selfmade23
01-24-2012, 01:34 PM
Hello all,
I am an American born and raised on the east coast but now I currently live and Brazil for the past year. I work from my PC so I have a lot of free time on my hands during the day. I like to come to the forum and read the comments and post because for the most part it's entertaining and every now and again, thought provoking.
I will say that I have been attracted to TS woman for a while and I have had my share of experiences. I was even in a couple of long term relationships in the past. My attraction I think stems from the fact that I believe that since a TS wasnt born as a woman and they had to work to become one, they work harder at it then most genetic women. They tend to more consistently maintain a very sexy appearance as well as sexual attitude and vibe. I also think that becuase they were born male, they love sex as much as we do in most cases and are quite open minded letting the freak come quicker then a genetic woman. All of the above is a real turn on. Now this not to say all... and I am not trying to generalize. Again, this is my own opinion and formed from my own experiences beginning over 15 years ago. Times have changed and attitudes have changed so again only my opinion
I have lived in some major cities on the east coast and I have met some beautiful, intelligent, focused, determined TS woman. I have also met some gutter, grimey, hood rats too . I say all this because I have a respect for what a lot of these woman go thru but as time went on I realized that as a black man we deal with enough. I didnt want to take on the fight of dealing with issues that always seemed to come up. Transexuals have their own fight but so do black men and for me I lost interest as time went. However I still admired thier sexiness and beauty but from a far, as in websites or from forums like this, etc . I dont think you ever grow out of liking transexuals, just as you wouldnt grow out of liking a black woman or a Puerto Rican or any type of woman for that matter but I will say this. I dated 3 Puerto Rican women in a row and I probably wouldnt again because not to say all or bad, but those 3 came with crazy drama. I guess I feel the same about a transexual.
Now too the point...in the beginning when I first started to discover transexual, like most of us that admire, the ones from Brazil, I thought were unbelievable. I was like," no way is that not a genetic woman" Now this is around 15 yrs ago and plastic surgery wasnt as attainable as it is now in the state, so at that time look wise, Brazilian Transexual seemed to have the drop on thier American counterparts( times have changed and there are some American girls who are real beast now as well.) However I never thought I would go to Brazil and definitely didnt think I would live there. Well isnt life funny because now here I am . After reading and learning about the transexual culture down here, it's crazy. A lot of these girls you would see on the Brazilian websites, actually live near me. You might see them at McDonalds or in the mall and in person it's like " awww hell no, or you kidding me." The park I play basketball at, they have a big Gay parade and they come from all over. On top of that, black men don't have the same stigma that we have in the states. They actually like us a lot, because here we are different and an American black man is like one juicy purple grape in the middle of all green ones. I have been talking to one girl and she is off the chain She wants me to give her courses in english and she is telling me that she has some friends that want to learn too . They will actually pay me.
Here is the irony of the sitution. Since moving here, I have married a beautiful Brazilian genetic woman and she is my best friend and partner in the world. I would never do any thing to tarnish that, and so even though there is a helluva lot of temptation, I am good . I am friends with one because I wanted to appease my curiosity of knowing a brazilian transexual after all those years of being a huge fan from a far. My wife knows of her although she doesnt know she is transexual and the girl knows my status and respects it and we are developing a brother/ sister sort of relationship.
I really just wanted to hear feed back. I am curious as to what others would do in my situation . For me it isnt worth it to lose something that is so wonderful to me but I truly believe I am in the the transexual capital of the world. It you were in my shoes what would you do ? Sorry for the long post but had a lot to say.
I am an American born and raised on the east coast but now I currently live and Brazil for the past year. I work from my PC so I have a lot of free time on my hands during the day. I like to come to the forum and read the comments and post because for the most part it's entertaining and every now and again, thought provoking.
I will say that I have been attracted to TS woman for a while and I have had my share of experiences. I was even in a couple of long term relationships in the past. My attraction I think stems from the fact that I believe that since a TS wasnt born as a woman and they had to work to become one, they work harder at it then most genetic women. They tend to more consistently maintain a very sexy appearance as well as sexual attitude and vibe. I also think that becuase they were born male, they love sex as much as we do in most cases and are quite open minded letting the freak come quicker then a genetic woman. All of the above is a real turn on. Now this not to say all... and I am not trying to generalize. Again, this is my own opinion and formed from my own experiences beginning over 15 years ago. Times have changed and attitudes have changed so again only my opinion
I have lived in some major cities on the east coast and I have met some beautiful, intelligent, focused, determined TS woman. I have also met some gutter, grimey, hood rats too . I say all this because I have a respect for what a lot of these woman go thru but as time went on I realized that as a black man we deal with enough. I didnt want to take on the fight of dealing with issues that always seemed to come up. Transexuals have their own fight but so do black men and for me I lost interest as time went. However I still admired thier sexiness and beauty but from a far, as in websites or from forums like this, etc . I dont think you ever grow out of liking transexuals, just as you wouldnt grow out of liking a black woman or a Puerto Rican or any type of woman for that matter but I will say this. I dated 3 Puerto Rican women in a row and I probably wouldnt again because not to say all or bad, but those 3 came with crazy drama. I guess I feel the same about a transexual.
Now too the point...in the beginning when I first started to discover transexual, like most of us that admire, the ones from Brazil, I thought were unbelievable. I was like," no way is that not a genetic woman" Now this is around 15 yrs ago and plastic surgery wasnt as attainable as it is now in the state, so at that time look wise, Brazilian Transexual seemed to have the drop on thier American counterparts( times have changed and there are some American girls who are real beast now as well.) However I never thought I would go to Brazil and definitely didnt think I would live there. Well isnt life funny because now here I am . After reading and learning about the transexual culture down here, it's crazy. A lot of these girls you would see on the Brazilian websites, actually live near me. You might see them at McDonalds or in the mall and in person it's like " awww hell no, or you kidding me." The park I play basketball at, they have a big Gay parade and they come from all over. On top of that, black men don't have the same stigma that we have in the states. They actually like us a lot, because here we are different and an American black man is like one juicy purple grape in the middle of all green ones. I have been talking to one girl and she is off the chain She wants me to give her courses in english and she is telling me that she has some friends that want to learn too . They will actually pay me.
Here is the irony of the sitution. Since moving here, I have married a beautiful Brazilian genetic woman and she is my best friend and partner in the world. I would never do any thing to tarnish that, and so even though there is a helluva lot of temptation, I am good . I am friends with one because I wanted to appease my curiosity of knowing a brazilian transexual after all those years of being a huge fan from a far. My wife knows of her although she doesnt know she is transexual and the girl knows my status and respects it and we are developing a brother/ sister sort of relationship.
I really just wanted to hear feed back. I am curious as to what others would do in my situation . For me it isnt worth it to lose something that is so wonderful to me but I truly believe I am in the the transexual capital of the world. It you were in my shoes what would you do ? Sorry for the long post but had a lot to say.