Wake Up Call...Please Read.

[kilakali]

I recieved a very disturbing call from a well known BTG Friday night. She called and told me that she has been tested positive for HIV. After she told me this she told me she will call me back because a client is on the way..:mad: That got to me plus she is a very close friend. I have been quiet on this subject because i know quite a few girls who are out there with it, but this one really hit close to home. So i was questioning my own status (tested negative in June 09). I went to a place here in Long Beach that was offering free HIV testing. I tested negative 4/17/10 and I can tell you I was sweating bullets the whole time waiting for 30 minutes.

My point in this thread is that. There are many girls some like my friend who are carriers that you guys would call up in a heartbeat to "hook up" with. These girls dont care about sharing their fluids with you. As a matter of fact I know one in particular who will bite the inside of her cheek just enough for a little blood to flow and give her clients raw blowjobs.

I look at some of the girls profiles on this website and see comments about swallowing cum, licking sweat, licking ass etc. These girls are for fantasy guys. If you care about yourself and your life please "wrap it up" even if youre just recieving head.

Know your status GET TESTED !!!!

[johnmagnum]

well said....always wear a rubber!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[TslovelyLuxury]

I am so sorry to hear this! I hope everyone takes this to heart and WRAP IT UP! I am a big believer in HEALTH and FREEDOM so keep yours!
Know your status!

WRAP IT UP!

[Ms Remy M]

Good post, play safe everyone.

[cumshooter69]

Safety First, Then Fun

[62des]

Thanks that's a great wake-up call. I really do believe women out there will pass it on, on purpose because that's how sick they are. I don't care how sexy they are I ain't doin nothin raw I even get head with the condom on!

Wait I just thought about something the biting their jaw for blood thing got my head all twisted. That's some sick shit.

[badboy]

Wait I just thought about something the biting their jaw for blood thing got my head all twisted. That's some sick shit.[/QUOTE]

Wow, that is one of the craziest things I ever heard, never thought people would be the evil spirited. That got me over here shook up.

[phi0820]

The cheek biter should be arrested if that's true. That's some bullshit.

[bigdicki]

It's not surprising some girls would still escort while knowing they have HIV. Some people, regardless of gender, are scum. I know she has to eat, but risking someone's life, without telling them, is some selfish shit. Now the cheek biter is on a whole other level. She is TRYING to infect mufuckas... that's the same as shooting at someone IMHO. Another good reason for me to continue to leave the P4P alone. ;)

[GroobySteven]

Good post.
This is why it infuriates me clients asking escorts for BB or asking us to do BB or creampie scenes. Even is a model gets regular AIM tests she can get the virus before shooting the scene and after the test.
KK - if this is a girl of this site, drop me the word in private and total discretion and I'll make sure we don't continue scenes with her.

Obviously we hear over the wire that some of the models do have HIV. We wouldn't work with them in hardcore at all but we wouldn't be adverse to putting a model in solo shoots. However, we have stopped working with some models whom we know tested HIV+ and still continued to try and work hardcore with us, essentially lying about their status.

For legal reasons and the fact, that unless AIM published their names, I wouldn't be able to say whom the models were.

[St8btcurius]

I've never had sex with a tgirl & after reading this I don't think I wanna anymore...:(

[62des]

I've never had sex with a tgirl & after reading this I don't think I wanna anymore...:(

I'm getting real close to that point!

[GroobySteven]

I've never had sex with a tgirl & after reading this I don't think I wanna anymore...:(

Not every tgirl is a prostitute.
Then quit having sex with girls also. If your having unprotected sex then you are rolling the dice, the odds may be different but what's YOUR minimum odds?

BTW it's very, very difficult to catch HIV through giving oral sex. Taking semen in your mouth increases that risk but unless you have open sores, then it's unlikely. It's extremely difficult to get HIV through receiving oral sex unless you do have sores/cuts on your penis and she has on her mouth (in which case, if your penis is in that state, why are you getting a BJ?).
Penatrative sex without a condom is just russian roulette unless you know everything about your partners sexual history.

[werwt22]

that sucks. Isn't that considered attempted murder without stating your HIV positive before having sex? And if you know her that well personally, have you taken any priority to sit down and talk to her yet? Idk man, it just makes me furious that someone would follow this path of destruction. Sounds like someones fantasy can turn into a nightmare.

[midwestboss]

There actually are different studies on this u can find on google. Some studies believe an estimated 60 percent of black m2f transsexual sex workers are hiv positive. I don't know what the real percentage is but its no secret the gay black community has been hit the worst. So when you talk about sex workers, as easy as it is for condoms to break during sex, its a risky game.

[Nassau]

I don't want 2 be the asshole 2 say that never happens because it does but it hasnt happen 2 me yet

[QUOTE=Another good reason for me to continue to leave the P4P alone.

