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kittymatthews
07-22-2011, 11:57 AM
Hey guys Kitty Matthews here. The annoying little girl who loves to run her mouth off. <3

But please dont throw tomatoes at me yet...

I have a serious question, one i've been sorta thinking about for a while. one I've probably asked before, but bear with me.




Now, sometimes when i look through this site and others that are geared towards trans attracted men I see men idolizing/looking for/admiring girls who in my mind aren't... the most... well, feminine. Now im not claiming that I reak of pussy or that i'm fish (even if that's how I feel), but it's made me wonder.


To the trans attracted male view, is there somewhat of a turn on, probably moreso, when a girl looks 'mostly' female. Meaning, the majority of her features are blatantly and unquestionabley female, BUT there's SOMETHING that's off? In most cases, i've seen tgirls who essentially have not much of a feminine body shape, but a gorgeous face or legs or hair.

I know of a girl who is young and in very early stages of her transition who's found a very profitable life in porn. Now, I mean no tea or shade to this girl, but when I look at her, I see that she's in her early stages. Nothing overtly feminine about her side from the way she dresses, her make up and her hair. However she seems to have a large following of men who admire her and her work.


So question. When it comes to porn viewing, do you enjoy that juxtaposition? Do you enjoy "mostly feminine" transsexuals. I often hear terms like "best of both worlds", "shemale" and "ladyboy" that to me, all hint at the fact that transgendered women used to be male or still have male parts, ect.

So i know i blabbed on, so if you've got an answer i'd LOVE to hear it. :)

NO TEA OR SHADE TO ANY GIRLS IN EARLY STAGES OF TRANSITION. :)

dickdaddy
07-22-2011, 01:12 PM
am attracted to GG and TG,the more feminine the better

which means boobs,booty,full lips,curves. . .

TurboMan
07-22-2011, 01:28 PM
I luv women who are feminine without a doubt.

Ms Remy M
07-22-2011, 03:55 PM
Hey guys Kitty Matthews here. The annoying little girl who loves to run her mouth off. <3

Girl, I thought that was my Modus Operandi. Ah hell, we can share! :p Let them throw tomatoes, I will go all Carrie on them, split the screen and make them scream!!! All without lifting a finger ;)

raheme
07-22-2011, 04:44 PM
I like a really fem looking girl. Masculinity is a turn off for me. She doesn't have to be a barbie or have a perfect body but she does have to oooze femininity. Oddly enough, even though I can't see myself bottoming for a chick, I am turned on by the fact that the most she has a dick. Weird, I know but, I am honest. One of my biggest ts porn turn ons is seeing a really pretty fem ts getting fucked doggy or riding reverse cowgirl style with her dick swinging...fuck it, I'm such a freak lmao

Guess its just a male dominance thing with me

CosmicTraveler
07-22-2011, 06:18 PM
Girl, I thought that was my Modus Operandi. Ah hell, we can share! :p Let them throw tomatoes, I will go all Carrie on them, split the screen and make them scream!!! All without lifting a finger ;)

Carrie is no match for Cable. =D

Would you be talking about Natalia Coxx btw?

dimichi13
07-22-2011, 09:25 PM
Hey guys Kitty Matthews here. The annoying little girl who loves to run her mouth off. <3

But please dont throw tomatoes at me yet...

I have a serious question, one i've been sorta thinking about for a while. one I've probably asked before, but bear with me.




Now, sometimes when i look through this site and others that are geared towards trans attracted men I see men idolizing/looking for/admiring girls who in my mind aren't... the most... well, feminine. Now im not claiming that I reak of pussy or that i'm fish (even if that's how I feel), but it's made me wonder.


To the trans attracted male view, is there somewhat of a turn on, probably moreso, when a girl looks 'mostly' female. Meaning, the majority of her features are blatantly and unquestionabley female, BUT there's SOMETHING that's off? In most cases, i've seen tgirls who essentially have not much of a feminine body shape, but a gorgeous face or legs or hair.

I know of a girl who is young and in very early stages of her transition who's found a very profitable life in porn. Now, I mean no tea or shade to this girl, but when I look at her, I see that she's in her early stages. Nothing overtly feminine about her side from the way she dresses, her make up and her hair. However she seems to have a large following of men who admire her and her work.


