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i don't really care what color the dude is cause i'm really not paying him any attention...but i don't wanna see some fat, beer belly dude though...
what i WOULD like to see is more ts chicks going super hard...i've seen a couple scenes of girls that i've been with personally and they went WAY harder off camera...one of them loves to be abused, but her scene looked like 2 13 year olds doing it for the first time...
wasn't on this site, i'm just speaking in general...
Given our history as blacks here in America, it usually gives me a sense of accomplishment when I see two genuinely romantic people of different races expressing gestures of love.
However, having said that, I am also aware of the psycho-sexual political metaphors that men use in order to both express, herald, and maintain dominance over women. Expressions like, "I fucked that bitch to death!" , or, "I fucked that bitches eyeballs out!", and "I tore that pussy up!" - These are all statements of male dominance...
This goes double for when a male screws another male. There's no question as to who dominates and who is the alpha character. When white males screw black males and don't do anything in return for the pleasure of the black male (such as return the favor, or give head), I sometimes wonder about the political factor and the social imagery involved in the actual sex act.
Are the white males thinking..."Yes! I fucked another NG man in the ass again and therefore, I've once again proven my my white male dominance?"
-OR- Are they saying," I really do enjoy these beautiful dark-skinned Tgirls?"-OR- Are they saying, "Man! I hope I only have to do these types of scenes for just a little while longer, until my ship comes in!"
When I see, black males with black Tgirls, I don't really think about any pycho-sexual political ramifications. I just watch and enjoy! I personally would "feel" better, if I really "knew" that the white guy was cool.
Just my $ 00.02...
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Originally Posted by Koanbred
Black woman's response:
I have followed this thread from it's inception, and must admit that I have
mixed emotions.
Many has been the day that I have seen a intelligent, nice looking,
professional man of color with a woman of the "caucasian persuasion".
Sure that she may have had a great personality, was probably also
intelligent, but in many of those instances she was far from a dime piece.
In my mind I'm saying to myself how and why would he choose her over me
or one of my Sisters.
Over the years I've dated men and been in relationships with men of all races
and ethnicities, I like to call myself the United Nations, or the Benetton of
colors of love.
I can and would be in a relationship with a man of any race that will treasure,
value, love, honor and respect me.
Sadly the "bruthas' are often-times half-stepping, not taking care of home,
have baby mama drama, want to be players, and other-wise just don't do
right.
It actually has been men of other races who have often-times cherished me
more than my own race. That and they are very quick to want to wife up
Becky over me.
So for me, what's good for the goose is most definitely good for the gander.
If he is going to cross the color line, I have no problem doing so also.
I truly, truly love my Black men, I am extremely proud and knowledgeable of
my heritage, and there is nothing more beautiful than when you are in a
relationship with a "do right" Black man.
But I'm not going to be lonely or settle while Becky takes the cream of the
crop of our Black men, so Latino, Asian, caucasian men, holla at your girl.
Hey there Peggygee!
I just wanted you to know that many of us brothers have been there for our women. However, in my case, I was told that I was too agreeable and lacked the defiance that a woman likes to see in a man. I always refused to argue. I didn't fold and do as she always requested, I just wouldn't argue and would do what I wanted anyway.
She had her own brand new car every four to five years. She went on shopping sprees at least once a month. Our refrigerator was always filled with the best that everyone's taste buds desired. She always had at least $100 in her purse for pocket change.
One day, after the electricity unexpectedly cut off at work. I was asked to leave work and return the following day. All employess therefore, returned home after only half a day of work.
When I opened the door to my home, there was my wife with her legs spread wide opened and this great big gorilla-looking dude humping her. They were so into it, and she was screaming so loud, that they didn't even hear me.
I started for my gun in the bedroom drawer. I ended up getting the gun and my camera. I took a picture of them in the midst of screwing. The flash alerted them both! The dude jumped up and instantly began to act like he was going to rush me. I drew the gun and order them both out! I gave them three minutes to exit. I then went straight to a lawyer to start divorce proceedings.
I was no doubt a good provider and a faithful husband. I found out later that after dropping the kids off at school, she was known to bring several different guys to my home for sex. I would often wonder where different cigarette lighters left behind were coming from.
Hey that's ok! I then began to pursue my real sexuality without a genuine woman in my life. Life has been great ever since!
I generally had to beg her to get up and cook dinner.
What's shaking Koanbred.Quote:
Originally Posted by Koanbred
You are quickly becoming one of my favorite posters, due to your great posts
and responses. :cool:
Respectfully I have to say that the scenario that you have outlined and your
response to it reminds me of one I have heard from other men and women
who have had bad experiences with the opposite gender.
I've been done wrong in relationships, but I didn't let it harden my heart, and
I've kept the door open for my blessing.
Please try not to let one bad apple sour you on the whole gender.
Damn! Believe it or not I have heard several variations of this story from many different dudes. I only know 2 dudes who are "happily" married. And by happily I mean that each spouse supposedly isn't screwing around but they still complain, argue and even have separated at different points. That's why that shit ain't for BD. Sorry to hear that happened to you Koanbred but I'm happy you handled it the right way and got your head together.Quote:
Originally Posted by Koanbred
Well, I'll tell you like this, Peggygee!
I'm done with GG's forever! I've always been secretly attracted to Tgirls for most of my adult life and I fully intend to have Tgirls as friends and associates, instead of women born as women.
I'm not looking for anything steady or permanent. I prefer to just have friends with benefits!
Love,
Koanbred
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Looks like:::in her ASS dude!
Im glad someone else notice this besides me.Quote:
Originally Posted by Unisex
Not only black tgirls does it repeatedly but Joey often has whiteboys as performers when ever he has a Black American (keyword) tgirl models (notice when he ask what type of guys you like, nearly all say they have no preference. Does he ask this with the non-black tgirls? Don't know since I don't watch it much.).
It seems to me that more black tgirls are more open minded, especially the more "passable" ones then their non-black counterparts. Lately their has been MORE whiteboys then black men performing on this site. And finding a lack of black male models, I think, is bullshit. Madison AKA Bigdickbitch has them ALL the time.
Oh yeah, I can see why it is disheartening to see this, considering over a whopping 90% of subscribers are black men. Go figure.
Ugh, more black women pseudo-truth that has been spewed across the internet forever. I can single handly dissect your post but I don't have the time now, maybe later.Quote:
Originally Posted by peggygee