Is anyone here NOT dl?

[bmore]

Have any of you been in a REAL relationship with a tgirl before? Or are any of you guys open about dating trannys? Like do you go out in public and date?

Also, does anyone here NOT pay for your tgirl encounters?

[werwt22]

Have any of you been in a REAL relationship with a tgirl before? Or are any of you guys open about dating trannys? Like do you go out in public and date?

Also, does anyone here NOT pay for your tgirl encounters?

I havent been in a LTR, but I have dated a few. Yes been open, but a lot of times the ones I've dated tend to travel too often whether it was escorting, modeling, hair shows, or whatever profession to maintain anything more meaningful than a strong "friends with benefits" relationship. I go out in public no problem, but if your not passable or too "flagrantly gay" then no. Not saying she has to be supremely beautiful, but passable yes. Big difference between who I'd sleep with and who I'd be seen in public with as far as dating but im sure thats everyone.

I dont pay...never have. I was always more interested in just meeting tgirls to possibly date, some just booty calls, (just like GG's) but the numbers you encounter on a daily basis in most places are just so low, escorts, non existent most often, or just "cheap knockoffs" that its hard for someone not to pay just for the experience. Yea, theres plenty good ones out there, but I get a little tired of communicating with girls out of state that you cant hang with more often. Who knows...starting to get older now, so might have to come off a few bucks one day LOL.

[chubbychaser]

Why not be dl!!!! I like females and i like trannys NOBODY NEEDS TO KNOW...And besides if i tell someone thats gonna cause drama and now i gonna be looked at like a walking disease cause i like them tgirls. Some say i need to man up, FUCK THAT im happy the way i am!!!

[tsamberskyi]

Oh lord not this again lol.
there are plenty of non dl men out there who are living happy stress free lives.
This horse has been beat to death on here but i personally don't give men the time of day without there first being a public date of some sort.my little filter

[chubbychaser]

I never paid for a tgirl encounter , although i have thought it about it with some. Now would i go out in public with a tgirl DEPENDS on how they talk and look . If they look good but say "honey"IN EVERY SENTENCE, and used that flamboyant lingo THEN HELL NO but we can still get it in at the cribbb and you can say HONEY , WHATS THE TEA, yasssssss, all you want!!!

[SHAUN]

I'm not trying to sound all "holier-than-thou", but if I'm attracted to someone enough to want to have sex with them, then that same someone is fine sitting opposite me in a resteraunt, or at the cinema, or in a bar etc etc.

Sex material is not always love material (obviously) but it is dating material, for me.

If you're fine with private intimacy but can't face the possibility of public judgement..... it's because "you" are weak.

Do the algebra.... It's "you"... you're the common denominator... you're the problem (not the person you'd have sex with but wont date)

blue eyed devil

[werwt22]

I'm not trying to sound all "holier-than-thou", but if I'm attracted to someone enough to want to have sex with them, then that same someone is fine sitting opposite me in a resteraunt, or at the cinema, or in a bar etc etc.

Sex material is not always love material (obviously) but it is dating material, for me.

If you're fine with private intimacy but can't face the possibility of public judgement..... it's because "you" are weak.

Do the algebra.... It's "you"... you're the common denominator... you're the problem (not the person you'd have sex with but wont date)

blue eyed devil

"Holier-than-thou" sounds the complete opposite of what you speak. Sounds more like "YOU" "just-dont-give-a-fuck." There are girls you talk to and just fuck, girls you wanna fuck that you have a possibility of liking that youd take on a date, and girls that your open to whatever possibilities. The fact that youd take the lowest of the low on a date shows you have no standards. Im open in whom I rock with, but I wont take a girl out that I know we dont have shit in common on any level or click with. Waste of time and just a desperate measure to get ass.

[werwt22]

And its not my intention to offend you, but this is just based on what I've seen you post.

[SHAUN]

No worries lol...

What you've missed, though, is this: I didn't say I would take "the lowest of the low" (as you put it) to take out on a date.... You see, just as I wouldn't tolerate a fake drama queen as my date in a public setting, neither would I choose her company in a private for sex...

It is you who are saying you would tolerate such a character in an intimate setting, for sex... but not for a date.

Whereas I wouldn't tolerate an idiot for any setting, no matter how fine she looked.

blue eyed devil

[kanguru]

I'd date a TS if I didn't have to rely on escorts who don't even live in my city. If I lived in ATL, sign me up. I'd rather get free dick and actually get to know the girl on non sexual shit than to blow money on them. Not that I mind spending money on these girls to support the cause, but I don't really care who I date between TS/GG.

None of my friends know I like TS, but if I found one that was dating material, she'd be on my arm like a GG and there'd be no difference. It's 2014 lol.

[werwt22]

No worries lol...

