Bragging.

[CosmicTraveler]

Some asshole tried to force my ex to do shit for him tonight. She called me and told me to come outside. I thought she'd forgotten her keys, then I notice them walking out of a drive on the side of one of the houses here. I thought he was someone she knew since she didn't make any sort of motions, but she kept walking with him... I'm not even going to get into that... that's another issue all together... Seriously... But they keep walking and I'm waiting there, then I notice they sort of disappear behind a van.

Me being the cautious fellow that I am, I had actually already gone upstairs with a pipe I have... I say pipe but it's actually a VERY solid handle for a mop bucket I took from my old job. I wrapped it in surgical tape for a better grip... anyways, I walk over there and he's pulling on her. So I look at him and start moving forward pipe in hand, I say " What the fuck are you doing!? " and he get so startled that he takes off running leaving behind his flip flops... Here are the flip flops...

http://musicmansnow.fileave.com/0714110018.jpg

Now, bragging aside, has this ever happened to anyone else? Honestly, I'm just as pissed at her for letting it happen. Seeing as how he was obviously unarmed she could've screamed for help, or even given me a signal or something when I was at the door. If I hadn't realized that he was just some asshole trying to force her into something, or if I hadn't been home as I did actually intend to be out today and would've been on my way home at the time this happened, then what? I don't mean to sound insensitive, but I hate having to worry about someone, especially someone who is old enough to have the good sense to know when to defend themselves or make a scene in order to get the other person to go away.

For me this is a big deal because even though she's my ex, I'll go crazy if something happens to her. And even if I weren't going to go crazy, I don't want something to happen to her. I'm at a bit of a loss as to what to do in all honesty. I feel like even if I talk to her she won't pick up on what I'm saying if she doesn't already know what to do at this point... It's nerve wracking...

And if you were wondering, she is just fine. He didn't actually get a chance to do anything, but if I see him again, especially near her, look for my face on the news.

[lament]

I will be needing my flip flops back.

[CosmicTraveler]

No. In fact, I'm getting some old shoe strings and tossing them over an old telephone wire. You'll have to take out the garbage in your dress shoes from now on.

[TsBrooklynMattel]

some asshole tried to force my ex to do shit for him tonight. She called me and told me to come outside. I thought she'd forgotten her keys, then i notice them walking out of a drive on the side of one of the houses here. I thought he was someone she knew since she didn't make any sort of motions, but she kept walking with him... I'm not even going to get into that... That's another issue all together... Seriously... But they keep walking and i'm waiting there, then i notice they sort of disappear behind a van.

Me being the cautious fellow that i am, i had actually already gone upstairs with a pipe i have... I say pipe but it's actually a very solid handle for a mop bucket i took from my old job. I wrapped it in surgical tape for a better grip... Anyways, i walk over there and he's pulling on her. So i look at him and start moving forward pipe in hand, i say " what the fuck are you doing!? " and he get so startled that he takes off running leaving behind his flip flops... Here are the flip flops...

http://musicmansnow.fileave.com/0714110018.jpg

now, bragging aside, has this ever happened to anyone else? Honestly, i'm just as pissed at her for letting it happen. Seeing as how he was obviously unarmed she could've screamed for help, or even given me a signal or something when i was at the door. If i hadn't realized that he was just some asshole trying to force her into something, or if i hadn't been home as i did actually intend to be out today and would've been on my way home at the time this happened, then what? I don't mean to sound insensitive, but i hate having to worry about someone, especially someone who is old enough to have the good sense to know when to defend themselves or make a scene in order to get the other person to go away.

For me this is a big deal because even though she's my ex, i'll go crazy if something happens to her. And even if i weren't going to go crazy, i don't want something to happen to her. I'm at a bit of a loss as to what to do in all honesty. I feel like even if i talk to her she won't pick up on what i'm saying if she doesn't already know what to do at this point... It's nerve wracking...

And if you were wondering, she is just fine. He didn't actually get a chance to do anything, but if i see him again, especially near her, look for my face on the news.



wow........

[CosmicTraveler]

wow........

Yeah, that was the thing I said I had to take care of while we were talking last night.

[CosmicTraveler]

Update: She actually did know the guy somewhat. They'd met before and she had denied him. He called this morning to ask for his shoes back... There's more to it than that, but... is that what rapists are coming to these days?

