What Attracts You

[william darcy]

Hello everyone. I know that I am new on the board, and I have enjoyed reading the discussions. I thought that I would post a topic. What attracts you to transgender woman? I have been asking myself this question. I am not ashamed of my attraction,nor do I hide it from people. I am just curious if anyone has asked themselves this question. To the transgender women on board, what type of man are you attracted to? Do you prefer men who are attracted to transgendered women or do prefer men who do not know that you are transgendered but accept it when you tell them?

[TVSURFER]

Hello everyone. I know that I am new on the board, and I have enjoyed reading the discussions. I thought that I would post a topic. What attracts you to transgender woman? I have been asking myself this question. I am not ashamed of my attraction,nor do I hide it from people. I am just curious if anyone has asked themselves this question. To the transgender women on board, what type of man are you attracted to? Do you prefer men who are attracted to transgendered women or do prefer men who do not know that you are transgendered but accept it when you tell them?
Now this should be good!
:cool:

[william darcy]

Now this should be good!
:cool:

Hello. Finally someone responded. I am beginning to think that I should not have posted this topic.

[william darcy]

Since no one is responding to this post, I will start. I first became aware that transgendered women existed when I was a teen. At the time, there was a transgendered porn actress named Sulka. The first time I saw her in a magazine I didn't know what I was feeling. I was fascinated that here was a woman with a penis. I have not seen any of her movies, but I have seen photos of scenes from some of her films. The second time, when I was in my twenties, I saw a photo of a black transsexual getting a blow job. I found it very erotic. I don't know how to describe what I feel and think about transsexual women, but they seem to have an etheral quality about them. I admire them, because they will themselves to be what they have always been on the inside.

[Handandsom]

So naturally its was only a matter of time b4 this predator homed in on fresh meat. Truthfully though, I am a booty man and the thought of juicy booty (I could give more detail if needed) and anal sex just rocks me up instantly. It took me a long time and a tremendous amount of aggravation. My girl at the time was pissing me off and that prompted me to try a transsexual. Also if you are a porn flick expert then you have seen the little intros of transsexuals (not sure if they still play them anymore) but that also was part of many things that made me try. B4 that i would have never looked at a transgender. Funny thing about that i grew up near the Roxies in NYC down in the former meat market area and i use to see them men hanging out on the block hoeing and I use to try to avoid those blocks no matter what. But back then you weren't fooled at all. Them were hardcore dudes with dresses. Nowadays at least you have semi goddesses that look better than some women, fuck you better than a majority of women and want it 2 to 3 times more than women. Its a no brainer for me. But i still struggle with it I won't lie. And I do because of the few that try to punk you like a herb. At that point the fantasy fades and you see things for what they really bee's.

[william darcy]

I have been thinking about my own question. What I posted earlier, while true, was the fascination of a young man. What attracts me transgendered women is their spirit, their strength, and courage. I cannot imagine what it must feel like to be born in the wrong body, nor do I know if I did feel this, which I don't, if I would have the courage to become what I feel I am on the inside. Being gay in the United States in difficult, although it has become slightly easier,but to be a transgendered person is still not acceptable. Transgendered women are considered by many as being less than human. Someone who is a freak, and someone that can be the subject of ridicule. For many, the possiblity of violence is an everyday reality, and there have been many who have been killed, because they were transsexual. Venus Xtravaganza comes to mind. She was a young transsexual woman who desired more than anything to live a normal life. She wanted a husband and a family, but her life was cut short by someone who she went to a motel, because she was supporting herself as a prostitute. She was found three days after she was murdered. For many, this is an every day possiblity. I have read every topic on this board, and I have noticed that some people refer to their attraction to transgendered women as a fetish. I think that this is degrading,because a person cannot be a fetish. If you look up the standard definition of a fetish, only objects can become a fetish, for example shoes, leather etc. Despite the myriad of obstacles that transgender women face, many each day decide to live their lives with integrity by not hiding who they are to the world. They can serve as an inspiration to all of us. They do inspire me. They also do not take their feminityfor granted like many gentic women do. Transgender women must go through a gautlet to acheive their feminity. I have read that a complete transformation cost up to $100,000 or more. This is not covered by insurance. There is no wonder why many choose to be escorts. A person could not make enough money to cover this type of surgery. I watched America's Next Top Model, because a young transgender woman named Isis was one of the competitors. While Tyra treated her respectfully, the other girls did not really accept her. I saw this young woman's confidence erode as a result. My attraction to transgender women has become admiration.

[TSSexyChanel]

I have been thinking about my own question. What I posted earlier, while true, was the fascination of a young man. What attracts me transgendered women is their spirit, their strength, and courage. I cannot imagine what it must feel like to be born in the wrong body, nor do I know if I did feel this, which I don't, if I would have the courage to become what I feel I am on the inside. Being gay in the United States in difficult, although it has become slightly easier,but to be a transgendered person is still not acceptable. Transgendered women are considered by many as being less than human. Someone who is a freak, and someone that can be the subject of ridicule. For many, the possiblity of violence is an everyday reality, and there have been many who have been killed, because they were transsexual. Venus Xtravaganza comes to mind. She was a young transsexual woman who desired more than anything to live a normal life. She wanted a husband and a family, but her life was cut short by someone who she went to a motel, because she was supporting herself as a prostitute. She was found three days after she was murdered. For many, this is an every day possiblity. I have read every topic on this board, and I have noticed that some people refer to their attraction to transgendered women as a fetish. I think that this is degrading,because a person cannot be a fetish. If you look up the standard definition of a fetish, only objects can become a fetish, for example shoes, leather etc. Despite the myriad of obstacles that transgender women face, many each day decide to live their lives with integrity by not hiding who they are to the world. They can serve as an inspiration to all of us. They do inspire me. They also do not take their feminityfor granted like many gentic women do. Transgender women must go through a gautlet to acheive their feminity. I have read that a complete transformation cost up to $100,000 or more. This is not covered by insurance. There is no wonder why many choose to be escorts. A person could not make enough money to cover this type of surgery. I watched America's Next Top Model, because a young transgender woman named Isis was one of the competitors. While Tyra treated her respectfully, the other girls did not really accept her. I saw this young woman's confidence erode as a result. My attraction to transgender women has become admiration.

