Mr.Cee hot 97 arrested again for "soliciting prostitute"

[illuno]

What's up fam. I haven't been in the forums for a while but just wanted to know if anyone had been following the newest Mr. Cee incident. If you guys dont know who he is, he's a popular DJ for New Yorks most popular hiphop station, Hot 97. He was arrested previously for a 2011 incident in which he allegedly received head from a transgendered prostitute. He was arrested again on Thursday for soliciting a male cop (though he says it was a female cop and that she approached him) in an area known to be frequented by transexual prostitutes. In the YouTube clip below he is being interviewed by his boss or coworker about this newest incident. Of course a big part of the interview centers around whether he's straight or not. The interviewer who's supposed to be his friend says he only wants to know because he's concerned about the gay audience, who are going to be upset that he didn't come out, he says the gay audience will find it offensive if he doesn't come out. This to me sounds absurd. Apparently the interviewer is speaking for the entire gay community.

My question is why is it that people need to place people in a box?
Seems now people are using Frank Ocean and Jason Collins as examples as to why no one has a right to keep their sexuality private. The interviewer seemed down right upset that Mr.Cee didn't tell him what he wanted to hear.
It's a long interview but intriguing none the less
http://youtu.be/HHYkqb9nPnk

[TurboMan]

What's up fam. I haven't been in the forums for a while but just wanted to know if anyone had been following the newest Mr. Cee incident. If you guys dont know who he is, he's a popular DJ for New Yorks most popular hiphop station, Hot 97. He was arrested previously for a 2011 incident in which he allegedly received head from a transgendered prostitute. He was arrested again on Thursday for soliciting a male cop (though he says it was a female cop and that she approached him) in an area known to be frequented by transexual prostitutes. In the YouTube clip below he is being interviewed by his boss or coworker about this newest incident. Of course a big part of the interview centers around whether he's straight or not. The interviewer who's supposed to be his friend says he only wants to know because he's concerned about the gay audience, who are going to be upset that he didn't come out, he says the gay audience will find it offensive if he doesn't come out. This to me sounds absurd. Apparently the interviewer is speaking for the entire gay community.

My question is why is it that people need to place people in a box?
Seems now people are using Frank Ocean and Jason Collins as examples as to why no one has a right to keep their sexuality private. The interviewer seemed down right upset that Mr.Cee didn't tell him what he wanted to hear.
It's a long interview but intriguing none the less
http://youtu.be/HHYkqb9nPnk
Ok check out another DJ from another station..his take on Mr.Cee....https://soundcloud.com/ddot_omen/donkey-of-the-day-mister-cee

[raheme]

This is why professional guys like myself tend to stay on the dl. Its not so much an issue that a girl is transgendered. Its that most if not all the girls are prostitutes or sex workers which jeopardizes careers if all of what we did behind closed doors ever came out.

[illuno]

Ok check out another DJ from another station..his take on Mr.Cee....https://soundcloud.com/ddot_omen/donkey-of-the-day-mister-cee

Yea from what I understand that's the rival station. These dudes are a trip. They try and make it seem like the only reason they're clowning him is because they they think he will be better off "coming out" but these knuckle heads know that's not their true motive.

[Indy24]

After hearing this interview it's hard to feel bad for the guy.
Saying that he pleaded guilty in 2011 for getting head by a cross dresser simply because he didn't want to go back an forth to court is the dumbest shit I'd ever heard. Seriously how is pleading guilty to solicitation helping your "family" if your hinting that you didn't do it or that it was some type of conspiracy yet you were just caught doing the same shit again????

Now in my thirstier days I've had some ugly genetic girls that I wouldn't own up to today...So I understand that but his whole argument just sounds stupid. It's one thing to say that you're not gay since tgirls and homo's aren't the same.
Just saying that you're not gay despite getting caught up with what was clearly a man just makes him sound like a crackhead who's denying he smokes crack. Then try to flip it and act like he the victim...?

It's clear that Mr Cee is a chaser but with the shit that he's saying he's tarnishing a word that already has negative connotations associated with it. That Donkey of the day was well earned.

The only thing he was honest about was that he wants sex w/o the BS which I'm sure any man could understand. He's just not going about it right. Shave a couple pounds and build some damn confidence.

There's no reason in hell that a well known radio personality can't find them a weekend chick who knows her place.

