Escort Question??

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Black Magick

I can't let you get away with that horrible analogy. I don't know why tricks always compare a date to paying a prostitute when they aren't even the same things. I guess it's so you won't feel like a sucker. A date is personal. People are usually looking to become better acquainted on a date. Besides, sex isn't guaranteed on a date. Sex really isn't even the point of a date. Paying a hooker on the other hand is strictly exchanging money for sex. The agreement is sex only, nothing personal. I guess by your logic, a man who takes care of his wife and kids is in the same boat as a trick since he has sex with his wife.

---

You are right, my analogy was indeed horrible and my logic was both clouded and flawed. I apologise for it. But let me me perfectly clear with you I do not now nor have I ever felt like a sucker. I know exactly what I am doing and I do not do it with any kind of regularity. I spent as much and more on regular or real dates. The weekend was amazing and we both walked away fulfilled. Thank you for your honest opinion.

it aint tricking if you got it....lol

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Black Magick

I can't let you get away with that horrible analogy. I don't know why tricks always compare a date to paying a prostitute when they aren't even the same things. I guess it's so you won't feel like a sucker. A date is personal. People are usually looking to become better acquainted on a date. Besides, sex isn't guaranteed on a date. Sex really isn't even the point of a date. Paying a hooker on the other hand is strictly exchanging money for sex. The agreement is sex only, nothing personal. I guess by your logic, a man who takes care of his wife and kids is in the same boat as a trick since he has sex with his wife.

---

I agree with you, it's a completely different thing to dating but it doesn't mean there is anything wrong or "pathetic" in what he was doing. He was buying entertainment - an experience - and as long as both parties knew the limitations, and they both walked away from the experience happy, then more power to them.

Always do what makes you happy.

I'm a gadget geek, I spend my excess funds on the 'next' gadget etc despite knowing that I will want the 'next hotness' or whatever. Never mind the haters that want to put you down for what you have/do, it seems a product of the culture. The same person that puts you down for the way you spend your money is supposedly riding around in a Jag which could also be seen as excess spending, so go figure.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by seanchai

I agree with you, it's a completely different thing to dating but it doesn't mean there is anything wrong or "pathetic" in what he was doing. He was buying entertainment - an experience - and as long as both parties knew the limitations, and they both walked away from the experience happy, then more power to them.

---

I don't care what he does with his money. I do draw the line, however, when tricks compare that pitiful thing thry do to datting to try to make it seem like every man is doing what they're doing.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

it aint tricking if you got it....lol

---

That's what females tell tricks so they dont feel bad about trickin'....and yes, its STILL trickin, whether you 'got it' or not...tricking is by definition, giving money or something of value to a person for attention that they otherwise would not give you.

slice it up but if you PAY for sex ur a loser period

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by thegreat1

That's what females tell tricks so they dont feel bad about trickin'....and yes, its STILL trickin, whether you 'got it' or not...tricking is by definition, giving money or something of value to a person for attention that they otherwise would not give you.

---

unfortunately to most mean we tgirls are little more than fantasies,experiments and etc.very few guys will actually entertain the possibility of something real and long term out there.if im going to be fetishized and the whole nine than i will be getting payed for it.im ok with the fat that guys are on the dl.my whole thing is if your on the dl just pay the girls.
now im not saying all men are like this,there are a few real decent and secure guys out there and im more than appreciative for them.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

unfortunately to most mean we tgirls are little more than fantasies,experiments and etc.very few guys will actually entertain the possibility of something real and long term out there.if im going to be fetishized and the whole nine than i will be getting payed for it.im ok with the fat that guys are on the dl.my whole thing is if your on the dl just pay the girls.
now im not saying all men are like this,there are a few real decent and secure guys out there and im more than appreciative for them.

---

Im not sayin you shouldnt get your money. If they wanna pay, you might as well take it....im not even telling you to stop telling them 'its not trickin if you got it'...if thats all it takes to make them break bread, do you by all means...tell a trick what they want to hear sweetheart...thats the game

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by tsamberskyi

unfortunately to most mean we tgirls are little more than fantasies,experiments and etc.very few guys will actually entertain the possibility of something real and long term out there.if im going to be fetishized and the whole nine than i will be getting payed for it.im ok with the fat that guys are on the dl.my whole thing is if your on the dl just pay the girls.
now im not saying all men are like this,there are a few real decent and secure guys out there and im more than appreciative for them.

---

The problem is, a lot of guys who actually consider the long term get swept up in that category. And before long they start becoming rather cynical about ever finding a TS who isn't into just money. Black Magick is a good example ( No offense. ) And honestly there are times where I'm almost in the same boat as he is. Next thing you know everyone is bitter and no body gets all the hugs and kisses they want.