What you've missed, though, is this: I didn't say I would take "the lowest of the low" (as you put it) to take out on a date.... You see, just as I wouldn't tolerate a fake drama queen as my date in a public setting, neither would I choose her company in a private for sex...

It is you who are saying you would tolerate such a character in an intimate setting, for sex... but not for a date.

Whereas I wouldn't tolerate an idiot for any setting, no matter how fine she looked.

blue eyed devil

Noble gesture, but theyre called "guilty pleasures." We all have someone we'd be willing to sleep with, and have no other strings attached or no affiliation beyond "friend."

[tsamberskyi]

Noble gesture, but theyre called "guilty pleasures." We all have someone we'd be willing to sleep with, and have no other strings attached or no affiliation beyond "friend."

Maybe some people do but that doesn't mean everyone does.half of my attraction to a person is from their personality, if I don't like that than im turned off.
For example, I cant stand "hood dudes" and no matter how attractive they maybe as soon as they open their mouth its an instant boner kill.

[Larryp]

I had a relationship with a TS woman for about 8 months almost two years ago. She was (is) a very pretty black woman and is completely passable. Other than being tall (5'10"), no one even thinks twice about her--I know that I certainly did not. We met at work (she does finance work for a large company), getting to know each other quite a bit before I asked her out.

We hit it off very well and became serious for a number of months. She's just a fun person to be around, very smart, friendly and upbeat. I am single and bi-sexual, and did not freak out when I learned her "secret." Rather, I found her to be a sexy, feminine woman who I enjoyed being with. Although white, I have always been attracted to black women and have mostly dated black women the past ten years.

Although we are no longer in a relationship, we remain friends. The experience was very positive for me--I learned a great deal about myself, as well as all about her struggle to be a woman, including seeing first-hand the courage it takes be a transexual woman. The relationship also allowed me to learn that I am very attracted to TS woman. I remain very interested in meeting, getting to know, and having a relationship with another TS woman. That's my story!! Peace.

[werwt22]

Maybe some people do but that doesn't mean everyone does.half of my attraction to a person is from their personality, if I don't like that than im turned off.
For example, I cant stand "hood dudes" and no matter how attractive they maybe as soon as they open their mouth its an instant boner kill.

but imagine if they kept their mouth closed? And then you have a "guilty pleasure."

[tsamberskyi]

but imagine if they kept their mouth closed? And then you have a "guilty pleasure."

I've never had a sexual encounter in which a person didn't speak at all and maybe because I'm a girl but i wouldn't be interested in laying with someone i couldn't have a decent conversation with.

[SHAUN]

I understand the "guilty pleasure" thing lol... maybe it's more of a "guy" thing, in fact I'm sure it is (I have to admit I would fuk pretty much anything that was vaguely feminine when I was young and learning how to use my dick lol)

The thing is, in the end you grow up lol... And, honestly, no matter how beautiful and sexy a woman is, if I found her character unattractive I wouldn't even contemplate getting intimate with her... Not even if we were stranded on a desert island where no one else would find out!!! :) .... A fake/weak/nasty character kills all seduction for me, no matter how hot she looks.

blue eyed devil

[blk_jnd]

The thing is, in the end you grow up lol... And, honestly, no matter how beautiful and sexy a woman is, if I found her character unattractive I wouldn't even contemplate getting intimate with her... Not even if we were stranded on a desert island where no one else would find out!!! :) .... A fake/weak/nasty character kills all seduction for me, no matter how hot she looks.

blue eyed devil

Bro, you're getting waay too deep with this porn shit. I see you here making a lot of 'suggestions' to Grooby about photoshoots some of which I agree with like a true perv.

I never seen anything from you sumthin' like the 'sensuous experience of a very clever girl reading a book' right? You bug Grooby to make sure dey ass is spread wide and shit.

Admit it, you jerk off as they wiggle bootay like most. Fuck convo.

[chubbychaser]

Bro, you're getting waay too deep with this porn shit. I see you here making a lot of 'suggestions' to Grooby about photoshoots some of which I agree with like a true perv.

I never seen anything from you sumthin' like the 'sensuous experience of a very clever girl reading a book' right? You bug Grooby to make sure dey ass is spread wide and shit.

Admit it, you jerk off as they wiggle bootay like most. Fuck convo.

lmao :D lol

[Handandsom]

I prefer to pay for what I want. The saddest part about that is people still try to play games. In essence this is all that it becomes, whether you trying to meet and greet or discreet receipts. No DL about what I do but I'm not one to put too much of my business in the streets. And that is simply the fact of it. Nor have I ever been concerned with what people say or think about me. I support myself. But I've been in this thing, the game for a few years now, and I have no regrets about my choices and I say that to say this. One has to analyze themself and know what they want in another whether that be a relationship or not. For me I want no strings beyond the one that lines the middle of two beautiful hind cheeks.