Patrice O'Neal, God rest his soul could attest to that. He said he got tired of taking trips to Brazil to get some ass, so he stepped his game up and had a bad ass bi-sexual chick in his corner.

[kasseen]

SMFH....3 strikes! your gay bruh....he should just admit it by now....

[tsamberskyi]

This is why professional guys like myself tend to stay on the dl. Its not so much an issue that a girl is transgendered. Its that most if not all the girls are prostitutes or sex workers which jeopardizes careers if all of what we did behind closed doors ever came out.

Not really an issue since he wasn't dating these "girls".he was a client (and i use that term loosely since his thing seems to be street prostitution) looking for a girl to pay for sex.

[TurboMan]

What's up fam. I haven't been in the forums for a while but just wanted to know if anyone had been following the newest Mr. Cee incident. If you guys dont know who he is, he's a popular DJ for New Yorks most popular hiphop station, Hot 97. He was arrested previously for a 2011 incident in which he allegedly received head from a transgendered prostitute. He was arrested again on Thursday for soliciting a male cop (though he says it was a female cop and that she approached him) in an area known to be frequented by transexual prostitutes. In the YouTube clip below he is being interviewed by his boss or coworker about this newest incident. Of course a big part of the interview centers around whether he's straight or not. The interviewer who's supposed to be his friend says he only wants to know because he's concerned about the gay audience, who are going to be upset that he didn't come out, he says the gay audience will find it offensive if he doesn't come out. This to me sounds absurd. Apparently the interviewer is speaking for the entire gay community.

My question is why is it that people need to place people in a box?
Seems now people are using Frank Ocean and Jason Collins as examples as to why no one has a right to keep their sexuality private. The interviewer seemed down right upset that Mr.Cee didn't tell him what he wanted to hear.
It's a long interview but intriguing none the less
http://youtu.be/HHYkqb9nPnk
Youtube deleted the interview video..checkout worldstarhiphop..May 6th.

[TurboMan]

After hearing this interview it's hard to feel bad for the guy.
Saying that he pleaded guilty in 2011 for getting head by a cross dresser simply because he didn't want to go back an forth to court is the dumbest shit I'd ever heard. Seriously how is pleading guilty to solicitation helping your "family" if your hinting that you didn't do it or that it was some type of conspiracy yet you were just caught doing the same shit again????

Now in my thirstier days I've had some ugly genetic girls that I wouldn't own up to today...So I understand that but his whole argument just sounds stupid. It's one thing to say that you're not gay since tgirls and homo's aren't the same.
Just saying that you're not gay despite getting caught up with what was clearly a man just makes him sound like a crackhead who's denying he smokes crack. Then try to flip it and act like he the victim...?

It's clear that Mr Cee is a chaser but with the shit that he's saying he's tarnishing a word that already has negative connotations associated with it. That Donkey of the day was well earned.

The only thing he was honest about was that he wants sex w/o the BS which I'm sure any man could understand. He's just not going about it right. Shave a couple pounds and build some damn confidence.

There's no reason in hell that a well known radio personality can't find them a weekend chick who knows her place.

Patrice O'Neal, God rest his soul could attest to that. He said he got tired of taking trips to Brazil to get some ass, so he stepped his game up and had a bad ass bi-sexual chick in his corner.


I agree..you are on the money.

[Ms Remy M]

This is why professional guys like myself tend to stay on the dl. Its not so much an issue that a girl is transgendered. Its that most if not all the girls are prostitutes or sex workers which jeopardizes careers if all of what we did behind closed doors ever came out.

Most Trans women are not "prostitutes or sex workers". It's just that dl men and men whom fetishize trans women look for sex workers for those discreet no strings attached encounters so that's what they see most, because not everyone is going to put up with that bs.

It's clear that these radio personalities are only concerned with boosting their ratings through the sensationalism of this topic. Unfortunately, coming out saying you like "trans women" is being lumped together with coming out as "gay" when in fact they are two separate issues. It's going to be some time before mainstream society recognizes the difference between the two.

[thegreat1]

Most Trans women are not "prostitutes or sex workers". It's just that dl men and men whom fetishize trans women look for sex workers for those discreet no strings attached encounters so that's what they see most, because not everyone is going to put up with that bs.

