Why I Didn't Top And Won't Do A Strap On

[peggygee]

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When I was a pre op I did not top men nor enjoy them
performing oral sex upon me.

I believe this was due to two reasons, the first was that
physically it did not feel good to me.

Inserting my penis in an anus tended to hurt my penis.
And though I had vaginal sex on occasion I found that
also made my penis hurt.

Oral sex performed on me was also painful and uncomfortable.

But for me what far outweighed the physical pain that I
experienced was the perception in my mind that it made
me less feminine, less of a woman.

I guess I subscribed to the traditional role of the women
as the receptive partner.

As I have often stated the mind is the ultimate sexual organ,
thus if it caused discomfort in my mind then my body would
not find the experience pleasurable.

Now as a post op, the mental component remains the same,
in that I feel if I use a strap on with a man that diminishes
my femininity. As well as that fact that a strap on would not
give me any pleasure, unless we are talking about the type
that stimulates the vagina at the same time that it is penetrating
my partner.

Finally, I also feel that my personal insecurities would not allow me
to be with a man that enjoyed being topped as I would always
be fearful that he would be seeking something from others
that I couldn't provide.

[Koanbred]

Hi there Peggygee!

If you don't mind, I'd just like to ask a few questions:

Why did you find sex so painful when you utilized your penis prior to surgery?

Was it really physically painful or more psychologically disruptive?

Could you ever see yourself in a future "lesbian" relationship?

Hope you don't mind...

Thank you in advance for answering...

Love,
Koanbred

[Ms Remy M]

A very insightful post, as usual. Your words are always like a breadth of fresh air.

[peggygee]

Hi there Peggygee!

If you don't mind, I'd just like to ask a few questions:

Why did you find sex so painful when you utilized your penis prior to surgery?

Was it really physically painful or more psychologically disruptive?

Could you ever see yourself in a future "lesbian" relationship?

Hope you don't mind...

Thank you in advance for answering...

Love,
Koanbred

The first and second and second question are actually inter-woven, in that
insertive sex was psychologically uncomfortable and angst producing, and I
was loath to do it. Thus on the rare times that I would do it, it was also
physically painful.

As to a lesbian relationship, I am mildly bi, though I prefer the sausage to the taco.

Back when I was pre op, being in a relationship with a woman was not an
option for me, but now sans penis it's a possibility.

For me it is really the personality that sways it for me.

[peggygee]

A very insightful post, as usual. Your words are always like a breadth of fresh air.

Thanks Remy, and as I have stated before I have mad respect for you, and
your knowledge and respect for the transcommunity.

When I come through the DMV I would love to do lunch or dinner with you
and pick your brain on photography.

[Ms Remy M]

Thanks Remy, and as I have stated before I have mad respect for you, and
your knowledge and respect for the transcommunity.

When I come through the DMV I would love to do lunch or dinner with you
and pick your brain on photography.

That would certainly be awesome! Shoot me a PM.

[buttakiss]

how does it feel to have sex now that you are a post-op. how do you have an orgasm

[bigdicki]

how does it feel to have sex now that you are a post-op. how do you have an orgasm

And not to make you feel like this is an interrogation, but how does your vagina achieve the same level of moistness as a genetic girl? And are you like many genetic girls orgasmic from mostly oral stimulation?

By the way, thank you for being so open to answer our crazy questions. It really is interesting.

[kilakali]

And not to make you feel like this is an interrogation, but how does your vagina achieve the same level of moistness as a genetic girl? And are you like many genetic girls orgasmic from mostly oral stimulation?

By the way, thank you for being so open to answer our crazy questions. It really is interesting.

Im going to take a stab at this and assume Peggy has the colovaginoplasty. A section of the sigmoid colon is used to form a vaginal lining which causes the vagina to get "wet". Danielle Foxx has this as well it is more expensive than the traditonal vaginoplasty and has become more popular with post-ops.

[peggygee]

how does it feel to have sex now that you are a post-op. how do you have an orgasm



And not to make you feel like this is an interrogation, but how does your vagina achieve the same level of moistness as a genetic girl? And are you like many genetic girls orgasmic from mostly oral stimulation?