[SHAUN]

Bro, you're getting waay too deep with this porn shit. I see you here making a lot of 'suggestions' to Grooby about photoshoots some of which I agree with like a true perv.

I never seen anything from you sumthin' like the 'sensuous experience of a very clever girl reading a book' right? You bug Grooby to make sure dey ass is spread wide and shit.

Admit it, you jerk off as they wiggle bootay like most. Fuck convo.

lol convincingly put, and I'm glad a fellow perv is in agreement with some of my posts about MORE SPREAD WIDE GAPING ASS lol :)

That's the beauty of vids and pics: it's just a fantasy fuk, no matter what their personality....

But when it comes to reality in all it's dimensions: give me a clever girl with a book any day of the week!.. And anyway, if she's up for it, I'll help her find her inner freak as well :)

blue eyed devil

[werwt22]

lol convincingly put, and I'm glad a fellow perv is in agreement with some of my posts about MORE SPREAD WIDE GAPING ASS lol :)

That's the beauty of vids and pics: it's just a fantasy fuk, no matter what their personality....

But when it comes to reality in all it's dimensions: give me a clever girl with a book any day of the week!.. And anyway, if she's up for it, I'll help her find her inner freak as well :)

blue eyed devil

my point is what would you say if you came across this "fantasy fuck?" you would be attracted just solely based on your sexual appetite, no matter how her personality is. If she spread those ass cheeks you would probably go wild.

[werwt22]

I've never had a sexual encounter in which a person didn't speak at all and maybe because I'm a girl but i wouldn't be interested in laying with someone i couldn't have a decent conversation with.

until you come across the dreamiest man (in your opinion) in history LOL.

[SHAUN]

my point is what would you say if you came across this "fantasy fuck?" you would be attracted just solely based on your sexual appetite, no matter how her personality is. If she spread those ass cheeks you would probably go wild.

Nope!

Let me put it like this (and exscuse me for being crude)... Suppose you have the green light to have sex with a very hot-looking babe BUT she smells of shit, her breath, her hair, her body, all over she stinks of shit....

Now, are you telling me that you'd still fuck her... simply cos she "looks" so hot?

Like I said... if I knew she had a stupid/fake/nasty/vile personality... then I wouldn't even contemplate getting intimate with her, not even if it was gauranteed that no one else would find out lol...

(When I was young n dumb, I have to admit I wasn't so principled, but like I said, that's a guy thing, and I was learning how to use my dick lol)

[werwt22]

Nope!

Let me put it like this (and exscuse me for being crude)... Suppose you have the green light to have sex with a very hot-looking babe BUT she smells of shit, her breath, her hair, her body, all over she stinks of shit....

Now, are you telling me that you'd still fuck her... simply cos she "looks" so hot?

Like I said... if I knew she had a stupid/fake/nasty/vile personality... then I wouldn't even contemplate getting intimate with her, not even if it was gauranteed that no one else would find out lol...

(When I was young n dumb, I have to admit I wasn't so principled, but like I said, that's a guy thing, and I was learning how to use my dick lol)

dude personal hygiene is a completely different subject...did i really have to say she smells like garnier fructis?

[tsamberskyi]

until you come across the dreamiest man (in your opinion) in history LOL.

I have my hand and oh does she do a good job ;)

[werwt22]

I have my hand and oh does she do a good job ;)

LOLOLOL touché.

[SHAUN]

I have my hand and oh does she do a good job ;)

Me too! lol xx

blue eyed devil

[SHAUN]

dude personal hygiene is a completely different subject...did i really have to say she smells like garnier fructis?

lol ... but the point is (at least when you dick is older and wiser) there are other considerations which are equally important beyond the "visuals"... I only use smell as an example.. what if she sounded deeper than Barry White lol

It's not even just about a hot-looking chick having an unnatractive character and being fake/nasty/vile... She might be none of these negative things... but she may be "broken" in other ways, which make her very fragile and vulnerable... and therefore the last thing she probably needs is another dick dicking her then moving on sharply like she's some kind of leper....

(lol I'm really beginning to sound like a goody-goody now, which is not my intention)

Like I said, when I was younger and learning what my dick could do, I wasn't quite so principled... But nowadays, give me a healthy and cultured Femme Plain Jane who aspires to do her best with what Mother Nature gave her over any hot-looking nitemare bitch any day of the week :)

And if me and Plain Jane are fucking, then I would take her out dating, no probs

blue eyed devil

[unknown5]

im not dl, my family and friends know. i actually introduced sheeba to my mother years back

[Indy24]

Have any of you been in a REAL relationship with a tgirl before? Or are any of you guys open about dating trannys? Like do you go out in public and date?