Remy, i love and respect you to death, but your 'blame it on men' thing sometimes TOTALLY clouds your judgement. Let me just put it out there, YOU ARE A RARITY. I know you love your 'sisters', but the truth is the truth mama. You can paint an elephant orange, dont make it a tiger lol.

[Ms Remy M]

Remy, i love and respect you to death, but your 'blame it on men' thing sometimes TOTALLY clouds your judgement. Let me just put it out there, YOU ARE A RARITY. I know you love your 'sisters', but the truth is the truth mama. You can paint an elephant orange, dont make it a tiger lol.

Actually it's common sense, if you go to a Chevy dealer you aren't going to find BMW cars, you're going to find Chevy. Stop looking for trans women in sex work related places and your eyes may open to a whole new world that exist all around you. Look in the right places and you'll have better luck, I'm far from being a rarity. I'm not going to list the sites here, but there are many websites where you can find girls that have nothing to do with sex work, they just live "regular" lives. I'd imagine most guys would decry them anyway for not looking like "porn stars" lol

[tsamberskyi]

We could do the math for them but i highly doubt they would believe us but just for kicks why not.so since living with you i meet about two girls a week, there's 52 weeks i believe in a year.we've been roommates for about two years now? So I've meet 208 ts woman (not including social interactions of my own).to be fair tho there are slow months so we can take about a quarter off that sum.
i think it's safe to say we know way more girls than anyone on this forum (except seanchi and maybe killakali).
I would have to say that 50 to 60% of the girls you film don't escort and have jobs despite doing an occasional photoshoot.

[Ms Remy M]

Ok, the vast majority don't escort and work regular 9-5 jobs. I know far more girls that I don't even bother to approach about filming that have perfectly normal lives.

I don't have a "blame it on men" thinking. There is a vicious cycle of men only wanting to be DL and then women being scorned deciding they might as well just make money off of those encounters though.

A person can't even compare dating a transwoman who escorts and is in a relationship with a man, to a guy getting caught on the stroll with a transsexual escort. How many news articles do you see a year about a man getting called out for being in a serious relationship with trans woman escort or not, none. Why, because no one cares.

[raheme]

Actually it's common sense, if you go to a Chevy dealer you aren't going to find BMW cars, you're going to find Chevy. Stop looking for trans women in sex work related places and your eyes may open to a whole new world that exist all around you. Look in the right places and you'll have better luck, I'm far from being a rarity. I'm not going to list the sites here, but there are many websites where you can find girls that have nothing to do with sex work, they just live "regular" lives. I'd imagine most guys would decry them anyway for not looking like "porn stars" lol

I've probably been involved in this lifestyle for well over 10 years now...where do these mythical places exist Remy?

Bgclive...98% sex workers

Datehookup...98% of ts profiles elude to $ for play

Hell even plentyoffish is full of ts sex workers

I have yet to find one place online where a down to earth young brother can go and meet a down to earth non sex work related ts sister...

I'm not trying to demonize ts women I'm just stating what's out there. If you know of these places, feel free to enlighten me madamme

[Indy24]

Most Trans women are not "prostitutes or sex workers". It's just that dl men and men whom fetishize trans women look for sex workers for those discreet no strings attached encounters so that's what they see most, because not everyone is going to put up with that bs.Why does it sound like anything a particular TS doesn't like is always dismissed as a "fetish"?
Do trannies refer to men the just want for sex as a fetish be comparison? I've known quite a few tgirls who don't whore who had me on their speed dial for the sole purpose of night time actives.

And they're not walking around with "I'm a trans" taped to their foreheads either. The more passable they are the more discrete they tend to be with the knowledge of their "T".



It's clear that these radio personalities are only concerned with boosting their ratings through the sensationalism of this topic. Unfortunately, coming out saying you like "trans women" is being lumped together with coming out as "gay" when in fact they are two separate issues. It's going to be some time before mainstream society recognizes the difference between the two.
I agree but the problem with Mr. Cee's issue is that the person that he was caught up with was a man that cross dresses and not a transsexual. There was nothing passable about this guy nor does he adhere to the TS life beyond making a fast buck from "thirsty trade". So it would be hard for Mr. Cee to be the ideal spokesman for TS or Trans-admirers in this case.

Having some dumb nigga say "If I choose to lie then that's my choice" as his alibi wouldn't help the Transgender cause anyway. So let the homo's claim him.

