Unisex
07-25-2010, 04:57 PM
You know, whenever I see comments like this:
And I am a firm believer than you like what you like. But if a man blames others (black women) for why he likes what he likes, that's sad to me. But I'm meeting many brothers who'd rather f*ck other men or "bois" than to be with a black woman. This is really sad! I've met a # of brothers who are receptive to trannies, which is another aspect of the DL lifestyle.
Sighs!
Really? DL Lifestyle? How so? If I'm in public place with a trans-woman, how is that DL? If I'm in committed relationship with a trans-woman, how is that DL? It's more than likely, the reason why certain brothers are turning to trans-women is because it's either;
a) Compatibility: Where she compliments his lifestyle. Meaning, he probably has no desire to have children, or if he has children, he doesn't want anymore.
b) She's unique to his preference. She's all woman (for those trans-women who transitioned and matured), but she's very unique to [non-trans]other women. Which may be a challenge for him as well.
c) He's grown tired of lack of quality from natal females. (this happens more often than not) The baby-mama father drama. The attitude once a month. The emasculation of male that natal women try to pull. Etc, etc.
To be honest with you, a lot of the times you see a brother with a fine ass Trans-sister, it's a reflection of the type of woman he would get with if she was non-trans anyway. So, it's not as if these are some "sha nay nay" looking chics.
It may not even be sexual attraction, entirely. It could be an emotional and spiritual platform they're sharing together. It's not uncommon to see certain brothers have a trans-woman's back during her transition. Loyalty.
I say all that to say this; every black man that is involved with trans sisters are not in someway "DL lifestyle". There are various reasons as I mentioned previously, and until you sit down and have a simple dialogue with these brothers who are involved with trans-women, you won't see the picture for what it really is.
And I am a firm believer than you like what you like. But if a man blames others (black women) for why he likes what he likes, that's sad to me. But I'm meeting many brothers who'd rather f*ck other men or "bois" than to be with a black woman. This is really sad! I've met a # of brothers who are receptive to trannies, which is another aspect of the DL lifestyle.
Sighs!
Really? DL Lifestyle? How so? If I'm in public place with a trans-woman, how is that DL? If I'm in committed relationship with a trans-woman, how is that DL? It's more than likely, the reason why certain brothers are turning to trans-women is because it's either;
a) Compatibility: Where she compliments his lifestyle. Meaning, he probably has no desire to have children, or if he has children, he doesn't want anymore.
b) She's unique to his preference. She's all woman (for those trans-women who transitioned and matured), but she's very unique to [non-trans]other women. Which may be a challenge for him as well.
c) He's grown tired of lack of quality from natal females. (this happens more often than not) The baby-mama father drama. The attitude once a month. The emasculation of male that natal women try to pull. Etc, etc.
To be honest with you, a lot of the times you see a brother with a fine ass Trans-sister, it's a reflection of the type of woman he would get with if she was non-trans anyway. So, it's not as if these are some "sha nay nay" looking chics.
It may not even be sexual attraction, entirely. It could be an emotional and spiritual platform they're sharing together. It's not uncommon to see certain brothers have a trans-woman's back during her transition. Loyalty.
I say all that to say this; every black man that is involved with trans sisters are not in someway "DL lifestyle". There are various reasons as I mentioned previously, and until you sit down and have a simple dialogue with these brothers who are involved with trans-women, you won't see the picture for what it really is.