It's not like non p4p play is any better, alot of people think that way but a non escort girl will have the same amout of partners as escort.It's not like most girls just fuck with any tom,dick,and harry as long as he got money(I know from experience LOL)

[ROC]

thats sad..........good looking kila.

[St8btcurius]

Not every tgirl is a prostitute.
Then quit having sex with girls also. If your having unprotected sex then you are rolling the dice, the odds may be different but what's YOUR minimum odds?

BTW it's very, very difficult to catch HIV through giving oral sex. Taking semen in your mouth increases that risk but unless you have open sores, then it's unlikely. It's extremely difficult to get HIV through receiving oral sex unless you do have sores/cuts on your penis and she has on her mouth (in which case, if your penis is in that state, why are you getting a BJ?).
Penatrative sex without a condom is just russian roulette unless you know everything about your partners sexual history.

Yeah U right bro cuz I know some Genetic women that probably suck & fuck WAY!! mo dick than any of the tgirls on this site!!

[midwestboss]

Nassau your statements are pretty off. First, I never met a guy who's never had a condom break in his life, everyone I know has. 2nd, its rediculous to say a promiscuous girl that sleeps with guys cause they have money has the same amount of partners as a prostitute that sleeps with 7-8 different guys every day. Plus its a LOT easier to contract the disease through anal sex than vaginal. Regardless, you guys shouldn't make comments like you're no worse off banging a real girl than a tgirl, misinforming people that don't know any better just to make yourselves feel better about your own lifestyles. Take the advice and protect yourselves.

[GroobySteven]

Nassau your statements are pretty off. First, I never met a guy who's never had a condom break in his life, everyone I know has. 2nd, its rediculous to say a promiscuous girl that sleeps with guys cause they have money has the same amount of partners as a prostitute that sleeps with 7-8 different guys every day. Plus its a LOT easier to contract the disease through anal sex than vaginal. Regardless, you guys shouldn't make comments like you're no worse off banging a real girl than a tgirl, misinforming people that don't know any better just to make yourselves feel better about your own lifestyles. Take the advice and protect yourselves.

Condom breaking is pretty rare ... but it's a risk factor you have to take when you have ANY sort of sex. You take a risk kissing someone (herpes).

It is a lot easier to get HIV through anal sex than vaginal sex but I think your missing the point which is, if there is a 1:50 chance of getting HIV from having un-protected sex with a tranny hooker or a 1:100 chance of getting HIV from un-protected vaginal sex from the local oinker, then where do you draw your risk management? Mine was to never have unprotected sex ... yet you can't go through life (or maybe you can) never having sex worrying about a condom breaking - buy the best and ensure it doesn't happen if at all possible.

Please remember also, all tgirls are NOT hookers and not all of them are unsafe, risky or would dream about having unprotected sex.

[andwar]

I was already to the point, of going back to dating as appose to pay for play because of the false promises of patients an a non rushed sessions, fake ass pics,unprofessional conduct,no sexy outfits or heels.and most of all bad attitudes,Now hearing that there are escorts purposely infecting clients:eek:I'm definetly done I get my test results friday and I'm a lil nervous now.

[kilakali]

that sucks. Isn't that considered attempted murder without stating your HIV positive before having sex? And if you know her that well personally, have you taken any priority to sit down and talk to her yet? Idk man, it just makes me furious that someone would follow this path of destruction. Sounds like someones fantasy can turn into a nightmare.

I have tried to talk to her, but she is dealing with alot right now. Everytime I mention it she gets upset, so right now im just supporting her.

[kilakali]

It's not surprising some girls would still escort while knowing they have HIV. Some people, regardless of gender, are scum. I know she has to eat, but risking someone's life, without telling them, is some selfish shit. Now the cheek biter is on a whole other level. She is TRYING to infect mufuckas... that's the same as shooting at someone IMHO. Another good reason for me to continue to leave the P4P alone. ;)

The thing is many girls that are positive carry that im going to "take out" as many people as I can attitude. There is one in particular who has changed back to a boy, so she can infect more men as a "gay" man. Its crazy out there you really have to look after yourself.

[bigmoney615]

I won't disclose who but I was in ATL and I called this paticular T GIRL I was just tryna kick it a little while I was there in town then I thought to myself I really didn't have any extra money to spare. So this girl kept calling and calling tryna get me to come thru even going extremely low on here rate to convince me to come she was very beautiful and her profile looked very professional. To sum it all up I didn't hook up with her and about 3 months later she was dead she had full blown AIDS. The funn thing is I browse craigslist alot jus to see the different girls in other cities and I always said to myself Im gonna holla at this girl when I go to the A after seeing her add so much. When I say beautiful guys trust me.So please be careful guys I am being 100% real...! I seen the actual funeral pics on someone's profile on BGC!!!!! Love yall I can't say it enough BE CAREFUL WRAP IT UP!!!!!!!