So question. When it comes to porn viewing, do you enjoy that juxtaposition? Do you enjoy "mostly feminine" transsexuals. I often hear terms like "best of both worlds", "shemale" and "ladyboy" that to me, all hint at the fact that transgendered women used to be male or still have male parts, ect.

So i know i blabbed on, so if you've got an answer i'd LOVE to hear it. :)

NO TEA OR SHADE TO ANY GIRLS IN EARLY STAGES OF TRANSITION. :)
i feel your putting to much into this hun . its porn . not Noble literature.
if your sexy be sexy. i just like beating my dick to sexy black tg's or gg's. with or without titts. if your sexy your sexy; period. you Kitty are sexy. i would marry you if i could

CosmicTraveler
07-22-2011, 10:43 PM
you Kitty are sexy. i would marry you if i could

Even if she didn't wash?:confused:

TsBrooklynMattel
07-22-2011, 10:53 PM
i see that alot and not just in porn. for the most part i see guy who are attracted to tgirls dont care how feminine she is. aslong as she portrays herself as a 'shemale' ( not female) the dick is a must for some guys but i guess knowing thats the intended perception is a lady with a dick[even if its not seen] a guy will whack off to til he gets a blister on his palm. lol

kittymatthews
07-23-2011, 12:11 AM
i see that alot and not just in porn. for the most part i see guy who are attracted to tgirls dont care how feminine she is. aslong as she portrays herself as a 'shemale' ( not female) the dick is a must for some guys but i guess knowing thats the intended perception is a lady with a dick[even if its not seen] a guy will whack off to til he gets a blister on his palm. lol

Yeah


i feel like ever since i've started mones, i've been attracting different types of men. lol. I find before i started, i had a lot of more fetish type guys approaching me. Now I get a lot better. lol

But still, i feel like a big part of a man's attraction is the transition. Like the fact that she's changing turns them on or something..

lament
07-24-2011, 08:32 PM
in physics they call it a spontaneous break in symmetry. "almost symetric/perfect" is usually more tantalizing and beautiful than actual perfection. Like Eva Mendes' mole. It makes her face less flawless, but arguably more beautiful. This phenomenon might explain the situation you are talking about. Although in this case, the spontaneous break in symmetry should be that the TS is genetically male and has a penis. Any other break imo is bad and makes her less attractive. That's just me though.

kittymatthews
07-25-2011, 12:48 AM
That makes a LOT of sense. Thanks for answering that

:)
Seriously it makes huge sense now.

eclectic_co
08-05-2011, 12:02 PM
Here is some interesting reading on the topic of attraction.
I think it goes for all attraction, male, female, trasgendered. You name it.

;)

http://www.jyi.org/volumes/volume6/issue6/features/feng.html

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Facial_symmetry


in physics they call it a spontaneous break in symmetry. "almost symetric/perfect" is usually more tantalizing and beautiful than actual perfection. Like Eva Mendes' mole. It makes her face less flawless, but arguably more beautiful. This phenomenon might explain the situation you are talking about. Although in this case, the spontaneous break in symmetry should be that the TS is genetically male and has a penis. Any other break imo is bad and makes her less attractive. That's just me though.

a.non.mouse
08-05-2011, 10:16 PM
I have thought about this for a while. I am attracted to genetic females as well as trans women. There is something about a woman who is not quite a woman that is a real turn on. I like the look of a woman that is too tall or who has a broad back or a strong jaw or a husky voice. I am also intrigued by "ultra" feminine TG women who walk, talk and carry themselves in an exaggerated way to emphasize their femininity. Since I am attracted to both TG and GG women I find the very passable TG to be no more interesting than a GG but am intrigued when something is no quite femm. There are some TV girls that do such a good job making themselves up that I can fall for them as well. I think that those of us that fool themselves into considering our particular preference to be straight try to tell ourselves that "she looks just like a woman" so I'm OK. Truth is that there is a lot of gray in sexual preference and there is a lot of variety in our culture.