[Ms Remy M]

I've probably been involved in this lifestyle for well over 10 years now...where do these mythical places exist Remy?

Bgclive...98% sex workers

Datehookup...98% of ts profiles elude to $ for play

Hell even plentyoffish is full of ts sex workers

I have yet to find one place online where a down to earth young brother can go and meet a down to earth non sex work related ts sister...

I'm not trying to demonize ts women I'm just stating what's out there. If you know of these places, feel free to enlighten me madamme

Sorry, but again I'm not listing sites here. I would highly suggest going to some of the many ts forums that aren't in relation to the adult industry as a start, though I'm not naming those either. I think I have in the past so it's probably here somewhere in my many post.

I will admit that bgclive has a lot of sex workers, but it's not 98%. Just in the past two months I've filmed 5 girls from bgclive, 3 from philly 2 from DC area, and none of them were escorts. I will say dating type sites may not be the best as some girls (not all) do use them as an additional ad service along with the typical fare.

[Ms Remy M]

Why does it sound like anything a particular TS doesn't like is always dismissed as a "fetish"?
Do trannies refer to men the just want for sex as a fetish be comparison? I've known quite a few tgirls who don't whore who had me on their speed dial for the sole purpose of night time actives.

And they're not walking around with "I'm a trans" taped to their foreheads either. The more passable they are the more discrete they tend to be with the knowledge of their "T".


I agree but the problem with Mr. Cee's issue is that the person that he was caught up with was a man that cross dresses and not a transsexual. There was nothing passable about this guy nor does he adhere to the TS life beyond making a fast buck from "thirsty trade". So it would be hard for Mr. Cee to be the ideal spokesman for TS or Trans-admirers in this case.

Having some dumb nigga say "If I choose to lie then that's my choice" as his alibi wouldn't help the Transgender cause anyway. So let the homo's claim him.


I think you are personalizing a statement I made, and if you don't treat trans women as a fetish, then that's awesome for you. My statement wouldn't have bothered you one wit if it doesn't apply to you. That doesn't mean that everyone falls into that same category because there is a difference between people who only view trans women as a sex object, and people who openly appreciate trans women for all their aspects of being.

[raheme]

Sorry, but again I'm not listing sites here. I would highly suggest going to some of the many ts forums that aren't in relation to the adult industry as a start, though I'm not naming those either. I think I have in the past so it's probably here somewhere in my many post.

I will admit that bgclive has a lot of sex workers, but it's not 98%. Just in the past two months I've filmed 5 girls from bgclive, 3 from philly 2 from DC area, and none of them were escorts. I will say dating type sites may not be the best as some girls (not all) do use them as an additional ad service along with the typical fare.

So essentially you're saying I'm not only wrong but devoid of knowledge pertaining to the subject matter...yet you're remedy to enlighten the ignorant is basically "I'm not telling you; its our little secret"...excellent response Watson

[tsamberskyi]

Sorry, but again I'm not listing sites here. I would highly suggest going to some of the many ts forums that aren't in relation to the adult industry as a start, though I'm not naming those either. I think I have in the past so it's probably here somewhere in my many post.

I will admit that bgclive has a lot of sex workers, but it's not 98%. Just in the past two months I've filmed 5 girls from bgclive, 3 from philly 2 from DC area, and none of them were escorts. I will say dating type sites may not be the best as some girls (not all) do use them as an additional ad service along with the typical fare.

Nooooo (echoey slow mo voice lol)..don't do it lmao

[Ms Remy M]

So essentially you're saying I'm not only wrong but devoid of knowledge pertaining to the subject matter...yet you're remedy to enlighten the ignorant is basically "I'm not telling you; its our little secret"...excellent response Watson

I didn't say I was a match maker. You are a grown man, continue to put in the work to search for that person you are looking for if you want something bad enough.

[Indy24]

I think you are personalizing a statement I made, and if you don't treat trans women as a fetish, then that's awesome for you. My statement wouldn't have bothered you one wit if it doesn't apply to you. That doesn't mean that everyone falls into that same category because there is a difference between people who only view trans women as a sex object, and people who openly appreciate trans women for all their aspects of being.

I'm a certified womanizer. Of course I personalized it and I addressed my concerns with the overall generalization of the phrase in question. I'll accept my faults for what they are.

However....

I hear the term a lot from TS women on sites like this who ironically tend to be prudes who's sex drive has been stunted significantly by the hormones she's using or by hookers who use it justify their occupation.