Having been around for a while I know that OBJECTIFICATION & ADORATION is the most many men will ever feel for us. I am at a point in my life that how I feel about myself and see myself is more important than what any man, woman or child feels about it.

I used to be very vocal and have to always convince folks that I am a worth valid human being like everyone else. You teach children when they are young and when they grow older they will have a better understanding. Thats what I am always trying to say when I see girls going back and forth with a man sitting on a site more than likely holding his dick in his hand. If they come here ignorant they probably will die that way, why waste what you could be spreading to the next generation on an old dog?

In all honesty I accept folks for where they are at I got peace with myself when I defined who I was I may be a fetish to most men but its a job to me. My life isn't affected by how any of these freaks think about me when I log off the computer I have a rich full real life off the net that as many folks as I talk to here on the net if I saw them in my regular day to day walk I wouldnt have two words to say to them. Just like people feel the need to put value on my existence I do the same thing to others everyday. Its what we do as people. I am living a story and Chanel is the star of that story and I decide who gets a role in the movie and what is their importance. The majority of folks I come in contact with are just extras and thier opionions mean nothing to me.

I have learned the true girl code speak when spoken too I spent a pretty penny on my higher learning and I paid an even bigger price for life experience if folks wanna be dumb they whole life I can sit back and get a chuckle out of watching them I don't always feel the need to voice my opinion or change the world.

There are a few good ones out there but you guys are in the smallest of classes and a rare breed.

I AM A BIT MORBID ANYWAY I KINDA LIKE WATCHING HUMAN TRAGEDIES. LOL

[william darcy]

Having been around for a while I know that OBJECTIFICATION & ADORATION is the most many men will ever feel for us. I am at a point in my life that how I feel about myself and see myself is more important than what any man, woman or child feels about it.

I used to be very vocal and have to always convince folks that I am a worth valid human being like everyone else. You teach children when they are young and when they grow older they will have a better understanding. Thats what I am always trying to say when I see girls going back and forth with a man sitting on a site more than likely holding his dick in his hand. If they come here ignorant they probably will die that way, why waste what you could be spreading to the next generation on an old dog?

In all honesty I accept folks for where they are at I got peace with myself when I defined who I was I may be a fetish to most men but its a job to me. My life isn't affected by how any of these freaks think about me when I log off the computer I have a rich full real life off the net that as many folks as I talk to here on the net if I saw them in my regular day to day walk I wouldnt have two words to say to them. Just like people feel the need to put value on my existence I do the same thing to others everyday. Its what we do as people. I am living a story and Chanel is the star of that story and I decide who gets a role in the movie and what is their importance. The majority of folks I come in contact with are just extras and thier opionions mean nothing to me.

I have learned the true girl code speak when spoken too I spent a pretty penny on my higher learning and I paid an even bigger price for life experience if folks wanna be dumb they whole life I can sit back and get a chuckle out of watching them I don't always feel the need to voice my opinion or change the world.

There are a few good ones out there but you guys are in the smallest of classes and a rare breed.

I AM A BIT MORBID ANYWAY I KINDA LIKE WATCHING HUMAN TRAGEDIES. LOL

I think that many men do not understand that when they see an escort or when they view a movie or see a model they are looking at these women playing a role. This is not who they are in real life.

[TSSexyChanel]

I think that many men do not understand that when they see an escort or when they view a movie or see a model they are looking at these women playing a role. This is not who they are in real life.


Its easy to dehumanize people you don't know. I think men prefer that clinical distant makes it ok to be perfect assholes in their twisted sense of logic.

[william darcy]

Its easy to dehumanize people you don't know. I think men prefer that clinical distant makes it ok to be perfect assholes in their twisted sense of logic.

I agree with you, but what they don't understand is when they dehumanize others, they dehumanize themselves.

[Ms Remy M]

I have been thinking about my own question. What I posted earlier, while true, was the fascination of a young man. What attracts me transgendered women is their spirit, their strength, and courage. I cannot imagine what it must feel like to be born in the wrong body, nor do I know if I did feel this, which I don't, if I would have the courage to become what I feel I am on the inside. Being gay in the United States in difficult, although it has become slightly easier,but to be a transgendered person is still not acceptable. Transgendered women are considered by many as being less than human. Someone who is a freak, and someone that can be the subject of ridicule. For many, the possiblity of violence is an everyday reality, and there have been many who have been killed, because they were transsexual. Venus Xtravaganza comes to mind. She was a young transsexual woman who desired more than anything to live a normal life. She wanted a husband and a family, but her life was cut short by someone who she went to a motel, because she was supporting herself as a prostitute. She was found three days after she was murdered. For many, this is an every day possiblity. I have read every topic on this board, and I have noticed that some people refer to their attraction to transgendered women as a fetish. I think that this is degrading,because a person cannot be a fetish. If you look up the standard definition of a fetish, only objects can become a fetish, for example shoes, leather etc. Despite the myriad of obstacles that transgender women face, many each day decide to live their lives with integrity by not hiding who they are to the world. They can serve as an inspiration to all of us. They do inspire me. They also do not take their feminityfor granted like many gentic women do. Transgender women must go through a gautlet to acheive their feminity. I have read that a complete transformation cost up to $100,000 or more. This is not covered by insurance. There is no wonder why many choose to be escorts. A person could not make enough money to cover this type of surgery. I watched America's Next Top Model, because a young transgender woman named Isis was one of the competitors. While Tyra treated her respectfully, the other girls did not really accept her. I saw this young woman's confidence erode as a result. My attraction to transgender women has become admiration.

The attraction to me is in a girls face be she GG or TG, it's their face that initiates the initial attraction. That coupled with a good personality and ability to conversate in an intelligent manner goes way further than huge tits, cock, ass, or pussy.

I don't mean to knock anyone's choice of lifestyle when I say this. I find the term 'normal' to be complete bullshit. You used 'normal' in a way that imparts the idea that it is defined by social acceptance. (ex. "She was a young transsexual woman who desired more than anything to live a normal life.") I am one who goes against the grain of society so I admit my view is a bit skewed. We as humans are imparted with a concious sentient mind (free will) if you will, allowing us to be unique individuals instead of carbon-copies like ants in a colony. Thus it is quite 'normal' to be as varied as possible, and it is societial pressures that lead us to conform to a set standard.

