Question for the Ladies on here?

I was recently chatting with lady online. We were just getting to know each other on a social network. During one of our chats, I said that I dont get the opportunity to meet special ladies like her everyday. She really got offended and asked that I do not contact her anymore. I want to know what I said wrong and if I was offensive? I just want to know for future reference. Thanks!

ha, you said 'special'. Were you implying she rode the short bus? lol :p j/k Also some girls don't like the fact that a guy may be specifically looking for a 'trans girl'. In their eyes, they see it as "oh no, not another tranny chaser."

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Originally Posted by Remy757Photog

ha, you said 'special'. Were you implying she rode the short bus? lol :p j/k Also some girls don't like the fact that a guy may be specifically looking for a 'trans girl'. In their eyes, they see it as "oh no, not another tranny chaser."

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I can feel that, but I did not mean to be rude or offensive.

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Originally Posted by brandonnsdiego

I can feel that, but I did not mean to be rude or offensive.

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Don't fret over one failed conversation, you are in a land ripe with beautiful tgirls. Far too many fish in the sea, keep it moving and try again. I don't care for social networks and the whole "quest for the most friends", I say get out there in the city and try to meet them in person. :cool:

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Originally Posted by Remy757Photog

ha, you said 'special'. Were you implying she rode the short bus? lol :p j/k Also some girls don't like the fact that a guy may be specifically looking for a 'trans girl'. In their eyes, they see it as "oh no, not another tranny chaser."

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Referring to me as a "special lady" in that context would shut the
conversation down, as it tells me that the indiivdual doesn't have a
true understanding of women.

She must not have been as special as you thought she was...since she was so offended... U didnt say anything wrong im sure there are plenty of other girls that would love to be called special!

we know u didnt mean to be rude..... call her back! it was the hormones...... lol

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Originally Posted by brandonnsdiego

I can feel that, but I did not mean to be rude or offensive.

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Originally Posted by peggygee

Referring to me as a "special lady" in that context would shut the
conversation down, as it tells me that the indiivdual doesn't have a
true understanding of women.

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Well, I've pretty much given up trying to achieve a "true understanding of women" as it seems hopeless. :D

Regardless, I don't think it's wrong to say she's special and to articulate why you like TGirls. Just explain what you mean by that. If you didn't mean any offense that will come through in the explanation. Now, she either accepts it or not. If not, then she's not for you and you should simply keep searching for more "fish in the sea" -- there are plenty.

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Originally Posted by brandonnsdiego

I was recently chatting with lady online. We were just getting to know each other on a social network. During one of our chats, I said that I dont get the opportunity to meet special ladies like her everyday. She really got offended and asked that I do not contact her anymore. I want to know what I said wrong and if I was offensive? I just want to know for future reference. Thanks!

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http://michigan.backpage.com/Transse...ant-21/4880076
Special??? Who's offended? This is bunch of t-girl (psuedo female) ego bullshit! From what I can see, they want you to call them special!
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Originally Posted by TVSURFER

http://michigan.backpage.com/Transse...ant-21/4880076
Special??? Who's offended? This is bunch of t-girl (psuedo female) ego bullshit! From what I can see, they want you to call them special!
:cool:

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Tell us how you really feel TV!!! :eek: