What Attracts You

Hello everyone. I know that I am new on the board, and I have enjoyed reading the discussions. I thought that I would post a topic. What attracts you to transgender woman? I have been asking myself this question. I am not ashamed of my attraction,nor do I hide it from people. I am just curious if anyone has asked themselves this question. To the transgender women on board, what type of man are you attracted to? Do you prefer men who are attracted to transgendered women or do prefer men who do not know that you are transgendered but accept it when you tell them?

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Originally Posted by william darcy

Hello everyone. I know that I am new on the board, and I have enjoyed reading the discussions. I thought that I would post a topic. What attracts you to transgender woman? I have been asking myself this question. I am not ashamed of my attraction,nor do I hide it from people. I am just curious if anyone has asked themselves this question. To the transgender women on board, what type of man are you attracted to? Do you prefer men who are attracted to transgendered women or do prefer men who do not know that you are transgendered but accept it when you tell them?

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Now this should be good!
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Originally Posted by TVSURFER

Now this should be good!
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Hello. Finally someone responded. I am beginning to think that I should not have posted this topic.

Since no one is responding to this post, I will start. I first became aware that transgendered women existed when I was a teen. At the time, there was a transgendered porn actress named Sulka. The first time I saw her in a magazine I didn't know what I was feeling. I was fascinated that here was a woman with a penis. I have not seen any of her movies, but I have seen photos of scenes from some of her films. The second time, when I was in my twenties, I saw a photo of a black transsexual getting a blow job. I found it very erotic. I don't know how to describe what I feel and think about transsexual women, but they seem to have an etheral quality about them. I admire them, because they will themselves to be what they have always been on the inside.

So naturally its was only a matter of time b4 this predator homed in on fresh meat. Truthfully though, I am a booty man and the thought of juicy booty (I could give more detail if needed) and anal sex just rocks me up instantly. It took me a long time and a tremendous amount of aggravation. My girl at the time was pissing me off and that prompted me to try a transsexual. Also if you are a porn flick expert then you have seen the little intros of transsexuals (not sure if they still play them anymore) but that also was part of many things that made me try. B4 that i would have never looked at a transgender. Funny thing about that i grew up near the Roxies in NYC down in the former meat market area and i use to see them men hanging out on the block hoeing and I use to try to avoid those blocks no matter what. But back then you weren't fooled at all. Them were hardcore dudes with dresses. Nowadays at least you have semi goddesses that look better than some women, fuck you better than a majority of women and want it 2 to 3 times more than women. Its a no brainer for me. But i still struggle with it I won't lie. And I do because of the few that try to punk you like a herb. At that point the fantasy fades and you see things for what they really bee's.

I have been thinking about my own question. What I posted earlier, while true, was the fascination of a young man. What attracts me transgendered women is their spirit, their strength, and courage. I cannot imagine what it must feel like to be born in the wrong body, nor do I know if I did feel this, which I don't, if I would have the courage to become what I feel I am on the inside. Being gay in the United States in difficult, although it has become slightly easier,but to be a transgendered person is still not acceptable. Transgendered women are considered by many as being less than human. Someone who is a freak, and someone that can be the subject of ridicule. For many, the possiblity of violence is an everyday reality, and there have been many who have been killed, because they were transsexual. Venus Xtravaganza comes to mind. She was a young transsexual woman who desired more than anything to live a normal life. She wanted a husband and a family, but her life was cut short by someone who she went to a motel, because she was supporting herself as a prostitute. She was found three days after she was murdered. For many, this is an every day possiblity. I have read every topic on this board, and I have noticed that some people refer to their attraction to transgendered women as a fetish. I think that this is degrading,because a person cannot be a fetish. If you look up the standard definition of a fetish, only objects can become a fetish, for example shoes, leather etc. Despite the myriad of obstacles that transgender women face, many each day decide to live their lives with integrity by not hiding who they are to the world. They can serve as an inspiration to all of us. They do inspire me. They also do not take their feminityfor granted like many gentic women do. Transgender women must go through a gautlet to acheive their feminity. I have read that a complete transformation cost up to $100,000 or more. This is not covered by insurance. There is no wonder why many choose to be escorts. A person could not make enough money to cover this type of surgery. I watched America's Next Top Model, because a young transgender woman named Isis was one of the competitors. While Tyra treated her respectfully, the other girls did not really accept her. I saw this young woman's confidence erode as a result. My attraction to transgender women has become admiration.

