see you as a client. Well, so be it. At least you still get to be with her from time to time. Or just move on. Ts escorts have "boy friends". Don't let anyone tell you it ain't so. Because i'm here to tell you different. It just isn't an easy ride, sometimes. But if you don't try, you'll never know. And if it doesn't last, then at least you have had a ride. A ride is better than no ride at all.

[ty-clone]

Dating an escort, is a hard one

My one & only experience with dating an escort is this, well it was just exactly one date. LOL. But anyways, I met this girl she was a GG at the college she was attending. We talked for a few, exchanged numbers etc etc. over the phone after several conversations she told me she escorts & strips to make extra money to pay for school. So I was cool with that ive heard that same story from varies girls for years. So I decided to take her out on a date, movie,dinner,drinks & maybe even more if u know what I mean. So I drive to her apt pick her up, but the movie she wants to see didnt start till a few hours. So to kill time we shot pool, play some video games & talk. We had great chemistry I was really feeling her & she was feeling me. While talking to her she was telling me that her tuition was going up and she was hoping that her father who wasnt that close to her would help out. Anyway, So as we get to movie theater, we are on line getting popcorn drinks, snacks & she all hugged up on me, then all of a sudden her cell rings, she answers & said who this, in a few seconds she then takes 2 steps away from me. I can still hear voice as she talks, she then says well, im sorry im busy & unavailable right now but I may be available later on tonight, feel free to call back if ur still interested, then it was a long pause and she said OK that sounds good to me, then she hangs up and steps back to me all hugged up again. I knew it was a client calling to hook up with her but I played it off like it was just a regular call from one of her girlfriends or something. So we go & watch the movie, and when it was over, we walked to my car & I just made some lame excuse about it getting late so I’ll just drop her home & call her the next day. i was really looking forward on having an all nighter with her, but i didn’t want her to tell me some lie so see could hooked up with that client that called her.

point of the story, its really hard to have quality time with someone that on a job that 24/7

[thookie]

I have a little experience with this and I must say that it is something that is difficult to do. All i got to say is give it a try but watch out.

[mikegirth]

[QUOTE=DirtySouth;12763]Well, it's not conventional if you're leaving a stack at the end of the date....

If you fall into that trick bag, you're going to stay in that trick back. Don't fool yourself into thinking you're going to trick with her and she its going to turn into "conventional dating" or a relationship. It will stay where it starts. If you REALLY don't want to be a trick, don't fall into that trap ,just try to date her on the real if thats your thing. Otherwise, pay her and enjoy whatever services she is providing. .

I cant speak for everyone else, but generally what Ive seen from admirers are that they still date, or sometimes prefer , GGs. They may be heavy into TGs but sometimes they still dabble with GGs or vice versa. I haven't met too many guys that solely date TS. Thats usually game they run on some of the t-girls who choose to believe that.[/QU THIS IS KNOWLEDGE. I have never spent money for sex. Not gone knock yall that do though. Got a homegirl that escorts and it dont seem right

[bigdicki]

WELL THANKS BIG DICKI
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlPTCWRcUE0

Was there a video reply to my post if so it seems you have removed it. I'm interested to see your reply.

[eclectic_co]

Luxury,

I am interested in this topic and your perspective.
Please let me know if I can see this video somewhere else!



check this out ... tell me what u think...
ps........hell yes u can date an escort
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5On-UHZo0qQ