By the way, thank you for being so open to answer our crazy questions. It really is interesting.

First, thank y'all for being interested. Most times on forums like this
it's "strictly dickly". :p

How does it feel?

Well body wise, I am happy for my body. I am happy that I don't have a
body part that I had no use for, and that caused me so much misery.

In terms of orgasm: Multiple orgasms are possible vaginally, clitorally, and via
the G-spot.

G-spot?

I see some of y'all scratching your heads, how does a post op have a G-spot?
Our G-spot is actually the remnant of our prostate gland being left post
operatively.

Related to this is the Cowpers gland, which is found under the prostate
gland, and is responsible for the pre-cum or clear fluids that you see emitted
from the penis. In a post op women that fluid can provide lubrication to the
neo-vagina.

Also as regards orgasms most of us have orgasms very similiarly to a natal
female. So a finger, a penis, a vibrator, tongue, etc. will do the trick. Hell
pre and post operatively I have been able to come even in a wet dream. :eek:

Bottom line, post ops haven't been getting the respect that they should in
the transcommunity, which is cool, becuase for many of us once we go post,
we leave the community, and blend into mainstream society, which is what I
did.

But the old heads who have had the pleasure of post op poonany will tell you
that basically, for the most part a post ops vaginas', flora and fauna is the
same as a natal female. It smells the same, tastes the same, feels the
same, and can definitely pass the Pepsi challenge.

[peggygee]

Im going to take a stab at this and assume Peggy has the colovaginoplasty. A section of the sigmoid colon is used to form a vaginal lining which causes the vagina to get "wet". Danielle Foxx has this as well it is more expensive than the traditonal vaginoplasty and has become more popular with post-ops.

Taking a stab at the pussy. :p

Actually I didn't opt for the sigmoid colon technique. This is usually utilized
for a transwoman who would have insufficient depth after the penile inversion
technique of GRS. In other words if she had very little penile or scrotal
tissue with which to form her vagina.

This wasn't the case for me, indeed the admirers would have been crying in
their beer at the piece that got away, I was fairly well endowed. :D

Surgeons tend to be reluctant to perform this techniques as it is more
invasive, and involves cutting a section from the intestine. It is more costly
as you pointed out.

However, it can give a woman give her greater depth, up to 8 - 9 inches, as
contrasted with the average 5 -7 in other techniques. It can also provide a
fully lubricating vagina.

I'm not sure if that's the technique that Danielle had performed. Her surgeon
Dr. Suporn performs a proprietary penile inversion, though he will also do the
sigmoid colon technique if needed or requested.

[kilakali]

Taking a stab at the pussy. :p

Actually I didn't opt for the sigmoid colon technique. This is usually utilized
for a transwoman who would have insufficient depth after the penile inversion
technique of GRS. In other words if she had very little penile or scrotal
tissue with which to form her vagina.

This wasn't the case for me, indeed the admirers would have been crying in
their beer at the piece that got away, I was fairly well endowed. :D

Surgeons tend to be reluctant to perform this techniques as it is more
invasive, and involves cutting a section from the intestine. It is more costly
as you pointed out.

However, it can give a woman give her greater depth, up to 8 - 9 inches, as
contrasted with the average 5 -7 in other techniques. It can also provide a
fully lubricating vagina.

I'm not sure if that's the technique that Danielle had performed. Her surgeon
Dr. Suporn performs a proprietary penile inversion, though he will also do the
sigmoid colon technique if needed or requested.

Thats why I assumed because you stated in one of your previous posts that you werent hung...:D In fact you actually was..:p or was it you were hung but not THAT hung?

[peggygee]

Thats why I assumed because you stated in one of your previous posts that you werent hung...:D In fact you actually was..:p or was it you were hung but not THAT hung?

Nope not hung, no mo, but I was quite endowed.

If I was in porn the admirers would be crying about "what a waste" like
they do with Danielle and Nikki.

Now the endowment is all internal. :cool:

[Indy24]

Very interesting....
A women with no period. That will never take a man to family court!
These factors have been grossly overlooked.
But not for long.
Post op stock is rising!

[babyjesus]

Peggy.. I just had a question for you.. when you are intimate do you feel sensitivity in your vagina?