Also, does anyone here NOT pay for your tgirl encounters?
"DL" would imply there was some type of homosexualty in play.

My sexual conquest all have an "F" on their ID so what's there to be ashamed of? You either believe she's the woman she claims to be or not.

Now those fat bitches, them you gotta keep in the basement and tell not to speak to you in public!

[tsamberskyi]

"dl" would imply there was some type of homosexualty in play.

My sexual conquest all have an "f" on their id so what's there to be ashamed of? You either believe she's the woman she claims to be or not.

now those fat bitches, them you gotta keep in the basement and tell not to speak to you in public!

.....👍👍👍👍👍

[werwt22]

"DL" would imply there was some type of homosexualty in play.

My sexual conquest all have an "F" on their ID so what's there to be ashamed of? You either believe she's the woman she claims to be or not.

Now those fat bitches, them you gotta keep in the basement and tell not to speak to you in public!

i happen to like fat bitches thank you. maybe i should blast everyone that chooses not to accept fat bitches in public now LOL

[Ms Remy M]

"DL" would imply there was some type of homosexualty in play.

My sexual conquest all have an "F" on their ID so what's there to be ashamed of? You either believe she's the woman she claims to be or not.

Now those fat bitches, them you gotta keep in the basement and tell not to speak to you in public!

That's still being DL, just toward fat women. DL does not have to be specifically in reference to two gay men. It's all about the context with the English language. For example, most black folk are very content to use ratchet (which is a tool) in place of what their vocabulary lacks which is wretched.

[Indy24]

That's still being DL, just toward fat women. DL does not have to be specifically in reference to two gay men. It's all about the context with the English language. For example, most black folk are very content to use ratchet (which is a tool) in place of what their vocabulary lacks which is wretched.

.................................................. ..........It was a joke Remy.

[vidman]

.................................................. ..........It was a joke Remy.

.....and a funny one at that! lmbao!!!!! Indy, my man. You're still funny as fuck. What's been up? Long time since we talked. I hardly ever grace this place anymore. Sometimes I may speak about a particular woman that's being asked about. Other than that, not my thing anymore. How are things up your way. Detroit right? PM me.

[Indy24]

.....and a funny one at that! lmbao!!!!! Indy, my man. You're still funny as fuck. What's been up? Long time since we talked. I hardly ever grace this place anymore. Sometimes I may speak about a particular woman that's being asked about. Other than that, not my thing anymore. How are things up your way. Detroit right? PM me.

Philly, but at the rate things are going there wont be much difference....
I shoot by here occasionally as well. Was going to post a thread asking for feedback on what yall think about Trans-women who hang around nothing but homo's. Have a friend like this, (bad as shit to) but she be hangin tough with them flamboyant ass niggaz. Which from my POV would make me look like Sterling by default if I spoke on it. So I let it go.

[werwt22]

Philly, but at the rate things are going there wont be much difference....
I shoot by here occasionally as well. Was going to post a thread asking for feedback on what yall think about Trans-women who hang around nothing but homo's. Have a friend like this, (bad as shit to) but she be hangin tough with them flamboyant ass niggaz. Which from my POV would make me look like Sterling by default if I spoke on it. So I let it go.


So many views on that shit. It makes me wonder whether they truly view themselves as women in the first place. Not saying its wrong to have gay friends, but when all you hang with are gay flamboyant men and butches in masses, I wonder. Lastly I consider TS as women, and I'm not comfortable rockin around "a bunch" of gay dudes because thats just not me...I dont want a TS that acts like a man in a wig...I want a girl that goes to regular bars/clubs, that has a variety of friends, not just all gay men. I'd like to live a fairly normal life, not be forced into this "gay void" because I like TS LOL. (Couldnt come up with anything else LOL)

Im just speaking on distinguishing the difference between the TS that actually live as women, and the ones that continue to carry themselves as gay men that dress different.

[Indy24]

So many views on that shit. It makes me wonder whether they truly view themselves as women in the first place. Not saying its wrong to have gay friends, but when all you hang with are gay flamboyant men and butches in masses, I wonder. Lastly I consider TS as women, and I'm not comfortable rockin around "a bunch" of gay dudes because thats just not me...I dont want a TS that acts like a man in a wig...I want a girl that goes to regular bars/clubs, that has a variety of friends, not just all gay men. I'd like to live a fairly normal life, not be forced into this "gay void" because I like TS LOL. (Couldnt come up with anything else LOL)

Im just speaking on distinguishing the difference between the TS that actually live as women, and the ones that continue to carry themselves as gay men that dress different.

Agreed, most homo's don't respect the trans-sexuality anyway. Like spotting a trans-attracted man is going to better their social life. Not if they spot a real one!