Both have their on agenda's be it a kept men who doesn't leave the house especially when she's not in the mood or a generous trick.

Wouldn't surprise me if this particular guy turns from one of those extremes to another at some point in life be it with trans or genetic women.

As for me it pays to be single...LOL!

[tsamberskyi]

Sorry, but again I'm not listing sites here. I would highly suggest going to some of the many ts forums that aren't in relation to the adult industry as a start, though I'm not naming those either. I think I have in the past so it's probably here somewhere in my many post.

I will admit that bgclive has a lot of sex workers, but it's not 98%. Just in the past two months I've filmed 5 girls from bgclive, 3 from philly 2 from DC area, and none of them were escorts. I will say dating type sites may not be the best as some girls (not all) do use them as an additional ad service along with the typical fare.


I'm a certified womanizer. Of course I personalized it and I addressed my concerns with the overall generalization of the phrase in question. I'll accept my faults for what they are.

However....

I hear the term a lot from TS women on sites like this who ironically tend to be prudes who's sex drive has been stunted significantly by the hormones she's using or by hookers who use it justify their occupation.

Both have their on agenda's be it a kept men who doesn't leave the house especially when she's not in the mood or a generous trick.

Wouldn't surprise me if this particular guy turns from one of those extremes to another at some point in life be it with trans or genetic women.

As for me it pays to be single...LOL!

Just wondering (no humor or back door sarcasm involved) do you ever get lonely and just want someone to share life with.if so, how do you deal when you get hit by those moods?

[Indy24]

Just wondering (no humor or back door sarcasm involved) do you ever get lonely and just want someone to share life with.if so, how do you deal when you get hit by those moods?

Single doesn't necessarily equate to loneliness.

My kids keep me busy, their mother still loves me and my in-boxes a rarely empty.

Facebook is fish in a barrel...all I have to do is compliment a tgirl's most recent photo followed by a little flirting and then two of her girlfriends are sending me friend request, asking how close I am to soandso.

Yet I can still go out on any given night to successfully meet new people.

So with that being said I have no current desire to be a house cat, starring out the window at random pussy.

I mention all this because I really can't understand why a guy in Mr. Cee's position can't catch a break. Granted money and success isn't everything but his story just just doesn't add up. Had Biggie taught him anything..?

[tsamberskyi]

Single doesn't necessarily equate to loneliness.

My kids keep me busy, their mother still loves me and my in-boxes a rarely empty.

Facebook is fish in a barrel...all I have to do is compliment a tgirl's most recent photo followed by a little flirting and then two of her girlfriends are sending me friend request, asking how close I am to soandso.

Yet I can still go out on any given night to successfully meet new people.

So with that being said I have no current desire to be a house cat, starring out the window at random pussy.

I mention all this because I really can't understand why a guy in Mr. Cee's position can't catch a break. Granted money and success isn't everything but his story just just doesn't add up. Had Biggie taught him anything..?

well the whole facebook pimp comments aside (lol) it was cool to hear about your kids.
i wasnt really talking about going out meeting meeting people but more do you ever feel the desire to form a meaningful connection.
while being single doesnt mean loneliness but i think every single person comes across that night or whatever where they wish they had someone to cuddle with.maybe its just sentimental girl shit lol

[Indy24]

well the whole facebook pimp comments aside (lol) it was cool to hear about your kids.
i wasnt really talking about going out meeting meeting people but more do you ever feel the desire to form a meaningful connection.
while being single doesnt mean loneliness but i think every single person comes across that night or whatever where they wish they had someone to cuddle with.maybe its just sentimental girl shit lol

Some of my female friends are closer than others. It's not always Wham, Bam, Goodbye. When we're together we act as if we're together. Then once she's sick of me she's gone on about her biz...

Me and this one genetic girl have been doing this on and off for over 10 years.
And a TS who's been around for 6. You may not see it as the same thing but it works. And when it doesn't we know it's time for a break.

[Ms Remy M]

Having been single for two years too long, I can say that it does indeed suck at times. Then I think to myself about how I have to have my mind on my money and money on my mind. With so many people in this world there is always the potential for love and happiness, but success in life can be a once and gone opportunity that may never return.

