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lol. Alright sean dont take it personal. Tellin ya how i feel. Personally i dont know many girls (real girls) who are going to clubs with porn stars as the main attraction and since it seems so common, I'm just saying it would be nice to more just -fun- parties. Chances are, i'm not going to wanna mingle with guy who's comming to a club to meet a porn star. I hope that doesn't offend you but it's how i feel.
I think what she's getting at, is that Porn themed parties tend to have a lot of built up pressure, to be looking the best, dressed the best, known by the best. Whether guys realize it or not, there's a lot going on in the girls head and amongst their circles of friends, knowing that people that can make or break your porn career may be in attendance, so it creates an air of competition amongst the girls, more so than a regular club. Any club being promoted by a porn company obviously it's to be expected that porn stars are going to be there, so guys are going in hoping to hook up/recruit with porn stars.
I too wouldn't personally attend a function like that, have no desires to be judged by other people. I tend to be more of a bar girl than club anyway though so I'm biased. I want to be able to hear the person I'm speaking to. lol
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Originally Posted by kittymatthews
Your point of view doesn't "offend" me.
Your naiveity and cynicism does though.
Don't be offended - but make your own mind up through your own experiences not by proxy.
Great News! I hope to be able to come up soon!
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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M
Seanchai, if you dont get what i'm getting at, read this. It's exactally what i'm getting at. I"m not saying the porn parties are bad parties, i'm sure they're great! However,i get the impression, just from looking at the websites that host the parties that they're the type of parties where some girls really have to make sure they dot their 'i's and cross their 't's.
And again, if this is my impression of a club and i haven't attended, that says something about the way the club is promoted. When i invision going out to a club, i wanna have fun. I wanna let loose get drunk, ect. I dont feel like competing or being amongst the girls who are competing with each other.
I know you're taking this personally, and i appologzie for that. The point i was making is that there aren't enough parties that i can find in LA where there isn't an emphasis/foot in the industry and that ultimatley attracts a certain crowd. That's alllllllll i'm saying.
But you haven't beeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen to them!Quote:
Originally Posted by kittymatthews
Make your own impressions, unfortuantely you can't any longer at Blue Moon but that club and Cobra when Buddy promoted it were the most inclusive TS clubs I've ever been at, with far less clique's then anywhere else. Just because their are girls who work in porn there, it doesn't mean you have to cross or dot anything. There were girls from the most basic part-timers through to TS's who've lived that way and worked (not always in porn) for many years.
Make your own impressions before dismissing stuff.
Good point, but you'd apparently be surprised by how many of the 'it' girls are gossiping and laughing amongst themselves about other girls that aren't up to par. I think guys are just oblivious to all that, too much TnA going on for them to care. lol :p
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Originally Posted by Ms Remy M
FYI - THAT goes on in all clubs and bars. Every bar has an IT crowd regardless of whether TS, Gay or Hetero ... and regardless if there are pornstar types there or not.
You've met Brittany St.Jordan? There is a "pornstar" who wouldn't fit into that 'IT" mould.
Haha, I was waiting for the "never been there" line, which is what my "Good Point" was for. The girls I've known that have gone, said I wouldn't care for it, good enough for me. Like I said, the guys are viewing this issue with different eyes. I did admit to being biased though, I generally prefer bars over 'clubs' anyway. Now, if you had a live band rock and/or Jazz, and I'd be there. :pQuote:
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lol There are so many jokes I have running through my head right now! lol Have you seen the British show The IT Crowd? http://www.tv.com/shows/the-it-crowd/ One of the funniest shows on tv my friend. lol *shakes head* They are the "IT Crowd" I'd rather hang with. Please, check it out, or I can send to you if needs be, they are making a 'USA' version but I have my reservations about that. Richard Ayoade is an awesome writer and wrote/directed another good brit movie 'Submarine' that just came out not long ago. http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1440292/Quote:
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Yeah Brittany is my home girl, miss her so much. Just saw some pics from her Club shoot recently actually, looking good. I do worry that after being out West too long, that whole culture will rub off on her though.
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