What dissapoints you about TGd

[bmore]

Other than arriving and seeing it id not the person in the pictures?

What are your turn-offs?

I love reading your posts...I live vicariously through you bc I have yet to take the plunge...mainly bc I'm engaged.

[tsskye]

My turn offs about tgd are how is almost always chasers who don't see us as actual people who lurk on that site.

[bryanferryfan]

Never been in tgd but if skye feels that way there's some issues not being addressed

[andwar]

Lets see the Fakers if we stop patronizing them period.they will continue to post fake ads. Stop spending your money with them.when you see there ads there pics are hot and are dressed seductively.But you show up and they open the door looking half ass.You show up, and they forget to mention they got someone staying with them, or got there friends hiding in the bathroom or closets.You go to their apartments' and it looks like a crime scene that's still under investigation.An my biggest is,your in the customer service business.and you have a bad attitude and lazy. starting from answering the phone you get an attitude cause I cant get to your location from the tiny bit of info, if any at all in your ad,Sorry but I need to put a lot more then (Midtown) in my GPS to find you.I Don't bother with ads anymore, unless it's someone that I can't get to by other means.

[hoodstar]

what is tgd?

[MrF]

The title in the original post was "What disappoints you about TGs" -- and I guess "TGd" in the thread title was a typo and he means "Transgenders" but maybe he'll answer.

It disappoints me that TGs have a harder time in life, like getting a job and finding/keeping love. I could be wrong, though. I haven't known that many TGs. The ones I knew were pretty unpredictable, but I wasn't too disappointed by that.

[bryanferryfan]

Lets see the Fakers if we stop patronizing them period.they will continue to post fake ads. Stop spending your money with them.when you see there ads there pics are hot and are dressed seductively.But you show up and they open the door looking half ass.You show up, and they forget to mention they got someone staying with them, or got there friends hiding in the bathroom or closets.You go to their apartments' and it looks like a crime scene that's still under investigation.An my biggest is,your in the customer service business.and you have a bad attitude and lazy. starting from answering the phone you get an attitude cause I cant get to your location from the tiny bit of info, if any at all in your ad,Sorry but I need to put a lot more then (Midtown) in my GPS to find you.I Don't bother with ads anymore, unless it's someone that I can't get to by other means.


I've been in that situation as well. If you post ads and you can't be straight up then don't post. That shit pisses me off til no end.

[MrF]

Why do people post fake ads ? I can think of two reasons : (1) because it works ! it lures people in and when they see that reality doesn't match they shrug their shoulders and accept it; and (2) to protect their identity to avoid embarrassment or other problems.

[Handandsom]

I look at this from two ways: business and personal. If you are in the business of customer service than the customer is #1 and true most of these so called business women just don't understand business. But who are we to expect any different when if you think about the business of selling goods the job of the merchant is to selling the least amount of product for the most amount of money. It all boils down to what you are willing to pay for. I myself am just about out of the game because as a customer I expect to be treated better for the dollar I worked to get and chose to spend. Their are too few left in this business who treats the customer as such. From the fake ad to the stink attitude. Personally, you have to know that business is business. :)

[kanguru]

I've addressed the fake ad things before. I'm a complete sucker (no pun intended), and have run into at least 3 instances of fake ads in my travels and don't give a damn. I love dick too much, but I guess I've been lucky to be blessed with still okay looking girls at the door. One chick I was got time with used a fake ad last year, and now is all over Backpage with her real pics and vids. I dunno, maybe I helped her self confidence? She shouldn't have used fake pics in the first place, but maybe new girls do it to test the waters? I was very satisfied lol.

One other thing that is a "first world problem" when it comes to TS is that they all try to fuck me in the ass immediately lmao. I don't mind penetration, but 9 times out 10 I only arrive to suck her off and eat her load. I don't even care if I don't bust honestly. I never come mentally prepared (or properly prepared down there lol) to get fucked. I had one encounter in Florida where a Brazilian tgirl wouldn't allow me to do a damn thing until she got my booty first. The kicker is I thought I bought a full hour, yet she was kicking me out in 30 minutes. It took her that long to bust and it was a horrible experience. My gf says I got a nice ass, so maybe that's why I almost get raped at the door every time lmao. Is it so weird to just want a girl's cum? Sheesh.

As far as seeing tgirls as actual people, I ALWAYS try to have a casual convo with them before the action starts and after. I want them to know me for real. Maybe I'm a chatterbox when I'm in awkward situations (as in having the girl's load all over my face while I walk to the bathroom to get a towel...), but I want them to be comfy with this stranger they just met. I ask about their goals in life, where they grew up, what they like, etc... you know, basic human shit. I remember the first time I was with a TS I was so nervous I didn't speak. I just want to be loose so I can enjoy the experience considering it's expensive lol.

I do hate when a t-girl asks me to pick up random shit on the way to the spot, though. Food, condoms, weed, whatever. I had one even ask me for a ride from a restaurant she was eating at because she wasn't at the hotel when I arrived (the kicker was this then was a fake ad lmao... yeah, I got problems). Shouldn't you have this shit already? Condoms especially! I now try to have a "escort kit" with me in the car, no joke. Condoms, snacks, blunt wraps, and wet wipes lol. I don't have to bring my barber clippers before a haircut, so why do I have to bring a TS anything? LOL. I do it anyway, but damn.

One thing that I wish t-girls would put in their ads is their kissing policy. Kissing a TS is the most erotic thing for me, probably more than sucking her off, so it stinks when I get there, get naked and hard, we start touching and she says "I don't kiss". UGH. I also don't like when they don't want to give me a BJ either... "Oh, I don't do that" wtf am I paying you for then, ya know? Be upfront in your ads. It's not like we can discuss this shit in detail over the phone first. It's not like I'm asking for some outlandish and freaky sex act; this is basic foreplay. $250 to get nothing much? I've had instances where I thought "Damn, I shoulda stayed home and loaded some Sheeba vids. I coulda got the same experience". Maybe in hindsight, overall I have okay experiences, but as they're happening I can think of a lot of times I'm let down.

[MrF]

All the more reason that when you find something really good, stick with it.

Oh, and Kanguru, I think most sex workers avoid any exchange of body fluids, and that includes kissing strangers. It's a health precaution. Well, light kissing on the skin might be allowed if she likes you, but not mouth to mouth, usually.

[andwar]

I feel what your saying.But lets not make the oldest profession in the world what ever the gender rocket science either.In your terms the merchant is also paying for the best quality of product for their money as well.And again if we stop patronizing these impostors with the fake ads they'll wont post them,If they person who's posted in the ad is not the person that opens the door I'd leave, period.And bad attitude is Unacceptable to me.I'm not giving you my money for attitude false advertisement and lazy half ass service. after posted an ad that has you selling yourself as better than the rest, quality service,attitude free,no bait and switch.Ect Ect...i've had the fortune, and misfortune to be with quite a number of some of the Btg;s on this site.some I've dated, some was just a business transaction.I love BTG's but just like people in general some have their shit together, and some dont