[raheme]

Story sounds wild...

I don't think dudes intent was to rape.

He had on fucking flip flops and there were people around. The fact that she didn't put up a fight is telling.

Sounds like he was a trick looking for sex or he was a little dope boy dropping something off to her.

[CosmicTraveler]

He actually was a trick, but she told him no before and he kept grabbing on her. Also I was the only person around but I was just standing there when he saw me, which is why he pulled her out of sight again.

He's been following her around for a while now apparently.

I don't give a shit what his intentions were though, when she said no he should've backed off plain and simple.

[Indy24]

A: Dude doesn't sound like a predator just a clueless dickhead.
B: There's definitely more to this story than your ex is giving you. Plus what the hell were they gonna do behind a van out on the open? (was his pants unbuttoned)
C: With her playing the damsel in distress role, did you at least get some superhero ass for all your trouble?(If dude was bolder or carrying, then that story couldn't ended different way)

[CosmicTraveler]

A: Dude doesn't sound like a predator just a clueless dickhead.
B: There's definitely more to this story than your ex is giving you. Plus what the hell were they gonna do behind a van out on the open? (was his pants unbuttoned)
C: With her playing the damsel in distress role, did you at least get some superhero ass for all your trouble?(If dude was bolder or carrying, then that story couldn't ended different way)

A) I'm not concerned with that in the least. Saw what I saw, did something about it. End of story.

B) He was trying to pull her into a side alley, they were still behind the van when I got there because she was resisting. Hence my aggression. He was wearing track pants, easy to drop, easy to pull up. Rapists don't have standard uniform.

C) I wasn't interested in it. I was there to comfort her. ( edit: If he were bolder, he'd have a split skull. If he were carrying, I would've played my hand differently, but in the end, I'd have done whatever necessary to ensure she was alright. )

[thegirlnextdoor]

A) I'm not concerned with that in the least. Saw what I saw, did something about it. End of story.

B) He was trying to pull her into a side alley, they were still behind the van when I got there because she was resisting. Hence my aggression. He was wearing track pants, easy to drop, easy to pull up. Rapists don't have standard uniform.

C) I wasn't interested in it. I was there to comfort her. ( edit: If he were bolder, he'd have a split skull. If he were carrying, I would've played my hand differently, but in the end, I'd have done whatever necessary to ensure she was alright. )

so i see gentlemans arent such a dying breed...i *heart* you lol

[CosmicTraveler]

so i see gentlemans arent such a dying breed...i *heart* you lol

I've never really considered myself a gentleman but... How the hell else could I describe those actions? Kinda clashes with my greaser image...:confused:

[raheme]

He actually was a trick, but she told him no before and he kept grabbing on her. Also I was the only person around but I was just standing there when he saw me, which is why he pulled her out of sight again.

He's been following her around for a while now apparently.

I don't give a shit what his intentions were though, when she said no he should've backed off plain and simple.

Hey captain, u can't save 'em bro...

Can't make a .... a house wife

Real talk, shorty sound like she was with it but

Do u captain

[raheme]

A) I'm not concerned with that in the least. Saw what I saw, did something about it. End of story.

B) He was trying to pull her into a side alley, they were still behind the van when I got there because she was resisting. Hence my aggression. He was wearing track pants, easy to drop, easy to pull up. Rapists don't have standard uniform.

C) I wasn't interested in it. I was there to comfort her. ( edit: If he were bolder, he'd have a split skull. If he were carrying, I would've played my hand differently, but in the end, I'd have done whatever necessary to ensure she was alright. )

You a good dude and all but I suggest u check out wacka flacka's sound 21 gun salute...

Heros die young my man

People ain't fist fighting for honor no more, least not around my parts...you pull out a pipe and he pulls out a burner and this story ends up worse...leave that john wayne shit to the feds, we need ya contributions on the boards

[CosmicTraveler]

She would've stopped had I asked her to. I didn't. For that matter, we aren't together anymore so it doesn't matter. I don't give a damn if she's escorting or not, she's still my friend and someone I love in one way or another. If I have to lay down my life for my friends, I'm glad to. There's nothing else keeping me in this world. I'd ask you not to speak ill of her again, seeing as how you don't know her.

