Does this offend you...............?

[ROC]

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i hate seeing this shit on most pages, especially pages put up by black chicks......

[bryanferryfan]

Yeah, It's about them wanting to get paid and also they fear we may get violent with them. Perhaps they can't take big dicks !

[Cas]

yea that shit seriously irks my fucking nerves! its crazy since A) not every black guy is violent or broke... B) the black chicks at some point were once considered black guys themselves....its like self-hate at its finest, smfh


Yeah, It's about them wanting to get paid and also they fear we may get violent with them.

If that's the case then they should put up "no broke or violent guys" or "no price negotiating" instead

[arcane85]

It offends me greatly. I don't even look at the post any further. Sometimes I get girls who ask if I'm black over the phone and I tell them yes but I don't care to see them any further and quickly get off the phone.

[andwar]

when I first started looking up gurls on the sites and saw that on their ads, and if they ask what my race was It use to offend me.But I've come to realize i was better off not messing with them anyway.And trust me when they phone ain't ringing enough and they got bills or got some kind of augmentation they want done. they'll see you if your were purple

[Magna Carta]

It doesn't offend me at all. They know that black men are mostly idiots who can't follow simple instructions. I don't do the p2p thing myself and if I see that a TS is on that tip, I simply don't approach them. However, most black men will approach them knowing full well that it's p2p and will get mad that they don't make an exception for them. I've even heard stories of black men actually pretending that they were cool with the p2p thing and then trying to change it up when they met in-person. For some odd reason, black men think they're special and that the rules don't apply to them. So, I'm not offended because I understand that black men in general have ruined it for the few of us who don't get down like that.

[SHAUN]

Fairplay to you Magna Carta, for answering with your mind and not your melanin.

I can also say it doesn't offend me at all, either... Speaking as a blue eyed devil, I don't have to endure the gripe about "... black men in general have ruined it for the rest of us" but I can feel your disdain and anger.

If a sex worker only wants to see a certain group of client, or wants to rule out a specific group of clientele, that is entirely and 100% up to her... These gals (and sometimes boys) are not running a Public Service here, shit-n-jesus, what dya expect??? Maybe get Rev Sharpton in on it, or Spike Lee to boycott them?

Another thing to consider is this: quite apart from the perceived increase in risk that a gal feels (incorrectly or otherwise) they may be taking by seeing a "black" client, there is also the matter of personal taste... What if a gal generally isn't into a certain look? Well, then if she can afford to be picky, why shouldn't she be?

I can totally get why guys who are categorized as "black" can be upset and gutted and really dissapointed at an ad with negative and excluding comments like that.... But to feel "hate" and "anger" at the gals? Nah, sorry, that's just some flaky self-righteous indignation bullshit... Save your real anger for some KUNT who pretends to be cool then turns nasty and beats the gal (or worse) when she has the "audacity" to expect to get paid...

Working gals reserve the right to see whoever they want, including working to a racial agenda, or age agenda, or body size agenda etc or whatever agenda they choose... And while that may be dissapointing, there's nothing to get angry at the gal about... She owes you Nothing.

blue eyed devil

"When I tell the truth, it is not for the sake of convincing those who do not know it, but for the sake of defending those that do." WILLIAM BLAKE

[andwar]

It doesn't offend me at all. They know that black men are mostly idiots who can't follow simple instructions. I don't do the p2p thing myself and if I see that a TS is on that tip, I simply don't approach them. However, most black men will approach them knowing full well that it's p2p and will get mad that they don't make an exception for them. I've even heard stories of black men actually pretending that they were cool with the p2p thing and then trying to change it up when they met in-person. For some odd reason, black men think they're special and that the rules don't apply to them. So, I'm not offended because I understand that black men in general have ruined it for the few of us who don't get down like that. Let me start by saying I'm an advocate for every member in the forum have a right to express their own opinion.Because I'm going to continue to express mine.Now wit that being sad.I'm of mix race one of which is Black.an far from an idiot an can comprehend very well.Answering an ad on whatever website you choose to you isn't rocket science. in my personal experience It's not that we want more than you claim to provide in them fraudulent ads some BTG's post. I want simply what you claim to provide in the ad nothing more.some go to white men cause they make for a easy target to provide half ass service or straight rob them and get away with it.BUt like i said when that phone stops ringing and they money gets low and they need some type of procedure done.they're readyy to invite the black man over for a session then

[sosleepy]

Fairplay to you Magna Carta, for answering with your mind and not your melanin.