bxboy1984
08-07-2011, 09:15 AM
some do some dont. I mean look at jay z & beyonce.......cant tell me there arent a line of more impressively handsome guys willing to put up with her. Catherine Zeta-Jones has a propensity for.....not so debonair men. Soem guys like a contrast in their ts vs their females, others like them as similar as possible.

mauro80
08-08-2011, 07:17 AM
This question is so broad, peoples attractions are so mysterious, so to have a solid answer is like asking a fish if it likes water. We all have different taste in a lot of things, and some like to try some for the first time, some might like it, some might not.

da_man2156
08-25-2011, 06:41 PM
i once didnt like girls..that had a cock..until i seen one naked

i once didnt like girls that had no tits..until one made my dikk hard

i once didnt like girls..that voice is slightly deep..until i had one of the sexiest convos ever on the phone

i once didnt like girls that had the cut up abs and arms...until i seen one in an elegant dress, lookin hoTT

i once didnt like girls that overdid the cheeks..until i seen and felt those soft cheeks in person


well guys.........i like the girls .......that keep it SeXXXXy



Thats my evolutionary attraction to T-girls!

Indy24
08-25-2011, 11:37 PM
i once didnt like girls..that had a cock..until i seen one naked

i once didnt like girls that had no tits..until one made my dikk hard

i once didnt like girls..that voice is slightly deep..until i had one of the sexiest convos ever on the phone

i once didnt like girls that had the cut up abs and arms...until i seen one in an elegant dress, lookin hoTT

i once didnt like girls that overdid the cheeks..until i seen and felt those soft cheeks in person


well guys.........i like the girls .......that keep it SeXXXXy



Thats my evolutionary attraction to T-girls!


I've been feeling trannies since I was 9!
You wanna cookie or praise then step out of line!
You late to the party, so stop wasting time!
Posting poems that don't even rhyme.....!

CosmicTraveler
08-26-2011, 12:29 AM
I've been feeling trannies since I was 9!
You wanna cookie or praise then step out of line!
You late to the party, so stop wasting time!
Posting poems that don't even rhyme.....!

I didn't watch Jerry Springer just for the fights... So I know what you mean. Hell there was that one scene in The Naked Gun 33rd and a half... If you saw it and remember it you know what i mean.

Ms Remy M
08-26-2011, 02:03 AM
I didn't watch Jerry Springer just for the fights... So I know what you mean. Hell there was that one scene in The Naked Gun 33rd and a half... If you saw it and remember it you know what i mean.

haha I do remember, I loved those movies. Can you say schlong! :eek:

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da_man2156
09-01-2011, 02:45 AM
I've been feeling trannies since I was 9!
You wanna cookie or praise then step out of line!
You late to the party, so stop wasting time!
Posting poems that don't even rhyme.....!




You a funny azz dude..but lemme keep livin it..while you keep writin it



From BGC to here...........im a fan of yours thun...im da pictures in ya fukkin book Dawg...

but please dont get fuccin cute witcha fan no more Doldier

Indy24
09-02-2011, 03:40 AM
You a funny azz dude..but lemme keep livin it..while you keep writin it



From BGC to here...........im a fan of yours thun...im da pictures in ya fukkin book Dawg...

but please dont get fuccin cute witcha fan no more Doldier

What I write is a testament, don't be testy....
I say I chase the girls...but they catch me...

You can't pass the quiz...then why test me...
Even the pic at the top of this forum was my Bestie...

If she's passable, I'm the approver
Tranny's call my lap makeup remover

My chaser record is endless
I get it free, while guys pay driving Benzes

Whether it's from the tranny stroll or my facebook friends list
The only sex you get is TS porn wearing 3D lenses

It's not cute my nig, my wraith's fugly
So don't assume, generalize or ever judge me

BGC fan or not it wont budge me
To be chaser even on a straight site is only because of me!

da_man2156
09-02-2011, 06:00 AM
What I write is a testament, don't be testy....
I say I chase the girls...but they catch me...

You can't pass the quiz...then why test me...
Even the pic at the top of this forum was my Bestie...

