just a monday morning dont think too hard topic. if you are a ts that bottoms, which matters more to you sexually and why: his length, his girth, or his stamina? assuming you had to choose just one, which would you pick and why?
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just a monday morning dont think too hard topic. if you are a ts that bottoms, which matters more to you sexually and why: his length, his girth, or his stamina? assuming you had to choose just one, which would you pick and why?
Very good question Knockout. As a male who is very dominant sexually and like strictly bottom transsexuals when it comes to sex I always wondered what is the turn on for the ladies in a guy.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
Personally I work on stamina because I want to be in full sweat by time we're finished. The sweatier the better. I get pretty aggressive during sex, dirty talk, grunting, but its all about pleasure and passion.
The thing I like in tgirls when it comes to sex is a nice round butt, very smooth skin from head to toe. A real softness about them, the hair, the nails, the lips, the more feminine the better.
So ladies do give some ideas as to what Knockout asked about guys.
as far as things that attract me to ts, i think we share some similarities. i love femininity. i adore a lady who pays attention to the little things like feet, perfume, and tone (voice). as far as in the bed, if she is my girl, i really have no limits. if she wants to try something i will. i am about as aggressive and masculine a black man as their is, muscular compact build, punchers hands, and legs the size of tree trunks but i am secure enough with my masculinity to 'let her do her' so long as it doesn't involve anything dangerous...a bit of a tangent, my apologiesQuote:
Originally Posted by BlkMuscleTop
True dat, that's what I'm saying :) I mean we tend to hear the attraction to femininity all the time so it becomes pretty standard, but to me its something that can't be explained by words alone. I'm just attracted to femininity in transsexual women, because of the combination that their physical and mental makeup combines to make them unique.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
I mean something for example like a transsexual woman in a thong, the curves, the hips, the walk, the talk it just draws this brotha in. :)
Good question, however, we have only three active t-girls who contribute to the site. I would really like to hear what they have to say, first, before the thread falls off point. Be fair and honest to the guys, girls; stay on question because my fellow tops, we know what we like and what we'll do, in particular.Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
I want to hear the [3] girls POV before this thread shoots to the next planet (at warp speed, no doubt!:rolleyes:) ;)This could get interesting!
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hmmm... it's an interesting question and the 'choose just one' has me in a quandry as obviously, a nice combination of all three is ideal :)Quote:
Originally Posted by MrKnockOut
but... if I can add another assumption that the guy in question is of average length / girth, then I would definitely choose stamina. If I'm with someone that I like, then obviously I want to spend some time with him and let's face it, for most guys, once they pop, they pretty much tend to disappear. That being said... if I'm escorting, I'd just assume get in, get off, get out.
For such a simple question, there are a lot of complex answers. But, I am thinking stamina is the most important thing give I like the guy and he's of average size.
As a ts, I do like to bottom, but none of what you mention matters if my needs can't be met too. I like a guy who goes down town. He can have a tiny pencil dick and last 2 minutes, but if he takes my needs into consideration, he's the man for me. If I have to be strickly bottom, then you have to be paying. Thats work to me. Mutual pleasure is fun. Total top= paying trick. Thats just MY point of view. And thats why I deal with REAL men who know that sex is not just about pleasing yourself but your partner too
My #1 is stamina... I've been with guys who were less than impressive as far as size but had a bad ass stroke that had me speechless
#2 is girth. I love a thick piece that can fill me up as opposed to a long skinny that doesn't do anything but put pressure in my stomach
But if I were to recommend anything... that thing when y'all pull out and go back in repeatedly... maybe its just me but I HATE that! When u get in, stay in!
LOL... sex is SO subjective... I LOVE IT when a guy does that! Different strokes for different folks I guess :)Quote:
Originally Posted by Skye
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Originally Posted by Skye
Maybe those dudes aren't stroking it right, there is an art to this shit, can't just stick it in and start pumping away. My tactic is to get my dick massaging that prostate over and over with short, deep strokes. Never coming all the way out but just repeatedly rubbing the prostate back and forth with my dick along with putting pressure on the perenium, where the prostate can be massaged externally. That is why a dude should always angle his strokes towards the front of shorty's body, whether she is ass up or face down, that way you will be hitting that prostate repeatedly with max pressure and pleasure. Gotta get all up in there.
The combination of internal and external pressure on the prostate and perineum will send a shorty buck wild. Once I wrap my arms around her and have her moaning and squirming its over, hands free cum for her, the key is having the stamina to get to that point.
If most dudes just want to get their nut on and don't take the time to realize how to give pleasure then it will be whack of course. But I've never been a selfish dude, I give to get. :)