I too stand corrected, as you're right I've never seen a post op woman on
the Black T-girl site, not that I be scoping out that site much.
I had seen the thread about "black t-girls are worst than crack", had only
responded to the guy who felt transwomen were only sperm receptacles.
As far as the notion that a transwoman can't be wifed up, I feel that it
depends on the woman and man.
All transwomen are not wired the same, so YMMV.