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Originally Posted by william darcy

I have been thinking about my own question. What I posted earlier, while true, was the fascination of a young man. What attracts me transgendered women is their spirit, their strength, and courage. I cannot imagine what it must feel like to be born in the wrong body, nor do I know if I did feel this, which I don't, if I would have the courage to become what I feel I am on the inside. Being gay in the United States in difficult, although it has become slightly easier,but to be a transgendered person is still not acceptable. Transgendered women are considered by many as being less than human. Someone who is a freak, and someone that can be the subject of ridicule. For many, the possiblity of violence is an everyday reality, and there have been many who have been killed, because they were transsexual. Venus Xtravaganza comes to mind. She was a young transsexual woman who desired more than anything to live a normal life. She wanted a husband and a family, but her life was cut short by someone who she went to a motel, because she was supporting herself as a prostitute. She was found three days after she was murdered. For many, this is an every day possiblity. I have read every topic on this board, and I have noticed that some people refer to their attraction to transgendered women as a fetish. I think that this is degrading,because a person cannot be a fetish. If you look up the standard definition of a fetish, only objects can become a fetish, for example shoes, leather etc. Despite the myriad of obstacles that transgender women face, many each day decide to live their lives with integrity by not hiding who they are to the world. They can serve as an inspiration to all of us. They do inspire me. They also do not take their feminityfor granted like many gentic women do. Transgender women must go through a gautlet to acheive their feminity. I have read that a complete transformation cost up to $100,000 or more. This is not covered by insurance. There is no wonder why many choose to be escorts. A person could not make enough money to cover this type of surgery. I watched America's Next Top Model, because a young transgender woman named Isis was one of the competitors. While Tyra treated her respectfully, the other girls did not really accept her. I saw this young woman's confidence erode as a result. My attraction to transgender women has become admiration.

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Having been around for a while I know that OBJECTIFICATION & ADORATION is the most many men will ever feel for us. I am at a point in my life that how I feel about myself and see myself is more important than what any man, woman or child feels about it.

I used to be very vocal and have to always convince folks that I am a worth valid human being like everyone else. You teach children when they are young and when they grow older they will have a better understanding. Thats what I am always trying to say when I see girls going back and forth with a man sitting on a site more than likely holding his dick in his hand. If they come here ignorant they probably will die that way, why waste what you could be spreading to the next generation on an old dog?

In all honesty I accept folks for where they are at I got peace with myself when I defined who I was I may be a fetish to most men but its a job to me. My life isn't affected by how any of these freaks think about me when I log off the computer I have a rich full real life off the net that as many folks as I talk to here on the net if I saw them in my regular day to day walk I wouldnt have two words to say to them. Just like people feel the need to put value on my existence I do the same thing to others everyday. Its what we do as people. I am living a story and Chanel is the star of that story and I decide who gets a role in the movie and what is their importance. The majority of folks I come in contact with are just extras and thier opionions mean nothing to me.

I have learned the true girl code speak when spoken too I spent a pretty penny on my higher learning and I paid an even bigger price for life experience if folks wanna be dumb they whole life I can sit back and get a chuckle out of watching them I don't always feel the need to voice my opinion or change the world.

There are a few good ones out there but you guys are in the smallest of classes and a rare breed.

I AM A BIT MORBID ANYWAY I KINDA LIKE WATCHING HUMAN TRAGEDIES. LOL

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Originally Posted by TSSexyChanel

Having been around for a while I know that OBJECTIFICATION & ADORATION is the most many men will ever feel for us. I am at a point in my life that how I feel about myself and see myself is more important than what any man, woman or child feels about it.

I used to be very vocal and have to always convince folks that I am a worth valid human being like everyone else. You teach children when they are young and when they grow older they will have a better understanding. Thats what I am always trying to say when I see girls going back and forth with a man sitting on a site more than likely holding his dick in his hand. If they come here ignorant they probably will die that way, why waste what you could be spreading to the next generation on an old dog?

In all honesty I accept folks for where they are at I got peace with myself when I defined who I was I may be a fetish to most men but its a job to me. My life isn't affected by how any of these freaks think about me when I log off the computer I have a rich full real life off the net that as many folks as I talk to here on the net if I saw them in my regular day to day walk I wouldnt have two words to say to them. Just like people feel the need to put value on my existence I do the same thing to others everyday. Its what we do as people. I am living a story and Chanel is the star of that story and I decide who gets a role in the movie and what is their importance. The majority of folks I come in contact with are just extras and thier opionions mean nothing to me.

I have learned the true girl code speak when spoken too I spent a pretty penny on my higher learning and I paid an even bigger price for life experience if folks wanna be dumb they whole life I can sit back and get a chuckle out of watching them I don't always feel the need to voice my opinion or change the world.

There are a few good ones out there but you guys are in the smallest of classes and a rare breed.

I AM A BIT MORBID ANYWAY I KINDA LIKE WATCHING HUMAN TRAGEDIES. LOL

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I think that many men do not understand that when they see an escort or when they view a movie or see a model they are looking at these women playing a role. This is not who they are in real life.

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Originally Posted by william darcy

I think that many men do not understand that when they see an escort or when they view a movie or see a model they are looking at these women playing a role. This is not who they are in real life.

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Its easy to dehumanize people you don't know. I think men prefer that clinical distant makes it ok to be perfect assholes in their twisted sense of logic.

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Originally Posted by TSSexyChanel

Its easy to dehumanize people you don't know. I think men prefer that clinical distant makes it ok to be perfect assholes in their twisted sense of logic.

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I agree with you, but what they don't understand is when they dehumanize others, they dehumanize themselves.