Anyway, it is a complete folly to be a 'tg' prostitute and expect to be treated any different than a 'gg' prostitute, who run the same risk of physical harm if not greater if they have a 'pimp' who may occasionally beat on her to keep her 'in-line'.

Cost associated with transitioning is different for everyone and what expectations they have for themselves. Not all tg's desire or need to have the vast cosmetic surgeries many tgirls go through. Remember cosmetic surgery isn't covered by Insurance for nearly anyone. I know a white tg who goes to film school in Philly. She has already had a great majority of the procedures she wishes to have surgerically without ever 'escorting' and still paying her way through college and she isn't even 25 yet. What she did was real simple too. She saved up every red cent she made growing up with little to no bills while living with parents, before 'coming out' as a tg and when she was ready to put on her proverbial 'dress and step into the world' as a female she had more than enough to help pay for her transition. I'm sure it helps that she doesn't chase the materialistic things in life, like overly expensive 'labels' from the hottest clothing designers and such. She focuses on her education and her film career which has already taken off, as she serves as Producer and Director for various Film Projects.

Tgirls choose to escort, they are not forced to do it. They are attracted to the fast, seemingly easy cash. Though I don't wish bad on anyone, any form of 'criminal enterprise' is bound to be dangerous. Thus to escort is to court with that danger. They have to be smart about their business to be successful at it and most are, but there are always times when someone may slip up. No one stops a 'tg' from getting a regular 9 to 5 job or going to school and getting an education. Frankly, I get tired of the excuses for 'tricking'. Especially when I've seen older tg's who aren't even close to being as passable as some of our models, are working jobs. Transitioning is a hard road for sure, there's no doubt about it, but many put additional hardships on themselves and those 'hardships' doesn't come from society at large. Society has made many strides at excepting tgirls, and many of the horror stories you hear (which I don't condone in any way, shape, or form) rarely paint the full picture of what might have actually happened.

Here's an article I read earlier today, you may find of interest and shows the level of acceptance that does exist to go along with the examples you gave above regarding ANTM: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/29303880

[william darcy]

The attraction to me is in a girls face be she GG or TG, it's their face that initiates the initial attraction. That coupled with a good personality and ability to conversate in an intelligent manner goes way further than huge tits, cock, ass, or pussy.

I don't mean to knock anyone's choice of lifestyle when I say this. I find the term 'normal' to be complete bullshit. You used 'normal' in a way that imparts the idea that it is defined by social acceptance. (ex. "She was a young transsexual woman who desired more than anything to live a normal life.") I am one who goes against the grain of society so I admit my view is a bit skewed. We as humans are imparted with a concious sentient mind (free will) if you will, allowing us to be unique individuals instead of carbon-copies like ants in a colony. Thus it is quite 'normal' to be as varied as possible, and it is societial pressures that lead us to conform to a set standard.

Anyway, it is a complete folly to be a 'tg' prostitute and expect to be treated any different than a 'gg' prostitute, who run the same risk of physical harm if not greater if they have a 'pimp' who may occasionally beat on her to keep her 'in-line'.

Cost associated with transitioning is different for everyone and what expectations they have for themselves. Not all tg's desire or need to have the vast cosmetic surgeries many tgirls go through. Remember cosmetic surgery isn't covered by Insurance for nearly anyone. I know a white tg who goes to film school in Philly. She has already had a great majority of the procedures she wishes to have surgerically without ever 'escorting' and still paying her way through college and she isn't even 25 yet. What she did was real simple too. She saved up every red cent she made growing up with little to no bills while living with parents, before 'coming out' as a tg and when she was ready to put on her proverbial 'dress and step into the world' as a female she had more than enough to help pay for her transition. I'm sure it helps that she doesn't chase the materialistic things in life, like overly expensive 'labels' from the hottest clothing designers and such. She focuses on her education and her film career which has already taken off, as she serves as Producer and Director for various Film Projects.

Tgirls choose to escort, they are not forced to do it. They are attracted to the fast, seemingly easy cash. Though I don't wish bad on anyone, any form of 'criminal enterprise' is bound to be dangerous. Thus to escort is to court with that danger. They have to be smart about their business to be successful at it and most are, but there are always times when someone may slip up. No one stops a 'tg' from getting a regular 9 to 5 job or going to school and getting an education. Frankly, I get tired of the excuses for 'tricking'. Especially when I've seen older tg's who aren't even close to being as passable as some of our models, are working jobs. Transitioning is a hard road for sure, there's no doubt about it, but many put additional hardships on themselves and those 'hardships' doesn't come from society at large. Society has made many strides at excepting tgirls, and many of the horror stories you hear (which I don't condone in any way, shape, or form) rarely paint the full picture of what might have actually happened.

Here's an article I read earlier today, you may find of interest and shows the level of acceptance that does exist to go along with the examples you gave above regarding ANTM: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/29303880

Thank you for your contribution to this discussion. When I wrote normal, I was going by what she said. Like you, I like living outside of the mainstream, and I do not go by what mainstream society thinks. I also think that you have a point about employment. Perhaps, there are some transgendered women who think that they do not have any other options. I hope that some of the transgender women on the board will share their prospectives.

[k.logan]

Ok Now that we have that word out of our system!!! Im always present reading the interesting topics, I choose not to respond alot because im one of the sites favorite and i know that i can sometimes get ulgy. I would like to give the gentlemen some advice! Once you can stop dealing with the insecurities of you commiting to a transgender ,than you will be able too!!!!!!! Alot of men on here would reply with Im secure!!! but your not! Ive been in a commited realtionship for two years now, tranny doesnt exist in our vocabulary, not saying he doesnt acknowledge who i am, but he loves who i am enough not to label me! Not blaming it all on the men, If trannys can stop acting like trannys or punks and conduct themselves in a feminine matter then they can get the respect they deserve! Lets touch on Escorting.......... I escort and alo do porn, but wht me must realize is that women also escort and do porn and they have sucessful realtioships just as well as failed ones! I make it work by setting a limit,Like not doing at home as much only when he's not around, and not even discussing at all with him and doing what i do with class and protection make hims feel secure! Everyone wasnt meant to be a doctor lawyer or a nurse, and not everyone wants to be! soi hope this has helped you men out a lil more! to answer your question i like men who i like no type color or hieght chemistry is strong it exist and i love when i experience it!