I've had many different business opportunities that I saw coming and grasped upon them with all my might from working in the music industry to now filming for Grooby. Thinking back at how easily these opportunities could have passed me by with just any other random thing catching my attention at that particular moment, and I feel blessed to have been so focused.

Eventually, the person that hits on all the marks will come by and spike my interest as well, in the mean time my mind is too preoccupied with other things (hobbies, work, play) to spare much time on loneliness.

[Indy24]

Having been single for two years too long, I can say that it does indeed suck at times. Then I think to myself about how I have to have my mind on my money and money on my mind. With so many people in this world there is always the potential for love and happiness, but success in life can be a once and gone opportunity that may never return.

I've had many different business opportunities that I saw coming and grasped upon them with all my might from working in the music industry to now filming for Grooby. Thinking back at how easily these opportunities could have passed me by with just any other random thing catching my attention at that particular moment, and I feel blessed to have been so focused.

Eventually, the person that hits on all the marks will come by and spike my interest as well, in the mean time my mind is too preoccupied with other things (hobbies, work, play) to spare much time on loneliness.

Oh okay....

So is that why you choose to pay prostitutes?

[tsamberskyi]

Oh okay....

So is that why you choose to pay prostitutes?

Dude,wtf..is it a joke I'm just not getting or are you just that disrespectful

[illuno]

Most Trans women are not "prostitutes or sex workers". It's just that dl men and men whom fetishize trans women look for sex workers for those discreet no strings attached encounters so that's what they see most, because not everyone is going to put up with that bs.

It's clear that these radio personalities are only concerned with boosting their ratings through the sensationalism of this topic. Unfortunately, coming out saying you like "trans women" is being lumped together with coming out as "gay" when in fact they are two separate issues. It's going to be some time before mainstream society recognizes the difference between the two.

Yea true. I think "gay" is a different category. I think we all know what we are for the most part. But many times I think part of the fear is being placed in a box that doesn't fit. If your "gay" that's fine but if you don't feel u fit that box, why must it be thrust upon u. It means having to fight a battle that's not even yours to fight. Like to me it sounds like he likes the company of transgendered females which is different.
So how can he admit to something that he isn't. Not saying he should or shouldnt be convicted or if he's right or wrong. Nor am I saying hes a good or bad guy. I'm just speaking on how people feel the need to put others in a box.
I think if the box fits u it's a little easier to say yea this is me but if it doesn't, peeps should chill. Either way its the individuals choice.

[Indy24]

Dude,wtf..is it a joke I'm just not getting or are you just that disrespectful

It was a joke but is the joke that outlandish to suggest that a person who's right in the thick of it hasn't sampled a some to the forbidden fruit? Hell even I've paid a hooker or two before Tranny Chasing Jesus showed me the light...

Your roommate isn't the Pope so please take it down a notch...

Its no more "disrespectful" than the "occupation" you've been the defending the past 2 or so years that I've been here.

LOL its like: "HOW DARE YOU ACCUSE MY FRIEND OF SOLICITING SEX LIKE SOME COMMON THIRTY DEVIANT! KNOW YOU PLACE YOU LOWLY TRANNY CHASING DOG!"

"Oh and by the way...I'll be in Atlanta this weekend my ad should be up shortly...kisses!"

[tsamberskyi]

It was a joke but is the joke that outlandish to suggest that a person who's right in the thick of it hasn't sampled a some to the forbidden fruit? Hell even I've paid a hooker or two before Tranny Chasing Jesus showed me the light...

Your roommate isn't the Pope so please take it down a notch...

Its no more "disrespectful" than the "occupation" you've been the defending the past 2 or so years that I've been here.

LOL its like: "HOW DARE YOU ACCUSE MY FRIEND OF SOLICITING SEX LIKE SOME COMMON THIRTY DEVIANT! KNOW YOU PLACE YOU LOWLY TRANNY CHASING DOG!"

"Oh and by the way...I'll be in Atlanta this weekend my ad should be up shortly...kisses!"

I guess it's to much to expect a decent response.we were having (what i thought) was a decent conversation about dating or the lack off.i ask you a question without any venom and you replied back without any (rare for you and i but refreshing).someone takes the time to share a bit about themselves, contribute to the conversation and you reply back in true coon fashion.
your maturity level is staggering.an ass hat being an ass hat just for the sake of it?

