Are we gay?

I think that is part of the beauty of the attraction to Tgirls

Some guys like to penetrate
Some guys like to be penetrated
Some guys will get down in any old freaky way
Some transsexuals like to be penetrated
Some transsexuals who are pre-op like to penetrate

Variety is certainly the spice of life, as long as its two consenting adults doing what they want, its all good.

Since I strictly like to penetrate, I used to believe that guys who want to be penetrated were secretly gay or something, not that anything is wrong with that at all. I then realized though that some pre-op transsexuals like to penetrate guys. If they like to do that then what does it all mean.

The only hard and fast rule I have is I have no desire in being penetrated, but everything else is fair game, I'd even be willing to give her a blow job if she wants that area pleasured.

I'm dominant sexually and therefore like the submissive side of transsexual women, on the other hand there are guys I realize who are submissive sexually and like the dominant side of a transsexual woman. That I think is the crux of it folks.

I know i'm definately not Straight, probably Bisexual would be a better term, i've had sexual encounters with both sexes and found them all to be enjoyable. If that makes me Gay, then Gay I am.

If you like both pussy and dick its make you bi. If you like just dick it makes you gay. I personally have been with all sexes women,tgirls,men,and cd's.I love both dick and pussy. I feel that makes me bisexual.

One thing I have realized is that in being attracted to transsexual women, it makes me at least much more tolerant of those with differing sexualities.

For example I can come across a gay site of men's dicks while searching for transsexuals on the net and not be repulsed by seeing gay guys. I'm just indifferent about it. The most I might think to myself is I wished that cock was fucking the shit out of a soft, bottom transsexual.

Its very weird to me. I can see two gay guys who look like men and there is no turn on for me, but introduce a transsexual, even a very cute CD or TV, meaning very smooth, soft and feminine in their behavior, wearing thongs, panties, lingerie, nails all done and pure fem in their behavior and that shit turns me into a raging bull. I'm living proof guys are more visual indeed. :)

I guess the only thing that indicates is that I have no attraction to masculinity in its basic form.

Its a very fascinating thing to realize. I think there is a whole bunch of things going on in the equation for me when it comes to transsexuals

1. Dominant/Submissive factors in sexuality, I like tgirls with attitude, makes the sexual conquest of them more fun for me.
2. Attraction to hyper femininity
3. The social taboos that runs against the norm of everyday interactions.

As someone posted above if any of this makes me gay, then damn it I'll be happily gay. :)

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Originally Posted by BlkMuscleTop

1. Dominant/Submissive factors in sexuality, I like tgirls with attitude, makes the sexual conquest of them more fun for me.

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So it's the women that say they don't need a man for anything - that make
their own money, can change their own flat tires, and that say they can live
without a man, that turn you on?

Or is it.......

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2. Attraction to hyper femininity

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The Buffy the Body, Jessica Rabbit, Barbie Doll, mini skirted, stockings, garters,
heels, ready to fuck 24/7, turn the clock back to the 1950s, undo women's lib
type chick, that puts the lead in your pencil?

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Originally Posted by peggygee

So it's the women that say they don't need a man for anything - that make
their own money, can change their own flat tires, and that say they can live
without a man, that turn you on?

Or is it.......



The Buffy the Body, Jessica Rabbit, Barbie Doll, mini skirted, stockings, garters,
heels, ready to fuck 24/7, turn the clock back to the 1950s, undo women's lib
type chick, that puts the lead in your pencil?

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Another hard, probing question by Peggygee.

:D

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Originally Posted by peggygee

So it's the women that say they don't need a man for anything - that make
their own money, can change their own flat tires, and that say they can live
without a man, that turn you on?

Or is it.......



The Buffy the Body, Jessica Rabbit, Barbie Doll, mini skirted, stockings, garters,
heels, ready to fuck 24/7, turn the clock back to the 1950s, undo women's lib
type chick, that puts the lead in your pencil?

Another hard, probing question by Peggygee. :D

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You know that is a very good question. I would have to say for me the Dominant/Submissive aspect of things is limited to the sexual roles in the bedroom. In the bedroom I'm going to be the dude that takes charge and does the fucking, if you catch my drift.

When it comes to other aspects of the relationship though its all cool with me. I like chicks that are strong willed in everyday life but yet when the lights go down they can give up some of that control to daddy. See what I mean Peggy.

I don't like weak pushover chicks in day to day life, they bore me.

So in summary when it comes to putting the lead in my pencil, like that phrase by the way, I like the women who are strong outside of the bedroom but submissive in it. That stimulates me big time, something about knowing that they are strong willed in carrying out their business but will let their guard down in passionate intimacy in the sheets. :)

I think that contrast in a woman be it transsexual or genetic speaks to their confidence in knowing what they want and not being mousy and timid about it. I think the operative term is a strong willed woman.

no. we are not gay, tgirls are women. some of whom just happen to have a long clitoris

Ask yourself do you like men? Do you like masculine type men/tgirls? Do you take it in the ass? Do you suck dick?

If you answer yes to any of these then, well...

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Originally Posted by ballznnutzz

Ask yourself do you like men? Do you like masculine type men/tgirls? Do you take it in the ass? Do you suck dick?

If you answer yes to any of these then, well...

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Just cause you go to the buffet and don't eat the tomatoes doesn't change the fact that you were at the buffet.


It's amazing to hear dudes talk about messing with someone with a dick but say "Well I didn't suck it and "she" didn't use it so I'm straight."

If you are attracted to someone with a dick then well,....

That's like saying if two dudes get together and only one does fucking/sucking only one is gay.