[william darcy]

Thank you for your response. I hope that others will give their opinion as well. There are so many perspectives to be heard, and not everyone has had the same experiences. Your insights are very much appreciated.

[Ms Remy M]

Ok Now that we have that word out of our system!!! Im always present reading the interesting topics, I choose not to respond alot because im one of the sites favorite and i know that i can sometimes get ulgy. I would like to give the gentlemen some advice! Once you can stop dealing with the insecurities of you commiting to a transgender ,than you will be able too!!!!!!! Alot of men on here would reply with Im secure!!! but your not! Ive been in a commited realtionship for two years now, tranny doesnt exist in our vocabulary, not saying he doesnt acknowledge who i am, but he loves who i am enough not to label me! Not blaming it all on the men, If trannys can stop acting like trannys or punks and conduct themselves in a feminine matter then they can get the respect they deserve! Lets touch on Escorting.......... I escort and alo do porn, but wht me must realize is that women also escort and do porn and they have sucessful realtioships just as well as failed ones! I make it work by setting a limit,Like not doing at home as much only when he's not around, and not even discussing at all with him and doing what i do with class and protection make hims feel secure! Everyone wasnt meant to be a doctor lawyer or a nurse, and not everyone wants to be! soi hope this has helped you men out a lil more! to answer your question i like men who i like no type color or hieght chemistry is strong it exist and i love when i experience it!

I understand, where ya coming from. Thanks for your response, it's much appreciated.

[babyjesus]

i just think a chick with big boobs and big butt and and a big dick is sexy. just look at ts jessica. Also when you think about it tgirls have more to offer sexually.
1. your are guaranteed anal.
2. They have a dick so they know what feels good in terms of giving head.
3. They don't get pregnant.
4 Their sex drive is problably similar to yours because they want to cum too!
5. Regular girls don't understand the concept that a guy may want his ass stimulated orally or with something else you don't have to explain that to tgirl
they know!
my ultimate fantasy is to be with a regular chick and a black tgirl (suzanna holmes) but regular chicks don't get it! Trust me i'm living with one. if i ever brought that up she would tell me to move out!

p.s. is their anyone out there playing call of duty world at war i fucking hooked!

[rouge]

Having been around for a while I know that OBJECTIFICATION & ADORATION is the most many men will ever feel for us. I am at a point in my life that how I feel about myself and see myself is more important than what any man, woman or child feels about it.

I used to be very vocal and have to always convince folks that I am a worth valid human being like everyone else. You teach children when they are young and when they grow older they will have a better understanding. Thats what I am always trying to say when I see girls going back and forth with a man sitting on a site more than likely holding his dick in his hand. If they come here ignorant they probably will die that way, why waste what you could be spreading to the next generation on an old dog?

In all honesty I accept folks for where they are at I got peace with myself when I defined who I was I may be a fetish to most men but its a job to me. My life isn't affected by how any of these freaks think about me when I log off the computer I have a rich full real life off the net that as many folks as I talk to here on the net if I saw them in my regular day to day walk I wouldnt have two words to say to them. Just like people feel the need to put value on my existence I do the same thing to others everyday. Its what we do as people. I am living a story and Chanel is the star of that story and I decide who gets a role in the movie and what is their importance. The majority of folks I come in contact with are just extras and thier opionions mean nothing to me.

I have learned the true girl code speak when spoken too I spent a pretty penny on my higher learning and I paid an even bigger price for life experience if folks wanna be dumb they whole life I can sit back and get a chuckle out of watching them I don't always feel the need to voice my opinion or change the world.

There are a few good ones out there but you guys are in the smallest of classes and a rare breed.

I AM A BIT MORBID ANYWAY I KINDA LIKE WATCHING HUMAN TRAGEDIES. LOL

I can see why you could be cynical and maybe even bitter about men generally deep down but you are right you know there ARE GOOD GUYS OUT THERE, trust me they do excist but if you adopt a daily negative vibe you might just miss them !! I don't pretend to know about your daily life and I surely appreciate that there are men out there that are purely evil and assholes to you. I dont for 1 minute think your life is easy or free from offense, I know how cruel folks can be I assure you but all I wish to say is that there are some guys out there me included that really do love and cherish t-girls and do my very best to make our meetings respectful, fun and accommodating. I know how difficult it can be out there and I salute you for your efforts because guys like me can only get a tiny scope of happiness to meet lovely girls like you believe you me !! And more often than not my kindness has been abused many many times. I was robbed twice in housten and threatened in Chicago despite doing NOTHING ok. What goes around comes around but all I am saying is if we treat eachother with kindness and respect then maybe just maybe we can all get through this life journey unscathed ??? Is that reasonable ??

[TSSexyChanel]

i just think a chick with big boobs and big butt and and a big dick is sexy. just look at ts jessica. Also when you think about it tgirls have more to offer sexually.
1. your are guaranteed anal.
2. They have a dick so they know what feels good in terms of giving head.
3. They don't get pregnant.
4 Their sex drive is problably similar to yours because they want to cum too!
5. Regular girls don't understand the concept that a guy may want his ass stimulated orally or with something else you don't have to explain that to tgirl
they know!
my ultimate fantasy is to be with a regular chick and a black tgirl (suzanna holmes) but regular chicks don't get it! Trust me i'm living with one. if i ever brought that up she would tell me to move out!

p.s. is their anyone out there playing call of duty world at war i fucking hooked!


Number 1 is an urban myth boo boo

[Handandsom]

Number 1 is an urban myth boo boo


Say WORD! :)LOL

[TSSexyChanel]

I can see why you could be cynical and maybe even bitter about men generally deep down but you are right you know there ARE GOOD GUYS OUT THERE, trust me they do excist but if you adopt a daily negative vibe you might just miss them !! I don't pretend to know about your daily life and I surely appreciate that there are men out there that are purely evil and assholes to you. I dont for 1 minute think your life is easy or free from offense, I know how cruel folks can be I assure you but all I wish to say is that there are some guys out there me included that really do love and cherish t-girls and do my very best to make our meetings respectful, fun and accommodating. I know how difficult it can be out there and I salute you for your efforts because guys like me can only get a tiny scope of happiness to meet lovely girls like you believe you me !! And more often than not my kindness has been abused many many times. I was robbed twice in housten and threatened in Chicago despite doing NOTHING ok. What goes around comes around but all I am saying is if we treat eachother with kindness and respect then maybe just maybe we can all get through this life journey unscathed ??? Is that reasonable ??


