ohhh mmyyy gooooddddd, we need to put this term to rest. call a natonwide meeting!
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ohhh mmyyy gooooddddd, we need to put this term to rest. call a natonwide meeting!
i really want to hear what the girl is saying but the volume is too damn low!:(
Found this lady very interesting and VERY ATTRACTIVE on the mental level.
- Does any one have more info on her?
- I would love to start a dialog and find out her reasons for staying out of site.
- Is it just to spark interest or is there more to it?
Thanks for the post Top_dawg
:cool:
I can only imagine how negatively I might react if a bitch tried me with this label...
Fuck the label and fuck who uses it!:mad:
Alright time for me to put my 2 cents in it...
Here it is from my point of view....First off, let me say "KilaKali" is my friend and he is the man., he took some great pictures of me (we need to get together and get some more pictures taken asap)..Now the Tgirl that he is mentioning that he had this conversation with is no other than myself....Jayla...
So let me break it down from my perspective....1. Before I moved to California and began to hang out in the "social scene" I had never heard of the term "tranny chaser"...and it was a while after being in the scene before I began to use to the term...here is the thing, that term is used loosely... The term was brought to me as: a man that wants to fuck the "girls" and 4 seconds after being rejected by one, he is immediately on to the next...it also applies to when a man knowingly knows that you are extremely close friends with other t-girls see you guys walk into the club together, and he tries to drop his pick up line on you and your friends as if you dont talk and or know eachother...( in my mind this is very arrogant) to have a chance to date/sleep/fuck with all of you. And probably in that order.
Now there is absolutely nothing wrong with a man wanting to compliment a lady on her appearance and to tell her how attractive she is to him...there is nothing wrong with that at all...because that is what most of us is going for... duh...lol...But it becomes a issue when "you" the man becomes a vulture and "we" the tgirl the piece of meat.
You all have made some pretty interesting points...but GG's especially BLACK WOMEN GENETICALLY do have labels for you men...let me name a few..."BROKE", "BUSTED", "SCRUB", "BUGABOO", "TRIFLIN" , "GOOD FOR NOTHING", and the universal "PLAYER" !!!
So for those that think that Genetic women are easier on men forget it.. keep foolin yourself, because you have not been listening to any of the media that is out that by famous black women, shit white ones at that too...(all eyes to Pink)...
And you fellas got good names for them..."Chickenhead", "Gold Digger", "DSL (Dick Suckin Lips)", "Trick", etc... So as you can see is common behavior on all aspects of the spectrum... shit where do you think we got it from? "Tranny Chaser" is just something that is coined to our special lingo and verbiage...that we use to identify as certain type of male.
I agree with Vidman regarding the intentions of the person, it is totally up to us to decipher what are good intentions and bad intentions...that is the game that we play when it comes to this lifestyle unfortunately...
So with all that being said, Honest I would rather call you by "YOUR NAME" and leave the labels to UPS for packages but sometimes its even hard to get that due to the secret lives many men lead, thus giving up the fantasy name to their fantasy girl.
I will talk about "Tranny Attractive" in another post...
I say men keep complimenting us...I will call you by your name as long as you call me by mine...
Much love
Jayla
Very well said!!!!!!!!!
thanks girl!!!
Thank you for the mention, Jayla. Now that I know you're more comfortable with engaging with people on a first name basis, allow me to introduce myself.....I am Rob, AKA Vidman. I definitely agree with your post, but I believe that those coined terms that you spoke of earlier are a representation of something. For example, the term BROKE refers to a guy with no money. The term BUSTED refers to a guy who's not so attractive. BUGABOO refers to a guy who is somewhat stalking a girl. So each term represents a characteristic of that man in particular, or men in general, according to that girl. The term TRANNY-CHASER stings so much!! OUCH!! lol. I don't think there is anything wrong with a man who gets turned down by one transsexual and immediately tries to get with another. Why wait!! Men do it to GGs at the club every night. I've never heard of a term for that from a GG. Womanizer maybe? Whore maybe? Ahhh, what about Player. Yes, but none of those are as piercing as TRANNY CHASER!!!
Jayla, you are a VERY VERY beautiful young woman from head to toe. I hope we can continue to have stimulating conversations such as this one more often. It is an honor to meet you.
Oh, and just for the record, I officially retire my status as a TRANNY CHASER. I am now OFFICIALLY a JAYLA CHASER (wink). Seriously Ms. Jayla, you're hot ma.
I'm just sayin.....
Okay, Rob (Vidman) that was a sweet post to wake up too...thank you..So now your a JAYLA CHASER ???...lets see how that goes...Im interested to see how that works...sounds fun tho...:)
Now back to the post at hand...It is once again my opinion that Tranny Chaser is no worse than being called a "DOG" by a genetic woman...If you wanna talk on more of a moral degrading level.
Men who go from one girl to the next is called just that a "Dog" its like going from one hydrant to the next sniffin around until you find something to piss on (and you normally do) its the same situation with tranny chasers, they find someone to fuck and ultimately piss on them (ultimately leaving your mark and doing your damage)...and then they move on to the next hydrant... metaphorically speaking.... of course.
Thus, leaving a lot of Tgirls JADED and STAINED about men and having honest and fruitful relationships with them....
So you wanna talk about terms and things that sting...huh? Well, if you lived the life and day as a tgirl and just maybe invested your time, energy and love into a man just to find out that he wants to not only have sex with you,your friends, ya momma, and ya granny...you would be a just a bit hurt and unfulfilled... Try the sting and burn from those feelings...not pretty...But I think we all have to realize that its just an emotion, it will pass...
I say, if you are a strong minded individual and you honestly know who you are, and what your intentions are... (hopefully good ones) then you would not let any label from any side of the track offend you... Thick Skin my friend...a lot of men need to get some...Coined terms and labels has shaped our society and us as a people for years... otherwise there would not be a "BLACK TGIRL" site because no one would know what "color" or "race" that I am nor the fact that I am a "tgirl" if there were not for labels.
Racism plagues our country till this day, and its all over "LABELS"...Tranny Chaser fails in comparison of all the other million and 1 things you could be called....
and to snag a line from you Rob (Vidman)
"- Im just sayin.."
Either get some tougher skin...or find a hole/cave to crawl into...because labels are out there, and until we find better ways to communicate with and about one another....
I'd rather call you ROB, "baby", "daddy" (in the right situation), "my man", Kilakali, or better yet "my man", than tranny chaser...but it takes a lot on your part to prove that you are deserving of those labels...I bet you don't oppose to those labels...because they are more coddling, and sincere...
In the meantime regardless of what you know or may not know about me you can call me one thing and one thing only....Jayla
If you wanna get to know more about me, check out my site and my forum called EXPOSURE....@:
Icanonlybemejayla.yolasite.com
Peace and much love...
-Jayla