[fetls001]

Welcome reality check !!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[werwt22]

I won't disclose who but I was in ATL and I called this paticular T GIRL I was just tryna kick it a little while I was there in town then I thought to myself I really didn't have any extra money to spare. So this girl kept calling and calling tryna get me to come thru even going extremely low on here rate to convince me to come she was very beautiful and her profile looked very professional. To sum it all up I didn't hook up with her and about 3 months later she was dead she had full blown AIDS. The funn thing is I browse craigslist alot jus to see the different girls in other cities and I always said to myself Im gonna holla at this girl when I go to the A after seeing her add so much. When I say beautiful guys trust me.So please be careful guys I am being 100% real...! I seen the actual funeral pics on someone's profile on BGC!!!!! Love yall I can't say it enough BE CAREFUL WRAP IT UP!!!!!!!

omg dude i hate that shit. "I got something to tell you...nevermind." WTF LOL. U know we wanna know. Maybe you'll help someone else out that slept with her since she didnt.

[Ms Remy M]

I won't disclose who but I was in ATL and I called this paticular T GIRL I was just tryna kick it a little while I was there in town then I thought to myself I really didn't have any extra money to spare. So this girl kept calling and calling tryna get me to come thru even going extremely low on here rate to convince me to come she was very beautiful and her profile looked very professional. To sum it all up I didn't hook up with her and about 3 months later she was dead she had full blown AIDS. The funn thing is I browse craigslist alot jus to see the different girls in other cities and I always said to myself Im gonna holla at this girl when I go to the A after seeing her add so much. When I say beautiful guys trust me.So please be careful guys I am being 100% real...! I seen the actual funeral pics on someone's profile on BGC!!!!! Love yall I can't say it enough BE CAREFUL WRAP IT UP!!!!!!!

Judging by that story, and info given, it shouldn't be too hard to figure out who he's referring to. I think there was a thread here somewhere when she passed. *hint hint* for whoever wants to take the time to find it.

[wellhungdee]

u need to put your friend on blast and tell us her name

[snag87]

u need to put your friend on blast and tell us her name

Why? She's dead.. let's try to have a little respect here. If someone feels they may have been with the person in question, a PM would suffice.

[GroobySteven]

Why? She's dead.. let's try to have a little respect here. If someone feels they may have been with the person in question, a PM would suffice.

Well said.

[werwt22]

Well said.

I disagree. If she chooses to continue to be reckless with her life and everyone elses, she deserves to be outed. Plus it just might save a few people a horrible death.

[DirtySouth]

I recieved a very disturbing call from a well known BTG Friday night. She called and told me that she has been tested positive for HIV. After she told me this she told me she will call me back because a client is on the way..:mad: That got to me plus she is a very close friend. I have been quiet on this subject because i know quite a few girls who are out there with it, but this one really hit close to home. So i was questioning my own status (tested negative in June 09). I went to a place here in Long Beach that was offering free HIV testing. I tested negative 4/17/10 and I can tell you I was sweating bullets the whole time waiting for 30 minutes.

My point in this thread is that. There are many girls some like my friend who are carriers that you guys would call up in a heartbeat to "hook up" with. These girls dont care about sharing their fluids with you. As a matter of fact I know one in particular who will bite the inside of her cheek just enough for a little blood to flow and give her clients raw blowjobs.

I look at some of the girls profiles on this website and see comments about swallowing cum, licking sweat, licking ass etc. These girls are for fantasy guys. If you care about yourself and your life please "wrap it up" even if youre just recieving head.

Know your status GET TESTED !!!!

Well said bro. Everyone should be safe and get tested. Not only some girls pulling dirty tricks, but some of the tricks out here are doing some nasty things too. Everybody be careful and wrap it up.

[DirtySouth]

I was just thinking, could there be some type of law set in place that makes some of the sex workers and escorts test for STDs before they place ads on Eros?

I could see this being effective on Eros, but I know backpage and CL would slip through the cracks (which I think should be banned anyway). It could be a little damage control at least. Something is better than nothing.

[TurboMan]

I was just thinking, could there be some type of law set in place that makes some of the sex workers and escorts test for STDs before they place ads on Eros?

I could see this being effective on Eros, but I know backpage and CL would slip through the cracks (which I think should be banned anyway). It could be a little damage control at least. Something is better than nothing.

Thumbs up...now that would be a good place to start.

[kilakali]

I disagree. If she chooses to continue to be reckless with her life and everyone elses, she deserves to be outed. Plus it just might save a few people a horrible death.