I am not cynical and open to what ever I just say I accept stuff as it is what it is. Too many folks are consumed with what they dont have and what they want and I just celebrate my life and enjoy what I have. I believe there are good guys out there hell I know a lot of them they just arent here or arent for me. But as a whole and I don't entirely blame men we will be just eye candy and fetish to the majority of men until guys and girls both have a change of atttitude. I won't allow any one to make me bitter I am just a realist I deal with each person indivdually and put away my rose colored glasses years ago. LOL

Sorry to hear about your experiences but glad to see you didnt let them taint your objectivity.

[TSSexyChanel]

Say WORD! :)LOL


Word is bond not many men get the keys to my kingdom I must save something for the King to cum into my life that he can brag and say is exclusive to him. I do and I have bottomed but for me when men only want sex and are only thinkin bout there nut I hope they can get it sucking me off or me beating up that shape. I can't be anyones jump off.

[Handandsom]

Word is bond not many men get the keys to my kingdom I must save something for the King to cum into my life that he can brag and say is exclusive to him. I do and I have bottomed but for me when men only want sex and are only thinkin bout there nut I hope they can get it sucking me off or me beating up that shape. I can't be anyones jump off.

Are we talking about clients or strays? For the client you are the fantasy a.k.a "the bidness" not the jump-off. Now for the stray you could be either but more than likely you are the jump-off. I'm just curious to know where i would possibly fit in that POV I quoted of yours. Da back door :):cool: or on the floor :confused::p.

BTW: "beating up that shape" :eek: Xplain?

[BlkMuscleTop]

Word is bond not many men get the keys to my kingdom I must save something for the King to cum into my life that he can brag and say is exclusive to him. I do and I have bottomed but for me when men only want sex and are only thinkin bout there nut I hope they can get it sucking me off or me beating up that shape. I can't be anyones jump off.

Lol @ Chanel.

As for what attracts me to Transsexual women.

Physically - I like a nice round, dark bubble butt, full lips, sway in the hips:), I'm a dominant guy SEXUALLY so I like my tgirls who like to be dicked down, very important to highlight that this is just DOMINANT SEXUALLY, everything else in a relationship or interaction is cool with me, but when it comes to sex I'm fucking you. The Yin to my Yang I guess.

To me there is nothing as sexy as a transsexual woman in lingerie, panties, nice long legs, smooth and soft from head to toe, you get my drift.

Mentally - I love the attitude of tgirls who bring a little drama, strange I know but that stimulates my interest. I'm a very passionate brotha and so it makes the interaction all the better. I like tgirls that are all femme, girly,etc. As my signature states I'm all about the Femme Queen Realness in tgirls.

I just frankly love them and mere words alone can't express the spectrum of reasons for my attraction, its physical, emotional, mental, and all the other range of human qualities.

[MrKnockOut]

now i can be politically fucking correct and give a bullshit response that would earn me brownie points with the girls who post and/or lurk on the boards but im not...what i like: soft body, nice ass, pretty face, feet, and hands. smell good. i prefer shorter girls, under 5'8. they tend to be more passable. sexually i like a chick who is adventurous yet safe. i prefer chicks who are intelligent and not pot heads.

[Handandsom]

now i can be politically fucking correct and give a bullshit response that would earn me brownie points with the girls who post and/or lurk on the boards but im not...what i like: soft body, nice ass, pretty face, feet, and hands. smell good. i prefer shorter girls, under 5'8. they tend to be more passable. sexually i like a chick who is adventurous yet safe. i prefer chicks who are intelligent and not pot heads.

I definitely would like to know who you be seening that has all them qualities especially the "pretty feet" aspect. I only seen one that had pretty feet. I've been deprived like Obama said about his helicopter fleet.

[bigdicki]

now i can be politically fucking correct and give a bullshit response that would earn me brownie points with the girls who post and/or lurk on the boards but im not...what i like: soft body, nice ass, pretty face, feet, and hands. smell good. i prefer shorter girls, under 5'8. they tend to be more passable. sexually i like a chick who is adventurous yet safe. i prefer chicks who are intelligent and not pot heads.

I'll second everything MrKnockOut said except the potheads cuz I'm one. :D And I'll add a few things. Gotta have a nice size dick, be NATURALLY feminine and attractive. I hate the overly plasticized (dammit I know thats not a word!) girls who are 30% silicon. I am cool with some titties but if you need more than that then that ass aint for me. Of course, she has to be down for whatever... extremely adventurous in and out the bed. Last thing, she HAS to bottom and be cool with NEVER topping me.:cool:

[TVSURFER]

I'll second everything MrKnockOut said except the potheads cuz I'm one. :D And I'll add a few things. Gotta have a nice size dick, be NATURALLY feminine and attractive. I hate the overly plasticized (dammit I know thats not a word!) girls who are 30% silicon. I am cool with some titties but if you need more than that then that ass aint for me. Of course, she has to be down for whatever... extremely adventurous in and out the bed. Last thing, she HAS to bottom and be cool with NEVER topping me.:cool:

:D
:cool:

[BrunoCavalier]

Well what attracts me is sort of a fantasy. I've only slept with one tgirl and it was one of my best sexual experiences. She was totally passable, I didn't know she was transgendered till she removed her skirt. She told me while we were kissing, before we had sex. I made the decision to try it and it was worth it for her, both the sex and the good person she is.

In short, I'm attracted to women, so my attraction is to tgirls who look like natural born girls. The only thing genetic girls lack that tgirls have is their doggystyle postion pose... I love the sexyness of them bent over , with their ass spread and package hanging. Once I got over the initial shock of how satisfied I was and the fact she was born something else, I was even able to satisfy her orally, I loved licking her booty and cock, not cuz I'm really into cock (I find pussy far sexier) , but because of the pleasure it gave her. She never wanted to top (something I just wouldn't do) and she was always ready to have sex. Plus she was a naturally good person.