Aside from that, if you'd stand there and let a friend of yours get potentially raped, then they must not be very good friends. I'll take my chances every time.

[thegirlnextdoor]

Hey captain, u can't save 'em bro...

Can't make a .... a house wife

Real talk, shorty sound like she was with it but

Do u captain

lol is that how you really feel?

[Indy24]

................So were they name brand flip flops?

[CosmicTraveler]

................So were they name brand flip flops?

I don't believe so. In all honesty I haven't paid much attention to them. I put them on to empty the trash but because I was wearing socks they didn't fit properly ( I'm not putting my bare feet on them. ) I might just throw them out at some point.

[CosmicTraveler]

lol is that how you really feel?

I was actually thinking to myself that you're the perfect antithesis to that argument. ( In the sense that you're an escort and a good girlfriend... not y'know... calling you a hoe... >.> )

[james7]

u know i had a convo about shit like this with my sister the other day. ladies when yo men tell u just to stay home and be safe hes not trying to control hes trying to protect you. shit like this happens everday and i say. u all got lucky he coulda got his ass beat with the pipe she coulda got rapped and if ol boy was packing heat u wouldnt be here u just got be safe out here superman doesn't exist here she gotta be more safe because next time she may not get so lucky next time.

[CosmicTraveler]

u know i had a convo about shit like this with my sister the other day. ladies when yo men tell u just to stay home and be safe hes not trying to control hes trying to protect you. shit like this happens everday and i say. u all got lucky he coulda got his ass beat with the pipe she coulda got rapped and if ol boy was packing heat u wouldnt be here u just got be safe out here superman doesn't exist here she gotta be more safe because next time she may not get so lucky next time.

Yeah I had to have a serious talk with her about that. I was very unhappy with how she handled it because if I'd been somewhere else then no one would've been around at all.

[raheme]

lol is that how you really feel?

U can't save someone who don't wanna be saved.

But I'm done with this topic...its about common sense

If you have so little regard for your own life, so be it

The story that was put out on the boards by my man clearly sounds like a typical trick trying to get some cheap ass on the street story

The fact she didn't put up a fight says it all

But again, y'all do y'all, bigger fish to fry than to debate about something this trivial

[CosmicTraveler]

People don't call you from inside the house to stop you from doing something they wanna do. You can keep trying to push that point, but you'll just continue to be wrong about it.

[bxboy1984]

done the rescue calls and such b4, never had to actually call my own bluff. Most guys who prey on chicks just want the quick nut an dif it gets to be too much work and go on.

[thegirlnextdoor]

I was actually thinking to myself that you're the perfect antithesis to that argument. ( In the sense that you're an escort and a good girlfriend... not y'know... calling you a hoe... >.> )

thanks baby..i try to be a good girlfriend.ive always been told im the "wifey type" lol.escorting is how i pay bills,thats it.im no where near a hoe in my 'real' life and i dont let the two lives cross over like that.

[CosmicTraveler]

thanks baby..i try to be a good girlfriend.ive always been told im the "wifey type" lol.escorting is how i pay bills,thats it.im no where near a hoe in my 'real' life and i dont let the two lives cross over like that.

Exactly. You don't have to take your work home with you. Like Nino Brown said, " Always business, never personal." and also " Old man really wanted to do me didn't he! *makes gun holding hand * Eeh! Eeeh! Eeh! "

[MrLaker]

Not sure if its been said fam, but something sound fishy like she aint telling the whole story.


Edit-so she was escorting. Reminds me of that one king of the hill episode.lol
But seriously props for not letting her get hurt. But sounds like she might have you hooked talkin bout u love her?? Noooo

[MrLaker]

thanks baby..i try to be a good girlfriend.ive always been told im the "wifey type" lol.escorting is how i pay bills,thats it.im no where near a hoe in my 'real' life and i dont let the two lives cross over like that.

Wow ima say u are in a minority. Most girls I know who escort will fuck anybody/do anything with people that have large amounts of money

[CosmicTraveler]

Not sure if its been said fam, but something sound fishy like she aint telling the whole story.


Edit-so she was escorting. Reminds me of that one king of the hill episode.lol
But seriously props for not letting her get hurt. But sounds like she might have you hooked talkin bout u love her?? Noooo

I broke up with her a couple of weeks ago. I can't really say I'm hooked. We're just really close is all.