[DYNACORD]

This thread is very bold of you Miss Peggy. Gotta love it.

I've dated 2 post-op girls for awhile and I'll agree with litmus test. No difference to me I'm happy to say.

[peggygee]

Peggy.. I just had a question for you.. when you are intimate do you feel sensitivity in your vagina?

Most def, most def.

:D

[peggygee]

This thread is very bold of you Miss Peggy. Gotta love it.

I've dated 2 post-op girls for awhile and I'll agree with litmus test. No difference to me I'm happy to say.


Ladies and gentlemen of the jury, we rest our case.

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[babyjesus]

I hope no one takes offense to this but here is a pic after SRS. Simply amazing...http://www.srsmiami.com/mtf/mtf-12-08-2.jpg

[peggygee]

I hope no one takes offense to this but here is a pic after SRS. Simply amazing...http://www.srsmiami.com/mtf/mtf-12-08-2.jpg

Nice to see that she is a woman of color. :cool:

I know the doctor that did her work, and what's so great is that the minimal
scarring that she has will soon go away, and her coochie will be undetectable
to a factory made one.

Wish I could post my designer vagina, but my Mom said no, at least not on a
TS forum. ;).

Sometimes the GRS is done in one stage, and some surgeons aren't able to
get the aesthetics spot on, such as the appearance of the labia majora,
minora, clitoris, etc.

Thus some women will have a second procedure done, sorta like a face lift
for the vagina, and in those instances the results are identical to a genetic
female.

I love my my kitty-kat she's so purrty. :cool:

[babyjesus]

what your mom doesn't know won't hurt her..:D

[DYNACORD]

I love my my kitty-kat she's so purrty. :cool:

LOL. You're killing me!

[peggygee]

LOL. You're killing me!

Not quite my doppelganger, but this woman could be my
pussy stunt double.

Her labia minora is similiar to mine, but my clitoris and labia
majora are more pronounced than her's.

http://www.the-clitoris.com/y/vulva/fsimages/vulva99.jpg

[peggygee]

Not quite my doppelganger, but this woman could be my
pussy stunt double.

Her labia minora is similiar to mine, but my clitoris and labia
majora are more pronounced than her's.



My clitoris isn't quite as pronounced as her's, but figured that some
of y'all would like her long clitty.

http://www.the-clitoris.com/y/vulva/fsimages/vulva111.jpg

:D

[DYNACORD]

A Pussy Stunt Double. I've heard it all now. LMAO!
What about this one?

[peggygee]

A Pussy Stunt Double. I've heard it all now. LMAO!
What about this one?

Not to be confused with a "pussy stunt", where a pre op transwomen has sex with someone and pretends she has a vagina.

A pussy stunt double is similar to a stunt double, a stunt pussy is someone who replaces a female porn star when the pounding becomes too intense or a fuck stunt may be too dangerous for the star pussy. A stunt pussy can be identified by a gaping vaginal orifice and bruised pussy lips.

They are willing to take exorbitant amounts of cock to their twat for the greater good of a porno. Stunt pussies must continuously adapt to and perform new fuck tricks brought into the porno community. Stunt pussy credo: "Fuck it".

Director: "CUT! O.K. Bambi why don't you take five and we'll get the stunt pussy in here for the flying weasel burier."

:D

[DrDickenstein]

My clitoris isn't quite as pronounced as her's, but figured that some
of y'all would like her long clitty.

http://www.the-clitoris.com/y/vulva/fsimages/vulva111.jpg

:D

Oh yessss!! I'm a fan!!! Slurp-slurp..... :p

[werwt22]

Well theres a difference between unpleasurable and painful. YOU MUSTA BEEN PACKIN!!!! LOL I'm just pickin.

[bigdicki]

Not quite my doppelganger, but this woman could be my
pussy stunt double.

Her labia minora is similiar to mine, but my clitoris and labia
majora are more pronounced than her's.

http://www.the-clitoris.com/y/vulva/fsimages/vulva99.jpg

That's a nice looking piece of pussy right there! Got me in the mood girl! :D

[Koanbred]

Damn, Peggygee! I think I'm in love!