Not every transgendered women is like this. The ones that don't look like men in dresses are fewer in number, as it takes dedication and work to become something you aren't. I would like to meet another tgirl like my friend, who has since moved to better herself. Beauty, personality, and sexuality would be my main attractions. I would love to meet another tgirl like this, but the beautiful ones are hard to find and meet. If any of you come to Maryland let me know. Id be glad to meet ya for a drink and some good convo. :)

[TVSURFER]

Well what attracts me is sort of a fantasy. I've only slept with one tgirl and it was one of my best sexual experiences. She was totally passable, I didn't know she was transgendered till she removed her skirt. She told me while we were kissing, before we had sex. I made the decision to try it and it was worth it for her, both the sex and the good person she is.

In short, I'm attracted to women, so my attraction is to tgirls who look like natural born girls. The only thing genetic girls lack that tgirls have is their doggystyle postion pose... I love the sexyness of them bent over , with their ass spread and package hanging. Once I got over the initial shock of how satisfied I was and the fact she was born something else, I was even able to satisfy her orally, I loved licking her booty and cock, not cuz I'm really into cock (I find pussy far sexier) , but because of the pleasure it gave her. She never wanted to top (something I just wouldn't do) and she was always ready to have sex. Plus she was a naturally good person.

Not every transgendered women is like this. The ones that don't look like men in dresses are fewer in number, as it takes dedication and work to become something you aren't. I would like to meet another tgirl like my friend, who has since moved to better herself. Beauty, personality, and sexuality would be my main attractions. I would love to meet another tgirl like this, but the beautiful ones are hard to find and meet. If any of you come to Maryland let me know. Id be glad to meet ya for a drink and some good convo. :)
:):D
:cool:

[Ms Remy M]

Lol @ Chanel.

As for what attracts me to Transsexual women.

Physically - I like a nice round, dark bubble butt, full lips, sway in the hips:), I'm a dominant guy SEXUALLY so I like my tgirls who like to be dicked down, very important to highlight that this is just DOMINANT SEXUALLY, everything else in a relationship or interaction is cool with me, but when it comes to sex I'm fucking you. The Yin to my Yang I guess.

To me there is nothing as sexy as a transsexual woman in lingerie, panties, nice long legs, smooth and soft from head to toe, you get my drift.

Mentally - I love the attitude of tgirls who bring a little drama, strange I know but that stimulates my interest. I'm a very passionate brotha and so it makes the interaction all the better. I like tgirls that are all femme, girly,etc. As my signature states I'm all about the Femme Queen Realness in tgirls.

I just frankly love them and mere words alone can't express the spectrum of reasons for my attraction, its physical, emotional, mental, and all the other range of human qualities.

LOL Do you give the girl's the 'chop' if they don't bring the 'femme queen realness'? lol sorry I had to get that out.

[TVSURFER]

Boy, this would make a nice reality...! Oops, I made a suggestion.:mad:
:cool:

[bdser88]

Never trust a big butt and a smile..
Seriously tho, I like women, and I like my girls to be feminine. I can make that romantic conntect better with girl (gg or not)... Oddly, sometimes the extra bit between the legs gets completly overlooked. Sometimes I wonder what I doing here... then I see a girl like Katie

[BlkMuscleTop]

LOL Do you give the girl's the 'chop' if they don't bring the 'femme queen realness'? lol sorry I had to get that out.

Oh hell yeah, but usually they know how to bring it to a brother. :)

[Ms Remy M]

Oh hell yeah, but usually they know how to bring it to a brother. :)

LOL that's great! :) I was 'busting your balls' a bit for using the 'Ball' lingo, and you took it in stride which I really appreciate. Some people get too emotional in here at times.

[Markham]

It really sounds bad but the same thing that attracts me to a gg is what attracts me to a tgirl: curves, ass, legs, a nice smile and a funny personality. I'm just being honest even though it sounds shallow, but its not (anyone who says looks don't factor into attraction is a liar)

Seeing 2 guys together or a masculine tgirl doesn't arouse me at all. Everything that gg's use to boost their self confidence through cosmetic tools or products/surgeries that make them more physically attractive/"beautiful" is accessible to tgirls so the only thing really separating them is being able to give birth to kids and whats behind "curtain #1". And what's behind curtain #1, whether it be a vagina or a penis, has never been a source of attraction for me.

case point: you have people out there like tschanel or jade who are incredibly attractive aesthetically and if they have the personality to compliment their femininity then that is incredibly attractive to me.

Not to knock those ts who look masculine. but if you look like a gym buddy of mine and it looks like all your dates involved weight lifting or chopping timber, I don't care what personality you have, there won't be an attraction between us.

[DYNACORD]

I definitely would like to know who you be seening that has all them qualities especially the "pretty feet" aspect. I only seen one that had pretty feet. I've been deprived like Obama said about his helicopter fleet.

Do any of these feet work for ya??? "LOL"

[TVSURFER]

It really sounds bad but the same thing that attracts me to a gg is what attracts me to a tgirl: curves, ass, legs, a nice smile and a funny personality. I'm just being honest even though it sounds shallow, but its not (anyone who says looks don't factor into attraction is a liar)

Seeing 2 guys together or a masculine tgirl doesn't arouse me at all. Everything that gg's use to boost their self confidence through cosmetic tools or products/surgeries that make them more physically attractive/"beautiful" is accessible to tgirls so the only thing really separating them is being able to give birth to kids and whats behind "curtain #1". And what's behind curtain #1, whether it be a vagina or a penis, has never been a source of attraction for me.

case point: you have people out there like tschanel or jade who are incredibly attractive aesthetically and if they have the personality to compliment their femininity then that is incredibly attractive to me.

