Would u agree? Any comments are welcome..

Been away for a bit, been in southern Cali for a while now. Glad to be back on the forum! Ok on to the topic.... Seems like 96% of the beautiful btg's are not the gf or wifey material. I would like to meet a nice well rounded lady without all the other "lifestyle" that most live... Seem like it could never happen.. Lmao, but does anyone else agree? I like to get to know a lady inside and out, feel me... But seems like it would never happen. Feel free to respond negative or positive.. Oh yea,, shout out to the peeps on here!!

welcome home bro.. I feel you on that topic..........i say go for yours & if it doesn't work~out, there's other chances that lie ahead........

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Originally Posted by ROC

welcome home bro.. I feel you on that topic..........i say go for yours & if it doesn't work~out, there's other chances that lie ahead........

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Thanks cuzz,, and yea that's I been feelin about it just run with it ya know, lol

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Originally Posted by Laidbackfella09

Thanks cuzz,, and yea that's I been feelin about it just run with it ya know, lol

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It's possible but not likely. Like it's been said many times on this forum and others, many girls escort either high-profile or on the low-low. They do it to be able to get the 'mones, hair did, stay beautiful, etc. But when they get into that lifestyle it often (not always) becomes a drug to them. They get addicted to the fast money and seeing every guy as an ATM/cash station. They develop untrusting attitudes about guys because they see dudes cheating on their wives and girlfriends to trick off with them. That makes it nearly impossible to have relevant, substantive, deep relationships with most of them because you won't trust them and they will only "trust" you as long as you keep lacing them with cash. So, the probability of failure on the relationship tip is high. That being said, I think there are some good ones out there. You just gotta search pretty hard and be willing to go through some shit to make it work.

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Originally Posted by bigdicki

It's possible but not likely. Like it's been said many times on this forum and others, many girls escort either high-profile or on the low-low. They do it to be able to get the 'mones, hair did, stay beautiful, etc. But when they get into that lifestyle it often (not always) becomes a drug to them. They get addicted to the fast money and seeing every guy as an ATM/cash station. They develop untrusting attitudes about guys because they see dudes cheating on their wives and girlfriends to trick off with them. That makes it nearly impossible to have relevant, substantive, deep relationships with most of them because you won't trust them and they will only "trust" you as long as you keep lacing them with cash. So, the probability of failure on the relationship tip is high. That being said, I think there are some good ones out there. You just gotta search pretty hard and be willing to go through some shit to make it work.

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Yea true that... But it's like I'm a single man ya know.. Lol, but it's all good I'll do the dating scene and just be genuine and maybe a lady will see that there are good mean out here who truly are interested in a ltr... So imma just stay on my grind and keep focused on my career and who knows...!!

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Originally Posted by bigdicki

It's possible but not likely. Like it's been said many times on this forum and others, many girls escort either high-profile or on the low-low. They do it to be able to get the 'mones, hair did, stay beautiful, etc. But when they get into that lifestyle it often (not always) becomes a drug to them. They get addicted to the fast money and seeing every guy as an ATM/cash station. They develop untrusting attitudes about guys because they see dudes cheating on their wives and girlfriends to trick off with them. That makes it nearly impossible to have relevant, substantive, deep relationships with most of them because you won't trust them and they will only "trust" you as long as you keep lacing them with cash. So, the probability of failure on the relationship tip is high. That being said, I think there are some good ones out there. You just gotta search pretty hard and be willing to go through some shit to make it work.

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preach brother
u covered it all, especially on good girls escorting they see niggas coming to see them day after day while these men have girlfriends, wives, kids etc. so the trust thing is enormous issue

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Originally Posted by Laidbackfella09

Been away for a bit, been in southern Cali for a while now. Glad to be back on the forum! Ok on to the topic.... Seems like 96% of the beautiful btg's are not the gf or wifey material. I would like to meet a nice well rounded lady without all the other "lifestyle" that most live... Seem like it could never happen.. Lmao, but does anyone else agree? I like to get to know a lady inside and out, feel me... But seems like it would never happen. Feel free to respond negative or positive.. Oh yea,, shout out to the peeps on here!!

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If you are trying to get into a relationship with a ts, there are plenty of options, try hitting the clubs or other 'everyday shopping' locations about town. Talking to them on AFF (Adult Friend Finder) and/or BGC (Black Gay Chat), are online options that goes around the escort ads. You'll probably want to avoid trying to date an escort, not to say a successful relationship can't come from being with an escort. I have dated a few escorts (did not meet them in a p4p fashion, but through mutual friends) and our reasons for breaking up never had anything to do with escorting, but you do have to have a certain frame of mind and trust to handle your girl escorting.