[Ms Remy M]

It was a joke but is the joke that outlandish to suggest that a person who's right in the thick of it hasn't sampled a some to the forbidden fruit? Hell even I've paid a hooker or two before Tranny Chasing Jesus showed me the light...

Your roommate isn't the Pope so please take it down a notch...

Its no more "disrespectful" than the "occupation" you've been the defending the past 2 or so years that I've been here.

LOL its like: "HOW DARE YOU ACCUSE MY FRIEND OF SOLICITING SEX LIKE SOME COMMON THIRTY DEVIANT! KNOW YOU PLACE YOU LOWLY TRANNY CHASING DOG!"

"Oh and by the way...I'll be in Atlanta this weekend my ad should be up shortly...kisses!"

lol So you are assuming that because a person is into trans women, that they must have used escort services some time before? You are most certainly wrong, I have never had the need to take part in such services, though I see nothing wrong with those that do. I also know other individuals whom have not used escort services, instead, through the graces of good looks and awesome personalities are able to meet women on the strength of their character alone.

Once I became aware of trans women, I simply went out to a gay club where they frequented and started talking to one which led to a 3 year relationship during which time I found out about Grooby productions whilst looking for a way for her to get onto modeling. The ad was for models/photographers and viola, I got in where I fit in.

I think it is an entirely crass individual that feels that one's introduction to the trans world is solely through porn/escorting. I'd never seen trans porn until after I was already into the lifestyle. I had already worked for many years as a business professional, so I had no desire to "sample the forbidden fruit" though I have engaged in relationships with models, and with girls who later decided to model for me. I don't go willy-nilly groping models during or after a photo-shoot. I don't proclaim to sit on some proverbial high horse, just to have some decorum and tact. Perhaps it will rub off on you some day. :p

[Ms Remy M]

Yea true. I think "gay" is a different category. I think we all know what we are for the most part. But many times I think part of the fear is being placed in a box that doesn't fit. If your "gay" that's fine but if you don't feel u fit that box, why must it be thrust upon u. It means having to fight a battle that's not even yours to fight. Like to me it sounds like he likes the company of transgendered females which is different.
So how can he admit to something that he isn't. Not saying he should or shouldnt be convicted or if he's right or wrong. Nor am I saying hes a good or bad guy. I'm just speaking on how people feel the need to put others in a box.
I think if the box fits u it's a little easier to say yea this is me but if it doesn't, peeps should chill. Either way its the individuals choice.

I agree; however trans and their admirers are still bound to the LGBT lifestyle and as such are lumped all together by those ignorant of the lifestyle thereby being labeled the misnomer "gay".

[tsamberskyi]

lol So you are assuming that because a person is into trans women, that they must have used escort services some time before? You are most certainly wrong, I have never had the need to take part in such services, though I see nothing wrong with those that do. I also know other individuals whom have not used escort services, instead, through the graces of good looks and awesome personalities are able to meet women on the strength of their character alone.

Once I became aware of trans women, I simply went out to a gay club where they frequented and started talking to one which led to a 3 year relationship during which time I found out about Grooby productions whilst looking for a way for her to get onto modeling. The ad was for models/photographers and viola, I got in where I fit in.

I think it is an entirely crass individual that feels that one's introduction to the trans world is solely through porn/escorting. I'd never seen trans porn until after I was already into the lifestyle. I had already worked for many years as a business professional, so I had no desire to "sample the forbidden fruit" though I have engaged in relationships with models, and with girls who later decided to model for me. I don't go willy-nilly groping models during or after a photo-shoot. I don't proclaim to sit on some proverbial high horse, just to have some decorum and tact. Perhaps it will rub off on you some day. :p

You are so much calmer than me and react with so much grace.i keep waiting for that to rub off on me, girl you know I'm way to quick to let loose with my tongue lol

[Indy24]

I have never had the need to take part in such services, though I see nothing wrong with those that do.

Great! Then you should'n't have taken my comment seriously..

YET, when see mention little jabs like
"I also know other individuals whom have not used escort services, instead, through the graces of good looks and awesome personalities are able to meet women on the strength of their character alone" in the same breath I can't help but observe the contradictory..this thread is about a well known DJ who got caught multiple times with prostitutes who's still making a fool of himself even after the fact. So although my comment may have come across as crass it was relevant to the subject matter in the thread.

Last time I checked the sign outside this place said anything but "Sunday School". So I didn't think the joke would be any harm. But if I've offended you in any way then I sincerely apologize.