Not to knock those ts who look masculine. but if you look like a gym buddy of mine and it looks like all your dates involved weight lifting or chopping timber, I don't care what personality you have, there won't be an attraction between us.
;)
:cool:

[TVSURFER]

Aesthetics, my man; aesthetics! That's what this shit is all about! Great call on the feet! Great call!
:cool:

[DYNACORD]

Ya know! It sounds like we all are attracted to attractive women, be it TS or GG. There's no doubt there. But lets face it:::if it is a TS, she has to have a dick. If she didn't, then she would be a GG and we would not be looking at this site at all. We look at this site because we like "Chicks with Dicks". It's a rather crude term but that's what it is. No offence to all TS girls. It's not a new term folks.
I too like women TS or GG to be well groomed. Head to toe. I believe the guys and gals who prefer this in a TS, do so because we are used to this from a GG. It makes both far more attractive. Hey, why do ya think there's so many Hair and Nail salons.
I've dated TS girls since 1982 and they all have the same desire. To be as passable as they can. That means they have to dress to impress. Go to Chicago in September to the Continental Pagent and there you'll see hundreds of TS girls who have it together.
I'm in a relationship now for the past year with a TS and the sex appeal is heart stopping. So is the sex, but that's another chapter. The day to day issues are the same. The body parts are just a little bit different. "LOL"
Just some thoughts. I think my brains starting to hurt now. "LOL"

[TVSURFER]

Ya know! It sounds like we all are attracted to attractive women, be it TS or GG. There's no doubt there. But lets face it:::if it is a TS, she has to have a dick. If she didn't, then she would be a GG and we would not be looking at this site at all. We look at this site because we like "Chicks with Dicks". It's a rather crude term but that's what it is. No offence to all TS girls. It's not a new term folks.
I too like women TS or GG to be well groomed. Head to toe. I believe the guys and gals who prefer this in a TS, do so because we are used to this from a GG. It makes both far more attractive. Hey, why do ya think there's so many Hair and Nail salons.
I've dated TS girls since 1982 and they all have the same desire. To be as passable as they can. That means they have to dress to impress. Go to Chicago in September to the Continental Pagent and there you'll see hundreds of TS girls who have it together.
I'm in a relationship now for the past year with a TS and the sex appeal is heart stopping. So is the sex, but that's another chapter. The day to day issues are the same. The body parts are just a little bit different. "LOL"
Just some thoughts. I think my brains starting to hurt now. "LOL"
Good call Dynacord, good call!!! Its nice to know a dude see this for what it is and move on, to move about! I feel everything you are saying! Game recognizes game! If a dude hasn't been with a women, he's going to have a tough time relating to a t-girl. The experience of interacting with a gg is invaluable; a guy can anticipate his moves with a t-girl because of his experiences with a gg! It's debatable, but try me!
:cool:

[TurboMan]

Ya know! It sounds like we all are attracted to attractive women, be it TS or GG. There's no doubt there. But lets face it:::if it is a TS, she has to have a dick. If she didn't, then she would be a GG and we would not be looking at this site at all. We look at this site because we like "Chicks with Dicks". It's a rather crude term but that's what it is. No offence to all TS girls. It's not a new term folks.
I too like women TS or GG to be well groomed. Head to toe. I believe the guys and gals who prefer this in a TS, do so because we are used to this from a GG. It makes both far more attractive. Hey, why do ya think there's so many Hair and Nail salons.
I've dated TS girls since 1982 and they all have the same desire. To be as passable as they can. That means they have to dress to impress. Go to Chicago in September to the Continental Pagent and there you'll see hundreds of TS girls who have it together.
I'm in a relationship now for the past year with a TS and the sex appeal is heart stopping. So is the sex, but that's another chapter. The day to day issues are the same. The body parts are just a little bit different. "LOL"
Just some thoughts. I think my brains starting to hurt now. "LOL"
hey DYNACORD,Right on my brotha.....you hit the nail on the head!

[Handandsom]

Do any of these feet work for ya??? "LOL"

Naa they are all too long but if I had to pick the best one of the four, i'd go for the 2nd one from the right (jean pant) hers look semi passable because of the arch in the foot as it lay in the heel. But if it's any consolation for my TS honies out there my sister has man feet as well. I can't even bare the look. :)

[Handandsom]

Well what attracts me is sort of a fantasy. I've only slept with one tgirl and it was one of my best sexual experiences. She was totally passable, I didn't know she was transgendered till she removed her skirt. She told me while we were kissing, before we had sex. I made the decision to try it and it was worth it for her, both the sex and the good person she is.

In short, I'm attracted to women, so my attraction is to tgirls who look like natural born girls. The only thing genetic girls lack that tgirls have is their doggystyle postion pose... I love the sexyness of them bent over , with their ass spread and package hanging. Once I got over the initial shock of how satisfied I was and the fact she was born something else, I was even able to satisfy her orally, I loved licking her booty and cock, not cuz I'm really into cock (I find pussy far sexier) , but because of the pleasure it gave her. She never wanted to top (something I just wouldn't do) and she was always ready to have sex. Plus she was a naturally good person.

Not every transgendered women is like this. The ones that don't look like men in dresses are fewer in number, as it takes dedication and work to become something you aren't. I would like to meet another tgirl like my friend, who has since moved to better herself. Beauty, personality, and sexuality would be my main attractions. I would love to meet another tgirl like this, but the beautiful ones are hard to find and meet. If any of you come to Maryland let me know. Id be glad to meet ya for a drink and some good convo. :)

YO, you took me back right there. I too still remember my first time (great thread to start). Now i'm like a booti-ologist :p:cool: I can't get enough of eating me a fine wholesome TS. I feel you on this bruh fo-reel.

[DYNACORD]

Naa they are all too long but if I had to pick the best one of the four, i'd go for the 2nd one from the right (jean pant) hers look semi passable because of the arch in the foot as it lay in the heel. But if it's any consolation for my TS honies out there my sister has man feet as well. I can't even bare the look. :)

I'm laughing my ass off right about now. Yeah, ya gotta watch out for the long ones.
Can't bare to look had me on the floor.
That's all the TS feet i got. Sorta!

[bxboy1984]

Physically I like the same things I like in ggs. Thick but not cellulite thighs, round ass, decent size breasts, pretty eyes, white smile.
Im a vers top, so the size of the penis is important, but in the way that i dont want a big one. anything bigger 8 is too much. The big ones are more eye candy for porn to me lol.
Personality, I like a girl with an elegant style, not overly showy, but most certainly not butched out either. I like girls who don't try to prove their femininity, but let it come naturally. She has to know when to be the leader and when to follow. When to stand strong, and when to let her softness show.