If she's passable, I'm the approver
Tranny's call my lap makeup remover

My chaser record is endless
I get it free, while guys pay driving Benzes

Whether it's from the tranny stroll or my facebook friends list
The only sex you get is TS porn wearing 3D lenses

It's not cute my nig, my wraith's fugly
So don't assume, generalize or ever judge me

BGC fan or not it wont budge me
To be chaser even on a straight site is only because of me!


das what im tam-bout doggie....dat shyt was fire...got a nig stuck like uuuuhhhhhh....whatever! LMAO

keep dat hot shyt flowin fama-lama!

TslovelyLuxury
09-08-2011, 05:45 PM
What I write is a testament, don't be testy....
I say I chase the girls...but they catch me...

You can't pass the quiz...then why test me...
Even the pic at the top of this forum was my Bestie...

If she's passable, I'm the approver
Tranny's call my lap makeup remover

My chaser record is endless
I get it free, while guys pay driving Benzes

Whether it's from the tranny stroll or my facebook friends list
The only sex you get is TS porn wearing 3D lenses

It's not cute my nig, my wraith's fugly
So don't assume, generalize or ever judge me

BGC fan or not it wont budge me
To be chaser even on a straight site is only because of me!

this is so hott!!! i like ya flow! do one with me... lol. keep it coming... u go HARD!!

Ms Remy M
09-08-2011, 07:10 PM
this is so hott!!! i like ya flow! do one with me... lol. keep it coming... u go HARD!!

Hmm, I thought you'd come back with a flow of your own. You are the resident rapper chic! :cool:

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eloverpoem
09-09-2011, 12:39 AM
for me it there beauty that attract me! sexually i am a total top i am not interested in the size of there penis, or just having sex with one! i use to go with a passable transgender girl who had problems with other because the way she look which led to problems in are relationship! i didn't under stand her plight of being so feminine! that others transgender look at her with hate and some men was upset of her sexually preference as a bottom which led to her being mace one night! the last i heard off her she had became post op! i wish the best for her!

Indy24
09-09-2011, 01:58 AM
for me it there beauty that attract me! Sexually i am a total top i am not interested in the size of there penis, or just having sex with one! I use to go with a passable transgender girl who had problems with other because the way she look which led to problems in are relationship! I didn't under stand her plight of being so feminine! That others transgender look at her with hate and some men was upset of her sexually preference as a bottom which led to her being mace one night! The last i heard off her she had became post op! I wish the best for her!


when it comes to a tranny who tops, i understand her point
get it? Understand "her point" i'm the greatest chaser in this joint!

I'll lick a tranny popsicle till it thaws....to exerciser my jaws
why should that give you pause when ben & jerry's selling us "schweddy balls"

this christmas indy's wishing for tranny clause
but fuck A stocking, she's filling condoms, breaking traditions laws

this thanksgiving don't stuff a turkey, she can stuff and hurt me
i get off on that type of shit, and damn it i flirty

besides being thirsty trannies be getting mad at so of my jokes
it's crazy though cause she can take dick but can't take a quote...

That's why i gloat!

andwar
09-09-2011, 07:44 AM
I'm Dom Top,so I definetly like my btg's as fem as possibleBut I can't deny, there are alot that are in their early stages of transition that have a certain sexy swagger. it's like I can see the finished product in my head. and ladys of the forum please don't take offense to my blunt explanation.any necessary augmentation to help enhance ,but not overdone,some don't know when to stop.But to answer the question I like em as fem as possible,wit that something extra, large,smal,cut,or uncut.But the feet gotta be right or have nice shoe game,thats a must.

kittymatthews
09-12-2011, 08:41 AM
Guys i really have to thank you for your honesty. Really.

I had a discussion with a guy friend i met at a sexy party not too long ago. When he met me i was a crossdresser. He would agressively pursue me and try to me to sleep with him, but situations prevented it. As i got further in my transition he lost interest. I spoke with him recently and he told me that when girls become really passable and womanly they're, just as a guy said earlier, not more interesting than any other GG. He likes it when girls get gussied up to impress or have a strong urge to please in 'girl mode'. I thought it was interesting. In my mind the more passable you are the more interested men are in you, but it turns out that that isn't relaly the case all the time.