You are so much calmer than me and react with so much grace.i keep waiting for that to rub off on me, girl you know I'm way to quick to let loose with my tongue lol
That's because it clearly wasn't that damn serious.

But I do question how much you respect your own profession given that you're in such an uproar about me giving the notion that someone close to you could be soliciting sex.

The bees and spiders in your head must really go at it at times...

Have fun instigating... I'm done.

[Ms Remy M]

Great! Then you should'n't have taken my comment seriously..

YET, when see mention little jabs like in the same breath I can't help but observe the contradictory..this thread is about a well known DJ who got caught multiple times with prostitutes who's still making a fool of himself even after the fact. So although my comment may have come across as crass it was relevant to the subject matter in the thread.

Last time I checked the sign outside this place said anything but "Sunday School". So I didn't think the joke would be any harm. But if I've offended you in any way then I sincerely apologize.


That's because it clearly wasn't that damn serious.

But I do question how much you respect your own profession given that you're in such an uproar about me giving the notion that someone close to you could be soliciting sex.

The bees and spiders in your head must really go at it at times...

Have fun instigating... I'm done.

Actually when I saw the original post "So is that why you choose to pay prostitutes?", I did have a laugh because it was so absurd. Despite that, I still felt that in the additional post that came after should be responded to as people (not just your comment) seem to think that porn shoots are just free for all sex sessions. I've had so many people want to sit in on shoots, from boyfriends of models, members of the site, potential male performers, etc. It's really all fairly tame aside from the naked bodies walking around set randomly (which could be a get off for some) that I usually equate it to having a magician tell you how they do the trick, it makes it all somehow less than it originally was. I also found that second post to be a bit offensive in general, and would note that you made no attempt to proclaim that as a joke as well. Why shouldn't she defend her friend when she knows I've never had need to solicit sex, she's not making some assumption, she knows this as fact. She doesn't have a problem with people soliciting sex either, just when people place false claims on those close to her.

[tsamberskyi]

Girl pay it.
you can't defeat a troll with logic and wit.the only way to slay one is to starve it of attention.

[Indy24]

Actually when I saw the original post "So is that why you choose to pay prostitutes?", I did have a laugh because it was so absurd. Despite that, I still felt that in the additional post that came after should be responded to as people (not just your comment) seem to think that porn shoots are just free for all sex sessions. I've had so many people want to sit in on shoots, from boyfriends of models, members of the site, potential male performers, etc. It's really all fairly tame aside from the naked bodies walking around set randomly (which could be a get off for some) that I usually equate it to having a magician tell you how they do the trick, it makes it all somehow less than it originally was. I also found that second post to be a bit offensive in general, and would note that you made no attempt to proclaim that as a joke as well. Why shouldn't she defend her friend when she knows I've never had need to solicit sex, she's not making some assumption, she knows this as fact. She doesn't have a problem with people soliciting sex either, just when people place false claims on those close to her.
Well again my apologies.

[Indy24]

Girl pay it.
you can't defeat a troll with logic and wit.the only way to slay one is to starve it of attention.

Aww...I hate when you go to bed made me. :(

[tsamberskyi]

Aww...I hate when you go to bed made me. :(

I'm not mad, just would be nice if you could be cool all the time and not just in spurts lol.
I'm sure people think the same about me hahaha

[methodman]

SMFH....3 strikes! your gay bruh....he should just admit it by now....

And how about you?

[methodman]

Actually it's common sense, if you go to a Chevy dealer you aren't going to find BMW cars, you're going to find Chevy. Stop looking for trans women in sex work related places and your eyes may open to a whole new world that exist all around you. Look in the right places and you'll have better luck, I'm far from being a rarity. I'm not going to list the sites here, but there are many websites where you can find girls that have nothing to do with sex work, they just live "regular" lives. I'd imagine most guys would decry them anyway for not looking like "porn stars" lol

I use to try to educate these online guys that they live in an unnatural bubble but nowadays people are pretty certain in their narrow-mindedness. If they don't see it they don't believe it.

[Ms Remy M]

I use to try to educate these online guys that they live in an unnatural bubble but nowadays people are pretty certain in their narrow-mindedness. If they don't see it they don't believe it.

Yeah, people are always telling me not to bother wasting my breath with the guys on here, but I persist lol