[DYNACORD]

Physically I like the same things I like in ggs. Thick but not cellulite thighs, round ass, decent size breasts, pretty eyes, white smile.
Im a vers top, so the size of the penis is important, but in the way that i dont want a big one. anything bigger 8 is too much. The big ones are more eye candy for porn to me lol.
Personality, I like a girl with an elegant style, not overly showy, but most certainly not butched out either. I like girls who don't try to prove their femininity, but let it come naturally. She has to know when to be the leader and when to follow. When to stand strong, and when to let her softness show.

I agree with your last paragraph to the MAX. Style points count a lot.

[bdser88]

I think a lot of T-girls are excellent studies of femininity. As a result of their birth condition (i.e. not being born female), they want to be women and when they transition it’s after years of desire, sacrifice and hard work. They tend to clue into the most feminine traits and just run with it. They know what drives us wild about women, and as studies, they learn to do it better than most women. Its almost like a born-again christians who find jesus later in life and become total zealots. (Just making a point not flaming).

[Mista_Q]

Dated my first TS in college. Didn't even know what/who she was until she told me about a month into us just hanging out. Threw me for a loop at first but she was FLAWLESS...half Dominican half Black. I fell for her...and the sex was incredible! We went our separate ways after a year or so.
It was her feminine nature and looks attracted me. And the fact she had a dick was a bonus. TS or GG, the physical appeal must be there.

Now on my third TS girlfriend I still appreciate the same physical qualities that attracted me to the previous two. But I don't look at her quite the same emotionally, the objectification isn't there like in past relationships. And we're both looking forward to continuing to build a life together. I don't get too caught up thinking about her being TS. She's just a girl who happens to be TS. Just living my life with her.

I must admit I have some hang ups from a religious perspective...but that is for another thread.

[unknown5]

I've never been with a transgendered lady before,
but it's a new, different experience and for some reason which I haven't figured out yet, I'm completely attracted to it.
Now I can't speak on any sexual experiences but just the idea is refreshing.
and I'lll provide more feedback once i go through the process of meeting more transgendered woman and having my first time.
but I haven't figured out fully the entire philosophy of my attraction
Physically - the thickness, attitude, freakiness, anal, asses and faces most importantly is what draws me in
personality is most key though, even with GG's I will turn them down if they are dumb or have a personality i dont like but usually Transgendered woman are more laid back yet aggressive which I like and open minded

[Handandsom]

I've never been with a transgendered lady before,
but it's a new, different experience and for some reason which I haven't figured out yet, I'm completely attracted to it.
Now I can't speak on any sexual experiences but just the idea is refreshing.
and I'lll provide more feedback once i go through the process of meeting more transgendered woman and having my first time.
but I haven't figured out fully the entire philosophy of my attraction
Physically - the thickness, attitude, freakiness, anal, asses and faces most importantly is what draws me in
personality is most key though, even with GG's I will turn them down if they are dumb or have a personality i dont like but usually Transgendered woman are more laid back yet aggressive which I like and open minded

Remember the evil emperor from Star Wars:)
Yo you basically doing what i did, it took me a while to build up the nerve to do it the first time. Tell you the truth it i still have to build up enough nerve to proposition a TS. But i suppose that is for many reasons. Do as much research as you need. I joined a couple of sites, BTG being the first. And then i dived right in. It helped that my first was madd cool. Even till this day she is very nice. :cool:

[unknown5]

yeaaa I'm probably going to do it within the week I think
but hopefully it turns out good.

[Handandsom]

yeaaa I'm probably going to do it within the week I think
but hopefully it turns out good.

Do lets us know how it worked out.:cool:

[peggygee]

But lets face it:::if it is a TS, she has to have a dick. If she didn't, then she would be a GG and we would not be looking at this site at all. We look at this site because we like "Chicks with Dicks". It's a rather crude term but that's what it is. No offence to all TS girls. It's not a new term folks.
"


i just think a chick with big boobs and big butt and and a big dick is sexy. just look at ts jessica. Also when you think about it tgirls have more to offer sexually.
1. your are guaranteed anal.
2. They have a dick so they know what feels good in terms of giving head.
3. They don't get pregnant.
4 Their sex drive is problably similar to yours because they want to cum too!
5. Regular girls don't understand the concept that a guy may want his ass stimulated orally or with something else you don't have to explain that to tgirl
they know!


Well DYNACORD, babyjesus, it doesn't look like there will be a hallelujah or
amen from my response.

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/church_152.jpg

As a pre op, I never fucked a man or had oral sex performed on me by one.

As a post op, I rarely engage in anal, I far prefer vaginal, as you might
imagine.

To answer the OP's question as to what I seek in a mate: Emotional stabilty,
and availibilty, intelligent, good communicator, integrity, spiritual, sense of
humor, honesty, not an active substance abuser, basically the same things
that any natal female would seek. http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/twocents-1.gif

[TICOFURY22]

now these are some pretty feet !!!
I don't know why I am attracted to t-girls
but I came soo close to acting out with one
but it turned into a bad experience
( a real GG set up a 3way with her, me and her "friend " )
but I punked out at the last moment and got called every bad name in the book
so I can content with just watching videos

there is a super pretty fem boy named LOVE B.SCOTT ( youtube him )
that I have started to watch as well ..

I don't know what path I may be taking but keeping everything hush hush from friends and family aint cool no more

[anonymoussonny]

Different perspective here...what I like: smooth body, thick legs, nice ass, pretty face, feet, and hands. smell good. I prefer taller girls, amazons. Sexually, I like a chick who is adventurous yet safe and loves foreplay. I prefer the company of girls\tgirls who are intelligent, discreet and not pot heads. In short, I'm attracted to women, so my attraction is to tgirls who look like natural born girls. The only thing genetic girls lack that tgirls have is their doggystyle postion pose... I love the sexual appeal of the bent over pose, with their ass spread and package hanging. As I prefer a 'girl', she wont get to top (something I just wouldn't do) but I will work hard to please my lover! Finally, she needs to be a naturally good person.
Beauty, personality, and sexuality would be my main attractions. I would love to meet a girl (TG) like this, but the beautiful ones (inside & out) are hard to find and meet. If any of you come to Central Florida...