There are lots of girls that separate themselves from the 'lifestyle' and do all they can to assimilate into society. I have a girl up in DC that I was talking to for a while that lives her own life, no escorting, plays xbox, goes to school and works a 9-5, supplemented with some webcam stuff, but I really don't think long-distance relationships work personally (by product of being a Military Brat). :) I've met a great deal of girls that would never escort and live close to what most consider 'regular' lives. So it's certainly possible for you to find happiness out there with a 'ts', just like with a 'gg' you just have to play the field and try. BTW, the girl I'm currently trying to 'whoo' is an escort, is about her business, with good head on her shoulders, so I don't consider the profession itself to be a determent on a potential relationship, though a variety of factors have to fit together as well.

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Originally Posted by Remy757Photog

If you are trying to get into a relationship with a ts, there are plenty of options, try hitting the clubs or other 'everyday shopping' locations about town. Talking to them on AFF (Adult Friend Finder) and/or BGC (Black Gay Chat), are online options that goes around the escort ads. You'll probably want to avoid trying to date an escort, not to say a successful relationship can't come from being with an escort. I have dated a few escorts (did not meet them in a p4p fashion, but through mutual friends) and our reasons for breaking up never had anything to do with escorting, but you do have to have a certain frame of mind and trust to handle your girl escorting.

There are lots of girls that separate themselves from the 'lifestyle' and do all they can to assimilate into society. I have a girl up in DC that I was talking to for a while that lives her own life, no escorting, plays xbox, goes to school and works a 9-5, supplemented with some webcam stuff, but I really don't think long-distance relationships work personally (by product of being a Military Brat). :) I've met a great deal of girls that would never escort and live close to what most consider 'regular' lives. So it's certainly possible for you to find happiness out there with a 'ts', just like with a 'gg' you just have to play the field and try. BTW, the girl I'm currently trying to 'whoo' is an escort, is about her business, with good head on her shoulders, so I don't consider the profession itself to be a determent on a potential relationship, though a variety of factors have to fit together as well.

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I absolutely agree Remy. However, a man has a hard time on sites like BGC as well. Let's not forget about the "tranny chaser" mentality that these girls have developed. If you pay attention to websites like BGC, you will see that the girls harbour a huge "tranny chaser" attitude about us. It really upsets me because transsexuals put themselves in a no-win situation. Everytime there's a window of opportunity for men and girls to find common ground to establish relationships, the girls always find some kind of way to tear it down. I've approached a girl in a local grocery store here in Atlanta and the first thing that came out of her mouth was, "for you to know that I'm a transsexual, you must be a tranny chaser." I was like, "WHAT!!" I was thinking to myself, 'first of all, you're not that passable. Any 10 year old can figure you out.' In conclusion, I think that the girls have begun to label all guys as "no good tranny chasers" regardless of the platform which you meet. My greatest success with transsexuals is when I befriend them before they blow up. Get with them before they get the breast implants and hormone treatments. You'll have to babysit and nurture for a minute, but the reward is well worth the time spent. I am "friends" with a few girls that guys salivate over and I feel that's the case because I knew them before they became stars. This has been my most successful strategy.

Good luck! Hope this helps!!

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Originally Posted by vidman

I absolutely agree Remy. However, a man has a hard time on sites like BGC as well. Let's not forget about the "tranny chaser" mentality that these girls have developed. If you pay attention to websites like BGC, you will see that the girls harbour a huge "tranny chaser" attitude about us. It really upsets me because transsexuals put themselves in a no-win situation. Everytime there's a window of opportunity for men and girls to find common ground to establish relationships, the girls always find some kind of way to tear it down. I've approached a girl in a local grocery store here in Atlanta and the first thing that came out of her mouth was, "for you to know that I'm a transsexual, you must be a tranny chaser." I was like, "WHAT!!" I was thinking to myself, 'first of all, you're not that passable. Any 10 year old can figure you out.' In conclusion, I think that the girls have begun to label all guys as "no good tranny chasers" regardless of the platform which you meet. My greatest success with transsexuals is when I befriend them before they blow up. Get with them before they get the breast implants and hormone treatments. You'll have to babysit and nurture for a minute, but the reward is well worth the time spent. I am "friends" with a few girls that guys salivate over and I feel that's the case because I knew them before they became stars. This has been my most successful strategy.

Good luck! Hope this helps!!

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Sorry OP, a lil off topic.

Yeah I agree with you vidman, I can honestly say, I've never hooked up with a BTG that has attained star status that I didn't already know beforehand. Although one girl (frequently mentioned here, but doesnt pose nude) in particular use to give me the opportunity and I just turned down because at that moment when she 'wanted to get dicked down' I had more pressing matters, that was my fuck up.

If she's been or is an escort, or even hangs around with working girls, you are going to have a completely different mentality to deal with and it's not something I'd get into trying to date one of those girls.
There are however, many many girls that aren't escorting or even want to be part of the TS scene, many living normal lives or who haven't even fully came out yet but are trying to.
I've used AFF in the past and had great times with girls from there as well as yahoo personals (not as good as it used to be) and other dating places. You really have to make a bit of an effort not only to find these girls but not to come onto them like a tranny chaser. Be prepared to date them, take them to dinner, movies, walks and get to know them - if that's what your looking for!
If you just want to pop your fetish ... pay for an escort.