I can also say it doesn't offend me at all, either... Speaking as a blue eyed devil, I don't have to endure the gripe about "... black men in general have ruined it for the rest of us" but I can feel your disdain and anger.

If a sex worker only wants to see a certain group of client, or wants to rule out a specific group of clientele, that is entirely and 100% up to her... These gals (and sometimes boys) are not running a Public Service here, shit-n-jesus, what dya expect??? Maybe get Rev Sharpton in on it, or Spike Lee to boycott them?

Another thing to consider is this: quite apart from the perceived increase in risk that a gal feels (incorrectly or otherwise) they may be taking by seeing a "black" client, there is also the matter of personal taste... What if a gal generally isn't into a certain look? Well, then if she can afford to be picky, why shouldn't she be?

I can totally get why guys who are categorized as "black" can be upset and gutted and really dissapointed at an ad with negative and excluding comments like that.... But to feel "hate" and "anger" at the gals? Nah, sorry, that's just some flaky self-righteous indignation bullshit... Save your real anger for some KUNT who pretends to be cool then turns nasty and beats the gal (or worse) when she has the "audacity" to expect to get paid...

Working gals reserve the right to see whoever they want, including working to a racial agenda, or age agenda, or body size agenda etc or whatever agenda they choose... And while that may be dissapointing, there's nothing to get angry at the gal about... She owes you Nothing.

blue eyed devil

"When I tell the truth, it is not for the sake of convincing those who do not know it, but for the sake of defending those that do." WILLIAM BLAKE

I'm also a blue eyed devil and I think I feel completely differently than you.


When I see a girl looking for "BBC only" or "Black dudes only" on an ad, I NEVER care because I interpret that as just being their preference looks-wise. And that's something that I totally get and am understanding of. If you're mainly attracted to people who look a certain way, who the fuck am I to question it or tell you no?

When I see a girl say something like "No young black men or thugs" THEN it feels like straight up discrimination, and NOT about any sort of sexual preference. I think it's the blatant discrimination or the assumption that just because a man's black or dresses/talks a certain way that he's going to rob you or fuck you over that's the most upsetting. I doubt anyone here would have a problem if it was just that person's sexual preference.

Now, with that said, none of us are in the game meeting strangers at night like the girls are...so my indignation only goes so far. It's a shame that this sort of thing happens at all or that they feel the need to make that distinction between clientele.

[arcane85]

Here is an interesting scenario from a black guy:

I went to see a girl for the first time and we had a really good time. I personally thought she went above and beyond in making sure I was happy and I gave her double the asking amount because I felt so good. We made plans to see each other again and I told her I would call. I got a new phone but still the same number so I had to look for her ad again to find her number. On her ad was "no Black Guys". I called anyway and we chatted and she claimed to remember me. When I got to her apartment she was ok with me and I asked her why she doesn't see black guys anymore. Her response was we always want something for free.

We begin our session and she starts telling me "no I don't do that" and\or "that will be extra". Mind you I just saw her two weeks prior and she did way more with me without any prompting. Needless to say she ends the session early which I politely leave and never returned.

I see her ads now with a lot of no black guys and whites only but at other times she has she loves all races or all races welcome. to me it appears that our money is only good enough when her pockets are empty.

[Magna Carta]

Let me start by saying I'm an advocate for every member in the forum have a right to express their own opinion.Because I'm going to continue to express mine.Now wit that being sad.I'm of mix race one of which is Black.an far from an idiot an can comprehend very well.Answering an ad on whatever website you choose to you isn't rocket science. in my personal experience It's not that we want more than you claim to provide in them fraudulent ads some BTG's post. I want simply what you claim to provide in the ad nothing more.some go to white men cause they make for a easy target to provide half ass service or straight rob them and get away with it.BUt like i said when that phone stops ringing and they money gets low and they need some type of procedure done.they're readyy to invite the black man over for a session then
Not once did I say that it's all black men, though......


