where do old T-Girls go?

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Originally Posted by bigdicki

The response is neither ignorant nor should it be surprising. I made my response starting by saying I personally know and am cool with an older ts; I don't just need a ts to strut and "swish" (whatever that means). I also said, for most, according to what I've seen and heard from other ts, those are unfortunately, the 3 most likely paths. Death, as you know Seanchai, is a very unfortunate but possible end-game for any ts that escorts (not for those that don't). My post wasn't meant to be insensitive, although I can see how some who don't know the bulk of my posts could take it that way. If it offended any transsexuals who post here, I'm sorry.

Now, calm your old English ass down, have some bangers and mash and let those who don't make money off tgirls strutting and swishing around on porn sites have an open and honest discussion. :cool:

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its amazing that you would talk to the guy who owns this site like that.you must not have a membership.

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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M

Just because "... an older tgirl..." says something does not make it a fact.

I use to hear a lot of bullshit and urban myths which came from the older trans when I first began transition. Sometimes I wonder if it's just ignorance or if they are bitter.

For instance, they like to promote a popular urban myth that 'ejaculating' wastes your hormones. Another is that, silicone the pump doctors use is medical grade procured from the finest surgeons in Mexico. My own 'Gay Mother' who was also an older trans woman, told me repeatedly that the only way to successfully transition was to 'get out there on the stroll and trick', and I've been fighting that perception ever since she uttered those words. Moral of story, don't believe everything you hear. :cool:

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omg yes,the orgasm wasting the hormones myth fucked me up for awhile lol.i now have a doctor who informed me otherwise.not only am having an orgasm every day now but just last week my man gave me FOUR orgasms in one day :D

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

omg yes,the orgasm wasting the hormones myth fucked me up for awhile lol.i now have a doctor who informed me otherwise.not only am having an orgasm every day now but just last week my man gave me FOUR orgasms in one day :D

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booooooooo!!:cool:

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

its amazing that you would talk to the guy who owns this site like that.you must not have a membership.

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No no - it's cool on that. If I'm talking and engaging here on non-website issues, then I'm the same as anyone else. If I give it, I've got to take it also - but as someone whose been around enough transgenders for that long, I also will call out BS if I see it.

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

omg yes,the orgasm wasting the hormones myth fucked me up for awhile lol.i now have a doctor who informed me otherwise.not only am having an orgasm every day now but just last week my man gave me FOUR orgasms in one day :D

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Lmao...backs away from post

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

its amazing that you would talk to the guy who owns this site like that.you must not have a membership.

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Whaaaaa Ha Haaaaaa!

That is too funny. It is very comendable of you to perceive disrespect for the owner/Seanchi. But like he said, you have to take it if you are going to give it. Believe me, the Brit has more volleys with members and non members than you can shake a stick at. Don't be shy, beat him up if you need to. LOL!
Everyone's a character on this site. You gotta be!

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

omg yes,the orgasm wasting the hormones myth fucked me up for awhile lol.i now have a doctor who informed me otherwise.not only am having an orgasm every day now but just last week my man gave me FOUR orgasms in one day :D

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That was something I worried about with my ex, since someone told me that before. I remember the first time I saw her cum I felt wonderful and awful at the same time. There was a lot of it... Now I don't have to worry about that... for two reasons.

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Originally Posted by seanchai

Honest and open is fine, if it wasn't I would have closed most of the posts and this forum a while ago but your STATEMENT "but for most, I've heard its either" is entirely in-correct and sensationalized. Yes of course some die (but so do too many younger trans), and what is so bad about them getting SRS that you combine it with two other negative points?

There are plenty of older tgirls around.

If you can't handle being told when your wrong, then don't make unfounded statements, pose it as a question or as part of the discourse but don't get your panties in a twist.

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So, you are party to what I've heard? Let's be real, I made no statement in terms of statistical facts. In fact, my statement was based on anecdotal evidence from 1) what I have seen in my travels mostly in the Midwest and Southeast and 2) talking with the TS I know (mainly 2 TS specifically), so I never said "this is fact" but you seem to not understand the language your people fathered. Additionally, I NEVER said it is bad to get an SRS... apparently, once again, you don't understand English. And quite frankly, living as a man is not "negative" either... if that is what the girl TRULY chooses. The key here is that they shouldn't be FORCED into either one and some girls do feel that way; either get an SRS or go back to living life as a masculine figure. Some girls, due to societal pressure, don't feel the "breathable" space to be a transgender with genitalia intact. I combined the "death" point with points that from WHAT I HAVE HEARD AND SEEN are what happens. I said what I said in part, out of empathy for the fact that girls wind up dead for no good reason. I can handle being wrong if someone proves me wrong. And the only panties in a twist are apparently some girls who don't think you pay them correctly. Remember you were the one who brought up the porn thing and you make money every day off these girls right?:cool:

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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M

Just because "... an older tgirl..." says something does not make it a fact.

