Should I tell my girlfriend about my attraction to TS?

I've been dating my current girlfriend for 3 years and want to marry her in the near future. We talk to each other about everything and she knows more about me than anyone else, except for one little secret. My love of TS porn. I want to be honest with her about everything if we're going to be married, but this is a pretty big secret. She's a pretty conservative person and a little sheltered so I know that the idea of TS porn would shock her and the idea of me watching it might frighten her. However, this is a relatively important aspect of who I am so I feel she should know before we ever get married. Has anyone else been in this same situation? Any advice?

everyone i've told has been pretty accepting of my situation, but question is are you prepared for her to possibly leave you. 9/10 she's going to seek advice or tell a friend. If you can handle the outcome then sure, but I told a girl the complete truth about me one time and she walked out of my life, and i sort of regretted it ever since. If TS porn isnt going to be an ongoing thing in your life then skip it...but if you choose otherwise, then all i can say is i hope you feel it was the right decision. Whatever you decide be prepared and dont have any regrets.

To be honest, you're kinda screwed....

you dated her for 3 years and she still doesn't know... if your relationship was strong enough to consider marriage, this should have already been up for a discussion. I've met men who have gone through similar situations. It can go two ways. Either they'll be disgusted and leave you or they'll be really into it and ok with it. i you've bee dating her for 3 years her taking this badly is gonna suck hard. The way i feel about it is you're always happier with yourself when you're honest. Ultimately i think your partner should know if it's THAT important to you that you feel like it's a secret. What would suck is for her to find out and feel like you're lying about it to her. Women have the tendecy to feel betrayal when you haven't expressed your full feelings. trust me, i'm there all the time. hahahah. So you've got one o two choices. Either you hide it from her and don't say anything about it and constantly have to check yourself OR be honest with her, tell her about it and don't feel like you have to hide it.

I've spoken to a lot of men and youd be surprised how open some women can be to your attraction to trasgendered women. It's a heavy gamble, but if you think it's worth it and if you're ok with her leaving because she doesn't accept it, then I say go for it.

Honestly...you dont wanna be that 50 year old divorced guy at the tranny bar. Think about it.

my question is this:

are you only into TS porn or have you actually been with a ts?

if you're only into the porn, do you think it will go beyond that, meaning you'll eventually move into actually having with a ts?

i started out strictly watching, but my curiosity took over and it moved into real life...if you see it going that direction, i'd say tell her...if its strictly porn, i don't see the need to disclose it

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Originally Posted by thegreat1

my question is this:

are you only into TS porn or have you actually been with a ts?

if you're only into the porn, do you think it will go beyond that, meaning you'll eventually move into actually having with a ts?

i started out strictly watching, but my curiosity took over and it moved into real life...if you see it going that direction, i'd say tell her...if its strictly porn, i don't see the need to disclose it

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But also, if you're thinking about fucking around with other people, marriage probably isn't the way to go.

I agree, both Kitty and thegreat1 have made great points for which there is little to add.

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Originally Posted by tslover65

I've been dating my current girlfriend for 3 years and want to marry her in the near future. We talk to each other about everything and she knows more about me than anyone else, except for one little secret. My love of TS porn. I want to be honest with her about everything if we're going to be married, but this is a pretty big secret. She's a pretty conservative person and a little sheltered so I know that the idea of TS porn would shock her and the idea of me watching it might frighten her. However, this is a relatively important aspect of who I am so I feel she should know before we ever get married. Has anyone else been in this same situation? Any advice?

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For me it's the "Skinny Girl Rule" Meaning that if you're currently dating a fat girl, what are the odds that she wants to hear about all the thin, fit girls you've had in the past?

On the flip side Olive Oyl doesn't wanna hear shit about Jessica Rabbit or anything else sporting a B-cup or better.

Mind you that neither party will admit to the obvious inferiority complex they have regarding the other. So why would that be any different with Tgirls and Genetic women?

So unless you have one of those rare Bisexual/Trissexual/all around freak broads I'd keep my mouth shut.

You're not winning any points by telling your girl about the last shit you took so being "truthful" should be taken in moderation.

Granted this is TS porn we're talking about but the same rules apply.

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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M

I agree, both Kitty and thegreat1 have made great points for which there is little to add.

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I agree too.

But, if you say she is conservative then it's not going to go well. She'll ask you why you need to look at girls with DICK's? Do you like guy's? Why do you need anyone else but me? I've heard it all before.
And if she has never seen any tranny porn, she's gonna flip out. She might get turned on, but I really doubt it.
I agree with being honest but probably not this time. Especially since it's bin 3 years.
Find a new hobby. You'll be glad you did in the long run. Just do it man!

[QUOTE=DYNACORD;41331]I agree too.

But, if you say she is conservative then it's not going to go well. She'll ask you why you need to look at girls with DICK's? Do you like guy's? [QUOTE]

More like probably call him a faggot, SWEAR TO GOD that he'a sucked a dick before, tell his and her friends and probably more lol

You never know really, I've met so many females that were genuinely curious about TS and (to my disdain) some of them made the same statements as I've heard on various forums from 'admirers' "Oh, you are the best of both worlds" lol :rolleyes: No offense guys but after a while it gets tiring hearing that, and when I heard it from a female friend, I couldn't help but think "oh great, another fetishist".

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