Here is an interesting scenario from a black guy:

I went to see a girl for the first time and we had a really good time. I personally thought she went above and beyond in making sure I was happy and I gave her double the asking amount because I felt so good. We made plans to see each other again and I told her I would call. I got a new phone but still the same number so I had to look for her ad again to find her number. On her ad was "no Black Guys". I called anyway and we chatted and she claimed to remember me. When I got to her apartment she was ok with me and I asked her why she doesn't see black guys anymore. Her response was we always want something for free.

We begin our session and she starts telling me "no I don't do that" and\or "that will be extra". Mind you I just saw her two weeks prior and she did way more with me without any prompting. Needless to say she ends the session early which I politely leave and never returned.

I see her ads now with a lot of no black guys and whites only but at other times she has she loves all races or all races welcome. to me it appears that our money is only good enough when her pockets are empty.
That's what I meant when I say that you have a those who ruin it for the few of us who aren't on that BS tip.

Let me say this, though. In no way, shape or form am I painting these TS out as being angelic or without fault because, personally, I don't trust a lot of black TS and I screen them like hell before I deal with them. Mainly because the same way that a lot of black guys are about BS, black TS be on that BS too. From my experiences, neither side does it more than the other...it's about the same in both directions but it seems that no one ever wants to call out the TS on their crap.

[andwar]

MAGNA.I never said that you were talking about all black men.My reply was based on my on personal experiences with this topic and subject matter.And in my reply I did say (Some) BTG's.I'm not stroking all BTG's with the same brush on this either.So were clear MAGNA, I'm not offended anymore because I've had the some of the same BTG's ask me If I'm black and then tell me Initially they don't See Black Men. I say ok and go on to the next ad.But I find it ironic that some time later I'll get a text from that very same BTG which is a another topic I want to post about.letting me know their in town and how long.I'll call them back to tell them please don't text me, and By the way you told me you don't see black men.and I've gotten answers such as. I need the cash,I'm having surgery,My cell phone is about to be cut off,my rent is past due ect...I learned through trial an era. To take an actual photo of the ad and store in my phone with their contact info because of the fake ads.I make it crystal clear what I'm looking for,wether they ask or not. I'm a Top, so I let them know that.and again I just want you to provide what you state in your ad and in are phone convo.And you have some that don't. claim to be attitude free, better than all the rest.no bait and switch.and some give me attitude when I ask them for directions and they don't know where they are.Some are very Unprofessional. have a roomates that they failed to mention over the phone, and when you get their they got an attitude because they don't want to leave the room for an hour.our have a bunch of people in the room hiding in the closets or bathrooms.And I can go on about the ones who have the crime scene looking apartments that you don't want to touch anything let alone take off your clothes.

[egiles112]

Was she black arcane85?

[MrF]

Hmm ... interesting and controversial thread ! I've seen threads like this here and on other, similar forums. The sex worker's response is usually along the lines of: it's based on bad experiences and the problems they see -- it's a prejudice, yes, but based on experience. Like guys trying to get it for free, or guys robbing them, or guys making some other kind of trouble, etc. A variation on the ad is "No black guys under 40" or another age limit. So, I guess it's young black guys that are more likely to cause trouble ?? On the other hand, it seems that young black guys are the preference for girls as well as TGirls looking for "casual fun", by my observations of CL and other places. Those girls explicitly mention their preference ! So, maybe it all balances out.

[arcane85]

Was she black arcane85?
Yes she is black and from Detroit, still one of the blackest cities in America

[methodman]

hell yeah use to piss me off, make me retaliate in some way... hate emails or texts. but to differentiate there are girls, i've dated a couple, who had a bad experience and do that for awhile but they get over it.

The ones who consistently hide behind it are often (not always. but often.) trick types: start out high, beg for tips, can't do stuff, wont do stuff after they take your cash unless you pay more... things brothers don't take quietly. Most white guys already have more money to spend.. that's an economic fact of our nation.. but best part for the trick girls is they just want to get along without any problems and will fully comply.

brothers aint good with the compliance thing so these girls need to avoid us.