I appreciate the honesty i really do. It's made me thing. No judgements here.

vidman
09-12-2011, 09:33 AM
Guys i really have to thank you for your honesty. Really.

I had a discussion with a guy friend i met at a sexy party not too long ago. When he met me i was a crossdresser. He would agressively pursue me and try to me to sleep with him, but situations prevented it. As i got further in my transition he lost interest. I spoke with him recently and he told me that when girls become really passable and womanly they're, just as a guy said earlier, not more interesting than any other GG. He likes it when girls get gussied up to impress or have a strong urge to please in 'girl mode'. I thought it was interesting. In my mind the more passable you are the more interested men are in you, but it turns out that that isn't relaly the case all the time.

I appreciate the honesty i really do. It's made me thing. No judgements here.

I think the correct thought process is: "to each his own" because I am totally the opposite Kitty. I'm not attracted to the girls that are slightly manly (no offense). Conversely, I don't like girls that are over-the-top neither. I tend to like my girls to look like normal GGs. I like girls that can blend in with the average GG in the street, or mall or wherever. I mean, the goal is to be a woman right, which includes being able to walk outside and nobody notices, correct? In summation, I, personally, am not attracted to girls who get looked at twice. Whether they got looked at twice for not being convincing enough, or got looked at twice for being too damn convincing (Jessica Rabbit). I like it when me and a girl can walk through the mall and we blend in like the rest of the hetero-couples there. Ya know? I hope nobody takes my words offensively because that was not my intention. If so, I do apologize, in advance.

kittymatthews
09-12-2011, 09:36 AM
lol
no offense because i'm slightly manly?

lol. thanks.

classy!


but yeah, to each their own
trans attracted men are as complicated as trans girls are.

GroobySteven
09-12-2011, 11:24 AM
I think the correct thought process is: "to each his own" because I am totally the opposite Kitty. I'm not attracted to the girls that are slightly manly (no offense). Conversely, I don't like girls that are over-the-top neither. I tend to like my girls to look like normal GGs. I like girls that can blend in with the average GG in the street, or mall or wherever. I mean, the goal is to be a woman right, which includes being able to walk outside and nobody notices, correct? In summation, I, personally, am not attracted to girls who get looked at twice. Whether they got looked at twice for not being convincing enough, or got looked at twice for being too damn convincing (Jessica Rabbit). I like it when me and a girl can walk through the mall and we blend in like the rest of the hetero-couples there. Ya know? I hope nobody takes my words offensively because that was not my intention. If so, I do apologize, in advance.

Yep, that's how I feel also and I think most guys I know who are into tgirls feel this way.

vidman
09-12-2011, 04:51 PM
lol
no offense because i'm slightly manly?

lol. thanks.

classy!


but yeah, to each their own
trans attracted men are as complicated as trans girls are.

Oh damn!!! LMAO!! When, I said the "....manly (no offense)" part, I wasn't referring to you Kitty. lol! I was speaking to those girls who are still slightly manly and still working on their craft. As much as we argue, Kitty, I still think you are very feminine and sexy. No doubt about it.

kittymatthews
09-12-2011, 05:08 PM
Oh damn!!! LMAO!! When, I said the "....manly (no offense)" part, I wasn't referring to you Kitty. lol! I was speaking to those girls who are still slightly manly and still working on their craft. As much as we argue, Kitty, I still think you are very feminine and sexy. No doubt about it.

ok i was gonna say "WHUT". haahaha

vidman
09-12-2011, 09:14 PM
ok i was gonna say "WHUT". haahaha

LOL!! Bad wording. Trust me. You are a dime piece!

beef444
09-13-2011, 07:15 PM
I like shemales that are ultra feminine yet have a big dick It is the juxtaposition, the contrast that turns me on. I think at the bottom of all shemale attraction is the love of the female form The dick is like a beauty mark on a woman's face Its makes the female body all the more feminine

vidman
09-13-2011, 08:30 PM
I like shemales that are ultra feminine yet have a big dick It is the juxtaposition, the contrast that turns me on. I think at the bottom of all shemale attraction is the love of the female form The dick is like a beauty mark on a woman's face Its makes the female body all the more feminine

You and I must be siblings. We think like identical twins!!