As long as the client is being safe he shouldnt have anything to worry about. If he choses to participate in high risk behavior then he can only fault himself.

[Handandsom]

U kats are crazy, like a few have already concluded, "I'm on my way out as well", in fact i'm like down to almost once every year type isshhhh. But for real w/o sayin so much we suppose to be like a community yall. The black tgirl (admires, lovers, friends, etc) community; while i agree it shouldn't be broadcasted i would expect you to warn those who discreetly seek your advise Kila or who ever else may have important information so important its life-saving info. Cause bottomline is you guys bear the responsiblity that the folks who are going around killing people should bear. "Am I my brothers keeper". I understand if the intel is "he say she say" but if the person has actually let you know that they have the disease and they are actively doing people with hopes of getting as many as they can infected; and you feel that you owe this person something, WOW. I'm no snitch don't get me wrong but even i wouldn't let a fool walk through a door i knew had dooms day behind it

[bigdicki]

U kats are crazy, like a few have already concluded, "I'm on my way out as well", in fact i'm like down to almost once every year type isshhhh. But for real w/o sayin so much we suppose to be like a community yall. The black tgirl (admires, lovers, friends, etc) community; while i agree it shouldn't be broadcasted i would expect you to warn those who discreetly seek your advise Kila or who ever else may have important information so important its life-saving info. Cause bottomline is you guys bear the responsiblity that the folks who are going around killing people should bear. "Am I my brothers keeper". I understand if the intel is "he say she say" but if the person has actually let you know that they have the disease and they are actively doing people with hopes of getting as many as they can infected; and you feel that you owe this person something, WOW. I'm no snitch don't get me wrong but even i wouldn't let a fool walk through a door i knew had dooms day behind it

Cosigned. I will always let my brothas know what's up. I don't know of anyone personally with the germ, but if I did if anyone asked me about it personally or via PM, I'm letting you know. In the forum I think you have to show more decorum. ;)

[Handandsom]

Cosigned. I will always let my brothas know what's up. I don't know of anyone personally with the germ, but if I did if anyone asked me about it personally or via PM, I'm letting you know. In the forum I think you have to show more decorum. ;)

That is what the wild part is. In the forum we can't PM about who it is. Just sayin we really have to think about what we sayin here.

[bigdicki]

That is what the wild part is. In the forum we can't PM about who it is. Just sayin we really have to think about what we sayin here.

Agreed bro.

[bigdicki]

I was just thinking, could there be some type of law set in place that makes some of the sex workers and escorts test for STDs before they place ads on Eros?

I could see this being effective on Eros, but I know backpage and CL would slip through the cracks (which I think should be banned anyway). It could be a little damage control at least. Something is better than nothing.

That would be a great start. However, it won't likely happen for the same reason many states won't do medical marijuana or many other things - the religious right who think that great start will be the great start of the Apocalypse. They think if you allow one opening around any of the quasi-moral legal issues, then it will just be sin everywhere. That's my take on it.

[johnmagnum]

Anyone who protects somebody who is HIV positive and they are actively escorting is doing just as much harm as the HIV person.

Like others said, rubbers break and nobody wants to be banging somebody and the rubber breaks and that person is HIV positive.

Yeah, its high risk activity but not disclosing the HIV increases the risk.

Would you get into the car with somebody who is drunk and go for a drive if they did not tell you they were drunk?

Yall need to put the people out where who ARE HIV positive for sure and those who have passed of the disease. It is the right thing to do.

[GroobySteven]

Yall need to put the people out where who ARE HIV positive for sure and those who have passed of the disease. It is the right thing to do.

It's the wrong thing to do because very few people know for sure. If someone has passed of AIDs, then I've allowed it but otherwise, any heresay, guesses or statements about people's health status will be deleted for legal and privacy issues.

[GroobySteven]

That is what the wild part is. In the forum we can't PM about who it is. Just sayin we really have to think about what we sayin here.

Why can't you PM?

[johnmagnum]

It's the wrong thing to do because very few people know for sure. If someone has passed of AIDs, then I've allowed it but otherwise, any heresay, guesses or statements about people's health status will be deleted for legal and privacy issues.


I am not referring to hearsay, rumors, or such, but people who know for 100% they are positive.

I just got my STD results back and I am negative across the board.....I always strap up and because of all this HIV stuff out there, im proabbly leaving the tgirls game for good.

Like I said before, would you get in the car with somebody who was drunk and you did not know it? Should they tell you before you get in the car?

Same thing with people who have any STD...they should tell people. I would not spread a std to somebody.

[GroobySteven]

How would I, as a board owner (and who has the liability) know that anybody can state it for 100%.

Your welcome to open your own board, with your own rules, liabilities and morals.