Backpage

[Nepo]

i notice a few mentions of girls on Backpage. I finally checked it out and found alot of girls on there at almost anywhere in the country. But a lightbulb went on saying how reliable is it? Can anyone share stories, adventures and nightmares from Backpage girls? I'm parnoid of vice traps, set ups etc among just finding shady girls. Insight would be appreciated.
thanks family!!

[Ms Remy M]

Hi Nepo, since no one has commented yet I will start it off hoping to spur more conversation for you. First, I don't personally deal in P4P so my words are from the outsider looking in. I see BackPage (BP) and CraigsList (CL) as the equivalent of the seedy back-alley streetwalkers, where you don't know if you are going to get arrested, stabbed, robbed, or have a great time. So, I always recommend giving Eros a try first. I feel that if I'm going to spend my money on sex I can get for free, I'm going to spend it with a top notch girl who is worth every penny even if it's in the $250-300 range. Regardless of what source you go through here are some tips that popped into my mind.

1: Don't go on an Easter Egg hunt. Know what kind of girl you are looking for, whether she be a bottom, top, big boobs, etc.

2: Don't settle for less. If the girl you decide to go see, doesn't match the ad leave immediately. Don't let her talk you into wasting your time and money. These devious FUBAR escorts that plague BP and CL and even are leaking to Eros, are what's destroying the business and the guys that continue to see them are just as bad.

3: Do check to see if they also have an Eros ad and that the contact info is the same. (There are a few exceptions here, as I know a couple girls that have different numbers for different ad sources that way they are sure you are paying the correct fee based on which line you called. This is not the norm though)

4: Check escort review sites (be careful as some girls do have friends post positive reviews for them) and also check here by posting name and picture of the escort and ask for PM's with more accurate 'tell-all' info for you.

5: Keep phone conversations short and to the point. Nothing pisses the real legit escorts off more than trying to talk about actual sex services and such over the phone. They are wary of authorities and of guys looking to jerk off over the phone while they describe themselves.

6: Don't try to re-negotiate prices when you get there or talk game, it's a business like any other, you don't ask for discounts at IKEA so don't expect to get one from the escorts.

7: Do become a regular client with a good escort who you enjoy spending time with. (This is one of the few instances where a discount may sometimes become available.

8: Don't try to establish a real BF/GF relationship with an escort whom knows you as a client. They are there for a purpose, leave it at that. (There are exceptions to this rule, but be careful)

9: Do come properly groomed and prepared (bottoms this means you). Same goes for the escort, if you show up and it smells fishy or any other gross or unkept situation, pass on her.

10: Don't ask if she has a friend to hook you up with. It's disrespectful and most wont look kindly on you. (There are exceptions to this rule as well, as some girls do offer 2-girl shows and such.)

11: Please stay away from the boys in drag looking for some straight guy to slay them for $100 and throw on some half -assed wig right as they walk up to the door. Again, like point 2, they are destroying the business and the less guys that spend money on the cheap ass the better it'll be for the business between the clients and real escorts alike.

12: If you meet at her hotel and she has 3 + other girls there, pass.

13: If you meet at their place and it looks like shit and you are scared to sit down cause a roach may crawl on you, pass.

14: Provided you do find a great escort that you've started to use multiple times, switch it up a little. What I mean is, if you are always meeting at a non-descript location and having sex and leaving immediatley afterwards. Try something different when you have the cash to spare, take her to a movie and then sex or out to eat and then sex. Anything to keep that Star Player in check, letting her know you appreciate her.

15: Do play safe at all times! Even during oral sex activities wear a condom. I've seen comments about swallowing cum and other activities and it's always good to remember there are plenty of life-long STD's that can be contracted from oral sex alone, herpes, gonorrhea, syphilis, etc. If something doesn't look kosher on her, pass.

I hope some or all of this info will help you and anyone else in the BP adventures, and hopefully others will add to the thread with potential girls you may be interested in. It might be a good idea to let us know where you are looking for girls at (Bmore, Philly, NY, etc.) and what type of girl might interest you (Names and Pics).

[twowaybro]

Remy, good run down my man. This post needs to have it's own sticky under the title "Rules For T-Girl P4P".

[ty-clone]

think remy covered it all, besides the fake ads

my thing is, when you see a ad that your not sure if its real or not, copy & paste the phone number to goggle. it will list all the ads that number has across the country or local. click on each & everyone link. if different pics or different info are in any of them beside your orginal -past on it, its a fake or a setup

[a.non.mouse]

Have had mostly good experiences but have been caught a few times.

Google the phone number to see if the same girl is always associated with that number.

Look for clues in the pics such as the name of a model or web site (some fools use pics of GG's without changing the pics.)

If there is a dick pic but no face in the pic IT'S NOT HER DICK.

If it looks too good to be true IT IS TOO GOOD TO BE TRUE.

If you see an ad for a well known model check the personal web site to see if the phone number matches.

low quality cell phone pics are more reliable than professional quality pics.

A vid like this does not hurt either

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=swUR_4Y4cCM&feature=player_embedded

[Indy24]

i notice a few mentions of girls on Backpage. I finally checked it out and found alot of girls on there at almost anywhere in the country. But a lightbulb went on saying how reliable is it? Can anyone share stories, adventures and nightmares from Backpage girls? I'm parnoid of vice traps, set ups etc among just finding shady girls. Insight would be appreciated.
thanks family!!

I only use BP, CL and Eros as a reference when chasing. When ever I get a girls phone number I Google it. You'd be surprized what comes up when you do that. Plus it helps me pin point which tgirls I'll have to apply the most time with in order to get the cheeks! (Its a hobby)

Did I mention I don't pay for sex....