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Kazharlem
01-21-2013, 08:12 PM
How many male members are involved in long term monogamous relationships with a tgirl? How many Tgirl members are involved in long term monogamous relationships?

DYNACORD
01-21-2013, 11:03 PM
How many male members are involved in long term monogamous relationships with a tgirl? How many Tgirl members are involved in long term monogamous relationships?

Count me as one.

Ms Remy M
01-22-2013, 11:28 PM
I only do long term relationships

bxboy1984
01-23-2013, 07:09 AM
currently in one
chasing got old after 7, 8 yrs lol

Kazharlem
01-28-2013, 10:18 PM
Count me as one.

I too, am in a long term relationship. I asked because it seems as if a lot of dudes are just looking for a quick hit or numerous quick hits. Now the follow up is how long have you been in these committed relationships? Me , I have been with the same woman for close to two years.

DYNACORD
01-30-2013, 10:22 PM
I too, am in a long term relationship. I asked because it seems as if a lot of dudes are just looking for a quick hit or numerous quick hits. Now the follow up is how long have you been in these committed relationships? Me , I have been with the same woman for close to two years.

Well my current has been on and off for the past 2 years. The one before was for almost 4 years. One before that was about 3 years. So, they work but since some had escort jobs there were some issues. But you deal with them.:)

chubbychaser
01-30-2013, 11:54 PM
Quick hit, hell i need a long term relationship with a tgirl, we can't have children together. I mean not to rude or mean or anything, but we can't build a family together. We can be friends and love each other cool, but at the end of the day it's all about this fetish i have and some good sex. IM JUST BEING HONEST!!

bigruss
02-01-2013, 04:25 AM
just because you can't have biological kids doesn't mean you can't adopt. im in a long term relationship with a gg and we are never having kids even after marriage. so i don't understand the point your trying to make

chubbychaser
02-01-2013, 09:33 AM
I don't believe in adoption, i want to see me or my wife walking in the flesh. If im in a long term relationship, that means i want to marry you and have children with you someday. Im not saying that i can't love a tgirl, but right now it's just a fetish for me, and for them it's just a pay day.

Ms Remy M
02-06-2013, 05:07 PM
Quick hit, hell i need a long term relationship with a tgirl, we can't have children together. I mean not to rude or mean or anything, but we can't build a family together. We can be friends and love each other cool, but at the end of the day it's all about this fetish i have and some good sex. IM JUST BEING HONEST!!

I don't much care for this excuse, but to each their own. What you are saying would imply that every single long term relationship that you've been in thus far has netted you at least one child. That's rarely the case though I admit there are exceptions to the rule. Just because you are in a long term relationship doesn't mean you have to be plotting marriage, children, funeral. lol

By the way there are other options aside from adoption (I'm a huge believer in btw) like surrogate mothers, sometimes even from her family that way the bloodlines are "truly" maintained.

chubbychaser
02-08-2013, 12:04 PM
I don't much care for this excuse, but to each their own. What you are saying would imply that every single long term relationship that you've been in thus far has netted you at least one child. That's rarely the case though I admit there are exceptions to the rule. Just because you are in a long term relationship doesn't mean you have to be plotting marriage, children, funeral. lol

By the way there are other options aside from adoption (I'm a huge believer in btw) like surrogate mothers, sometimes even from her family that way the bloodlines are "truly" maintained.

No it haven't netter me with atleast one child, but i was serious and wanted to have a family with that person "After we're married that is". I mean whats the point of a long term relationship IF YOU DON'T PLAN ON BUILDING ANYTHING. That so high school and child like.

Darkness
02-08-2013, 07:44 PM
I've had two long term and one short one. The children issue doesn't bother me. I know what I prefer (I wish I had this mindset 20 yrs ago). The real issue is finding a lady who I'm "equally yoked" with. I don't mean religion. I mean the same morals and life goals...someone who wants a committed relationship. I'm patient though. No need to rush in with someone who isn't on the same page.

Kazharlem
02-13-2013, 11:16 PM
I've had two long term and one short one. The children issue doesn't bother me. I know what I prefer (I wish I had this mindset 20 yrs ago). The real issue is finding a lady who I'm "equally yoked" with. I don't mean religion. I mean the same morals and life goals...someone who wants a committed relationship. I'm patient though. No need to rush in with someone who isn't on the same page.

Great Point!

thepiedpiper
02-17-2013, 01:15 PM
Having a biological child is something that is important to me but it certainly would never be the basis for a relationship. I try not to prioritise whether I'd prefer to be with a trans girl or genetic girl in the long term as in my opinion there is the risk of fetishising if you do that, much like preferring a certain race, hair colour etc etc. When it comes down to it women are women, GG or not and whoever I find as long as I'm happy and we share the same values I'm happy with that.