I use to hear a lot of bullshit and urban myths which came from the older trans when I first began transition. Sometimes I wonder if it's just ignorance or if they are bitter.

For instance, they like to promote a popular urban myth that 'ejaculating' wastes your hormones. Another is that, silicone the pump doctors use is medical grade procured from the finest surgeons in Mexico. My own 'Gay Mother' who was also an older trans woman, told me repeatedly that the only way to successfully transition was to 'get out there on the stroll and trick', and I've been fighting that perception ever since she uttered those words. Moral of story, don't believe everything you hear. :cool:

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Understood... I've discussed the same bullshit rumors with some girls. I have a great deal more respect for your logical and thoughtful reply than some who get "bitchy".

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Originally Posted by thegirlnextdoor

its amazing that you would talk to the guy who owns this site like that.you must not have a membership.

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ASSuming makes an... you know the rest. You're too beautiful to fuck with. Owning something doesn't make one perpetually right. I always speak truth to power... cops, congressman and cunts.... wherever I spot them.

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Originally Posted by bigdicki

So, you are party to what I've heard? Let's be real, I made no statement in terms of statistical facts. In fact, my statement was based on anecdotal evidence from 1) what I have seen in my travels mostly in the Midwest and Southeast and 2) talking with the TS I know (mainly 2 TS specifically), so I never said "this is fact" but you seem to not understand the language your people fathered. Additionally, I NEVER said it is bad to get an SRS... apparently, once again, you don't understand English. And quite frankly, living as a man is not "negative" either... if that is what the girl TRULY chooses. The key here is that they shouldn't be FORCED into either one and some girls do feel that way; either get an SRS or go back to living life as a masculine figure. Some girls, due to societal pressure, don't feel the "breathable" space to be a transgender with genitalia intact. I combined the "death" point with points that from WHAT I HAVE HEARD AND SEEN are what happens. I said what I said in part, out of empathy for the fact that girls wind up dead for no good reason. I can handle being wrong if someone proves me wrong.

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I understand and use the language perfectly, thanks. Perhaps you'd better take a good long look, how you use it as you evidently have communication issues on making yourself understood? So your whole statement on the three options of what happens to older trans is based on speaking to 2 transexuals. Why even both repeating such as fact?

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And the only panties in a twist are apparently some girls who don't think you pay them correctly. Remember you were the one who brought up the porn thing and you make money every day off these girls right?:cool:

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Well Amber brought up a point which she was wrong on - but this is actually crossing the line. Not only is it a cheap shot which is irrelevant to the conversation we were having, which shows how much your panties ALWAYS seem to get into a twist when you are corrected but also again, just heresay. It's a pretty pathetic statement and for some one who supports this website, then reflects right back at you.

To answer your pendantic question, I don't "make money every day off these girls". My company makes money from hiring some people as models, hiring photographers to shoot the models, hiring photoshop and video editors, marketers, customer service, designers, lawyers, cleaners, book-keepers and webmasters both on a fulltime and freelance basis. They are all paid fair rates for their roles which is why freelancers continue to work for us (some up to 15 yrs) and we have fulltime staff for over 10. Some of the staff are girls, some aren't.

If you are inferring (which is obviously your intent) that there is a problem with how we pay the models, then perhaps you ought to take yourself elsewhere and stop supporting this site?

Here's a lesson in English which is appropriate for your entire posts on this subject.

"Bollocks" [ˈbɒləks] is a word of Anglo-Saxon origin, meaning "testicles". The word is often used figuratively in British English, as a noun to mean "nonsense", an expletive following a minor accident or misfortune, or an adjective to mean "poor quality" or "useless". Similarly, the common phrases "Bollocks to this!" or "That's a load of old bollocks" generally indicate contempt for a certain task, subject or opinion.

I agree with SeanChai.

They're alive, you just dont' see em in porn. :)

Or in clubs.


Or in the way most men on this website find tgirls.